FabSwingers.com forum: Am I wrong in wanting pics before swapping tele?

By *ayleynBen OP Couple
2 days ago

Burnley

Hi guys,

Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.

Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)

But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?

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By *ew1231000Man
2 days ago

Hullbridge, Essex

"Hi guys,

Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.

Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)

But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"

I think its only fair asking for pics before exchanging tele details, so no your not in the wrong at all!

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By *herrybakewellCouple
2 days ago

Staffordshire

When it doesn't get off to a good start, it rarely ends happily.

Thats our opinion.

Mrs.

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By *ympho6969Woman
2 days ago

glasgow

"Hi guys,

Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.

Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)

But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"

Do they realise how many people that is? 700 wouldn't fit in most venues, and if they are arranging a GB and vetting each and everyone one as thoroughly as you, it would be a full time job.

Either this is the same people who arranged the GB where BB had over 1000 men in 12 hrs, or someone is pulling your leg mate

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By *wcjw70Man
2 days ago

Great Barr

Trust your gut instinct, you’re completely in the right and don’t make him feel like you’re not respectful.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
2 days ago

The Big Smoke

"Hi guys,

Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.

Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)

But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"

If this was the case he would be a lot more open and know the score by now.

I wouldn’t even give it a second thought OPs. Move on and block.

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By *icurious_RomanceCouple
2 days ago

West Midlands

Just because you want a gang bang doesn't mean you will fuck just anyone. Asking for photos is a no brainer and if these 'organisers' can't respect that then I question their integrity.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
2 days ago

Chatham

If you’re right or wrong doesn’t matter. If it’s your boundary then that’s ok.

I had a guy recently who wanted to play as a couple, but wouldn’t share his wife’s face pics because she was only going to be watching so it didn’t matter what she looked like. He got well rude about it

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By *wcjw70Man
2 days ago

Great Barr

Also 700 people for a gangbang? What’s he hiring? An aircraft hanger. Definitely a red flag in my book.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 days ago

Calderdale innit

If it doesn't feel right op, don't do it.

You're not wrong for wanting to see someone, before giving out any other info.

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By *akedOrangeMan
2 days ago

Oxford

"Hi guys,

Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.

Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)

But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"

I would say this guy is bull shitting. But that you both are very attractive and he wants to have fun with you both then ghost you.

Its an interesting (and wrong) tactic to get couples who dont want single guys to contact him then he gets his sex.

Tell him to do one

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 days ago

Reading

You get to set your limits but you can't force others to comply. It sounds like this is not meant to be.

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By *oop87Man
2 days ago

Salisbury

"Hi guys,

Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.

Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)

But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us

both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"

Nothing wrong with asking for pics first. More than reasonable. He should be grateful. Your a gorgeous couple

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By *onin25Man
2 days ago

Durham

700? More than enough to hold the narrow pass at Thermopylae

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By *ittlebirdWoman
2 days ago

The Big Smoke

"700? More than enough to hold the narrow pass at Thermopylae"

And about 550 more than Rorke’s Drift 🤷‍♂️

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By *ision21Man
2 days ago

Newcastle Under Lyme

"Hi guys,

Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.

Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)

But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"

Stay firmly away from anyone on Tele.

They only want cash and nothing more.

Parasites that see you as a transaction.

I report these profiles on here daily.

There are hundreds on here.

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By *he MinionMan
2 days ago

Surrey

I agree with all the above but would add, why wouldnt they send a pic ?

Sounds like a scam / timewaster to me.

If i'm chatting with someone and they want to meet, I'll want a pic and a video chat with them before hand.

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By *annyDanielleMan
2 days ago

Street, Somerset

"Hi guys,

Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.

Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)

But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"

Sounds like a load of bollocks in more ways than one. Walk away.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 days ago

East Sussex

Nobody is ever in the wrong for sticking to their boundaries. You've stuck to yours, this person has stuck to theirs making you incompatible

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By *leasure4leisureMan
2 days ago

south

Only ever do what you feel happy with but I will say that having been meeting with a well established g b group a while ago it became necessary to meet prospective couples/F before committing to a meet as there are so many fakes now

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By *weetspicycoupleCouple
2 days ago

sussex

If it feels off it likely is.

Always trust your gut

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By *adbodben40Man
2 days ago

hull

"Hi guys,

Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.

Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)

But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"

Why does he need to chat on tele anyways if hes genuine he can chay to you on here, plus why does he need to meet he can see that you are verified genuine and you can clearly see what you look like. Sounds like a billy bullshitter to me

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By *jnew47Man
2 days ago

Leeds

I’d agree with so many on here OP, trust your gut. I’m pretty nervous about sharing stuff for reason I’ve detailed on my profile but even I’m not as unreasonable as that person seems

Remember, his loss, give others that value you the time, not him

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By *each needs some creamWoman
2 days ago

Ilfracombe

Never trust anyone that asks you to move on to a different app.

You can exchange photos even cam chat all on here. To verify the both parties generally.

All he will be doing is asking for loads of pictures of the female, with the pretext of saying he needs to show them to the guys.

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 days ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

It's fab someone just wants to screenshot and wank go a live call

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
2 days ago

London

700 strong group? If they all turn up you'll be very busy. 😂

Be vigilant, trust your gut and use your noggin. Have fun 👍🏾☺️

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 days ago

Herts/Leeds

"700 strong group? If they all turn up you'll be very busy. 😂

Be vigilant, trust your gut and use your noggin. Have fun 👍🏾☺️"

Maybe it’s like the biscuit in Bagpus. Or Stalin’s tractor factory.

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By *t198sixMan
2 days ago

Dunstable

I agree...trust the instinct...always sounds in the dodgy region if people want to straight away into another app, no need for that if you can do it all through here😎 so nope, wouldn't say you were in the wrong or unreasonable or unrespectful🥴

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By *uzzybearMan
2 days ago

Loughborough

Quite simply… runaway!!!

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By *merald_VelvetWoman
2 days ago

Nottingham

"Hi guys,

Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.

Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)

But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"

I know exactly who you're talking about haha, he's absolutely full of shit and incredibly obnoxious about it, can't hold a basic conversation and gets nasty when he doesn't get his own way.

You didn't miss much by not entertaining him.

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By *merald_VelvetWoman
2 days ago

Nottingham

It's wild to me how many people are so weird about tele on here, perfectly reasonable to want to chat on a different platform before meeting and it's a great option for staying in touch without having to give out personal info

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By *heExcommMan
2 days ago

llantrisant

I wont even swap Tele until I've met them in person. That for people im friends with off here and have regular conversations with

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By *vonne5exMan
2 days ago

Doncaster

"Hi guys,

Just had a very strange convo with a GB organiser that has apparently a 700 strong group.

Wont organise a meet with the group unless he's met first. (Aye alright)

But then wont even send pics but wants to chat on tele with us both...and Im the one that isnt respectful?"
He's now got 701 in his group lol xxx

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 days ago

North East Lincolnshire

We don’t go on TeleG until we’ve seen face pics.

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By *vonne5exMan
2 days ago

Doncaster

I personally don't swap numbers it's a works phone and if I'm off my lad takes over and I wouldn't want him getting cranky calls

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 days ago

North East Lincolnshire

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By *gent CoulsonMan
2 days ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

If there isn't any face pics on a profile I may be chatting with, I will ask for one.

I do like to see who I am talking to, and they definitely don't get my number if they are not willing to let me see.

Big red flag, but then that is just me

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By *oeWilliams321Man
2 days ago

irvinestown

Bad vibes. Go with your feeling.

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By *crguyMan
20 hours ago

manchester

Don’t mind swapping in there, I find lots of people want you to send and never send back, or are just really sick fuckers, I’m a horny guy but keep it legal people

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