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By *oeBeans OP   Man
4 days ago

Derby

But I was discussing this with someone recently and interested to get people's thoughts.

What you think is worse, premeditated or opportunity murder?

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By *ampireLoveMan
4 days ago

Essex


"But I was discussing this with someone recently and interested to get people's thoughts.

What you think is worse, premeditated or opportunity murder?"

Joe… I know it’s hot but murder isn’t the answer! 😂😂

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By *mantofuckMan
4 days ago

durham

Pre meditated. Youve been thinking about that whereas the other is an "in the moment" situation.

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By *oeBeans OP   Man
4 days ago

Derby


"But I was discussing this with someone recently and interested to get people's thoughts.

What you think is worse, premeditated or opportunity murder?

Joe… I know it’s hot but murder isn’t the answer! 😂😂"

🤣🤣🤣 I did try to phrase the question in a normal way, but think I did the opposite 🫣

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By *Effy-Woman
4 days ago

Scotland

Premeditated for sure. And it's worse in the eyes of the law as well.

You have plenty of opportunity to change your mind with Premeditated.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
4 days ago

Bristol

Premeditated murder is worse.

That's a person that has decided in a cold collected mind that they want to go and murder somebody... And then set in motion their plan for carrying out.

At least opportunistic murders can be seen as someone who just decides in the heat if the moment to kill someone

Both are terrifying.

But one is infinitely more sinister than the other

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By *a LunaWoman
4 days ago

Wales

Premeditated. Someone has sat down and thought about it, planned it, got in things to carry out the murder and thought of how to dispose of the body.

Much more calculated.

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By *eightsB4DatesMan
4 days ago

north east

I’m sure the law views pre meditated as worse, at the end of the day both are murder. Would pre meditated murder of someone who harmed your children be worse than reactive murder by beating someone to death over next to nothing?

Is pissing your pants d*unk really any better than pissing them sober when the same result is piss soaked pants ?

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
4 days ago

Bristol

What did you think was worse Joe?

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By *athomMan
4 days ago

South Coast

Doesn’t “opportunity “ sound as though you still have the urge to murder someone , just nobody specific

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By *iver78Man
4 days ago

barton upon humber

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 days ago

Crumpet Castle

Joe, I need something clearing up please.

What do you mean by opportunity?

Reading some answers , it seems, that some see opportunity as 'incidental' or 'by chance' whearas I see opportunity as meaning , a window or situation that provides you with the chance of achieving something you'd always wanted'

Which is , sort of , premeditated .. e.g 'She had always wanted to fuck him and did so as soon as the opportunity came along'

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By *oeBeans OP   Man
4 days ago

Derby


"What did you think was worse Joe? "

I went with premeditated, mainly because of the reasons above. It's more planned and calculated and their are opportunities to change their mind through the process.

The person I was speaking to said opportunity due to the fact it felt more cold blooded with no motive. Someone was essentially murdered for being just there. I understand this, but I still think the former is worse.

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By *iver78Man
4 days ago

barton upon humber


"Doesn’t “opportunity “ sound as though you still have the urge to murder someone , just nobody specific "

This lol

Courts look at the reasoning behind murders

To me someone just killing someone because the opportunity has arisen seems pretty bad

But premadated is wank also but there may be reasons, I dont believe in revenge but sure there been cases were its kinda understandable!! Doest France have a law were you get away with murder if your partner had cheating!?

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By *athomMan
4 days ago

South Coast


"Joe, I need something clearing up please.

What do you mean by opportunity?

Reading some answers , it seems, that some see opportunity as 'incidental' or 'by chance' whearas I see opportunity as meaning , a window or situation that provides you with the chance of achieving something you'd always wanted'

Which is , sort of , premeditated .. e.g 'She had always wanted to fuck him and did so as soon as the opportunity came along'

"

⬆️ This

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By *oeBeans OP   Man
4 days ago

Derby


"Joe, I need something clearing up please.

What do you mean by opportunity?

Reading some answers , it seems, that some see opportunity as 'incidental' or 'by chance' whearas I see opportunity as meaning , a window or situation that provides you with the chance of achieving something you'd always wanted'

Which is , sort of , premeditated .. e.g 'She had always wanted to fuck him and did so as soon as the opportunity came along' "

So I'd wondered this as well. But I think "opportunity" comes more in the form of an impulse decision such as murdering someone in an argument or a witness while a crime is taking place.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 days ago

Crumpet Castle

What if I'd always wanted to kill someone in particular.

1. I sit and plan it for months and then carry it out.

2. I find myself alone with them by accident and take that opportunity to kill them , although I hadn't planned how I'd do it

Which one is worse......?

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By *BWmetalcouple666Couple
4 days ago

houghton

Depends on the circumstances really, premeditated is worse but then what caused it?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"Joe, I need something clearing up please.

What do you mean by opportunity?

