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By *exanthem OP   Man
3 hours ago

Nearby

A couple in Hotwife lifestyle wants to expand their IT biz - Husband wants to open offices in India and Philippines but wife is insisting on Nigeria or Ghana. Her argument is unless you give chance to the people how would you know if they can deliver it…saying India is no longer that cost advantageous, with low labour arbitrage, however, Philippines is still better, but cannot scale out due to regulations and skill shortage. What would you suggest?? Husband knows ulterior motive but totally confused.

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
3 hours ago

North Somerset


"A couple in Hotwife lifestyle wants to expand their IT biz - Husband wants to open offices in India and Philippines but wife is insisting on Nigeria or Ghana. Her argument is unless you give chance to the people how would you know if they can deliver it…saying India is no longer that cost advantageous, with low labour arbitrage, however, Philippines is still better, but cannot scale out due to regulations and skill shortage. What would you suggest?? Husband knows ulterior motive but totally confused. "

What's the ulterior motive?

Obi

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By *avyBlueManMan
3 hours ago

Ankh Morpork

What we really want to know is does he share his wife's knickers?

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By *exanthem OP   Man
3 hours ago

Nearby


"What we really want to know is does he share his wife's knickers?"

For now just pussy

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
3 hours ago

In a galaxy far far away


" but totally confused. "

He's not the only one

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By *ou only live onceMan
3 hours ago

London

I'm afraid I don't know much about the IT sector in those countries. What's best for their business? Surely that will guide it above anything else.

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By *exanthem OP   Man
3 hours ago

Nearby


"A couple in Hotwife lifestyle wants to expand their IT biz - Husband wants to open offices in India and Philippines but wife is insisting on Nigeria or Ghana. Her argument is unless you give chance to the people how would you know if they can deliver it…saying India is no longer that cost advantageous, with low labour arbitrage, however, Philippines is still better, but cannot scale out due to regulations and skill shortage. What would you suggest?? Husband knows ulterior motive but totally confused.

What's the ulterior motive?

Obi"

Wife’s - it’s not so obvious, isn’t it?

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By *exanthem OP   Man
3 hours ago

Nearby


"I'm afraid I don't know much about the IT sector in those countries. What's best for their business? Surely that will guide it above anything else."

You mean Nigeria and Ghana?

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By *wcoMan
3 hours ago

West Midlands

Can't make up my mind if this is a genuine query, a fantasy or just plain old stealth boasting.

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By *ou only live onceMan
3 hours ago

London


"I'm afraid I don't know much about the IT sector in those countries. What's best for their business? Surely that will guide it above anything else.

You mean Nigeria and Ghana? "

I don't know. Are their IT sectors better than India or the Philippines? Is it easier to do business there? I've literally no idea, but I can't imagine company owners making decisions based on anything other than what's right for their business, when you seem to be suggesting they would.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 hours ago

Leeds

Why does the wife favour Nigeria and Ghana over any other African countries ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 hours ago

Leeds

The IT company in London my son works for has half their staff in South Africa. Has she considered there ?

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By *exanthem OP   Man
3 hours ago

Nearby


"Why does the wife favour Nigeria and Ghana over any other African countries ?"

They considered SA but not so sure about anti white thing going on - so wife is suggesting Nigeria and Ghana, Husband is stuck with India and Philippines. He told me in hush hush that her wife is happy to run the office in Nigeria and Ghana. I know that he knows something which he isn’t telling me clearly, so I am trying to avoid conversation- but he is insisting me to talk to her wife

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By *a LunaWoman
3 hours ago

Wales

I’d leave them to it. It sounds complicated.

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
3 hours ago

North Somerset


"Why does the wife favour Nigeria and Ghana over any other African countries ?

They considered SA but not so sure about anti white thing going on - so wife is suggesting Nigeria and Ghana, Husband is stuck with India and Philippines. He told me in hush hush that her wife is happy to run the office in Nigeria and Ghana. I know that he knows something which he isn’t telling me clearly, so I am trying to avoid conversation- but he is insisting me to talk to her wife "

Is this some longer winded round about way round insinuate she wants to go to Africa because of some perceived stereotype about black men?

