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"Report the profiles to admin. You must speak to people who are very different to the people I speak to. I also exercise some personal responsibility from the off. I feel that posts like this give people the wrong idea. It exists but in the minority . It's not widespread" Don't get me wrong I speak to a lot of genuine people on here and have made some good friends. Last week was just ridiculous it was almost like 1 after the other. When there is hardly any chat but am instant request to use an alternative messaging platform or send number. | |||
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"Is it just me or is Fab getting less and less genuine. Last week I had 1 request to call a shop to pay for nails, another to buy a dildo and leave for her in shop, 1 invite to watch for £50 1 invite to watch for £100. 1 offer of a party, just need to PayPal £150 for details. On an actual meet I was asked to contribute to the electric bill if I wanted to go back to apartment. Finally a 'snow makes me horny' would you help me buy some! "Are these profiles that contact you or do you message them first? Like others have already said, I've been here 10 years and never once been asked for money or favours. If this is a regular occurrence you may need to reconsider the types of profiles you are engaging with. | |||
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"Is it just me or is Fab getting less and less genuine. Last week I had 1 request to call a shop to pay for nails, another to buy a dildo and leave for her in shop, 1 invite to watch for £50 1 invite to watch for £100. 1 offer of a party, just need to PayPal £150 for details. On an actual meet I was asked to contribute to the electric bill if I wanted to go back to apartment. Finally a 'snow makes me horny' would you help me buy some! "It's turned to a free or paid prost-itute sight because that's what guys want it to be so that's what it's become. They aren't interested in genuine and I'm sure the women that do get the sucker that pays has plenty others. | |||
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"Is it just me or is Fab getting less and less genuine. Last week I had 1 request to call a shop to pay for nails, another to buy a dildo and leave for her in shop, 1 invite to watch for £50 1 invite to watch for £100. 1 offer of a party, just need to PayPal £150 for details. On an actual meet I was asked to contribute to the electric bill if I wanted to go back to apartment. Finally a 'snow makes me horny' would you help me buy some!
Are these profiles that contact you or do you message them first?
Like others have already said, I've been here 10 years and never once been asked for money or favours.
If this is a regular occurrence you may need to reconsider the types of profiles you are engaging with. "This saves me from writing exactly the same thing. | |||
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"Why do women not message me offering to but me nice things? An I not pretty enough? 💄" You're plenty pretty enough  | |||
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Always report anyone who tries to make gains, via using Fab. | |||
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""Electric bill" 🤣🤣🤣" That was the chaps name - beats 'Speedy Gonzales'. | |||
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"Is it just me or is Fab getting less and less genuine. Last week I had 1 request to call a shop to pay for nails, another to buy a dildo and leave for her in shop, 1 invite to watch for £50 1 invite to watch for £100. 1 offer of a party, just need to PayPal £150 for details. On an actual meet I was asked to contribute to the electric bill if I wanted to go back to apartment. Finally a 'snow makes me horny' would you help me buy some!
Are these profiles that contact you or do you message them first?
Like others have already said, I've been here 10 years and never once been asked for money or favours.
If this is a regular occurrence you may need to reconsider the types of profiles you are engaging with. "Newish profiles with no verifications are definitely approach with caution. You can quickly tell so not much time wasted. This week I just seem to have hit the mother load | |||
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"Is it just me or is Fab getting less and less genuine. Last week I had 1 request to call a shop to pay for nails, another to buy a dildo and leave for her in shop, 1 invite to watch for £50 1 invite to watch for £100. 1 offer of a party, just need to PayPal £150 for details. On an actual meet I was asked to contribute to the electric bill if I wanted to go back to apartment. Finally a 'snow makes me horny' would you help me buy some!