Reading some answers , it seems, that some see opportunity as 'incidental' or 'by chance' whearas I see opportunity as meaning , a window or situation that provides you with the chance of achieving something you'd always wanted'

Which is , sort of , premeditated .. e.g 'She had always wanted to fuck him and did so as soon as the opportunity came along'

So I'd wondered this as well. But I think "opportunity" comes more in the form of an impulse decision such as murdering someone in an argument or a witness while a crime is taking place."

without prior intention ?

That would make the planned murder worse... or would it?

The result is precisely the same

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
4 days ago

Bristol


"What if I'd always wanted to kill someone in particular.

1. I sit and plan it for months and then carry it out.

2. I find myself alone with them by accident and take that opportunity to kill them , although I hadn't planned how I'd do it

Which one is worse......?

"

The one where you spent months planning it out is definitely worse

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
4 days ago

In a galaxy far far away

I think premeditated is worse.

It shows intent, rather than impulse.

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By *athomMan
4 days ago

South Coast


"What if I'd always wanted to kill someone in particular.

1. I sit and plan it for months and then carry it out.

2. I find myself alone with them by accident and take that opportunity to kill them , although I hadn't planned how I'd do it

Which one is worse......?

The one where you spent months planning it out is definitely worse "

I’d say equal, you just got your present early

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By *eliWoman
4 days ago

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Premeditated. That was easy, what's the next Friday night musing of a young stud?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 days ago

Crumpet Castle

I want a leg of lamb....

I plan all week how im going to rob one from Tesco on Sunday morning.

OR

I go into Tesco on Sunday and think fuck it , i'm having that. and I rob it in the spur of the moment.

Would it make any difference to the crime or the punishment ?

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By *Effy-Woman
4 days ago

Scotland

An opportunistic killing to me is when there's been no pre-planning at all. The perpetrator hasn't been carrying a weapon or threatening the victim beforehand.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
4 days ago

Bristol


"I want a leg of lamb....

I plan all week how im going to rob one from Tesco on Sunday morning.

OR

I go into Tesco on Sunday and think fuck it , i'm having that. and I rob it in the spur of the moment.

Would it make any difference to the crime or the punishment ?

"

Yes. One is more devient than the other.

Planning out a crime is worse than just chancing your luck

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"What if I'd always wanted to kill someone in particular.

1. I sit and plan it for months and then carry it out.

2. I find myself alone with them by accident and take that opportunity to kill them , although I hadn't planned how I'd do it

Which one is worse......?

The one where you spent months planning it out is definitely worse "

So!

Perky Pumpkin says , ' Granny, don't eat the cakes, I need all 12 for people coming round'

But I eat three of them.

I'd planned to eat them when you bought them OR I ate them at the last minute cos they looked so good.

Either way you are three cakes down.

The result is the same

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
4 days ago

London (She/Her)

Worse in what sense? Premeditated is probably a “better” murder. The perpetrator has had time to think things through and perform a high-quality murder whilst lessening the chances of detection after

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"I want a leg of lamb....

I plan all week how im going to rob one from Tesco on Sunday morning.

OR

I go into Tesco on Sunday and think fuck it , i'm having that. and I rob it in the spur of the moment.

Would it make any difference to the crime or the punishment ?

Yes. One is more devient than the other.

Planning out a crime is worse than just chancing your luck "

So for the first leg of lamb I get three months and for the second leg of lamb one month ?

Cos we punish the deviancy and not the cost of the crime ?

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By *oeBeans OP   Man
4 days ago

Derby


"Premeditated. That was easy, what's the next Friday night musing of a young stud?"

Ok Ms Smarty Pants! Which of the two do you think is more dangerous or poses a greater risk?

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By *oeBeans OP   Man
4 days ago

Derby


"An opportunistic killing to me is when there's been no pre-planning at all. The perpetrator hasn't been carrying a weapon or threatening the victim beforehand. "

I think that's why the other person seemed to think this was worse. Perhaps the lack of predictability about that type of murder.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
4 days ago

Bristol


"What if I'd always wanted to kill someone in particular.

1. I sit and plan it for months and then carry it out.

2. I find myself alone with them by accident and take that opportunity to kill them , although I hadn't planned how I'd do it

Which one is worse......?

The one where you spent months planning it out is definitely worse

So!

Perky Pumpkin says , ' Granny, don't eat the cakes, I need all 12 for people coming round'

But I eat three of them.

I'd planned to eat them when you bought them OR I ate them at the last minute cos they looked so good.

Either way you are three cakes down.

The result is the same "

If you instantly decided that you were going to eat my cakes after I told you not too,

That is worse than if at the last second you cracked and just waffled them down like some cake crazed maniac.

It's not about the end result and more about the decisions behind it.

Manslaughter and murder end in the same way... The decisions behind it make all the difference

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By *athomMan
4 days ago

South Coast


"I want a leg of lamb....

I plan all week how im going to rob one from Tesco on Sunday morning.

