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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
5 hours ago

catford

Hi everyone so I’m a lover of oral I love going down on a woman not just because I love doing it but also because I love the tease it gives me to do it and not receive anything my question is are there women out there that are the same or am I strange lol

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By *acavityMan
3 hours ago

Redditch

There are definitely people, of all genders, who enjoy serving others, without expecting reciprocal attention. The act of service is what gets them off.

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By *ocktoplaywithMan
3 hours ago

Derby

I’d be more than happy to as well. I’ve not given oral for about 6/7 years.

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By *rHotNottsMan
3 hours ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Hi everyone so I’m a lover of oral I love going down on a woman not just because I love doing it but also because I love the tease it gives me to do it and not receive anything my question is are there women out there that are the same or am I strange lol "

You aren't that strange, lots of men here only seem to care about they like doing.

Get yourself a nice juicy apple to lick and stop pestering the ladies

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By *ussy licker4youMan
3 hours ago

corby

Luckily that happens, and ive no problem giving that pleasure to a lady

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 hours ago

Reading

I prefer a more equal exchange.

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By *aulgreen22Man
2 hours ago

English Riviera Torquay, Sandford & Finchley

I love to give far better than receiving. If I can make her cum it's just the best for us both

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
2 hours ago

Glos

No I prefer to give and receive.

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By *urpleburgularalarmMan
2 hours ago

nowhere, next to neverbeenthere

Im def on the equal step, i love a bit of both, cant do 1 without the other

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
2 hours ago

Bot Farm

In my experience, men who claim to want nothing in return—and state that they can breathe through their ears—are bluffing. It's never happened to me. The opposite, greedy and selfish. False advertising

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By *ifelover999Man
2 hours ago

Eastbourne

I love giving obvs receiving to but then ill be down there again so.80 20.in womans favour

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By *WB85Man
2 hours ago

Staffordshire

One sided sexual activity feels very transactional, I definitely couldn't do it.

I love giving pleasure, dont get me wrong. But for me, sexual activity is a two way street. I don't necessarily have expectations of what will happen....but pleasure should be for both parties.

There has to be a certain level of wanting something in return....surely.

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By *Effy-Woman
2 hours ago

Scotland

It's not something I'd be willing to do on here as a one off.

Regular partners, sure, it's something that I do often for my husband.

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
2 hours ago

Hampshire

This thought does nothing for me.

As a side note- in my experience men who offer this are actually coming from quite a selfish place. It's what THEY want and what turns THEM on. They never actually check if it's a turn on for the lady!

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By *iomedgal91Woman
2 hours ago

Cornwall

I absolutely love sucking dick and I would be happy to do it with nothing in return.

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By *ifelover999Man
2 hours ago

Eastbourne


"I absolutely love sucking dick and I would be happy to do it with nothing in return."

✋️ i voluenteer

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
2 hours ago

In a galaxy far far away


"I absolutely love sucking dick and I would be happy to do it with nothing in return."

Rip your message inbox

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By *ANiCURETV/TS
1 hour ago

Winchester


"I absolutely love sucking dick and I would be happy to do it with nothing in return."

You're a brave one! 😁

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By *azzabiguyMan
1 hour ago

Longton

I love giving a woman oral and happy too with nothing in return.jyst love giving women pleasure and love tasty a pussy especially when they orgasm

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
56 minutes ago

catford


"In my experience, men who claim to want nothing in return—and state that they can breathe through their ears—are bluffing. It's never happened to me. The opposite, greedy and selfish. False advertising

"

Happy to prove you wrong

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By *naswingdressWoman
50 minutes ago

Manchester (she/her)


"In my experience, men who claim to want nothing in return—and state that they can breathe through their ears—are bluffing. It's never happened to me. The opposite, greedy and selfish. False advertising

"

Yes. Also, on the rare occasion it's true, it's so fucking boring. And I ask them to do literally anything else - whether my clit gets so sensitive that it's painful, whether I'm not interested in it anymore, whether I hate it, whether I'm bored - they get upset.

It's honestly a red flag at this point.

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By *ew2buryMan
41 minutes ago

Forums.

Good news ladies, no such bravado here.

I do two mins if token licking then demand a blow job.

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
37 minutes ago

catford


"In my experience, men who claim to want nothing in return—and state that they can breathe through their ears—are bluffing. It's never happened to me. The opposite, greedy and selfish. False advertising

Yes. Also, on the rare occasion it's true, it's so fucking boring. And I ask them to do literally anything else - whether my clit gets so sensitive that it's painful, whether I'm not interested in it anymore, whether I hate it, whether I'm bored - they get upset.

It's honestly a red flag at this point."

This is very eye opening it’s good to get a woman’s view on this thank you

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By *naswingdressWoman
35 minutes ago

Manchester (she/her)


"In my experience, men who claim to want nothing in return—and state that they can breathe through their ears—are bluffing. It's never happened to me. The opposite, greedy and selfish. False advertising

Yes. Also, on the rare occasion it's true, it's so fucking boring. And I ask them to do literally anything else - whether my clit gets so sensitive that it's painful, whether I'm not interested in it anymore, whether I hate it, whether I'm bored - they get upset.

It's honestly a red flag at this point.

This is very eye opening it’s good to get a woman’s view on this thank you "

Different women like different things. Different people like different things.

Ask them. Don't be a one trick pony. Adapt.

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By *avenwrexham75TV/TS
31 minutes ago

Wrexham

I am always happy to give oral to both .rn and women..and I certainly don't expect anything in return. I get my pleasure from giving pleasure.

