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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just thought I'd ask you ladies !

Have you or do you ask a male for a meet (not guys you've met)

If not ! Why not ? And I already know your inundated so are there any other reasons for either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do when I am in the mood I have a standard message I send just says

fancy a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont for fear of rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time ?!

Why wouldn't I

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nope, never have unless already chatting, this is mainly due to very poor profiles so prevents me going on the hunt! But hey I live in hope, but maybe one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made the first move plenty of times,why sit back and wait,if you see something you like then go for it

Lifes too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I scroll through all the cams in the chatroom, pick my victim and pounce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made the 1st move & asked if a guy faces a meet. Been meeting regularly since & we're off to secrets tonight.

Why shouldn't a woman ask. Xx

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield, centralish

I've asked a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask when I like a profile. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do when I am in the mood I have a standard message I send just says

fancy a fuck "

Your not a bloke are you lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont for fear of rejection "

Yeah right !!! Wot you reject them wen they turn up lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, never have unless already chatting, this is mainly due to very poor profiles so prevents me going on the hunt! But hey I live in hope, but maybe one day "

Glad to see you haven't given up on us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have made the first move plenty of times,why sit back and wait,if you see something you like then go for it

Lifes too short "

Why can't you live in sunny Wales lol we could do more like you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no never, but am thinking about it.

if i think they like the same things as me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never asked for a meet either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like someone enough then I will ask for a meet but don't do it very often

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Nope, never have unless already chatting, this is mainly due to very poor profiles so prevents me going on the hunt! But hey I live in hope, but maybe one day

Glad to see you haven't given up on us "

But you should see the profiles in my area! It's all either 'will fill out later' or 'looking for fun' Grrr

Really inspiring for a single female to contact... NOT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never asked first I'm worried they will say no and I'll feel like a prize twit lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wish 1 would ask me

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I've never asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged first, but never asked for a meeting first x

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Just thought I'd ask you ladies !

Have you or do you ask a male for a meet (not guys you've met)

If not ! Why not ? And I already know your inundated so are there any other reasons for either "

Yes, from time to time. Though often I don't need to. Numbers being as they are on this site I usually get offered more than I ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get mail because I don't show up on the searches. I always go looking. I get turned down sometimes but so what. It's not the end of the world. I do sometimes get meets too....

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Yes of course, when I was a single Femme, all of my meets were people I had messaged.

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak

Given it's normally me (Charlie) who sends all the messages then the answer is yes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your awesome

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

When I'm horny I go looking for what I am in the mood for and don't stop till I get what I want.

I also text existing friends and approach men in clubs. I've been turned down on occasion, but I don't let it get me down and move on to the next.

I like men who are not intimidated by confident women so if they are put off by my behaviour they are not for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sure i can remember us arranging to go for a coffee

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"sure i can remember us arranging to go for a coffee "

You snooze you lose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never snooz i was born ready!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What a mixed response I can't work out if its yes women do ask or no women don't !!! So from my own experience I have to say no !! They don't .....

But I personally think that as it is a women's domain on this site then they should take more of an initiative and grab the bull by the horns ( so too speak)

Come on ladies lead by example and make a move on us ..... You could be pleasantly surprised

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By *ubik cubeMan
over a year ago

Near Liverpool

I've never been asked, wish I had. Come on violins at the ready

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

To the ladies that aren't afraid to make the first move, you lot are heroes!

Mwah! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

Whether they have time/inclination is another matter but them I'm getting used to no sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I'm horny I go looking for what I am in the mood for and don't stop till I get what I want.

I also text existing friends and approach men in clubs. I've been turned down on occasion, but I don't let it get me down and move on to the next.

I like men who are not intimidated by confident women so if they are put off by my behaviour they are not for me anyway. "

I love predatory women!

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

Yes I have asked for meets, I often work away from home and like to take advantage of nights in hotels !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've asked ..... if I find someone attractive

Not just any Tom Dick or Harry

Or Phill or Barry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfect place for me to ask if there is a Barry or even a Norman who would like a meet

Im kinda like Koala rather than a cougar though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once "

Would you like to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had to ask first, but I would if it became necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me "

Yes !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !! "

See .. it was that simple

See a lady who you fancy rotten - ask her and she says yes

Super happy dance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As this is a 'women rule' site one would expect a high proportion of women would be predatory - altho I expect that is not the case n that most women prefer to be pursued.

