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By *corpian123 OP   Man
1 week ago

Cardiff

Hi all, lovely to meet you.

I've been on fab for about 6 months or so now and finding it incredibly hard to meet or speak to anyone. I find my messages don't get read or get deleted straight away. I put a lot of effort into my messages and each one is tailored towards the person I'm writing it to, but still no joy.

What advice would you give a newbie to the scene? And please if you think my profile needs an update then let me know . The more honesty the better.

Appreciate you all x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle

Hi...... Fantastic toilet bowl close up.

You are already here.

And going by your first pic you are already into 'it'

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By *urvyhotwife4BBCCouple
1 week ago

Scunthorpe

It’s been along time since I was a single male but I would say the best way is go to a social event or a club.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle

Oh ..... Appreciate you too xxx mwah xxx

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By *ommander_StraxMan
1 week ago

Telford

Clubs. Get yourself to some club nights, work the floor and chat to people. Don’t go in expecting to play with anybody, just go with the intention of being a decent guy that is friendly.

Socials as well. Chat and just enjoy it all.

The meets are the easy part, it’s proving you’re not an asshat like sadly a lot of people are! That’s the kicker!

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By *izandpaulCouple
1 week ago

merseyside

We went to clubs before finding FAB, so we had met people from clubs.

Went through the older type of swingers sites and then tried FAB.

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By *ew year new nameWoman
1 week ago

Bolton

All your pics are blurred. You say you've been on 6 months but your pics say 12months, so plenty of time to have uploaded some better ones.. without a woman who may not know she's in your pics. And you can't accom

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
1 week ago

Bot Farm

I can only talk for myself. Honestly, Toilet pics are not appealing, and adult men looking for 18-year-old girls are not either. Pics of women serving you, big turn off. Lack of verifications also

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By *heron ShanMan
1 week ago

Durham

You have other options then meeting people off fab.

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By *heron ShanMan
1 week ago

Durham

Plus a pic of you fucking someone else is a real magnet for women.

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By *ookie46Woman
1 week ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Go to organised social events and get to know people or clubs if you don’t mind going alone and enjoy the social side as much as the sexual one

With your profile for me personally seeing a woman in your pics doesn’t appeal for two reasons. One has she even consented to them being put on here and two it’s a single male profile not a couple account

Some ladies love a cock pic but for some like me it will make me scroll by

I always think the age range 18-99 is really off putting too

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By *AYENCouple
1 week ago

Lincolnshire

Everyone will like something different, but for us, your pics would put us off.

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By *oastofReadingMan
1 week ago

Reading

Lack of pics with a can of lynx Africa next to your cock or a sky remote is disturbing.

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By *corpian123 OP   Man
1 week ago

Cardiff

thank you, appreciate letting me know

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By *corpian123 OP   Man
1 week ago

Cardiff

thank you for your honesty

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By *exy RexyMan
1 week ago

Up North

It’s the best profile on here 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *asygoingcouple1000Couple
1 week ago

lancashire

Ive been looking for 5 mins and I still cant work out what that first picture is of.

The next one however, shows way more of someone else than it does of you. If shes not part of the profile, maybe she shouldn't be there?

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By *vaRoseWoman
1 week ago

Ankh-Morpork

I can’t work out what the first pic is. Second pic is an action shot so that’s where I would normally stop viewing your profile and delete.

I can’t be sure but your profile bio seems ai assisted? Am I right?

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By *corpian123 OP   Man
1 week ago

Cardiff

Thank you all for your messages xx

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