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"Hey everyone been on the site a few months now... (I am genuine) Finding it really hard to get a meet. I'm polite willing and cleen . I don't think I'm ugly but I suppose that's up to others? I don't have public pics as I need to be discreet due to work. What am I doing wrong xxx" Work would recognise any picture of you? How likely is that? You start your profile with info you’ve already given, age and location etc. Have you thought about a club or a local social. I’d also change your status update unless you mean you have a quarter pounder burger  | |||
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"Hey everyone been on the site a few months now... (I am genuine) Finding it really hard to get a meet. I'm polite willing and cleen . I don't think I'm ugly but I suppose that's up to others? I don't have public pics as I need to be discreet due to work. What am I doing wrong xxx" You answered your own question. No public gallery means very few will want to interact. Would work recognise your back, hand, arm, torso, bum? Would they recognise you in a headless photo against a plain background? Or I could put it another way. You’ve messaged profiles you like the look of. Because of their gallery and bio, don’t they deserve to make the same decision themselves? | |||
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"Hey everyone been on the site a few months now... (I am genuine) Finding it really hard to get a meet. I'm polite willing and cleen . I don't think I'm ugly but I suppose that's up to others? I don't have public pics as I need to be discreet due to work. What am I doing wrong xxx" Genuinely if you can, go on tinder , its a lot easier , just be honest on profile regarding what you want , loads of women on here are on there iv found , if you can't then stop cheating haha , | |||
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"What am I doing wrong xxx" • You have no photos whatsoever on your profile. How are you going to tantalise your target audience otherwise? Your profile text is basic, generic and lacks any substance. It's also prone to repetition: we know that you're 38 and from Bridlington because it's already displayed in your profile summary/details. Nothing stands out. You need to really invest some time in polishing your profile, especially as a returning member who should know better. I wish you all the best, OP. | |||
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"...if you can't then stop cheating haha" • Is he cheating? 🤔 | |||
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"100% not cheeting I understand the conclusion. I love in a small village everyone knows everyones business. I don't want to be known as the swinger... Although I do want to swing. 😂 I've taken a few pics put don't want to post them on the site there mot very good. Maybe I need a photographer 😂 I appreciate all the advice and criticism xx" Unless your other villagers are also on this site, how are they going to recognise you on here? 🤔 | |||
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"...if you can't then stop cheating haha • Is he cheating? 🤔" Can be the only reason , tinder is a pretty innocent and exepted app | |||
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"100% not cheeting I understand the conclusion. I love in a small village everyone knows everyones business. I don't want to be known as the swinger... Although I do want to swing. 😂 I've taken a few pics put don't want to post them on the site there mot very good. Maybe I need a photographer 😂 I appreciate all the advice and criticism xx" I know that feeling well lol , my village is the same tbf | |||
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"...if you can't then stop cheating haha • Is he cheating? 🤔 Can be the only reason , tinder is a pretty innocent and exepted app " • He didn't mention Tinder. You did. I mean, some people do lie. For example next you'll be telling me that you're self employed and running three businesses.  | |||
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"...if you can't then stop cheating haha • Is he cheating? 🤔 Can be the only reason , tinder is a pretty innocent and exepted app • He didn't mention Tinder. You did. I mean, some people do lie. For example next you'll be telling me that you're self employed and running three businesses. "Haha , sounds bitter there poppit lol | |||
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