Because that's how it's coming across to me.

It's so coming across as a bit of a fantasy make believe situation rather than a real one if I'm honest. But I know sod all about IT so maybe the best thing to do is to leave those decisions to someone who works in the sector and not ask a bunch of swingers. 🤔🤷‍♂️😂

Obi

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By *rHotNottsMan
3 hours ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"A couple in Hotwife lifestyle wants to expand their IT biz - Husband wants to open offices in India and Philippines but wife is insisting on Nigeria or Ghana. Her argument is unless you give chance to the people how would you know if they can deliver it…saying India is no longer that cost advantageous, with low labour arbitrage, however, Philippines is still better, but cannot scale out due to regulations and skill shortage. What would you suggest?? Husband knows ulterior motive but totally confused. "

If they know anything about business and IT, they will know exactly where in the Philippines they should be.

Having worked extensively on Victoria Island Nigeria, and Philipines, Singapore, Thailand , the Gulf , building IT teams globally ....it's a no brainer for me, but it's not that difficult for anybody to find out with a bit of research , his wife's argument clearly demonstrates her zero business sense.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 hours ago

Leeds

Here's a compromise. As they are looking to open two offices how about one in Asia and one in Africa ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

3 hours ago

East Sussex

My advice gleaned from many years of being alive is, stay the heck out of other people's relationships. If these people want to know where to expand their business tell them to visit the countries and make a level headed decision based on real facts not some crazy secret ambition a man thinks his wife has. Lord alone knows why he wants you to talk to his wife.

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By *rHotNottsMan
3 hours ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I’d leave them to it. It sounds complicated."

Getting there mate, to ask it on a predominantly UK based swingers site is probably quite helpful to them, they sound totally clueless

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By *pace cowboy05Man
3 hours ago

wales/london/ southwest


"A couple in Hotwife lifestyle wants to expand their IT biz - Husband wants to open offices in India and Philippines but wife is insisting on Nigeria or Ghana. Her argument is unless you give chance to the people how would you know if they can deliver it…saying India is no longer that cost advantageous, with low labour arbitrage, however, Philippines is still better, but cannot scale out due to regulations and skill shortage. What would you suggest?? Husband knows ulterior motive but totally confused. "

If this is genuine then really need to do their due diligence and assess all factors in the decision.

Costs and availability of staff

Proposition and associated regulations required in UK and regions of choice

More generally unless the business is of a substantial size and expected to grow it may be more preferable to find ways to make existing operations more efficient before offshoring the business.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 hours ago

Leeds


"A couple in Hotwife lifestyle wants to expand their IT biz "

Are this Hotwife lifestyle couple on Fab ?

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By *rHotNottsMan
3 hours ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"A couple in Hotwife lifestyle wants to expand their IT biz - Husband wants to open offices in India and Philippines but wife is insisting on Nigeria or Ghana. Her argument is unless you give chance to the people how would you know if they can deliver it…saying India is no longer that cost advantageous, with low labour arbitrage, however, Philippines is still better, but cannot scale out due to regulations and skill shortage. What would you suggest?? Husband knows ulterior motive but totally confused.

If this is genuine then really need to do their due diligence and assess all factors in the decision.

Costs and availability of staff

Proposition and associated regulations required in UK and regions of choice

More generally unless the business is of a substantial size and expected to grow it may be more preferable to find ways to make existing operations more efficient before offshoring the business.

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You should charge them for this advice!

Id add tax, free zones, investor visas, types of legal entity to your list but you are on the right tracks

I would disagree slightly on when and the economies of scale you imply, with the right skills you can outsource tiny projects offshore, you don't necessarily need improve your local processes or capacity first, or even have any, and there are mechanisms, there was a famous company in Tampa Bay Florida I used to use early 2000s as a middle man that would hold money as many people in Asia will commit to starting & completing a project over multiple months without pay as long as they know the money has been transferred to a trusted third party that provides mediation for disputes.