That said I'm sure men would find it a flattering change to have the woman pick them from the crowd.

I'm the sorta guy that 'sits it out' rather than actively pursues - mainly because women say they are inundated wiv mail and can't respond to everyone so won't be relying to everyone!

Men on the other hand don't generally get alot of unsolicited mail so frankly it would make more sense if the gals picked the boys innit

Pick me pick me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't yet, but I'm starting to seek guys out more... Fed up of the usual drivvel in my inbox!

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By *ltimateGemWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I remember wanting to go to a club. For some reason I was desperate to go out. I normally have lots of offers but sadly they seem to make all kinds of assumptions before they've had a chance to meet me.

I remember approaching someone from my friend's list. This man seemed very pleasant. He told me later that when I asked he nearly fell on the floor! I insisted on paying as I had asked for his company but he refused and said he felt honoured to be in my company. The sex was incredible! I've never done it again but that meet will always remain in my psyche and I'm glad I asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

See .. it was that simple

See a lady who you fancy rotten - ask her and she says yes

Super happy dance "

Just need a date and time and as they say.. I'm all yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

See .. it was that simple

See a lady who you fancy rotten - ask her and she says yes

Super happy dance

Just need a date and time and as they say.. I'm all yours "

Ill get back to you asap

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I do...All the time

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !! "

You two get a room and tell me where and when

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do when I am in the mood I have a standard message I send just says

fancy a fuck "
why don't i ever get offers like that!!????mmmmmmm xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

You two get a room and tell me where and when "

You talking 3sum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

You two get a room and tell me where and when

You talking 3sum "

I would never participate in such filth

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By *asonblack77Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

You two get a room and tell me where and when "

would u like to meet me? i have asked.

ce sera un oui ou un non

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not normally but have done and will do if i like them

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Ooooo hello ladies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I'm horny I go looking for what I am in the mood for and don't stop till I get what I want.

I also text existing friends and approach men in clubs. I've been turned down on occasion, but I don't let it get me down and move on to the next.

I like men who are not intimidated by confident women so if they are put off by my behaviour they are not for me anyway. "

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

You two get a room and tell me where and when

would u like to meet me? i have asked.

ce sera un oui ou un non"

Peut-etre!!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I do...All the time "

And someone on this thread can prove that I do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do...All the time

And someone on this thread can prove that I do! "

I'm sure there must be more than one of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't yet, but I'm starting to seek guys out more... Fed up of the usual drivvel in my inbox! "

This is the thing,so many moan about the messages they receive it makes sense to actually go look for exactly what you want

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I do...All the time

And someone on this thread can prove that I do!

I'm sure there must be more than one of us "

Shameless hussy me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

You two get a room and tell me where and when

You talking 3sum

I would never participate in such filth "

I'll come and chaperone, make sure everyone's virtue is kept intact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

You two get a room and tell me where and when

You talking 3sum

I would never participate in such filth

I'll come and chaperone, make sure everyone's virtue is kept intact."

Yea course you would - generous aren't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

You two get a room and tell me where and when

You talking 3sum

I would never participate in such filth

I'll come and chaperone, make sure everyone's virtue is kept intact.

Yea course you would - generous aren't you "

Floro, as a young impressionable woman, you need someone to look out for you. I suspect many of these females are redatory, using honeyed words and are secretly intent on deflowering you.

I'm just a nice guy willing to ensure such horribleness doesn't take place and your nectar stays safely stored in the stigma.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

You two get a room and tell me where and when

You talking 3sum

I would never participate in such filth

I'll come and chaperone, make sure everyone's virtue is kept intact.

Yea course you would - generous aren't you

Floro, as a young impressionable woman, you need someone to look out for you. I suspect many of these females are redatory, using honeyed words and are secretly intent on deflowering you.

I'm just a nice guy willing to ensure such horribleness doesn't take place and your nectar stays safely stored in the stigma."

You see me well .....

