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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As we are now finding it difficult to accommodate for a meet due to family commitments we are now considering using a hotel but were wondering do people who arrange hotel meets share the cost between them or what .....just wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't bother meeting with them if they weren't willing to go half if neither of you could accomodate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so it is a sort of etiquette to share costs of hotel meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know, I'm no expert (in this context) and have never been in that position but it would just seem like general manners to me.

Maybe if you had already booked the hotel (like you were on holiday or something) and were staying there it wouldn't be necessary but I'm pretty sure most people would still offer?

I may be way out here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No your probably right just something we thought we should try and find out before we do ... as you say its good manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I used to play as a couple, we would book the hotel and pay for it, expecting no payment towards the cost from the other couple. We preferred it this way because we could then use the room before and after the meet. Everyone is different though, perhaps the other couple would prefer to pay half?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I used to play as a couple, we would book the hotel and pay for it, expecting no payment towards the cost from the other couple. We preferred it this way because we could then use the room before and after the meet. Everyone is different though, perhaps the other couple would prefer to pay half?"

Argh you have a good point there ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew I wasn't the right person to answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know, I'm no expert (in this context) and have never been in that position but it would just seem like general manners to me.

Maybe if you had already booked the hotel (like you were on holiday or something) and were staying there it wouldn't be necessary but I'm pretty sure most people would still offer?

I may be way out here..."
your advice was good, most people would offer and in our case often did x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I knew I wasn't the right person to answer!"

yes your advice was good that's the reason we asked in here to get advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we are now finding it difficult to accommodate for a meet due to family commitments we are now considering using a hotel but were wondering do people who arrange hotel meets share the cost between them or what .....just wondering "

Some people are tight arses, some generous so if you are arranging a meet unless you sort out that before booking then often the person who books ends up with the bill. Sharing is the norm though unless someone is staying overnight in the room then its their bill.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes we think we have the general idea of this now and thanks for your help everyone

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Even in today's equality times there's some things a fella should always pay for in my view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we are now finding it difficult to accommodate for a meet due to family commitments we are now considering using a hotel but were wondering do people who arrange hotel meets share the cost between them or what .....just wondering "
I use a local motel nice and comfy no prying eyes (well maybe one) and Mr Bates makes a great breakfast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always settle the bill!

*90% of the time with my company credit card!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a separate note - have you considered clubs?

Given your location - you're spoilt for choice (blatant plug for the forum social at Cupids on 27th July! lol) and it's a great way to socialise, arrange to meet other people there with no expectancy - and for couples usually pretty reasonable. And if you plan in advance you can get a shagalodge or pervier inn for under ?30!

All in all a bit of a bargain and a great night out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some would split the cost according to the number of participants, e.g. 3 ways for the couple to pay 2/3, and for the gent/lady to pay 1/3.

Others would split it 50/50 depending on the number of participating units, e.g. a couple + a single = 2 units.

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By *ngie1962Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

When we have used hotels we've assumed the person / couple that instigated the meet pay .. It works for us

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york

I have had 4 hotel meets when the room was used only for the meet. I paid. Some friends of mine who were on here made it clear that they would play in a hotel but the other party was to arrange and pay. It was clear and straightforward.

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