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"Likes cats." I like cats , but they wont leave me alone !! My sister's litrally just sit with me as soon as I get in her house !! | |||
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" Is it a well-written profile, confidence, verification, great photos, or hot videos or something else? " It is all of these for me. Thay make up little green flags and when the little green flags are converted to my newly evaluated scoring system (patent pending), determines whether a message should be composed or not. | |||
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"Likes cats. I like cats , but they wont leave me alone !! My sister's litrally just sit with me as soon as I get in her house !! " I wish my cats were more needy, but in Summer that only really happens when they want feeding! Cats are a good judge of character so if they like you that's a green flag in itself. I need to get my cats to check out fab profiles with ne, but I want to spare their eyes the trauma!  | |||
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"A bit of humour and personality. A range of tasteful yet teasing pictures. Bonus points if they are ok with a bit of chub.. ok a lot of chub
Being close but not *too close"I also realise mine has none of the above, what a hypocritical prick | |||
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"When they put apostrophes at the end of words n shit" Ye's I' thin'k tha't i's ver'y importan't | |||
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"Curious to hear what stands out to everyone." Nice tits, good grammar and a cute smile. | |||
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"To me what stands out is just being an all round ok person. Not joining in with piling on to the more vulnerable members, answering people regardless of if they are hopeful of meeting them, calling out horrible behaviour regardless of the popularity of the person and just being the type of person you'd want to sit next to on the bus. It helps if they're gorgeous too. "Damn... Lacking in the gorgeous stakes 🤣.. joking aside this is very well put | |||
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"I’m a sucker for grammar. It doesn’t have to be perfect, we all make mistakes (I know I do!) but when I see “ur pics r hot” it turns me right off. Plus while I know many do it, I’m just not one for 420 and drugs. It doesn’t work for me. Hell when I’m on dating apps, I also hate to see people who clearly have vapes in their pics but say non smoker. We all have our vices but when we can’t be honest about the basic? Not good!" I'm a vaper who's down as a non smoker. Vaping and smoking are very different. | |||
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"I’m a sucker for grammar. It doesn’t have to be perfect, we all make mistakes (I know I do!) but when I see “ur pics r hot” it turns me right off. Plus while I know many do it, I’m just not one for 420 and drugs. It doesn’t work for me. Hell when I’m on dating apps, I also hate to see people who clearly have vapes in their pics but say non smoker. We all have our vices but when we can’t be honest about the basic? Not good!" Also if fab had an option for vaping, there would be no need to 'lie' | |||
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"I’m a sucker for grammar. It doesn’t have to be perfect, we all make mistakes (I know I do!) but when I see “ur pics r hot” it turns me right off. Plus while I know many do it, I’m just not one for 420 and drugs. It doesn’t work for me. Hell when I’m on dating apps, I also hate to see people who clearly have vapes in their pics but say non smoker. We all have our vices but when we can’t be honest about the basic? Not good! I'm a vaper who's down as a non smoker. Vaping and smoking are very different." While I agree they are different, to a non smoker they are still similar in what they are. I wouldn’t want anybody vaping in my home just as much as I wouldn’t want them smoking. I mean let’s be honest, it only takes a tiny little blurb in the bio to solve! | |||
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"I’m a sucker for grammar. It doesn’t have to be perfect, we all make mistakes (I know I do!) but when I see “ur pics r hot” it turns me right off. Plus while I know many do it, I’m just not one for 420 and drugs. It doesn’t work for me. Hell when I’m on dating apps, I also hate to see people who clearly have vapes in their pics but say non smoker. We all have our vices but when we can’t be honest about the basic? Not good! I'm a vaper who's down as a non smoker. Vaping and smoking are very different. While I agree they are different, to a non smoker they are still similar in what they are. I wouldn’t want anybody vaping in my home just as much as I wouldn’t want them smoking. I mean let’s be honest, it only takes a tiny little blurb in the bio to solve!" I don't see any we are disagreeing on a green flag thread 😂 For us, we would treat vaping as we would smoking. We would go outside and come back in not stinking of cigs..and we always mention it prior to meeting. | |||
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"Likes cats. I like cats , but they wont leave me alone !! My sister's litrally just sit with me as soon as I get in her house !! I wish my cats were more needy, but in Summer that only really happens when they want feeding! Cats are a good judge of character so if they like you that's a green flag in itself. I need to get my cats to check out fab profiles with ne, but I want to spare their eyes the trauma! "I'd trust a cat's judgement over some people's profiles. At least a cat will hiss instead of sending "Hi hun xx" to everyone. | |||
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"Likes cats. I like cats , but they wont leave me alone !! My sister's litrally just sit with me as soon as I get in her house !! I wish my cats were more needy, but in Summer that only really happens when they want feeding! Cats are a good judge of character so if they like you that's a green flag in itself. I need to get my cats to check out fab profiles with ne, but I want to spare their eyes the trauma!
I'd trust a cat's judgement over some people's profiles. At least a cat will hiss instead of sending "Hi hun xx" to everyone."I'm allergic to pussies 🤧 😢 | |||
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"Likes cats. I like cats , but they wont leave me alone !! My sister's litrally just sit with me as soon as I get in her house !! I wish my cats were more needy, but in Summer that only really happens when they want feeding! Cats are a good judge of character so if they like you that's a green flag in itself. I need to get my cats to check out fab profiles with ne, but I want to spare their eyes the trauma! "Haha , she has 4 and as lovely as they are i do feel a wee bit attacked 🤣 | |||
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" Forget red flags... what's the biggest GREEN flag that makes you think, "Yep, I'd happily message this person"? Is it a well-written profile, confidence, verification, great photos, or hot videos or something else? Curious to hear what stands out to everyone." A well written profile scores high for me - especially if it combines intelligence, warmth, humour and shows their personality and style 🥰 Photos and videos give an idea of physical attraction 😍 have to take them with a pinch of salt though Comments in forums are noticeable too 🤗 certain people you just want to get to know more 💕 | |||
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"Likes cats. I like cats , but they wont leave me alone !! My sister's litrally just sit with me as soon as I get in her house !! I wish my cats were more needy, but in Summer that only really happens when they want feeding! Cats are a good judge of character so if they like you that's a green flag in itself. I need to get my cats to check out fab profiles with ne, but I want to spare their eyes the trauma!
I'd trust a cat's judgement over some people's profiles. At least a cat will hiss instead of sending "Hi hun xx" to everyone."I wish it were socially acceptable to hiss at people who are unpleasant. | |||
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"Nice non smut pics , small to the point profile. Don't mind a verification or two but dont need to see a full description and ins outs of a meet or those sickly one were people just blow smoke up each other's arses !! There verifications not reviews !! Basically the same as id look for on a dating app , the rude pics etc can come later on JUST my opinion , as iv realized I have to put this 😅 " Ins and outs of a meet"... literally in some verifications. 😂 Leave a little mystery for the rest of us! | |||
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"I'd happily message that person? When they come across as fairly emotionally mature and stable. I don't really cold search as such so tend to read the person before messaging. And they seem interesting to talk to. The illusion might shatter after but nothing ventured and all that." I hear that 👌🏾 Vibes and how someone carries themselves go a long way. You can’t fake good energy for long though… the chat usually exposes you pretty quickly | |||
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