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By *kphooey43Man
3 hours ago

Barnet

Have they thought about China OP. Lots of great opportunities there and a skilled IT generation.

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By *a LunaWoman
3 hours ago

Wales


"Have they thought about China OP. Lots of great opportunities there and a skilled IT generation."

Probably more expensive.

Not that I have a clue like! 😁

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By *exanthem OP   Man
3 hours ago

Nearby


"A couple in Hotwife lifestyle wants to expand their IT biz - Husband wants to open offices in India and Philippines but wife is insisting on Nigeria or Ghana. Her argument is unless you give chance to the people how would you know if they can deliver it…saying India is no longer that cost advantageous, with low labour arbitrage, however, Philippines is still better, but cannot scale out due to regulations and skill shortage. What would you suggest?? Husband knows ulterior motive but totally confused.

If they know anything about business and IT, they will know exactly where in the Philippines they should be.

Having worked extensively on Victoria Island Nigeria, and Philipines, Singapore, Thailand , the Gulf , building IT teams globally ....it's a no brainer for me, but it's not that difficult for anybody to find out with a bit of research , his wife's argument clearly demonstrates her zero business sense.

"

I agree she is thinking from her own benefits point of view as they are in Hotwife lifestyle - this is where I am avoiding them, don’t want to be devils advocate. Husbands been chasing me as I am his good friend, asking me to speak to his wife and convince her on India or Philippines, and I am like cannot you not think through brains?? Why always dick and pussy - I am getting so full and will soon utter this in their face.

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By *exanthem OP   Man
3 hours ago

Nearby


"Have they thought about China OP. Lots of great opportunities there and a skilled IT generation."

Yes and know - they have Chinese firewall if you have know what I am talking about

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By *exanthem OP   Man
3 hours ago

Nearby


"I’d leave them to it. It sounds complicated.

Getting there mate, to ask it on a predominantly UK based swingers site is probably quite helpful to them, they sound totally clueless "

Can you reveal being in Hotwife relationship to your local Business support group or Financial advisor. Mate you don’t know how many of out there struggling to get right advice on things where in some ways this lifestyle is connected to. You just cannot discuss it with your Vanilla friends, can you?

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
2 hours ago

In a galaxy far far away


"I’d leave them to it. It sounds complicated.

Getting there mate, to ask it on a predominantly UK based swingers site is probably quite helpful to them, they sound totally clueless

Can you reveal being in Hotwife relationship to your local Business support group or Financial advisor. Mate you don’t know how many of out there struggling to get right advice on things where in some ways this lifestyle is connected to. You just cannot discuss it with your Vanilla friends, can you?"

So their business decisions are based on her being a hotwife rather than trying to build a successful business?

Am I reading this right?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

2 hours ago

East Sussex

Hang on a cotton picking minute.

Are you after infirmation on setting up some sort of business connected to the hotwife or swinging world or how to stop your friend asking you to speak to his wife over some sort of mysterious reason she wants to set it up in an African country?

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By *exanthem OP   Man
2 hours ago

Nearby


"I’d leave them to it. It sounds complicated.

Getting there mate, to ask it on a predominantly UK based swingers site is probably quite helpful to them, they sound totally clueless

Can you reveal being in Hotwife relationship to your local Business support group or Financial advisor. Mate you don’t know how many of out there struggling to get right advice on things where in some ways this lifestyle is connected to. You just cannot discuss it with your Vanilla friends, can you?

So their business decisions are based on her being a hotwife rather than trying to build a successful business?

Am I reading this right? "

Yes wife seems looking at this whole thing through Hotwife lenses but Husbands isn’t. That’s the point of contention. He is trying his level best to convince her through legality and scalability point of view.

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By *exanthem OP   Man
2 hours ago

Nearby


"Hang on a cotton picking minute.

Are you after infirmation on setting up some sort of business connected to the hotwife or swinging world or how to stop your friend asking you to speak to his wife over some sort of mysterious reason she wants to set it up in an African country? "

Latter - Husband knows how to setup business at both the continents - so not looking for legal advice but how to handle the situation where Hotwifing is coming in the middle of making sane decisions.