It's turned to a free or paid prost-itute sight because that's what guys want it to be so that's what it's become. They aren't interested in genuine and I'm sure the women that do get the sucker that pays has plenty others."Exactly! | |||
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"Had a couple of similar. You only have to look on some updates and some women are asking for help with bills and stuff like that. And the amount asking for support codes is just ridiculous." Have you not heard about the cost of living crisis?  | |||
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"A guy messaged me asking if I wanted £400 for something the other day. I’d deleted it before he could message me instructions (and before I thought to report it doh!) I’ve laid awake every night since wondering what I had to do… "eat 100 tubes of smarties while singing the nation anthem. bet you cant do it | |||
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"A guy messaged me asking if I wanted £400 for something the other day. I’d deleted it before he could message me instructions (and before I thought to report it doh!) I’ve laid awake every night since wondering what I had to do…
eat 100 tubes of smarties while singing the nation anthem.
bet you cant do it"Gimme £500 and I’ll try it 😉 | |||
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"I'm not getting any of these messages, but assume you messaged them first. That's a rare occurrence for me. " Yes but not offering anything. If someone I like the look of has posted on looking to meet I will just send an introduction message | |||
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"A guy messaged me asking if I wanted £400 for something the other day. I’d deleted it before he could message me instructions (and before I thought to report it doh!) I’ve laid awake every night since wondering what I had to do…
eat 100 tubes of smarties while singing the nation anthem.
bet you cant do it
Gimme £500 and I’ll try it 😉"hang on a minute. it was 400 now its 500? clearly a pattern here. youve done this before. | |||
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"Imagine arranging some friends to come over and saying “can you all contribute to my electric bill please?” I can’t even fathom that 😂 " Do you think they use one of those smart meter energy monitors to calculate the costs? | |||
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"Imagine arranging some friends to come over and saying “can you all contribute to my electric bill please?” I can’t even fathom that 😂 " Wanted cash to got the shop and buy it! | |||
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"Imagine arranging some friends to come over and saying “can you all contribute to my electric bill please?” I can’t even fathom that 😂 Do you think they use one of those smart meter energy monitors to calculate the costs? " 😂 possibly. But if I was struggling that badly I’d just light some candles. Well I usually have ambient candles anyway rather than the big light. What would one need electricity for during an orgy? 🤔 | |||
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"Imagine arranging some friends to come over and saying “can you all contribute to my electric bill please?” I can’t even fathom that 😂 " I might give it a try...he'll I've tried everything else  | |||
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""Electric bill" 🤣🤣🤣" Didn't know you could get one's that plugged into the mains😲😲🤔 | |||
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"Imagine arranging some friends to come over and saying “can you all contribute to my electric bill please?” I can’t even fathom that 😂 Do you think they use one of those smart meter energy monitors to calculate the costs? 😂 possibly. But if I was struggling that badly I’d just light some candles. Well I usually have ambient candles anyway rather than the big light. What would one need electricity for during an orgy? 🤔 " I should of gone along with it in the hope that she had a mega powerful plug in dildo | |||
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"Imagine arranging some friends to come over and saying “can you all contribute to my electric bill please?” I can’t even fathom that 😂 Do you think they use one of those smart meter energy monitors to calculate the costs? 😂 possibly. But if I was struggling that badly I’d just light some candles. Well I usually have ambient candles anyway rather than the big light. What would one need electricity for during an orgy? 🤔 " Elaborate and power hungry sex toys | |||
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"Imagine arranging some friends to come over and saying “can you all contribute to my electric bill please?” I can’t even fathom that 😂 Do you think they use one of those smart meter energy monitors to calculate the costs? 😂 possibly. But if I was struggling that badly I’d just light some candles. Well I usually have ambient candles anyway rather than the big light. What would one need electricity for during an orgy? 🤔 I should of gone along with it in the hope that she had a mega powerful plug in dildo " And if you did and there was no nimbus 3000 mega plug in fuck machine what would you have done? 😂 | |||