Or should I say

Crock of shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All joking aside, can I come? I'll be polite and only spoken when spoken to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All joking aside, can I come? I'll be polite and only spoken when spoken to. "

Listen mister ... if you come ( and presently its a big IF) you better show me some sugar !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All joking aside, can I come? I'll be polite and only spoken when spoken to.

Listen mister ... if you come ( and presently its a big IF) you better show me some sugar !!!!!!

"

It's all I have ever shown........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All joking aside, can I come? I'll be polite and only spoken when spoken to.

Listen mister ... if you come ( and presently its a big IF) you better show me some sugar !!!!!!

It's all I have ever shown........"

Im letting the smiley men do my talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

You two get a room and tell me where and when

You talking 3sum

I would never participate in such filth

I'll come and chaperone, make sure everyone's virtue is kept intact.

Yea course you would - generous aren't you

Floro, as a young impressionable woman, you need someone to look out for you. I suspect many of these females are redatory, using honeyed words and are secretly intent on deflowering you.

I'm just a nice guy willing to ensure such horribleness doesn't take place and your nectar stays safely stored in the stigma.

You see me well .....

Or should I say

Crock of shit "

I've never been redatory in my life love typos

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"All joking aside, can I come? I'll be polite and only spoken when spoken to.

Listen mister ... if you come ( and presently its a big IF) you better show me some sugar !!!!!!

It's all I have ever shown........"

You can be our slave! Tied to a chair, unable to move or touch...watching, if you like watching that is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All joking aside, can I come? I'll be polite and only spoken when spoken to.

Listen mister ... if you come ( and presently its a big IF) you better show me some sugar !!!!!!

It's all I have ever shown........

You can be our slave! Tied to a chair, unable to move or touch...watching, if you like watching that is! "

Not thanks, even untethered Floro headbutted me; I shudder to think what she would do if I was unable to defend myself.

I could vet these ladies for you, Floro?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

You two get a room and tell me where and when

You talking 3sum

I would never participate in such filth

I'll come and chaperone, make sure everyone's virtue is kept intact.

Yea course you would - generous aren't you

Floro, as a young impressionable woman, you need someone to look out for you. I suspect many of these females are redatory, using honeyed words and are secretly intent on deflowering you.

I'm just a nice guy willing to ensure such horribleness doesn't take place and your nectar stays safely stored in the stigma.

You see me well .....

Or should I say

Crock of shit

I've never been redatory in my life love typos "

I've seen you lurking around the rectory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All joking aside, can I come? I'll be polite and only spoken when spoken to.

Listen mister ... if you come ( and presently its a big IF) you better show me some sugar !!!!!!

It's all I have ever shown........

You can be our slave! Tied to a chair, unable to move or touch...watching, if you like watching that is! "

Stop knicking my teasers you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

You two get a room and tell me where and when

You talking 3sum

I would never participate in such filth

I'll come and chaperone, make sure everyone's virtue is kept intact.

Yea course you would - generous aren't you

Floro, as a young impressionable woman, you need someone to look out for you. I suspect many of these females are redatory, using honeyed words and are secretly intent on deflowering you.

I'm just a nice guy willing to ensure such horribleness doesn't take place and your nectar stays safely stored in the stigma.

You see me well .....

Or should I say

Crock of shit

I've never been redatory in my life love typos

I've seen you lurking around the rectory "

Stop making me laugh!! I'm in the bath and if I drop my phone that's it!! The end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All joking aside, can I come? I'll be polite and only spoken when spoken to.

Listen mister ... if you come ( and presently its a big IF) you better show me some sugar !!!!!!

It's all I have ever shown........

You can be our slave! Tied to a chair, unable to move or touch...watching, if you like watching that is!

Not thanks, even untethered Floro headbutted me; I shudder to think what she would do if I was unable to defend myself.

I could vet these ladies for you, Floro?"

Do you need me to give you permission casanova

Oh and ... you are perfectly safe with me cowboy now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All joking aside, can I come? I'll be polite and only spoken when spoken to.

Listen mister ... if you come ( and presently its a big IF) you better show me some sugar !!!!!!

It's all I have ever shown........

You can be our slave! Tied to a chair, unable to move or touch...watching, if you like watching that is!

