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By *Mclovin. OP   Man
7 days ago

East Yorkshire

Hey everyone,

Just looking for opinions and a bit of honest feedback...

Can a guy have too many verifications on display? I’ve built up a nice collection over time. I show some, but not all.

I also tend to meet people more than once because I genuinely enjoy getting to know someone, and I think that says a lot more about a person than a number on a profile.

But I'm curious... when couples or single ladies see a profile with lots of verifications, do you actually stop and look at them, or do you just see a number and move on?

Asking purely because of a comment that was made to me recently, and now you've got me wondering! 😄

Thanks in advance. Xx

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By *Effy-Woman
7 days ago

Scotland

18 isn't a lot.

The amount of verifications someone has doesn't bother me too much. Some people are regular club goers or attend lots of socials and will naturally have more verifications.

I care more about the type of people you are meeting than the number.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
7 days ago

Round the bend

I stop and read them. The amount isn't offputting as I know some people can have a lot of social veris, but if someone was meeting someone new week in week out, that would be a massive turn off for me personally.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
7 days ago

Round the bend


"18 isn't a lot.

I care more about the type of people you are meeting than the number."

And this 100%

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
7 days ago

North Somerset

Content is more important than the number.

The volume of verifications doesn't bother us at all. What's been said and by who? That might. 🤷‍♂️

Obi

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By *weetiepie99Woman
7 days ago

cardiff

I dont read them, dont like them, dont want them. Its like Trip Adviser for sex. You wouldnt ask someone who they had met away from here, so?...

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By *iver78Man
7 days ago

barton upon humber

I dont see verifications as anything , I get why couples have them , never got the descriptive ones !! And find them a bit odd lol , but as people have mentioned everyone has to start somewhere,and 4 or 5 good verifications doesent mean there going to be good with you / me

ID verifications I do get though

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
7 days ago

In a galaxy far far away


"I dont read them, dont like them, dont want them. Its like Trip Adviser for sex. You wouldnt ask someone who they had met away from here, so?..."

This is my view also.

I've had a couple of meets and the last thing I want is for everyone to know who or how many I've shagged.

My sex life is private.

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By *parkle1974Woman
7 days ago

Leeds

The graphic ones put me off...

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
7 days ago

Round the bend

I like it when they give an insight on someone's personality. However, I don't need to read that Dave knocked the back out of someone for hours on end and made her squirt like a water pistol 23 times.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
7 days ago

Reading

Graphic verifications put me off more than the number. If I see explicit detail in a verification it's a good indication that I won't get on with that person!

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By *ongandthick888Man
7 days ago

Leeds

It depends on context. There’s a difference between 100 verifications from attractive healthy looking people vs 5 from questionable characters.

Similarly it depends on my mood. Sometimes I prefer reserved types. Sometimes I want pure sexual no strings situation. It’s sort of similar to how I put my verifications on or off depending on my mood.

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By *iver78Man
7 days ago

barton upon humber


"I like it when they give an insight on someone's personality. However, I don't need to read that Dave knocked the back out of someone for hours on end and made her squirt like a water pistol 23 times. "

Exactly and for couples I can understand the ones that say stuff like lovely couple etc , but yeah do anyone wanna know what you actually got up to ?

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By *oiluvfunMan
7 days ago

Penrith

You have 7 meet verifications from this year alone OP, so I doubt whatever you are doing with your profile, is affecting your opportunities to meet others.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
7 days ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

My veris are a combination of social and repeat meets, not really after a string of notches on the bed post

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
7 days ago

Gloucestershire

I don’t personally have any on my current account, and in the past I chose not to display them as they’re not something I put too much weight on.

It’s also hard to compare, someone who’s been on the site 10 years is naturally going to have far more verifications than someone who’s only been on a few weeks.

Not all verifications are equal either. Some are just webcam ones (which I don’t really count), while others come from socials or club meets, so the context matters.

For me, I’m more interested in the quality than the quantity, how often they meet people, what’s actually written, and even how they write for others. Are they respectful? Genuine?

At the end of the day though, it’s only one part of the picture, my own vetting through conversation is far more important.

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By *eroLondonMan
7 days ago

Mayfair

Generally speaking whatever praise or high regard is gained from a clutch of verifications...are sometimes invalidated by the profile's videos or photographs.

Action shots, gratuitous group play or seminal fluids can potentially nullify any good impressions gleaned from those wonderful verifications.

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By *hunderaceMan
7 days ago

Dudley

I had about 40+ on my previous 8yr profile, most were from social events & random lingerie sales staff...

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
7 days ago

South Wales

I do have a look at veris but the number of them doesn’t bother me at all. It’s more to see who they’re meeting and maybe give an insight into what they like etc……we have a mix of meet veris and social veris which I think is important as a couple because there’s no pics of my husband on here so at least people know he does exist! Xx 😄😄

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By *uonline69Man
7 days ago

Saddleworth, UK

I recently had a fantastic meet, bit she's not here for the verifs and we agreed not to. It really made me think twice about verifs to be fair.

