FabSwingers.com forum: Shy guys?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There seem to be a awful lot of shy guys who look on here. Any other females agree with me or maybe I just come across as scary or not their type

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Do you mean look but don't contact??

If so I just assume that they're not interested. I look at lots of profiles and if I may be inrerested in meeting someone I mail them...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you mean look but don't contact??

If so I just assume that they're not interested. I look at lots of profiles and if I may be inrerested in meeting someone I mail them...

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bit of both i guess. Ive mailed guys im interested in before. They talk about getting no replies back and a delete being rude, well ive had that too but its fine. What makes me laugh is the ones who repeatedly look but dont message. Im talking almost daily too. Whats that all about?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

The repeated lookers I also assume arent interested...

I look at lots of profiles, especially people who post on here. I often don't realise I've looked until I look again.

Also lots of the repeat lookers cant mail me due to filters... This could be the case with some of yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im shy...everyone knows it

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"im shy...everyone knows it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im far from,its not fun unless your having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a bad memory so constantly look.

Should probably us the option to turn off my visibility before someone calls the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once sent a message saying boo to a guy that was constantly looking

Next thing.....user no longer on site

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Do you mean look but don't contact??

If so I just assume that they're not interested. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The repeated lookers I also assume arent interested...

I look at lots of profiles, especially people who post on here. I often don't realise I've looked until I look again.

Also lots of the repeat lookers cant mail me due to filters... This could be the case with some of yours

yes that is the case with some of them admittedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shy honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a bad memory so constantly look.

Should probably us the option to turn off my visibility before someone calls the police."
correct me if im wrong but im sure ive spied you looking at me now and again?

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I rarely make 1st contact. I'm just a single man in a sea of single men.

I'll at least wait for a wink before talking to someone.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"im shy...everyone knows it"

And we know you talk shit too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on! Some people seriously can't have that bad a memory that they have to look multiple times in one day,if im looking at one person lots of times it means im perving

Some people are shy and thats not a bad thing at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Come on! Some people seriously can't have that bad a memory that they have to look multiple times in one day,if im looking at one person lots of times it means im perving

Some people are shy and thats not a bad thing at all"
I understand that because im shy too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on! Some people seriously can't have that bad a memory that they have to look multiple times in one day,if im looking at one person lots of times it means im perving

Fine.

I'm a shy pervert with a bad memory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on! Some people seriously can't have that bad a memory that they have to look multiple times in one day,if im looking at one person lots of times it means im perving

Fine.

I'm a shy pervert with a bad memory."

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By *ause and EffectCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I have a bad memory so constantly look.

Should probably us the option to turn off my visibility before someone calls the police."

I'm hoping that perving on here isn't a crime - else I'd be in big trouble!! Tx

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Come on! Some people seriously can't have that bad a memory that they have to look multiple times in one day,if im looking at one person lots of times it means im perving

Fine.

I'm a shy pervert with a bad memory."

Just work on the shyness and the bad memory then

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"The repeated lookers I also assume arent interested...

I look at lots of profiles, especially people who post on here. I often don't realise I've looked until I look again.

Also lots of the repeat lookers cant mail me due to filters... This could be the case with some of yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seem to be a awful lot of shy guys who look on here. Any other females agree with me or maybe I just come across as scary or not their type

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just look at yours but your to far away

so dose that make me shy because i didnt contact you

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"im shy...everyone knows it

And we know you talk shit too

Woah!!!! I thought he was always brutally honest. You live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im shy...everyone knows it

And we know you talk shit too

Woah!!!! I thought he was always brutally honest. You live and learn

in person I'm a shy wee sort...bashful looks here and there..maybe a feel of the boobies..

