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What is the one thing you'd change?

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By *imbo2007 OP   Man
1 week ago

Peterborough

If you could change one thing in your life, what would it be? And is there a reason you can't change it?

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By *aven.Woman
1 week ago

no

I'd change me

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
1 week ago

Glasgow

Nah. That way madness lies.

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By *iver78Man
1 week ago

barton upon humber

Being away when my kids were young , nothing I can do about it now but regret i dident have more time with them when there were actually kids

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By *heron ShanMan
1 week ago

Durham

I wouldn't change anything, past or present. I'm grateful of who I am and where I am.

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By *imbo2007 OP   Man
1 week ago

Peterborough


"I'd change me"

Wow that's a bit harsh. I was not expecting that intense a change. Keep a sunny side up, Here to chat if needed.

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By *oul_Man_501Man
1 week ago

Kent

I'd have one of my friends live down the road 💕

Currently they're all too far away ☹️

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By *imbo2007 OP   Man
1 week ago

Peterborough


"I'd have one of my friends live down the road 💕

Currently they're all too far away ☹️"

Yeah not great when you buddies are miles away and need somene to go for a quick pint

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By *eightsB4DatesMan
1 week ago

north east

Make it so my kids have a proper family

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By *imbo2007 OP   Man
1 week ago

Peterborough


"I wouldn't change anything, past or present. I'm grateful of who I am and where I am."

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
1 week ago

In a galaxy far far away

I want boobs

Please and thank you

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By *iver78Man
1 week ago

barton upon humber


"I'd have one of my friends live down the road 💕

Currently they're all too far away ☹️"

Thats not good , to be honest though I live 10 mins from o e if my brothers and maybe only see twice a year , I have another brother in Oldham and see him least twice a month !! Being close can actually stop you making the effort 🙂‍↕️

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By *iver78Man
1 week ago

barton upon humber


"I want boobs

Please and thank you"

Me too 🤣🤣 but not attached to ME

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By *aked beachMan
1 week ago

22 The Avenue

My inability to make friends, and on the odd occasions I do, my annoyance of having to interact regularly

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By *evergiveupMan
1 week ago

derbyshire

Controversial I know !!

But I wish I had grown up in an integrated European country and not an isolated island

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By *imbo2007 OP   Man
1 week ago

Peterborough


"My inability to make friends, and on the odd occasions I do, my annoyance of having to interact regularly "

That double knife edge sword conundrum

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
1 week ago

London

My finances. Money doesn't buy happiness and all that blah blah. But it does provide a better standard of life.

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By *aven.Woman
1 week ago

no


"My finances. Money doesn't buy happiness and all that blah blah. But it does provide a better standard of life."

One of the most bullshit phrases ever. Money doesn't buy happiness.

Yes . It. Does.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
1 week ago

London


"My finances. Money doesn't buy happiness and all that blah blah. But it does provide a better standard of life.

One of the most bullshit phrases ever. Money doesn't buy happiness.

Yes . It. Does. "

Welcome back Hairy Toes. I missed you. And your toes.

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By *emo2025Man
1 week ago

Norwich

Bigger cock would be nice. 😂

I’d change my tendency for introvertedness to more confident and out going.

Some might say, just do it, but it’s not that easy, I am trying though.

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By *aven.Woman
1 week ago

no


"My finances. Money doesn't buy happiness and all that blah blah. But it does provide a better standard of life.

One of the most bullshit phrases ever. Money doesn't buy happiness.

Yes . It. Does.

Welcome back Hairy Toes. I missed you. And your toes."

Hairy and tanned

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By *liceWalkerTV/TS
1 week ago

Nuneaton


"I want boobs

Please and thank you"

Hrt works magic ,just saying

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
1 week ago

London


"My finances. Money doesn't buy happiness and all that blah blah. But it does provide a better standard of life.

One of the most bullshit phrases ever. Money doesn't buy happiness.

Yes . It. Does.

Welcome back Hairy Toes. I missed you. And your toes.

Hairy and tanned "

Curly? Or straight? I'm brown all year but well done on your tan.

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By *aven.Woman
1 week ago

no


"My finances. Money doesn't buy happiness and all that blah blah. But it does provide a better standard of life.

One of the most bullshit phrases ever. Money doesn't buy happiness.

Yes . It. Does.

Welcome back Hairy Toes. I missed you. And your toes.