Not thanks, even untethered Floro headbutted me; I shudder to think what she would do if I was unable to defend myself.

I could vet these ladies for you, Floro?

Do you need me to give you permission casanova

Oh and ... you are perfectly safe with me cowboy now"

That made more sense in my head than it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All joking aside, can I come? I'll be polite and only spoken when spoken to.

Listen mister ... if you come ( and presently its a big IF) you better show me some sugar !!!!!!

It's all I have ever shown........

You can be our slave! Tied to a chair, unable to move or touch...watching, if you like watching that is!

Not thanks, even untethered Floro headbutted me; I shudder to think what she would do if I was unable to defend myself.

I could vet these ladies for you, Floro?

Do you need me to give you permission casanova

Oh and ... you are perfectly safe with me cowboy now

That made more sense in my head than it does "

I think it made sense to me; but now wondering if it is code.....

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I've been approached by a few ladies on fab. Always makes a pleasant surprise, especially when its not a one line message either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All joking aside, can I come? I'll be polite and only spoken when spoken to.

Listen mister ... if you come ( and presently its a big IF) you better show me some sugar !!!!!!

It's all I have ever shown........

You can be our slave! Tied to a chair, unable to move or touch...watching, if you like watching that is!

Not thanks, even untethered Floro headbutted me; I shudder to think what she would do if I was unable to defend myself.

I could vet these ladies for you, Floro?

Do you need me to give you permission casanova

Oh and ... you are perfectly safe with me cowboy now"

Casanova...... I think said ladies are immune to my charms but not my typoss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All joking aside, can I come? I'll be polite and only spoken when spoken to.

Listen mister ... if you come ( and presently its a big IF) you better show me some sugar !!!!!!

It's all I have ever shown........

You can be our slave! Tied to a chair, unable to move or touch...watching, if you like watching that is!

Not thanks, even untethered Floro headbutted me; I shudder to think what she would do if I was unable to defend myself.

I could vet these ladies for you, Floro?

Do you need me to give you permission casanova

Oh and ... you are perfectly safe with me cowboy now

Casanova...... I think said ladies are immune to my charms but not my typoss "

But you have bags full of charm sugar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a large percentage of guys here (probably myself too ) would get all flustered and run a mile if approached first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I think a large percentage of guys here (probably myself too ) would get all flustered and run a mile if approached first.

"

Yes he ran away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I think a large percentage of guys here (probably myself too ) would get all flustered and run a mile if approached first.

Yes he ran away "

In fairness I'm still putting my trainers on so not technically true.

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By *kblokenorthMan
over a year ago

Any

More of my meets have been invites received rather than ones that I initiated ( despite trying!)

Go's to show if a woman (couples more often in my case) already fancy you then you have much better odds of a meet.

So....ask away ladies, don't be shy we're waiting for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I think a large percentage of guys here (probably myself too ) would get all flustered and run a mile if approached first.

Yes he ran away

In fairness I'm still putting my trainers on so not technically true. "

Ah tomato ... yadda yadda blah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be approached, never happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(cue approaches via email please)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the time ?!

Why wouldn't I

"

She does you know. Very naughty and very sexy lady......

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I send a face pic and say Just registering interest get back to me when you've read my profile, if I don't get a reply or the message is deleted then on to the next!!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"(cue approaches via email please)"

Sorry, I dont speak to crotches...show me chest, suits, hands, bums and if possible a lovely smile and foremost a GSOH combined with great personality and I have verbal diarrhea

I might be demanding...but I know what I want and if it is out there I am prepared to go get it....if they'll have me.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm not sure why anyone wouldn't? If you see someone you think you might like to know better why wouldn't you send a message? It's easy when you're behind a keyboard... what's the worst that can happen? A no thanks?

I remember seeing this guy at a social and he had the nicest lips so I watched him for a while and then just thought fuck it and went over, waited until he'd finished his conversation and then told him that I really wanted to kiss him. I'm not sure what he thought but he let me!!

