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By *ureblonde OP   Woman
2 days ago

Hertfordshire

Who's into BDSM and not just rough sex

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By *oundtightCouple
2 days ago

Manchester

I like my sex planed all-round

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By *eordiePTFellaMan
2 days ago

Newcastle - Scotland

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By *eordiePTFellaMan
2 days ago

Newcastle - Scotland

Experience at rope, handcuffs restraint play ....paddle, whips and punishment play

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By *ooking4adventureMan
2 days ago

north walsham

Bdsm doesnt have to mean rough,i like to say more alternative with a added dimension

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By *KS88Man
2 days ago

Lancaster

Love it!

Dominant ⛓️🖤💋

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By *ensualMan
2 days ago

Sutton

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By *ynamicnatureMan
2 days ago

Doncaster

I absolutely love it when the right chemistry is there and it only happens with a long term connection for me.

The mind games are delicious, ❤️

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By *ensualMan
2 days ago

Sutton

Asking "Who is into BDSM?" is like asking "Who is into cars?" BDSM is a composite acronym made of Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, and Sadomasochism, athough some people define some of the elements of differently.

Therefore similar to the car question, do you want a sports or a saloon or 4×4, or a people wagon? Do you want diesel, or a hybrid or an EV? In regard to BDSM what particular parts of the acronym and combination of parts of the acronym float your boat? Within that, what sort of play are you looking for? B/D can be very different from D/S and D/S can be different from S/M. Within those, each dynamic is different. Also despite social media stereotypes Dominants and submissives are not formed with a cookie cutter. As an example some articles list from 6 to 16 types of Dominant.

It may help if you provide more detail of what you are looking for in a dynamic and from a Dominant.

As most people that are ethical and serious about BDSM know that it is more than rough sex, and Ann Summers'paddles

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By *ourpornfixMan
2 days ago

East Cheshire

I love bondage, it can have a rough element but more fun with long, sensual sex...

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By *thsinnerMan
2 days ago

belfast

I'm sure theres a few here recognize the story of O and gorean hints..

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 days ago

Ankh-Morpork


"Asking "Who is into BDSM?" is like asking "Who is into cars?" BDSM is a composite acronym made of Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission, and Sadomasochism, athough some people define some of the elements of differently.

Therefore similar to the car question, do you want a sports or a saloon or 4×4, or a people wagon? Do you want diesel, or a hybrid or an EV? In regard to BDSM what particular parts of the acronym and combination of parts of the acronym float your boat? Within that, what sort of play are you looking for? B/D can be very different from D/S and D/S can be different from S/M. Within those, each dynamic is different. Also despite social media stereotypes Dominants and submissives are not formed with a cookie cutter. As an example some articles list from 6 to 16 types of Dominant.

It may help if you provide more detail of what you are looking for in a dynamic and from a Dominant.

As most people that are ethical and serious about BDSM know that it is more than rough sex, and Ann Summers'paddles"

Forums would be pretty dull if every conversation starter had to come with a 25-page filter questionnaire before anyone was allowed to reply.

OP to answer your broad question, yes I am, and while there is a large crossover on fab, fab isn’t necessarily the easiest place to find those dynamics.

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By *entCplBayCouple
2 days ago

Herne Bay

It’s an incredible world. It takes have to be masochistic.

It can be blindfolds, teasing and exploring and I love fish. A little spanking and restraints is perfect.

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By *rhugesMan
2 days ago

Cardiff

Love sub Dom role play

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By *heonixrising500Man
2 days ago

Barnsley

Good adult fun

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
2 days ago

Gloucestershire

My prefered flavour of BDSM is only something I do with a long term trusted romantic partner. BDSM is not something I do with someone I met off Fab. And I am not into rough sex full stop.

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By *MandMMCouple
2 days ago

Welwyn

We enjoy bdsm as a Domme sub couple

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 days ago

Cheltenham


"Forums would be pretty dull if every conversation starter had to come with a 25-page filter questionnaire before anyone was allowed to reply."

[Yes/No] Do you want a shag?

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 days ago

Ankh-Morpork


"Forums would be pretty dull if every conversation starter had to come with a 25-page filter questionnaire before anyone was allowed to reply.

[Yes/No] Do you want a shag?"

I wonder if anyone has sent that as a message. Variation on fancy a fuck

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 days ago

Cheltenham


"Forums would be pretty dull if every conversation starter had to come with a 25-page filter questionnaire before anyone was allowed to reply.

[Yes/No] Do you want a shag?

I wonder if anyone has sent that as a message. Variation on fancy a fuck "

It’s more scientific and has been approved by Sydney University.

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