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By *asonblack77Man
over a year ago

birmingham

"im shy...everyone knows it

And we know you talk shi

t too

Woah!!!! I thought he was always brutally honest. You live and learn

Iam not shy at all. all I do is giving professional massage. may get in ur knickers if u want me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once sent a message saying boo to a guy that was constantly looking

Next thing.....user no longer on site

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you may of scared him

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By *r_Chips669Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm quite a shy and quiet person around new people but once the ice as been broken I'm fine just takes me a while to build up some confidence

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I look at peoples profiles, even those I have no intention of meeting. Just curious and interested and nosey. I forget who I've looked at as well so might look again and again if they are regular posters.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"im shy...everyone knows it

And we know you talk shi

t too

Woah!!!! I thought he was always brutally honest. You live and learn

Iam not shy at all. all I do is giving professional massage. may get in ur knickers if u want me to"

What, wear them?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at peoples profiles, even those I have no intention of meeting. Just curious and interested and nosey. I forget who I've looked at as well so might look again and again if they are regular posters.

me too.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"im shy...everyone knows it

And we know you talk shit too

Woah!!!! I thought he was always brutally honest. You live and learn

in person I'm a shy wee sort...bashful looks here and there..maybe a feel of the boobies..

Hmmmm....a sly tweaker....a thigh toucher....an 'accidental' crotch brusher....the sort of person who deliberately sits by doors then leaps up to go through at the same time as a lady as to make 'unintentional' body contact in which the social gyrations of trying to let the other person go first result in a good feel.

Or not

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

me too."

Ooh! Read mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There seem to be a awful lot of shy guys who look on here. Any other females agree with me or maybe I just come across as scary or not their type

I find that I get the same. Even had guys tell female friends of mine they want to meet me but won't contact me themselves. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once sent a message saying boo to a guy that was constantly looking

Next thing.....user no longer on site

you may of scared him "

if a message from me saying boo scared him off the site then thats probably for the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once sent a message saying boo to a guy that was constantly looking

Next thing.....user no longer on site

you may of scared him

if a message from me saying boo scared him off the site then thats probably for the best

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true yes im amazed he ignored you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I once sent a message saying boo to a guy that was constantly looking

Next thing.....user no longer on site

you may of scared him

if a message from me saying boo scared him off the site then thats probably for the best

true yes im amazed he ignored you"

as the next message might have been 'tiful'

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By *kip9tailsMan
over a year ago

poole

Hi Sweetie, Maybe it's because you are married. x

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Perhaps they're just cracking one off over your pics

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

There are and always will be lurkers on here, I just let them look, after all what's the harm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im far from,its not fun unless your having fun

I'm pretty shy sometimes but doesn't stop me having fun!!!Maybe we're a wee bit more respectful to peoples profiles and what they're looking for...I'll read a profile fully but don't message if I'm not what they're looking for in any way!!!!

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Think I am going to message more people.

But I can't cope with rejection

(In the campest Dr Smith voice) The pain, oh the pain)

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I've come to the conclusion that the majority of the women on here are shy. It's the only logical reason I can think of why my inbox isn't exploding. It's either that or my muddy penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've come to the conclusion that the majority of the women on here are shy. It's the only logical reason I can think of why my inbox isn't exploding. It's either that or my muddy penis. "

I thought it was sandy from falling of Noddy?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I've come to the conclusion that the majority of the women on here are shy. It's the only logical reason I can think of why my inbox isn't exploding. It's either that or my muddy penis.

I thought it was sandy from falling of Noddy?

I attempted to wash it off in a puddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The repeated lookers I also assume arent interested...

I look at lots of profiles, especially people who post on here. I often don't realise I've looked until I look again.

Also lots of the repeat lookers cant mail me due to filters... This could be the case with some of yours

Same for me, sometimes I don't realize I saw a profile before...

Or sometimes, I just don't have anything to write in a message so I leave the profile until I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've come to the conclusion that the majority of the women on here are shy. It's the only logical reason I can think of why my inbox isn't exploding. It's either that or my muddy penis.

I thought it was sandy from falling of Noddy?

I attempted to wash it off in a puddle

there is deffo something sticky in his profile

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Im cripplingly shy im sure you've all noticed its a curse you now........runs back to my dark corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the main reasons I use stealth mode x

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"One of the main reasons I use stealth mode x "

perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thank god there is stealth mode

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"One of the main reasons I use stealth mode x "

I'm a stealth girl as well

Saves a lot of hassle

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"thank god there is stealth mode

there is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thank god there is stealth mode

there is

bloody right there is ............... if only some people knew

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"thank god there is stealth mode

there is

bloody right there is ............... if only some people knew

thats bloody cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thank god there is stealth mode

there is

bloody right there is ............... if only some people knew

thats bloody cheating

of course - how do u think I got the name Minx ................ its not by doing things by the book is it

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"thank god there is stealth mode

there is

bloody right there is ............... if only some people knew

thats bloody cheating

of course - how do u think I got the name Minx ................ its not by doing things by the book is it

cant really agree more. Rules are for breaking well mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im shy...everyone knows it

Yeah your profile clearly (doesn't) show how shy you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may look at the same profile several times because I've forgotten what's on it. Once I've twigged I don't fit the criteria I usually stop...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think that work's both ways scorpio, I look at lots of profile's and ok there are one's you have to rule out for some reason's like smoking etc but always send a polite email and lots never get replied, that's a bit rude i think ?