I'd never have done that in a room full of vanillas but I think before you start, when you're at a social full of swingers it's fair to say that there's a higher possibility that you're all there to meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more women approach the men the better....speaking for myself anyway I find a confident woman a turn on, its a nice change to always having to make the first move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(cue approaches via email please)

Sorry, I dont speak to crotches...show me chest, suits, hands, bums and if possible a lovely smile and foremost a GSOH combined with great personality and I have verbal diarrhea

I might be demanding...but I know what I want and if it is out there I am prepared to go get it....if they'll have me."

Mais, je les ai! C'est une dommage que votre profile me bloque!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I'm not sure why anyone wouldn't? If you see someone you think you might like to know better why wouldn't you send a message? It's easy when you're behind a keyboard... what's the worst that can happen? A no thanks?

I remember seeing this guy at a social and he had the nicest lips so I watched him for a while and then just thought fuck it and went over, waited until he'd finished his conversation and then told him that I really wanted to kiss him. I'm not sure what he thought but he let me!!

I'd never have done that in a room full of vanillas but I think before you start, when you're at a social full of swingers it's fair to say that there's a higher possibility that you're all there to meet someone. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(cue approaches via email please)

Sorry, I dont speak to crotches...show me chest, suits, hands, bums and if possible a lovely smile and foremost a GSOH combined with great personality and I have verbal diarrhea

I might be demanding...but I know what I want and if it is out there I am prepared to go get it....if they'll have me."

Ahaw ma petite froggydisneyfawn vous ete tres OUT THERE lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure why anyone wouldn't? If you see someone you think you might like to know better why wouldn't you send a message? It's easy when you're behind a keyboard... what's the worst that can happen? A no thanks?

I remember seeing this guy at a social and he had the nicest lips so I watched him for a while and then just thought fuck it and went over, waited until he'd finished his conversation and then told him that I really wanted to kiss him. I'm not sure what he thought but he let me!!

I'd never have done that in a room full of vanillas but I think before you start, when you're at a social full of swingers it's fair to say that there's a higher possibility that you're all there to meet someone. "

That's pretty brave. Ok put away the childish sense of humour.

Long and short is, nothing ventured nothing gained. Life's not a spectator sport. Treat it as such and you will simply watch it go by.

Taking control is very empowering I think....its just a case of making sure you know what you want first then go for it.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'm not sure why anyone wouldn't? If you see someone you think you might like to know better why wouldn't you send a message? It's easy when you're behind a keyboard... what's the worst that can happen? A no thanks?

I remember seeing this guy at a social and he had the nicest lips so I watched him for a while and then just thought fuck it and went over, waited until he'd finished his conversation and then told him that I really wanted to kiss him. I'm not sure what he thought but he let me!!

I'd never have done that in a room full of vanillas but I think before you start, when you're at a social full of swingers it's fair to say that there's a higher possibility that you're all there to meet someone.

That's pretty brave. Ok put away the childish sense of humour.

Long and short is, nothing ventured nothing gained. Life's not a spectator sport. Treat it as such and you will simply watch it go by.

Taking control is very empowering I think....its just a case of making sure you know what you want first then go for it. "

It was in Welsh Wales too! I took him home with me... well sort of, technically I went home with him!

Nothing ventured, nothing gained! I gained for sure!

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By *kblokenorthMan
over a year ago

Any


"The more women approach the men the better....speaking for myself anyway I find a confident woman a turn on, its a nice change to always having to make the first move. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the time ?!

Why wouldn't I

She does you know. Very naughty and very sexy lady......

"

As they say "life has no remote. Get up and change it yourself !"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow didn't think this thread would get so much feedback !!! Glad it has started a revolution

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not sure why anyone wouldn't? If you see someone you think you might like to know better why wouldn't you send a message? It's easy when you're behind a keyboard... what's the worst that can happen? A no thanks?

I remember seeing this guy at a social and he had the nicest lips so I watched him for a while and then just thought fuck it and went over, waited until he'd finished his conversation and then told him that I really wanted to kiss him. I'm not sure what he thought but he let me!!

I'd never have done that in a room full of vanillas but I think before you start, when you're at a social full of swingers it's fair to say that there's a higher possibility that you're all there to meet someone.

That's pretty brave. Ok put away the childish sense of humour.

Long and short is, nothing ventured nothing gained. Life's not a spectator sport. Treat it as such and you will simply watch it go by.