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"Imagine arranging some friends to come over and saying “can you all contribute to my electric bill please?” I can’t even fathom that 😂 Do you think they use one of those smart meter energy monitors to calculate the costs? 😂 possibly. But if I was struggling that badly I’d just light some candles. Well I usually have ambient candles anyway rather than the big light. What would one need electricity for during an orgy? 🤔 I should of gone along with it in the hope that she had a mega powerful plug in dildo And if you did and there was no nimbus 3000 mega plug in fuck machine what would you have done? 😂 " Topped up the electric, sat back and enjoyed the show lol | |||
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"As a woman I get offered money on a regular basis. Always turn it down and report. Had offers from men for me to send them videos, or they will pay me to watch them on cam. I've been offered money for petrol to go meet them, train tickets, hotels. Cash to do various sexual activities. Also had one guy ask me to message him with demands for for large sums of money with a signed contract stating that he had asked me to do it so I couldn't get arrested for it. I didnt even know this was a kink thing but apparently it is. So it seems men on here get asked for cash and women get offered it. " I've got to ask. What was on the contract? | |||
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"Imagine arranging some friends to come over and saying “can you all contribute to my electric bill please?” I can’t even fathom that 😂 Do you think they use one of those smart meter energy monitors to calculate the costs? 😂 possibly. But if I was struggling that badly I’d just light some candles. Well I usually have ambient candles anyway rather than the big light. What would one need electricity for during an orgy? 🤔 " The mains wand. And I this weather....a fuck load of fans. 🤷♂️😂😂🌬💨💨 Obi | |||
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"Imagine arranging some friends to come over and saying “can you all contribute to my electric bill please?” I can’t even fathom that 😂 Do you think they use one of those smart meter energy monitors to calculate the costs? 😂 possibly. But if I was struggling that badly I’d just light some candles. Well I usually have ambient candles anyway rather than the big light. What would one need electricity for during an orgy? 🤔 The mains wand. And I this weather....a fuck load of fans. 🤷♂️😂😂🌬💨💨 Obi" 😂 well I didn’t even think of that. Yeah fuck that I want a £10 tip for my electric in future! 😂 | |||
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"Imagine arranging some friends to come over and saying “can you all contribute to my electric bill please?” I can’t even fathom that 😂 Do you think they use one of those smart meter energy monitors to calculate the costs? 😂 possibly. But if I was struggling that badly I’d just light some candles. Well I usually have ambient candles anyway rather than the big light. What would one need electricity for during an orgy? 🤔 The mains wand. And I this weather....a fuck load of fans. 🤷♂️😂😂🌬💨💨 Obi 😂 well I didn’t even think of that. Yeah fuck that I want a £10 tip for my electric in future! 😂 " 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"As a woman I get offered money on a regular basis. Always turn it down and report. Had offers from men for me to send them videos, or they will pay me to watch them on cam. I've been offered money for petrol to go meet them, train tickets, hotels. Cash to do various sexual activities. Also had one guy ask me to message him with demands for for large sums of money with a signed contract stating that he had asked me to do it so I couldn't get arrested for it. I didnt even know this was a kink thing but apparently it is. So it seems men on here get asked for cash and women get offered it. I've got to ask. What was on the contract?" I have absolutely no idea because I never took him up on it. | |||
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"As a woman I get offered money on a regular basis. Always turn it down and report. Had offers from men for me to send them videos, or they will pay me to watch them on cam. I've been offered money for petrol to go meet them, train tickets, hotels. Cash to do various sexual activities. Also had one guy ask me to message him with demands for for large sums of money with a signed contract stating that he had asked me to do it so I couldn't get arrested for it. I didnt even know this was a kink thing but apparently it is. So it seems men on here get asked for cash and women get offered it. I've got to ask. What was on the contract? I have absolutely no idea because I never took him up on it. " Maybe that's where I am going wrong, I would have had to see what was in it | |||
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"Is it just me or is Fab getting less and less genuine. Last week I had 1 request to call a shop to pay for nails, another to buy a dildo and leave for her in shop, 1 invite to watch for £50 1 invite to watch for £100. 1 offer of a party, just need to PayPal £150 for details. On an actual meet I was asked to contribute to the electric bill if I wanted to go back to apartment. Finally a 'snow makes me horny' would you help me buy some! "If you've had all that in a week you probably need to take stock of how you're operating on here. | |||
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"Is it just me or is Fab getting less and less genuine. Last week I had 1 request to call a shop to pay for nails, another to buy a dildo and leave for her in shop, 1 invite to watch for £50 1 invite to watch for £100. 1 offer of a party, just need to PayPal £150 for details. On an actual meet I was asked to contribute to the electric bill if I wanted to go back to apartment. Finally a 'snow makes me horny' would you help me buy some!