OR

I go into Tesco on Sunday and think fuck it , i'm having that. and I rob it in the spur of the moment.

Would it make any difference to the crime or the punishment ?

"

The crime is exactly the same the difference in severity of punishment would be any mitigation I.e. serial thief or family In poverty

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"An opportunistic killing to me is when there's been no pre-planning at all. The perpetrator hasn't been carrying a weapon or threatening the victim beforehand.

"

It's the word opportunistic that doesn't sit right with me.

Accidental , yes.

Opportunistic means you wanted to and when it was possible, you did.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"I want a leg of lamb....

I plan all week how im going to rob one from Tesco on Sunday morning.

OR

I go into Tesco on Sunday and think fuck it , i'm having that. and I rob it in the spur of the moment.

Would it make any difference to the crime or the punishment ?

The crime is exactly the same the difference in severity of punishment would be any mitigation I.e. serial thief or family In poverty "

But it's meat , not cornflakes.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
4 days ago

London (She/Her)


"An opportunistic killing to me is when there's been no pre-planning at all. The perpetrator hasn't been carrying a weapon or threatening the victim beforehand.

It's the word opportunistic that doesn't sit right with me.

Accidental , yes.

Opportunistic means you wanted to and when it was possible, you did."

Accidental would be manslaughter. But I get your point, how about premeditated v. spontaneous?

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By *Silver-Man
4 days ago

North Wales

In the victims case they both as bad as each other, he/she is dead either way

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By *oeBeans OP   Man
4 days ago

Derby


"An opportunistic killing to me is when there's been no pre-planning at all. The perpetrator hasn't been carrying a weapon or threatening the victim beforehand.

It's the word opportunistic that doesn't sit right with me.

Accidental , yes.

Opportunistic means you wanted to and when it was possible, you did."

That's understandable, I think it's just the umbrella term for those spur of the moment murders where it wasn't defined by a set window and it's not always accidental.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"An opportunistic killing to me is when there's been no pre-planning at all. The perpetrator hasn't been carrying a weapon or threatening the victim beforehand.

It's the word opportunistic that doesn't sit right with me.

Accidental , yes.

Opportunistic means you wanted to and when it was possible, you did.

Accidental would be manslaughter. But I get your point, how about premeditated v. spontaneous? "

Makes all the difference calling it spontaneous instead of opportunity

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By *iver78Man
3 days ago

barton upon humber

Just had this chat with some mates , and it would be hard because we have a friend who disliked someone for quite some time and he unfortunately killed him " it was a pretty lame pub fight but as we all know it happens , and he was done for manslaughter which in the eyes of the law is a lesser crime, so guess it all depends on the situation !! ??

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By *Effy-Woman
3 days ago

Scotland


"An opportunistic killing to me is when there's been no pre-planning at all. The perpetrator hasn't been carrying a weapon or threatening the victim beforehand.

It's the word opportunistic that doesn't sit right with me.

Accidental , yes.

Opportunistic means you wanted to and when it was possible, you did."

I think it's just a term they use to describe a murder that hasn't fully been planned out. Sure the perpetrator could have been waiting for the perfect opportunity to come along so they can commit the crime, but there was no, "on tuesday I'm going to murder such and such at 8pm in their home, using a knife".

The opportunity to do that was handed to them immediately before it happened.

Accidental murder is something entirely different and carries a different sentence.

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By *athomMan
3 days ago

South Coast


"I want a leg of lamb....

I plan all week how im going to rob one from Tesco on Sunday morning.

OR

I go into Tesco on Sunday and think fuck it , i'm having that. and I rob it in the spur of the moment.

Would it make any difference to the crime or the punishment ?

The crime is exactly the same the difference in severity of punishment would be any mitigation I.e. serial thief or family In poverty

But it's meat , not cornflakes."

😂 contempt of court Granny

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
3 days ago

In a galaxy far far away

Having thought about this, you have to look into the mind of the killer.

Are they calculated and cunning with prior planning? That's premeditated.

Are they unhinged, volatile and psychopathic? That could be opportunistic.

I think premeditated is worse as it shows a level of intelligence for the intent.

Clever killers are always the worst.

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By *aked beachMan
3 days ago

Just A Stranger In A Strange Land.

The UK HAS 2 levels, murder and manslaughter.

The US has 3 , which are perhaps easier to understand and explain.

Murder 1. You leave home with the explicit intention of killing someone, either a specific person or a random individual.

Murder 2. You leave home with no intention, but, say, in a fight you grab a sharp object and kill.

Both of these are within our Murder category, the Courts are responsible for determining the severity.

Murder 3 is what we class as Manslaughter. You leave home with no intention, but, say, in a fight you do something reckless that, while carrying no intention, results in a death.

Believe JoeB is talking about the distinction between M1 and M2, in US terms. M1 is obviously the worst, but for me M2 isn’t much better.

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