FabSwingers.com forum: Seeking Slow and Smouldering... Where’s the Tantric Magic Gone?

By *etNSlippery OP Couple
5 hours ago

Livingston

The missus and I have been happily playing on the scene for 14 years now. We absolutely adore the lifestyle, but blimey, we’re finding it harder and harder to track down men and couples who actually want to take their time and enjoy some slow, passionate, tantric-style mischief!

?It seems the current default setting is "porn star mode"—hard, fast, and straight to business. Honestly? It’s a massive turn-off for us. 🥵❌

Are there any other couples or single chaps out there who still love to stretch out the pleasure? We want to melt into the moment, tease each other senseless, and genuinely connect—yet we keep getting the exact opposite!

Also, does anyone know of any specific events or UK meets that cater to this slower, deliciously indulgent side of the lifestyle?

L&L xx