If you've had all that in a week you probably need to take stock of how you're operating on here."Yeah probably | |||
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"Op I’ve been using fab for years and never experienced any of the things you mention. Maybe it’s a thing local to you?" It's not, I've never been asked any of these things either. | |||
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"Finally a 'snow makes me horny' would you help me buy some! "That's really shitty!! It surprised the living hell out of me when one guy turned up with a bunch of flowers and a bottle of wine, so to have someone ask you to provide favours in exchange for meeting is infuriating!!
It reminded me of the line from Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct:
"You ever fuck on cocaine?"
I wish Michael Douglas had replied:
"Buy it yourself, you cheap b*tch" | |||
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"Is it just me or is Fab getting less and less genuine. Last week I had 1 request to call a shop to pay for nails, another to buy a dildo and leave for her in shop, 1 invite to watch for £50 1 invite to watch for £100. 1 offer of a party, just need to PayPal £150 for details. On an actual meet I was asked to contribute to the electric bill if I wanted to go back to apartment. Finally a 'snow makes me horny' would you help me buy some! "I once had the electric bill thing from an alleged couple in Sheffield, I reported them as pro and they went away, or blocked me, I don't care which | |||
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"Is it just me or is Fab getting less and less genuine. Last week I had 1 request to call a shop to pay for nails, another to buy a dildo and leave for her in shop, 1 invite to watch for £50 1 invite to watch for £100. 1 offer of a party, just need to PayPal £150 for details. On an actual meet I was asked to contribute to the electric bill if I wanted to go back to apartment. Finally a 'snow makes me horny' would you help me buy some! "All that in one week? I've had 2, maybe 3 offers of money max a week, and a few very detailed first messages. But jeez. Hope you reported every one of them | |||
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"I'd imagine it is the result of a lot of men (not all before you come for me 😄) treating women on here like free /low cost pros titu tes. The "come here" demands, the offer of £50 for sex, no wonder some women are playing that card I'd also gently suggest that if its happening to you a lot that you reassess the types of profiles you are interacting with and if they are realistically going to be interested in you. " Oh that's it blame the mem lol (said as a joke) | |||
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"I'd imagine it is the result of a lot of men (not all before you come for me 😄) treating women on here like free /low cost pros titu tes. The "come here" demands, the offer of £50 for sex, no wonder some women are playing that card I'd also gently suggest that if its happening to you a lot that you reassess the types of profiles you are interacting with and if they are realistically going to be interested in you. Oh that's it blame the mem lol (said as a joke)" It's ok! I do😉😈 | |||
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"Are you saying I could be getting my bills paid !?!? Joking aside .. I get offers of money for various acts .. report them, move on. " To be fair I can see why. Especially your first picture definitely a Jennifer Aniston resemblance | |||
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"Are you saying I could be getting my bills paid !?!? Joking aside .. I get offers of money for various acts .. report them, move on. To be fair I can see why. Especially your first picture definitely a Jennifer Aniston resemblance " Ugh | |||
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"Are you saying I could be getting my bills paid !?!? Joking aside .. I get offers of money for various acts .. report them, move on. To be fair I can see why. Especially your first picture definitely a Jennifer Aniston resemblance Ugh" That was a compliment | |||
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"Imagine arranging some friends to come over and saying “can you all contribute to my electric bill please?” I can’t even fathom that 😂 Do you think they use one of those smart meter energy monitors to calculate the costs? 😂 possibly. But if I was struggling that badly I’d just light some candles. Well I usually have ambient candles anyway rather than the big light. What would one need electricity for during an orgy? 🤔 The mains wand. And I this weather....a fuck load of fans. 🤷♂️😂😂🌬💨💨 Obi 😂 well I didn’t even think of that. Yeah fuck that I want a £10 tip for my electric in future! 😂 " I’ll give ya 20  | |||
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