FabSwingers.com forum: Gushing on furniture

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have a had couple of meets now who expected me to get messy on my new and rather expensive sofa, and who seemed put out that I was not 'adventurous' enough to agree as if I'm some frigid, boring woman.

It's not as if it's wipe clean either being fabric.

Anyone else for whom this is a no?

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I wouldn't want someone gushing over my new expensive sofa...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't even often do it at b club.. let alone at someone's house... So I think your right..

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Didn't think I was being awkward.

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By *on YonsonMan
over a year ago

London

You should have kept the plastic wrapper.

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"You should have kept the plastic wrapper. "

I didn't spend a shitload, choose exactly the right fabric, to sit on plastic.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

As a single straight female who doesn't gush, I have no idea what it entails, but if I knew it was going to make a mess of my furniture? Not a chance in hell!

Tell them to grow up or next time meet them at theirs and see how they would react then!

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"As a single straight female who doesn't gush, I have no idea what it entails, but if I knew it was going to make a mess of my furniture? Not a chance in hell!

Tell them to grow up or next time meet them at theirs and see how they would react then!

Or maybe just don't meet them again.

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By *on YonsonMan
over a year ago

London

"You should have kept the plastic wrapper.

I didn't spend a shitload, choose exactly the right fabric, to sit on plastic."

I was only joking

I'm not one of those weird geek collectors that keep things in their box to preserve their mint condition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know how you feel.... We have just took delivery of some nice new sofas... Took us ages to choose the right ones.... We would both be pretty miffed if they got ruined!

So no we are with you on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a leather sofa lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"As a single straight female who doesn't gush, I have no idea what it entails, but if I knew it was going to make a mess of my furniture? Not a chance in hell!

Tell them to grow up or next time meet them at theirs and see how they would react then!

Or maybe just don't meet them again."

Even better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leather is the way forward - sofas that is

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Leather is the way forward - sofas that is

My last one was leather. Don't like sitting on it hence the fabric. I also see no reason why my decor should be determined by my meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Leather is the way forward - sofas that is

My last one was leather. Don't like sitting on it hence the fabric. I also see no reason why my decor should be determined by my meets."
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True - fashion always should dictate

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"I have a had couple of meets now who expected me to get messy on my new and rather expensive sofa, and who seemed put out that I was not 'adventurous' enough to agree as if I'm some frigid, boring woman.

It's not as if it's wipe clean either being fabric.

Anyone else for whom this is a no?"

You did not have it scotch guarded then

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Tell them to gush off!!

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

It's not as if it's wipe clean either being fabric.

Anyone else for whom this is a no?

You did not have it scotch guarded then

Hard to explain. It's not the kind of fabric you can scotchguard. It's a fairly high end (for me anyway) suite. I took out a standard policy but don't want to be constantly having it cleaned.

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

It's not as if it's wipe clean either being fabric.

Anyone else for whom this is a no?

You did not have it scotch guarded then

Hard to explain. It's not the kind of fabric you can scotchguard. It's a fairly high end (for me anyway) suite. I took out a standard policy but don't want to be constantly having it cleaned."

*stainguard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have shagged on fabric settee's and leather and prefer the leather imo and if it was me and someones being too needy expecting you to mess your place up i'd have to get rid sharpish

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

It's not as if it's wipe clean either being fabric.

Anyone else for whom this is a no?

You did not have it scotch guarded then

Hard to explain. It's not the kind of fabric you can scotchguard. It's a fairly high end (for me anyway) suite. I took out a standard policy but don't want to be constantly having it cleaned.

*stainguard"

Google waterproof covers

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

A couple were at my place and he came and some how got it on the curtains, his wife flipped out, I just laughed. It was rather funny at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst a lady that gushesis always very welcome, it is understandable that you would not want to damage your furnature!

Towels and a more appropriate place for such adventures is always a good idea.

Can no understand guys that think that they should do and say what ever they want...

Clearly they do not respect others, sod them and move on

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

It's not as if it's wipe clean either being fabric.

Anyone else for whom this is a no?

You did not have it scotch guarded then

Hard to explain. It's not the kind of fabric you can scotchguard. It's a fairly high end (for me anyway) suite. I took out a standard policy but don't want to be constantly having it cleaned.

*stainguard

Google waterproof covers

Yeah - never going to happen.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

It's not as if it's wipe clean either being fabric.

Anyone else for whom this is a no?

You did not have it scotch guarded then

Hard to explain. It's not the kind of fabric you can scotchguard. It's a fairly high end (for me anyway) suite. I took out a standard policy but don't want to be constantly having it cleaned.

