FabSwingers.com forum: Experience over lazy generalisations

By *eli OP Woman
2 hours ago

In your experience, have you found there's any difference in terms of sex with older/younger/middler people?

As in, the approach, the physical act - that kind of stuff.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 hours ago

East Sussex

Yes I have. The urgency of youth mellows over time for *some* women (trying to avoid generalising lol). Age by no means indicates experience or better.

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By *eli OP Woman
2 hours ago

"Yes I have. The urgency of youth mellows over time for *some* women (trying to avoid generalising lol). Age by no means indicates experience or better. "

What do you mean by the urgency of youth in women?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 hours ago

East Sussex

"Yes I have. The urgency of youth mellows over time for *some* women (trying to avoid generalising lol). Age by no means indicates experience or better.

What do you mean by the urgency of youth in women? "

I didn't include men because I don't know if they feel the same way but for myself and some of my contemporaries that urgent 'must have sex right here, right now' feeling mellows with time. To sort of misquote Mes Patrick Campbell it's like the deep, deep peace of older age after the hurly burly of youth.

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 hours ago

Ankh-Morpork

"Yes I have. The urgency of youth mellows over time for *some* women (trying to avoid generalising lol). Age by no means indicates experience or better.

What do you mean by the urgency of youth in women?

Do you mean that you prefer to take your time and savour it, rather than a rampant quicky?

Or that the want and urgency is now somehow lesser?

If it’s the former I’d agree for me. It’s the difference between a delicious meal or a sausage roll from the garage. Both will fill a hole but only one will leave me really satisfied…. And yes I acknowledge that on rare occasions a quick sausage roll is exactly what I needed.

As for partners, experience matters less than people think. It’s not an indicator of being a good lover. Those that trot out the same “guaranteed” moves or relying on dick size only, without really observing and listening to their partner will be leaving a trail of disappointment

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By *eorge AtazderMan
2 hours ago

Cheddar

This sounds like a study waiting to happen 🤔

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By *mf123Man
2 hours ago

with one foot out the door

I dont like generals they seem too cocky for there own good

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By *herrybakewellCouple
2 hours ago

Staffordshire

Those I've met that are much younger.....early 30s for example have always felt somewhat of a dissapointment.

Like they can talk the talk....but cant put it into practice.

Their ability to communicate also leave a little to be desired.

Mrs.

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 hours ago

Cheltenham

In my experience women in their 40s, 50s and onwards start to enter their prime. They seem to have reached that stage where they care less about what other people think, they can focus on what they want and they are not afraid to ask for it. I love that.

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By *ellinever70Woman
2 hours ago

Ayrshire

I tend to have sex with those roughly the same age as me so I can't compare

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
2 hours ago

North Somerset

"In your experience, have you found there's any difference in terms of sex with older/younger/middler people?

As in, the approach, the physical act - that kind of stuff. "

Yes and no.

I've met people of all ages that are experienced/inexperienced, lazy/enthusiastic, eager to please/in it for themselves.

They do say wisdom comes with age.

Some just appear to either have ignored learning experiences or just choose to rely on stereotypes or are set in their ways and refuse to adapt/evolve.

There's nothing wrong with admitting you don't know everything. There's everything wrong with thinking you do, regardless of age.

Obi

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
1 hour ago

Norwich

The more I find out, the less I know.

Johnny Nash.

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By *andcruiser50Man
1 hour ago

Kendal

in my younger days I must admit I was learning and I wanted to enjoy myself as an older more experienced guy I get pleasure out of making the lady enjoy herself and if I do manage to come all the better but as long as she has had a good time I feel well satisfied

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By *Effy-Woman
60 minutes ago

Scotland

Not particularly. I think people of all ages can be equally as shit in bed.

Age and experience doesn't equate to good sex, neither does having that youthful stamina.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
52 minutes ago

London

Depends on the chemistry and connection. Some people have certain moves. Some people adapt. Some don't have much experience (regardless of age). Sexual experiences can vary for each person. Not everyone is having sex, or even a lot of it. Some people expect the other person to do the work. We humans are so different.

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
30 minutes ago

Bot Farm

"In my experience women in their 40s, 50s and onwards start to enter their prime. They seem to have reached that stage where they care less about what other people think, they can focus on what they want and they are not afraid to ask for it. I love that."

It's true. I had a sexual awakening at my 50’ not expecting it at all. My young version was so self-conscious, rigid and inexperienced. This one is better.

But saying that, I'm NOT into young men (less than 32), I think they are expecting a sex bomb porn massive tits, dirty talk mummy master, sluty teacher, instead of just me. The face of disappointment of the young hooligan, with whom I agreed to have a social, because maybe I wasn't ready in heels and lingerie is still haunting me one year later. I wrote a customer Service Warning in my bio because of that. No thank

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