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
2 hours ago

In a galaxy far far away


"I’d leave them to it. It sounds complicated.

Getting there mate, to ask it on a predominantly UK based swingers site is probably quite helpful to them, they sound totally clueless

Can you reveal being in Hotwife relationship to your local Business support group or Financial advisor. Mate you don’t know how many of out there struggling to get right advice on things where in some ways this lifestyle is connected to. You just cannot discuss it with your Vanilla friends, can you?

So their business decisions are based on her being a hotwife rather than trying to build a successful business?

Am I reading this right?

Yes wife seems looking at this whole thing through Hotwife lenses but Husbands isn’t. That’s the point of contention. He is trying his level best to convince her through legality and scalability point of view. "

Got there in the end.

Jeez you like your guessing games

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
2 hours ago

North Somerset


"Hang on a cotton picking minute.

Are you after infirmation on setting up some sort of business connected to the hotwife or swinging world or how to stop your friend asking you to speak to his wife over some sort of mysterious reason she wants to set it up in an African country?

Latter - Husband knows how to setup business at both the continents - so not looking for legal advice but how to handle the situation where Hotwifing is coming in the middle of making sane decisions. "

What has hotwifing got to do with the choice of location?

Methinks you (and the 'husband') are confused about what hotwifing is.

There's no direct link between hotwifing and ethnicity, which you appear to be inferring. 🤔

Obi

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
2 hours ago

In a galaxy far far away


"Hang on a cotton picking minute.

Are you after infirmation on setting up some sort of business connected to the hotwife or swinging world or how to stop your friend asking you to speak to his wife over some sort of mysterious reason she wants to set it up in an African country?

Latter - Husband knows how to setup business at both the continents - so not looking for legal advice but how to handle the situation where Hotwifing is coming in the middle of making sane decisions.

What has hotwifing got to do with the choice of location?

Methinks you (and the 'husband') are confused about what hotwifing is.

There's no direct link between hotwifing and ethnicity, which you appear to be inferring. 🤔

Obi"

That's the next puzzler.

I think I know the answer, but I'm not saying 🤐

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
2 hours ago

North Somerset


"Hang on a cotton picking minute.

Are you after infirmation on setting up some sort of business connected to the hotwife or swinging world or how to stop your friend asking you to speak to his wife over some sort of mysterious reason she wants to set it up in an African country?

Latter - Husband knows how to setup business at both the continents - so not looking for legal advice but how to handle the situation where Hotwifing is coming in the middle of making sane decisions.

What has hotwifing got to do with the choice of location?

Methinks you (and the 'husband') are confused about what hotwifing is.

There's no direct link between hotwifing and ethnicity, which you appear to be inferring. 🤔

Obi

That's the next puzzler.

I think I know the answer, but I'm not saying 🤐"

Me too.

Hence my suspicion of fantasy rather than reality. 🤷‍♂️

Obi

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By *ew2buryMan
1 hour ago

Forums.

Even if we assume this is all true....

The OG post suggest the wife has made business reasons (which may or may not be valid) but the husband is pushing for Asia. So could equally be that he has ulterior motives...

So in this hypothetical scenario I'd start by understanding both their business POV and perhaps facilitate a mentoring session.

And then cum on her tits while he watches from a chair.

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By *naswingdressWoman
57 minutes ago

Manchester (she/her)

Do they have bigger tits in Nigeria or the Philippines?

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By *vaRoseWoman
49 minutes ago

Ankh-Morpork

So the implication is that she’s making a business decision because she wants bbc? Or he’s making business decisions due to wanting Asian partners?

Weirdly all the countries mentioned have very rates of women and child trafficking too. Should I jump to the same conclusion that they’re nonces because of the vagaries of the post?

I bloody hate vague posting.

Be clear, be direct, because this wishy washy dancing around is beginning to get on my tits.

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By *ew2buryMan
47 minutes ago

Forums.


"Do they have bigger tits in Nigeria or the Philippines?"
depends where the imaginary wife is. She had cracking norks.

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