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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent

If someone messages you and you just delete the message without responding and they message you again do they still get the message to say that they messaged you and you didn't answer??

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

i'm sure they do - and choose to ignore it! Z

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

not sure what you mean .. but i ll message you and you can delete me then ill send it again and see what happens .. then i ll message you and tell you what happened. just dont delete it till youve read it

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"i'm sure they do - and choose to ignore it! Z"

I thought maybe it had been stopped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm sure they do - and choose to ignore it! Z

I thought maybe it had been stopped. "

Yes they do.

Did you not reply with a suitably sarcastic response or have you given up on that plan already?

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"not sure what you mean .. but i ll message you and you can delete me then ill send it again and see what happens .. then i ll message you and tell you what happened. just dont delete it till youve read it "

Not sure it will work with you as we have exchanged pm before x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yes they do. I send out loads of confirmations for the BBW socials and I see that message all the time lol

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"i'm sure they do - and choose to ignore it! Z

I thought maybe it had been stopped.

Yes they do.

Did you not reply with a suitably sarcastic response or have you given up on that plan already? "

I don't have the energy today. If the warning still gets sent then full marks for perseverance. Some are on the 5th or 6th attempt with the same opener over a period of weeks. Lol x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

true x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"Yes they do. I send out loads of confirmations for the BBW socials and I see that message all the time lol"

And do site supporters and non site supporters both get it?? X

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

It's the same with winks, we,ve had a couple of times with different members received winks on 3 or 4 separate occasions. Most people surely would wink back or message if they were interested. Of course we welcome them it's flattering. In the end we wrote just to say they weren't what we were looking for.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

My favourite message was the one asking me why he's getting the warning. I wonder!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

yes i did not get the youve messaged this person message this time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We delete and then block , it saves their time as well as ours.

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We received a wonderfully crafted message rom a gentleman today which said.....

'hi'

Couldn't resist checking out his profile to see if he had used the same eloquence in his profile and we weren't disappointed......

'sex'

He must be inundated with offers from women waiting to be swept off their feet

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"We delete and then block , it saves their time as well as ours. "

Think I'm going to start doing that. I was trying to keep my block list to people who have just been rude etc but its time just to bite the bullet x

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Delete and block is good x

Sadly you ladies do sometimes receive and delete messages without making any analysis

I have messaged the same person who has deleted a message over 4 times I changed the message title and had reply back on further chat they had not seen previous messages and glad I persisted which I must sadly admit often I don't but if their profile screams we should be compatible I'm usually right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We delete and then block , it saves their time as well as ours.

Think I'm going to start doing that. I was trying to keep my block list to people who have just been rude etc but its time just to bite the bullet x"

We don't look on it as being rude , some people will genuinely forget they've mailed you. On the other hand there is a lot who won't take no for an answer.

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"Delete and block is good x

Sadly you ladies do sometimes receive and delete messages without making any analysis

I have messaged the same person who has deleted a message over 4 times I changed the message title and had reply back on further chat they had not seen previous messages and glad I persisted which I must sadly admit often I don't but if their profile screams we should be compatible I'm usually right x"

The repeat offenders are usually ones who aren't compatible. And who haven't bothered reading my profile at all. I do try and reply to those that I think have made an effort even if I'm not interested.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Someone said to me earlier that is says something that I can't even pull a BBW on fab... lol I find messages funny..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pointed out to one man that he'd messaged me three times in the last few weeks and he was daft enough to message back to ask what my answers were lol What a plank

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"Someone said to me earlier that is says something that I can't even pull a BBW on fab... lol I find messages funny.."

Yeah it makes me laugh if I get a nasty one that they think will have me sobbing into my cocoa. Especially when they were being all nice till they get turned down! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We delete and then block , it saves their time as well as ours.

Think I'm going to start doing that. I was trying to keep my block list to people who have just been rude etc but its time just to bite the bullet x"

Now you know why people do it....

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