They are a proof you are real and your profile is accurate, and it's also a proof that someone can have fun with you ... But then this should be a platform about trust anyway so who is it really for?

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By *iver78Man
7 days ago

barton upon humber


"I recently had a fantastic meet, bit she's not here for the verifs and we agreed not to. It really made me think twice about verifs to be fair.

They are a proof you are real and your profile is accurate, and it's also a proof that someone can have fun with you ... But then this should be a platform about trust anyway so who is it really for?"

Very true , I had socials were at the end they have literally said " dont forget to leave me a veri and I will do you one !?

The last one I left one for i simple put "pretty lady but rude and shallow , oddly she blocked me , which made the whole its not me situation a lot easier lol

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
7 days ago

Round the bend


"I like it when they give an insight on someone's personality. However, I don't need to read that Dave knocked the back out of someone for hours on end and made her squirt like a water pistol 23 times. "

I will change ours then and it was 18 times!! Im not a robot

Mr 🐺

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By *harAndBryCouple
7 days ago

Downham Market

We never see any number as "too many". We've been here seven years and if we'd managed the one meet per week that we'd like, we'd have over 300 verifications. But people have told us that we've got too many.

We rarely read verifications, but do scan through and back track some. We've had guys with a handful of verifications from single women, all of whom had hidden their profiles. We've had people with tens of verifications all from the same person.

We like to see a meet verification in the past year to show the person does leave the house, and there's nothing better than seeing a verification from someone we know, of from someone who themselves has been verified by someone we know.

We certainly don't want or display or read graphic verifications....they always tend to feel a bit iffy.

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By *harAndBryCouple
7 days ago

Downham Market


"The last one I left one for i simple put "pretty lady but rude and shallow""

Unfortunately negative verifications work the exact opposite to how they're intended on here. She'll simply not display that one but it will still show that she's been verified in her totals.

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By *inkPomPomWoman
7 days ago

Isle of Man

It depends

If someone has tonnes and they're all meets I'm a little wary

Plus people absolutely lie on veris

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By *ino200Man
7 days ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna


"Hey everyone,

Just looking for opinions and a bit of honest feedback...

Can a guy have too many verifications on display? I’ve built up a nice collection over time. I show some, but not all.

I also tend to meet people more than once because I genuinely enjoy getting to know someone, and I think that says a lot more about a person than a number on a profile.

But I'm curious... when couples or single ladies see a profile with lots of verifications, do you actually stop and look at them, or do you just see a number and move on?

Asking purely because of a comment that was made to me recently, and now you've got me wondering! 😄

Thanks in advance. Xx"
Are they the right verifications from the right people if not they could work against you

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By *ympho6969Woman
7 days ago

glasgow

Im not put off by volume. Like most have said, I would be interested in content.

Are they all cam veri?

Are a lot socials but no actual meets? Or are they all meets?

Im looking for regular, not volume, so naturally look for clues in veris

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By *andomDickMan
7 days ago

Northern England

On my other profile I had 4-5 veris from the same Women over the years, All either social events or private parties,

Having loads of "meet" veri's will put some people off especially if they like to keep their fab friends circle small, for others it just proves you're experienced in meeting and more then likely turn up if asked about a meet

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By *inglePringle101Man
13 hours ago

Sible / Hedingham

This is actually a great topic,

I now have 3 veri's and what I've noticed is a huge increase in guys viewing my profile. Now I can only assume the tool is being used by guys when looking at a woman to check out the type of guy rather than the content.

That said, despite receiving recent ones, I cant say I've had any increase in women or couples interested.

Glad to see some read and others as similar to the above.

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By *cFlirtyMan
12 hours ago

midhurst

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By *essTTWoman
12 hours ago

Birmingham

The amount of verifications doesn't bother me.

However I don't like overly graphic ones and I probably won't meet someone if they have met known BB girls or if the verifications imply that they are a BB meeter.

But I will check out the profiles of the people who has sent them because I want to see if I am actually the persons type or not.

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By *essTTWoman
12 hours ago

Birmingham


"This is actually a great topic,

I now have 3 veri's and what I've noticed is a huge increase in guys viewing my profile. Now I can only assume the tool is being used by guys when looking at a woman to check out the type of guy rather than the content.

That said, despite receiving recent ones, I cant say I've had any increase in women or couples interested.

Glad to see some read and others as similar to the above.

"

I'm glad you said this because for some reason men on here think that the more verifications they have the more chance they have at getting a meet, where as (for me at least) I only use is to confirm that you are an actual person

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
11 hours ago

Central

Not for me, can he have too many

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
7 hours ago

Bognor Regis

It doesn't bother me the amount, it's typically what they say.

If it's a list of bedroom activities I find it a bit meh but they're not my verifications or my profile so who am I to judge it too harshly.

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