FabSwingers.com forum: Standing out as a single male.

By *eand OP Man
2 days ago

Lichfield

Any specific advice from couples or females?

Genuine male with excellent verifications here. Absolutely decent and easy-going, but sometimes don't get a view for days/even winks.

I understand that men outweigh women on the site hugely, and some misbehave and are offensive shits. But, your words of wisdom welcomed.

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By *K86Couple
2 days ago

Tenterden

"Any specific advice from couples or females?

Genuine male with excellent verifications here. Absolutely decent and easy-going, but sometimes don't get a view for days/even winks.

I understand that men outweigh women on the site hugely, and some misbehave and are offensive shits. But, your words of wisdom welcomed.

We’ve always found that politeness, respect and speaking to us both like human beings, even throwing a question about day to day life like “have you guys been watching the football” for example will see us more likely to engage.

The amount of messages we get where cock pics are sent in the first message is unbelievable, even from some of the better messages we get.

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
2 days ago

Ryde

We agree with the previous post wholeheartedly! Message someone as you would talk to them in a social setting - the human connection is vital from the outset, and starts to build things.

If you like some of their photos, make sure you're careful about how you express that. Those putting "Yr pix make me won 2 fuk u" probably don't realise that they've killed their chances, and the old favourite of: "I've wanked off over your photos so many times!" is doomed to fail as well. Compliment with sincerity but without being coarse. "Lovely boobs" might be OK, as long as you make light of it!

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By *eroLondonMan
2 days ago

Mayfair

An enriched profile will get you noticed. Messages rarely will. I'll refrain from going any further because you were, in earnest, asking the ladies and couples. 🩶

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By *enuine_J87Man
2 days ago

Eastleigh

I will also only add a slight opinion/tip as I am not a woman or couple…

Put some updated pictures on your profile. Your newest public picture is 7 years old. Get one from this year at least. Good luck

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By *eand OP Man
2 days ago

Lichfield

Thanks all, excellent advice and acted upon.

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By *offiacoolWoman
2 days ago

Alsager

You may be viewed, but you will not be aware. Single women generally tick the box that allows us to opt out as being seen as a view

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By *eand OP Man
19 hours ago

Lichfield

Ah, I didn't know. Thanks for making me aware.

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By *4bimMan
19 hours ago

Farnborough Hampshire

just be yourself. dont need to follow this or that,

walk your own road

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