Hairy and tanned

Curly? Or straight? I'm brown all year but well done on your tan."

I miss my deathly paleness. I'm in hiding until it returns.

Slightly curly. All my hair seems to be curly.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
1 week ago

London


"My finances. Money doesn't buy happiness and all that blah blah. But it does provide a better standard of life.

One of the most bullshit phrases ever. Money doesn't buy happiness.

Yes . It. Does.

Welcome back Hairy Toes. I missed you. And your toes.

Hairy and tanned

Curly? Or straight? I'm brown all year but well done on your tan.

I miss my deathly paleness. I'm in hiding until it returns.

Slightly curly. All my hair seems to be curly. "

Embrace the sun. You can be a vampire in the winter.

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By *liceWalkerTV/TS
1 week ago

Nuneaton

Two things really ,go through with both decisions i declined to follow through with ,first signing up to the engineer corps when I was 18 and again when I was much older not transitioning to keep family happy ( it almost killed me ) .

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
1 week ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

More real life friends, people i actually see regularly

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By *lueEyesEigmaMan
1 week ago

Dundrum

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By *gent CoulsonMan
1 week ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

A better paid job, but it would seem I am at the wrong end of the age range

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By *imon_hydeMan
1 week ago

Stockport

I'd be more proactive, but apathy...

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By *exanthemMan
1 week ago

Cheshire

Born as famous black male rapper or basketball player in America. Rest everything will follow once you are in this league

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By *eecee777Man
1 week ago

Liverpool

I’d not picked my ex 😂shud picked her sister instead

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By *oubleswing2019Man
1 week ago

Colchester

I have previously tried to think about what I would change. But I keep coming back to the conclusion that every experience I have had, for good or bad, has shaped who I am.

.

Even the hardest and most painful parts are woven into my identity, so changing one thing would mean becoming someone else.

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I'm not sure I'd want that.

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By *eliWoman
1 week ago

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The colour of various walls in the house. One external.

Can't change them because the paint place closes before work finishes.

It's almost the weekend, they'll be changed soon.

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By *imbo2007 OP   Man
1 week ago

Peterborough


"I’d not picked my ex 😂shud picked her sister instead "

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By *lizaDay91Woman
1 week ago

It'sASecret

I wish I'd looked after my type 1 diabetes better so I wouldn't be suffering the complications I am now, but I think it's something I'll always struggle with. I wish I could force myself not to mess things up when I'm feeling low.

Maybe the one thing I'd like to change is to have better willpower

There are a lot of things I wish I could change about myself. Maybe the answer is me. I've never been seen as good enough to others, and I really wish I were.

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
1 week ago

Hampshire

I'd change having ignored back/sciatica pain for 18 months and trying to keep going.

It would have resulted in my not being in so debilitated and in so much pain for so long. I probably wouldn't have suffered with depression and put loads of weight on, and now - nearly three years after the surgery I wouldn't be left with residual pain and weakness in my back, and finding it difficult to get back to my pre-injury fitness levels.

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By *luttysuzyTV/TS
7 days ago

Wigan

Coming off estrogen in my late teens and not transitioning. Oh and getting married to a woman when I’m only interested in guys. Wtf possessed me!

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By *ackandsallyCouple
7 days ago

Ireland

Nothing...I'm grateful for the life I have.

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By *007ManMan
7 days ago

Worthing

Best mate to be well again.

I am not a health expert.

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By *ou only live onceMan
7 days ago

London

It's too deep for Fab, but I'd change that.

But I can't, and I have a great life nonetheless so we're all good!

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By *ookie46Woman
7 days ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"It's too deep for Fab, but I'd change that.

But I can't, and I have a great life nonetheless so we're all good! "

This 👆🏼

But the thing I can’t change which tore my heart apart set me on a path to where I am now and life is good and purposeful

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

7 days ago

East Sussex

Once my loved ones had their health restored I'd change my financial situation to extremely comfortable.

What's stopping me is no medical knowledge in the first instance and laziness in the second

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
7 days ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Bigger boobs

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
7 days ago

Bromley

A smaller penis would do, occasionally

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By *eonyTattooWoman
7 days ago

Sandbach

To stop experiencing loneliness….

It’s one of the worst feelings ever!

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
7 days ago

Motherwell

Donald Trump to Count Bin face . Mx 👿

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