FabSwingers.com forum: Newbies needing guidance

By *wice my age OP Couple
4 days ago

Nottinghamshire

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
4 days ago

Round the bend

What do you need guidance on? You have 10 veris already which is pretty good going for 5 months xb

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By *Effy-Woman
4 days ago

Scotland

You're getting more penis than i am, OP. Can you give me some guidance?

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By *uckCpl26Couple
4 days ago

London

"You're getting more penis than i am, OP. Can you give me some guidance? "

Surely you're getting loads too ❤️😍 gorgeous!

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By *ousteau72Man
4 days ago

Wombourne

As a couple, it will be easier.

I hate to say it but there is a 'clique' culture which exists in swinging.

I've been involved for a number of years both as part of a couple and as a single man and the difference in how your are welcomed/accepted is huge.

However, the majority of people will be nice to you. The main thing is just being be wary/careful. It will however be a lot of fun.

Good luck x

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
4 days ago

Birmingham

Willy goes in the holes

Swinging will steal your souls

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By *wice my age OP Couple
4 days ago

Nottinghamshire

That's us we're looking for an opportunity to be watched by others to begin with and see if we like it...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 days ago

East Sussex

Where do you need guidance?

How to get meets, who to meet, where to meet, how to deal with the impact of swinging on your relationship and you as individuals?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 days ago

East Sussex

"That's us we're looking for an opportunity to be watched by others to begin with and see if we like it..."

Clubs are the best way. Some have viewing rooms, one we went to had a small room, the door locked but it had a viewing window.

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By *SexiiMan
4 days ago

Kent

"That's us we're looking for an opportunity to be watched by others to begin with and see if we like it..."

To dip your toes in..

Is this via cam/video to begin with or have someone there watching you both in person? X

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By *wice my age OP Couple
4 days ago

Nottinghamshire

"Willy goes in the holes

Swinging will steal your souls

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😂😂😂

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By *offiacoolWoman
4 days ago

Alsager

I think your age difference is a bit of a challenge as you are seeking couples. Those seeking around age 40, might not be comfortable with age 19, and vice versa.

You have 4 words on your bio, how are people supposed to gauge any possible compatibility when they have no idea of what you offer or seek ?

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By *wice my age OP Couple
4 days ago

Nottinghamshire

We have been watched on cam. Want to try in person...

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By *eyond PurityCouple
4 days ago

North East Lincolnshire

If it’s guidance on FAB and how to attract couples/ladies other than single men. Then your pics will help sway what type of people you’ll attract.

The more action shots you put up the more you’ll attract (mainly) guys who type with one hand.

Putting pics of you both will help you attract more couples/single women as they see both of you.

Writing a full bio about what you want, are looking for and what you offer, will help attract your people.

Good luck whatever you are looking for.

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By *WB85Man
4 days ago

Staffordshire

People say its easier for couples.

Have you ever tried it?

I mean yeah....its really easy to find a couple where 2 like each other. But 4 way attraction.....fucking nightmare.

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By *igpaul1967Man
4 days ago

Barnsley

Over cook onions in the pan before you add the steak, tham max heat

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By *paceballs76Man
4 days ago

withywood

Newbies needing guidance?? Maybe they do, but some people who are experienced like to be guided as well.

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By *ull of PuddinWoman
4 days ago

isle of munters

What are you actually asking OP?

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By *tannersMan
4 days ago

stanley

"You're getting more penis than i am, OP. Can you give me some guidance? "

You could video your new cake batter making technique? 😂😂😂😂

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By *ittlebirdWoman
4 days ago

The Big Smoke

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What do you want guidance on OPs. Then we may be able to help

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By *issmorganWoman
4 days ago

Calderdale innit

"We have been watched on cam. Want to try in person..."

Try a club. Loads of different rooms & you can just play with each other, where people can see.

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By *lassiccokeorpepsimaxCouple
4 days ago

Cardiff

Get involved in socials. They're great fun and you meet all sorts of wonderful, fabulous people. I've met incredible people through socials that i'd honestly consider friends now.

It's also great because you really get a feel of someone face to face, their vibe, energy etc where as over message.. it can be more difficult.

Mrs

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By *inja 636Man
4 days ago

Grays

Get in touch with dear deirdre

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By (user no longer on site)
4 days ago

I’m struggling with getting verified! I have met a couple of people on here but because there are also not verified they can’t verify me. I tried the cams but don’t want to be too needy and ask for a verification. Any suggestions

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By *altonguyMan
4 days ago

Walton On Thames Surrey

Seems to be an age thing, as I’m outside most peoples wish list, and getting verified. Don’t mind chatting online or on cam

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By *lassiccokeorpepsimaxCouple
4 days ago

Cardiff

"I’m struggling with getting verified! I have met a couple of people on here but because there are also not verified they can’t verify me. I tried the cams but don’t want to be too needy and ask for a verification. Any suggestions "

Socials. The bigger ones. If you look in your area in the forum they are sometimes posted there x

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
4 days ago

North Somerset

"People say its easier for couples.

Have you ever tried it?

I mean yeah....its really easy to find a couple where 2 like each other. But 4 way attraction.....fucking nightmare.

100% this!

It's actually twice as hard for couples than singles. Four way attraction is considerably less likely than two way.

Not the end of the world, as we've made loads of friends with other couples that we don't play with but go to clubs together and also do a lot of vanilla social activities with.

As previously mentioned, I suspect the age gap may also be an issue for some. There's a fair few years between tits and I, but we're happy to play solo too so that's less of an issue especially in clubs. But when people browse profiles it may put some off. At least these days Fab shows the oldest age when searching. For years it went by the youngest. 🤷‍♂️

Obi

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
4 days ago

London

"You're getting more penis than i am, OP. Can you give me some guidance? "

Move to London 👀

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
4 days ago

South Wales

Socials. The bigger ones. If you look in your area in the forum they are sometimes posted there x "

Definitely agree with this, group socials are a great way of meeting people and getting veris xx 😘

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