However, if a partner expressed a desire to reciprocate then I'm happy to do so...

I think people worry too much about the 'if they do this to me, I have to do this to them' conundrum.

Sex is fluid or should be, just go with the flow and everyone gets their rocks off!

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
31 minutes ago

catford


"In my experience, men who claim to want nothing in return—and state that they can breathe through their ears—are bluffing. It's never happened to me. The opposite, greedy and selfish. False advertising

Yes. Also, on the rare occasion it's true, it's so fucking boring. And I ask them to do literally anything else - whether my clit gets so sensitive that it's painful, whether I'm not interested in it anymore, whether I hate it, whether I'm bored - they get upset.

It's honestly a red flag at this point.

This is very eye opening it’s good to get a woman’s view on this thank you

Different women like different things. Different people like different things.

Ask them. Don't be a one trick pony. Adapt."

Well of course and I’m a pleaser so will always ask what they like and gets them turned on but it’s a two way street too

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By *007ManMan
30 minutes ago

Worthing

Sex should be a 2 way thing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
27 minutes ago

Manchester (she/her)


"In my experience, men who claim to want nothing in return—and state that they can breathe through their ears—are bluffing. It's never happened to me. The opposite, greedy and selfish. False advertising

Yes. Also, on the rare occasion it's true, it's so fucking boring. And I ask them to do literally anything else - whether my clit gets so sensitive that it's painful, whether I'm not interested in it anymore, whether I hate it, whether I'm bored - they get upset.

It's honestly a red flag at this point.

This is very eye opening it’s good to get a woman’s view on this thank you

Different women like different things. Different people like different things.

Ask them. Don't be a one trick pony. Adapt.

Well of course and I’m a pleaser so will always ask what they like and gets them turned on but it’s a two way street too "

Yes. This isn't about me, though. I'm just responding to what you're offering, and it's a script that doesn't work for me. Many people using this script find it hard to deviate from it.

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
24 minutes ago

catford


"In my experience, men who claim to want nothing in return—and state that they can breathe through their ears—are bluffing. It's never happened to me. The opposite, greedy and selfish. False advertising

Yes. Also, on the rare occasion it's true, it's so fucking boring. And I ask them to do literally anything else - whether my clit gets so sensitive that it's painful, whether I'm not interested in it anymore, whether I hate it, whether I'm bored - they get upset.

It's honestly a red flag at this point.

This is very eye opening it’s good to get a woman’s view on this thank you

Different women like different things. Different people like different things.

Ask them. Don't be a one trick pony. Adapt.

Well of course and I’m a pleaser so will always ask what they like and gets them turned on but it’s a two way street too

Yes. This isn't about me, though. I'm just responding to what you're offering, and it's a script that doesn't work for me. Many people using this script find it hard to deviate from it."

Think you mis read I’m not offering anything I have just said this is something I like to do and wondered if anyone else was the same that’s all

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
21 minutes ago

Bot Farm


"In my experience, men who claim to want nothing in return—and state that they can breathe through their ears—are bluffing. It's never happened to me. The opposite, greedy and selfish. False advertising

Yes. Also, on the rare occasion it's true, it's so fucking boring. And I ask them to do literally anything else - whether my clit gets so sensitive that it's painful, whether I'm not interested in it anymore, whether I hate it, whether I'm bored - they get upset.

It's honestly a red flag at this point.

This is very eye opening it’s good to get a woman’s view on this thank you

Different women like different things. Different people like different things.

Ask them. Don't be a one trick pony. Adapt.

Well of course and I’m a pleaser so will always ask what they like and gets them turned on but it’s a two way street too "

You seem to be a kind person, a truly replying OP, and genuinely open to different/opposite opinions. Thank you

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By *uliette500Woman
17 minutes ago

Hull

Really not for me.

I prefer mutual satisfaction and most women (I dont speak for all) seem to find prolonged oral gets boring or you get too sensitive and want to do something else.

I have also found that the men who tend to brag about their oral skills are not actually that great at it. They have found one woman that their technique works on and think the same will work for others and that's not the case.

The best oral I have ever had was from someone who was quite new to it (his ex wife would not allow it) and he took his time to enjoy it and find out what worked for me rather than just doing his own thing.

I steer very clear of the men who tell me they are the best and could go all night because experience tells me that's not quite true and I'm more likely to be thinking about what to have for dinner tomorrow while I wait for him to get bored.

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By *lba The ScotMan
17 minutes ago

Midlothian


"I prefer a more equal exchange."

I've always been a giver as opposed to being a taker..

Just 'cos!

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
14 minutes ago

catford


"In my experience, men who claim to want nothing in return—and state that they can breathe through their ears—are bluffing. It's never happened to me. The opposite, greedy and selfish. False advertising

Yes. Also, on the rare occasion it's true, it's so fucking boring. And I ask them to do literally anything else - whether my clit gets so sensitive that it's painful, whether I'm not interested in it anymore, whether I hate it, whether I'm bored - they get upset.

It's honestly a red flag at this point.

This is very eye opening it’s good to get a woman’s view on this thank you

Different women like different things. Different people like different things.

Ask them. Don't be a one trick pony. Adapt.

Well of course and I’m a pleaser so will always ask what they like and gets them turned on but it’s a two way street too

You seem to be a kind person, a truly replying OP, and genuinely open to different/opposite opinions. Thank you "

Thank I try to be considerate to people and treat them how I like to be treated manners cost nothing appreciate your reply you seem really kind too

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