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Definitely not ready to move on...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Went walking with the pooch today, and saw my late partner's boat moared up near Devizes Marina.

The dog recognised it straight away and wanted to go on board.

I said to him it was only a boat, as my late partner (his original owner) had gone forever.

He seemed to understand what I meant and calmed down.

I was in bits, as it was the first time I saw the boat again after removing my belongings over a year ago after his death.

I guess I can ticked off another hurdle on the route of recovery!

Onwards and upwards they say!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Big hugs to you

Must be so difficult but as you say another box ticked

Stay strong you lovely lady

Yvonne

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hugs ((((((((((( Pearl )))))))))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep its hard hun

But material things and places that you both knew are nowt

Hes in ya heart and that's all that matters xxx

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"Yep its hard hun

But material things and places that you both knew are nowt

Hes in ya heart and that's all that matters xxx"

Very well put Craig. Hugs to you Pearl.

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By *xstephbxxCouple
over a year ago

hyde

" Definitely not ready to move on... " but certainly on the right track to enjoy life. Found that instead of that silent tear, its better to have that little smile that a loved one always managed to somehow bring to you

x Hug's x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks peeps for your support when I need it most.

I am sure the pooch misses him as much as I do.

The cat probably misses him a little, LOL!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Went walking with the pooch today, and saw my late partner's boat moared up near Devizes Marina.

The dog recognised it straight away and wanted to go on board.

I said to him it was only a boat, as my late partner (his original owner) had gone forever.

He seemed to understand what I meant and calmed down.

I was in bits, as it was the first time I saw the boat again after removing my belongings over a year ago after his death.

I guess I can ticked off another hurdle on the route of recovery!

Onwards and upwards they say! "

I think you are being hard on yourself expecting things too quick.

It takes time to get over these things, give yourself it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

~¤~Hugs~¤~

Arc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you are being hard on yourself expecting things too quick.

It takes time to get over these things, give yourself it xxx"

.

You'd probably right in that I have unrealistic expectations.

I thought I have done well to compartmentalise the sadness relating to his death so far.

However, it just shows it does not take a lot to open the emotional floodgate again!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"~¤~Hugs~¤~

Arc"

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Thanks, hugs back to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a huge huge VIEW hug xxxx

and will cop a wee grope of yur bum xxx

xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"a huge huge VIEW hug xxxx

and will cop a wee grope of yur bum xxx

xxxxxxxx"

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You can grope as much as you like, and thanks!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

I'm not saying this applies in your situation Pearly, but acceptance of a situation is half the battle to recovery

I've sent you an email.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

big hugs from us xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pearl, six years on for me and there are still moments when I see things, or smell an aftershave and memories come rushing back, they take my breath away.... he will always be part of you. Coping with it is hard but it will get easier daily. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not saying this applies in your situation Pearly, but acceptance of a situation is half the battle to recovery

I've sent you an email."

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Got it and thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks mznwty and laine for your support.

It does get easier as time passes, it's just the odd moment like this that throws me off 6, that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you was to send me a pik of your boobs...Would that help?...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you was to send me a pik of your boobs...Would that help?... "

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LOL, not for me, however, you may get a kick out of it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you was to send me a pik of your boobs...Would that help?... "

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Besides, you can see the pics already!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you was to send me a pik of your boobs...Would that help?...

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Besides, you can see the pics already!!! "

OK! Only trying to help the pik was not for me but for you to send to me thus helping you move on...One with stockings would be nice....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OK! Only trying to help the pik was not for me but for you to send to me thus helping you move on...One with stockings would be nice.... "

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PMSL!!!

You've got access to that one too!

And it is working btw.

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