Taking control is very empowering I think....its just a case of making sure you know what you want first then go for it.

It was in Welsh Wales too! I took him home with me... well sort of, technically I went home with him!

Nothing ventured, nothing gained! I gained for sure! "

If your ever back down this way ? Give me a wink lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never make the first move

im pushing 40 and over weight, I know most guys I message would turn me down so I wait for them to approach me so I know there's a chance of them liking me

I just reply to guys who mail me who I like the look and sound of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

You two get a room and tell me where and when

You talking 3sum

I would never participate in such filth "

I would

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

You two get a room and tell me where and when

You talking 3sum

I would never participate in such filth

I would "

And me....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I never ask as I'm looking for a specific type of playmate and they don't often state on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've sent the first message loads of times.

Have I asked anyone to meet me? Yes once

Would you like to meet me

Yes !!

You two get a room and tell me where and when

You talking 3sum

I would never participate in such filth

I would

And me.... "

Shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger "
is ypur list small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger "
is your list small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger "

You forgot to block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger is your list small"

I can't see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger

You forgot to block me "

Ill do it later, I'm not sure I can handle my todger doubling in size

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

OK, I'm not reading all 114 posts here, and I'm sure someone has already said it, but shouldn't this be in Stories and Fantasies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger

You forgot to block me

Ill do it later, I'm not sure I can handle my todger doubling in size "

Understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, I'm not reading all 114 posts here, and I'm sure someone has already said it, but shouldn't this be in Stories and Fantasies? "

Your assuming its a fantasy ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good point well put.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger "

So if I understand you correctly...if I was bold and forward enough to ask you to meet me for an evening of unadulterated fun in a hotel/my house...you would block me? Have I got this right? wrong?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"OK, I'm not reading all 114 posts here, and I'm sure someone has already said it, but shouldn't this be in Stories and Fantasies? "

Bloody hell...I want that bum!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger

So if I understand you correctly...if I was bold and forward enough to ask you to meet me for an evening of unadulterated fun in a hotel/my house...you would block me? Have I got this right? wrong?"

To be honest I don't know its never happened like that ....ive only ever blocked one person, and that was because they were prejudiced idiots.

Its simple people, male or female should carry on as they please. Yes some may face rejection for various reasons, but sat doing nothing equals achieving nothing. If that's all you want from fab then great, enjoy the forums and banter, but don't play the poor me I get no contact victim.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger

So if I understand you correctly...if I was bold and forward enough to ask you to meet me for an evening of unadulterated fun in a hotel/my house...you would block me? Have I got this right? wrong?

To be honest I don't know its never happened like that ....ive only ever blocked one person, and that was because they were prejudiced idiots.

Its simple people, male or female should carry on as they please. Yes some may face rejection for various reasons, but sat doing nothing equals achieving nothing. If that's all you want from fab then great, enjoy the forums and banter, but don't play the poor me I get no contact victim. "

I dont have a job and spend a lot of time on Fabs as a distraction to forget I dont have a job (although I have many many quaifications...God helps those who dont...actually I help those who dont)....Fair enough...I did not completely understand your meaning and I do not recognise myslef in your description/rant but thats OK! Have a good life and be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger

So if I understand you correctly...if I was bold and forward enough to ask you to meet me for an evening of unadulterated fun in a hotel/my house...you would block me? Have I got this right? wrong?

To be honest I don't know its never happened like that ....ive only ever blocked one person, and that was because they were prejudiced idiots.

Its simple people, male or female should carry on as they please. Yes some may face rejection for various reasons, but sat doing nothing equals achieving nothing. If that's all you want from fab then great, enjoy the forums and banter, but don't play the poor me I get no contact victim.

I dont have a job and spend a lot of time on Fabs as a distraction to forget I dont have a job (although I have many many quaifications...God helps those who dont...actually I help those who dont)....Fair enough...I did not completely understand your meaning and I do not recognise myslef in your description/rant but thats OK! Have a good life and be happy "

Non non non, you have totally misread my post which was complete humour....obviously bad. I'm not blocking anyone or judging anyone....mmmm must work on my communication. I happen to be on fab for many of the reasons you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger "

Forum suicide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And apologies bambi it was no reference to work, it was reference to not biting the bullet to message someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger

Forum suicide "

You have a point....though I'm still alive just digging in.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger

So if I understand you correctly...if I was bold and forward enough to ask you to meet me for an evening of unadulterated fun in a hotel/my house...you would block me? Have I got this right? wrong?