What you think ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There seem to be a awful lot of shy guys who look on here. Any other females agree with me or maybe I just come across as scary or not their type

just look at yours but your to far away

so dose that make me shy because i didnt contact you"
No it makes it sensible cos we are too far away, I would do the same to a guy too far away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"think that work's both ways scorpio, I look at lots of profile's and ok there are one's you have to rule out for some reason's like smoking etc but always send a polite email and lots never get replied, that's a bit rude i think ?

What you think ?

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\i always send a polite decline if needed or a polite yes back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like someone I tell them, no use beating about the bush, I mean they might say no if I ask if they like me too, but if I DON'T ask then that's a no by default.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi Sweetie, Maybe it's because you are married. x"
Maybe, but apparently some guys like that? so ive been told.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"Hi Sweetie, Maybe it's because you are married. x Maybe, but apparently some guys like that? so ive been told. "

Or maybe they realise your OH isn't aware of you being on here and hence want to avoid that. Just a thought.

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

"I once sent a message saying boo to a guy that was constantly looking

Next thing.....user no longer on site

you may of scared him

if a message from me saying boo scared him off the site then thats probably for the best

Maybe he thought you recognised him from real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys are shy because being shot down on here by messaging women and getting the read and delete. So I tend to just wait around now for women to message myself if interested obviously anyone would message back in their right mind haha I think I need to become a site member and see who's spying on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some guys are shy because being shot down on here by messaging women and getting the read and delete. So I tend to just wait around now for women to message myself if interes obviously anyone would message back in their right mind haha I think I need to become a site member and see who's spying on my profile

I can understand that,it must make people a bit wary if they feel they're always ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot more shy girls in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like perving, sorry, looking at the pics lol

Seriously though, I agree with the post by essexip, I find myself very hesitant in making contact due to lots of knock backs as such, even after taking the time to fully read profiles.

So you could call me a silent stalker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just like perving, sorry, looking at the pics lol

Seriously though, I agree with the post by essexip, I find myself very hesitant in making contact due to lots of knock backs as such, even after taking the time to fully read profiles.

So you could call me a silent stalker

Silent stalking until they message you ... Haha works a treat sometimes or they can think your a raving weirdo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got nothing to lose to be quite honest so you might as well give it a shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've got nothing to lose to be quite honest so you might as well give it a shot."

Ego dent haha it's not the best rejection.

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

some profiles you just keep stumbling across, especially if your looking in your area all the time, and others you keep looking at because the girls pictures are sooo sexy

some people you don't message because your sure they wont be interested in you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've got nothing to lose to be quite honest so you might as well give it a shot."

I used to think that, unfortunately lots of unanswered messages later does make you wary. I totally understand and appreciate the reasons people don't reply, but it does take its toll after a while.

Crikey, getting too in depth there for a Saturday night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shy guys tend not to message because they either like you and don't know what to say to get your attention or they think you aren't interested in them and you only like confident guys.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i do look at your profile sometimes but your too far away to sort out a meet . im not shy .. just a practical perver perhaps i should go stealth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some profiles you just keep stumbling across, especially if your looking in your area all the time, and others you keep looking at because the girls pictures are sooo sexy

some people you don't message because your sure they wont be interested in you lol"

U sound like me

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"some profiles you just keep stumbling across, especially if your looking in your area all the time, and others you keep looking at because the girls pictures are sooo sexy

some people you don't message because your sure they wont be interested in you lol

U sound like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some profiles you just keep stumbling across, especially if your looking in your area all the time, and others you keep looking at because the girls pictures are sooo sexy

some people you don't message because your sure they wont be interested in you lol

U sound like me

Please stop waving yr bum in my face as I'll have to perv u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shy and almost proud lol

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