*stainguard

Google waterproof covers

Yeah - never going to happen."

You just have to drag them up stairs

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It's not as if it's wipe clean either being fabric.

Anyone else for whom this is a no?

You did not have it scotch guarded then

Hard to explain. It's not the kind of fabric you can scotchguard. It's a fairly high end (for me anyway) suite. I took out a standard policy but don't want to be constantly having it cleaned.

*stainguard

Google waterproof covers

Yeah - never going to happen.

You just have to drag them up stairs

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you can take all the covers of mine and was them but I still don't play on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

37 and I've ony 'guShed' as they say in the past few weeks.......I was not impressed and would NEVER want to make that mess on anyone's furniture!!! X

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

It's not as if it's wipe clean either being fabric.

Anyone else for whom this is a no?

You did not have it scotch guarded then

Hard to explain. It's not the kind of fabric you can scotchguard. It's a fairly high end (for me anyway) suite. I took out a standard policy but don't want to be constantly having it cleaned.

*stainguard

Google waterproof covers

Yeah - never going to happen.

You just have to drag them up stairs

you can take all the covers of mine and was them but I still don't play on it"

It doesn't have separate seat covers. Kind of like chaise tongue with arms either side. And a contrasting snuggler.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though I did enjoy!!!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple were at my place and he came and some how got it on the curtains, his wife flipped out, I just laughed. It was rather funny at the time"

A couple we met a long time ago came to our place, gushed all over the bed, then followed through... Yes it is what you're thinking

the reason why we left the swinging scene for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A couple were at my place and he came and some how got it on the curtains, his wife flipped out, I just laughed. It was rather funny at the time

A couple we met a long time ago came to our place, gushed all over the bed, then followed through... Yes it is what you're thinking

the reason why we left the swinging scene for a while. "

Your bed ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had leather ones but they were uncomfy so got a lush new fabric one....i dont have sex at home and i dont gush but i know i wouldnt...my kids arnt even allowed drinks on mine

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

It's not as if it's wipe clean either being fabric.

Anyone else for whom this is a no?"
Its a huge NO in my book, but I also think some communication between parties where information is passed as in how much someone gushes is important as I think it would be downright rude to ruin beds, sofas etc.....without prior knowledge that this could be a possibility, as in someone calling you frigid as you didn't wish to make a mess on your own sofa, I would have asked them to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter if they think your being awkward at all, it's your body, your house, your furniture. Nothing to do with them.

I don't gush and I've said many times it's not something I'm impressed with. I find it off-putting in clubs when people do it in public rooms and expect me to be ok about it going on my lingerie.

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"It doesn't matter if they think your being awkward at all, it's your body, your house, your furniture. Nothing to do with them.

I don't gush and I've said many times it's not something I'm impressed with. I find it off-putting in clubs when people do it in public rooms and expect me to be ok about it going on my lingerie.

I don't intentionally gush but it can and does happen occasionally.

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

It's not as if it's wipe clean either being fabric.

Anyone else for whom this is a no?Its a huge NO in my book, but I also think some communication between parties where information is passed as in how much someone gushes is important as I think it would be downright rude to ruin beds, sofas etc.....without prior knowledge that this could be a possibility, as in someone calling you frigid as you didn't wish to make a mess on your own sofa, I would have asked them to leave."

I didn't say they called me frigid. They would most certainly have been sent packing if they did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can gush, but would never dream of doing it in someones home,.if its a possibility then we have plastic sheets un towells to hand. And play on the floor. Think its disrepectfull of others who do it without thought for others possessions.

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By *lippi WenwetCouple
over a year ago

tynemouth

"A couple were at my place and he came and some how got it on the curtains, his wife flipped out, I just laughed. It was rather funny at the time

A couple we met a long time ago came to our place, gushed all over the bed, then followed through... Yes it is what you're thinking

the reason why we left the swinging scene for a while. "

ew ewww and EEEWWWWWWWWW you poor things that must of been awful i think i would of replaced my entire furniture collection to wipe away any thoughts/images . I hope they apologised and cleaned up.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

I think you should meet at theirs, and hose their sofa down

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I can gush, but would never dream of doing it in someones home,.if its a possibility then we have plastic sheets un towells to hand. And play on the floor. Think its disrepectfull of others who do it without thought for others possessions."

I have a waterproof sheet on the bed and always double cover it with a washable bedspread, so quite why anyone would want me to get messy on a sofa instead baffles me. It's not as if its a wide sofa that would be comfortable to shag on.

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