To be honest I don't know its never happened like that ....ive only ever blocked one person, and that was because they were prejudiced idiots.

Its simple people, male or female should carry on as they please. Yes some may face rejection for various reasons, but sat doing nothing equals achieving nothing. If that's all you want from fab then great, enjoy the forums and banter, but don't play the poor me I get no contact victim.

I dont have a job and spend a lot of time on Fabs as a distraction to forget I dont have a job (although I have many many quaifications...God helps those who dont...actually I help those who dont)....Fair enough...I did not completely understand your meaning and I do not recognise myslef in your description/rant but thats OK! Have a good life and be happy

Non non non, you have totally misread my post which was complete humour....obviously bad. I'm not blocking anyone or judging anyone....mmmm must work on my communication. I happen to be on fab for many of the reasons you are. "

The written word can be so easily mis-construed and mis-understood!! YOU had me worried x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger

So if I understand you correctly...if I was bold and forward enough to ask you to meet me for an evening of unadulterated fun in a hotel/my house...you would block me? Have I got this right? wrong?

To be honest I don't know its never happened like that ....ive only ever blocked one person, and that was because they were prejudiced idiots.

Its simple people, male or female should carry on as they please. Yes some may face rejection for various reasons, but sat doing nothing equals achieving nothing. If that's all you want from fab then great, enjoy the forums and banter, but don't play the poor me I get no contact victim.

I dont have a job and spend a lot of time on Fabs as a distraction to forget I dont have a job (although I have many many quaifications...God helps those who dont...actually I help those who dont)....Fair enough...I did not completely understand your meaning and I do not recognise myslef in your description/rant but thats OK! Have a good life and be happy

Non non non, you have totally misread my post which was complete humour....obviously bad. I'm not blocking anyone or judging anyone....mmmm must work on my communication. I happen to be on fab for many of the reasons you are.

The written word can be so easily mis-construed and mis-understood!! YOU had me worried x"

My terrible humour.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I just block all woman who are so forward. My block list is as big as my todger

Forum suicide

You have a point....though I'm still alive just digging in. "

And in denial

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"And apologies bambi it was no reference to work, it was reference to not biting the bullet to message someone. "

We are humans....so we will judge others and compare them and want to respond to what they write...because it is personal! We have been given a brain and we use it, the way we choose to use it is our own choice but preconception and first impressions are important.

You never get a second chance to make a first good impression!

Having lived in the UK for 17+ years I have learnt a lot about so many various subjects it would take me too long to list all of them. The one...and very important lesson I have learnt is NEVER go with your first impression..take time to reflect, analyse and think. It is entirely possible that YOU have got it wrong...ask again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@ Frenchbambi, you & me, chams on a Monday???? please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"@ Frenchbambi, you & me, chams on a Monday???? please "

And me !!!! Pretty plz xx

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land

OMG I really can't believe some of the things I've just read !!!!

Women moan about the pathetic one liners they receive from the numpties on here ... but why oh why do you not make the first move ???

Pardon the pun but I am really of the opinion that you get out what you put in ... I love doing all the browsing, research and cross referencing ... maybe I am in the minority ... not really after a quick fuck with any Tom Dick or Harry who happens to be passing through my area ... but I have met some absolutely stunning people and invariably they are the ones I have sourced myself !!!

Take control ladies .... reap what you shall sew !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG I really can't believe some of the things I've just read !!!!

Women moan about the pathetic one liners they receive from the numpties on here ... but why oh why do you not make the first move ???

Pardon the pun but I am really of the opinion that you get out what you put in ... I love doing all the browsing, research and cross referencing ... maybe I am in the minority ... not really after a quick fuck with any Tom Dick or Harry who happens to be passing through my area ... but I have met some absolutely stunning people and invariably they are the ones I have sourced myself !!!

Take control ladies .... reap what you shall sew !!!"

Perfectly said ! Completely how I see it

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