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"It was a dude dude It wasn't " it pr9bly was either that or AI trying to get a veri to yank a chain spy or whatever other reason | |||
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"It was a dude dude It wasn't " I think it could have been | |||
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"It was a dude dude It wasn't " How do you know it was a woman? | |||
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"It was a dude dude It wasn't " How can you be sure? Or an AI bot possibly. The language about lots of fans seemed very odd to me. But, there are some very odd people on here I've found. | |||
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"So this is another brown π© stain to my fab experience... here's the full story... Last week I get a message from a woman, with a very polite approach..." can I add you so I can see your updates, your profile is gorgeous " , she says...and I gratefully accept. Two days later out of nowhere she sends me another message..."A bit of harmless fun...could you leave me a filthy verification...you will get plenty of fans after"...π€¨π€π§...ππ©π. So me confused I ask "What would I be verifying you regarding, since we haven't met face to face?". She than goes on to say ..." Yeah I know but who cares, you're one of the hottest guys on fab...just how we spent a filthy hot night togheter " .... πΆππ€―. At that point I respectfuly decline as lying goes against my morals. For almost 3 days she doesn't say anything and than drops this message ..." lol OK...it's just a sex site not county court" . Now that did infuriate me...gaslighting + passive aggressiveness just makes my blood boil. So ultimately I tell her I find dishonesty disgusting and block her...and that should have been all, but here I am days later and this still creeps in the back of my head. I guess I just needed to get it off my chest...but the dishonest approach some people have on this site, with the pathetic excuse of just being "a sex site", does amaze me. If you're willing to lie about verifications, what else are you willing to lie about Obviously it's someone / or a bot looking to set up a fake profile as genuine. You did the right thing, but also report it to admin. I can see some guys here might have fallen for the honey / horny trap, but there's a reason why verifications exist - so people can be verified as genuine through webcams or physical meeting in person. The means in which you someone tried to coerce a verification may seem innocent, but the end result could have been malicious for someone. Don't feel bad about doing the right thing! | |||
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"It was a dude dude It wasn't How do you know it was a woman?" It's a years old profile with multiple pictures of the same person (throughout the years) and dozens of verifications from men, women and couples. | |||
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"It was a dude dude It wasn't How do you know it was a woman? It's a years old profile with multiple pictures of the same person (throughout the years) and dozens of verifications from men, women and couples." I'm struggling to understand what they have to gain from that | |||
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"It was a dude dude It wasn't How do you know it was a woman? It's a years old profile with multiple pictures of the same person (throughout the years) and dozens of verifications from men, women and couples." all them veris could have happened how she/he/it tried with you my guess its a loner with no maters on the wind up bud sorry you copped for it | |||
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"Im not trying to play the cunt op just sounds to sus to be a real legit person if she boinked you another story but sounds like they tried a scam for some reason" For me the reason would be to brag or try to make someone else jealous...I don't understand why everytime a woman does something wrong on this site, it gets deflected to "it's probably a guy" | |||
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"It was a dude dude It wasn't How do you know it was a woman? It's a years old profile with multiple pictures of the same person (throughout the years) and dozens of verifications from men, women and couples." Wether itβs a woman or man or AI Iβm almost certain this is a pretty unique situation in the grand scheme of things. Iβm sure other examples exist but relatively isolated. So I wouldnβt really spend too many minutes thinking about it | |||
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"On my old account i would login somedays to find a verification from someone i had never met and a message saying, hey i've verified you, as if i would think it was wonderful that someone i had never met was lying and saying they had. Its even more frustrating when you cant delete them. Nothing strange as folk though. Thats why i take some veris with a pinch of salt." β’ Probably a below average woman pretending to be an above average man. Block these miscreants. | |||
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"Im not trying to play the cunt op just sounds to sus to be a real legit person if she boinked you another story but sounds like they tried a scam for some reason For me the reason would be to brag or try to make someone else jealous...I don't understand why everytime a woman does something wrong on this site, it gets deflected to "it's probably a guy"" even if it is a bird shes likely only doing it too boost her own profile some folks get off on being the veri king/queen maybe she normally bangs munters and wants to get some bangable ones on the advert herself if it even is a chick | |||
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"It was a dude dude It wasn't How do you know it was a woman? It's a years old profile with multiple pictures of the same person (throughout the years) and dozens of verifications from men, women and couples." It's very strange she asked for a verification if she's got dozens. Many profiles have fake verifications but not normally dozens. You should have blocked and reported her after she asked for a verification when you haven't met. It's all a bit strange. | |||
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"Im not trying to play the cunt op just sounds to sus to be a real legit person if she boinked you another story but sounds like they tried a scam for some reason For me the reason would be to brag or try to make someone else jealous...I don't understand why everytime a woman does something wrong on this site, it gets deflected to "it's probably a guy"" Because we never do anything wrong | |||
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"Im not trying to play the cunt op just sounds to sus to be a real legit person if she boinked you another story but sounds like they tried a scam for some reason For me the reason would be to brag or try to make someone else jealous...I don't understand why everytime a woman does something wrong on this site, it gets deflected to "it's probably a guy" Because we never do anything wrong its you aint it nora eh | |||
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"It was a dude dude It wasn't How do you know it was a woman?" she put an x after every message with a β€ | |||
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"Im not trying to play the cunt op just sounds to sus to be a real legit person if she boinked you another story but sounds like they tried a scam for some reason For me the reason would be to brag or try to make someone else jealous...I don't understand why everytime a woman does something wrong on this site, it gets deflected to "it's probably a guy" Because we never do anything wrong | |||
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"It was a dude dude It wasn't How do you know it was a woman? It's a years old profile with multiple pictures of the same person (throughout the years) and dozens of verifications from men, women and couples." So, this account holder who approached you for a fraudulent verification is definitely a woman, based in no small part on a large number of (definitely not) fraudulent verifications? Oh, ok | |||
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"It was a dude dude It wasn't How do you know it was a woman? It's a years old profile with multiple pictures of the same person (throughout the years) and dozens of verifications from men, women and couples. So, this account holder who approached you for a fraudulent verification is definitely a woman, based in no small part on a large number of (definitely not) fraudulent verifications? Oh, ok" Ok fine I can't 100% be certain, as I haven't met them face to face, but based on the way the profile looks, it seems to be a woman...I have screenshot of the interaction and profile...I'm happy to send it and you can see for yourself. This idea that women can't do anything like this is just boring and this point... | |||
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"Im not trying to play the cunt op just sounds to sus to be a real legit person if she boinked you another story but sounds like they tried a scam for some reason For me the reason would be to brag or try to make someone else jealous...I don't understand why everytime a woman does something wrong on this site, it gets deflected to "it's probably a guy"" It's because though there are a lot of genuine women on here, there are also a lot of women's profiles with a man behind it. Genuine women generally behave, message and comment in a different manner to the ones that are actually a man. | |||
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"Im not trying to play the cunt op just sounds to sus to be a real legit person if she boinked you another story but sounds like they tried a scam for some reason For me the reason would be to brag or try to make someone else jealous...I don't understand why everytime a woman does something wrong on this site, it gets deflected to "it's probably a guy" It's because though there are a lot of genuine women on here, there are also a lot of women's profiles with a man behind it. Genuine women generally behave, message and comment in a different manner to the ones that are actually a man." That doesn't mean that a woman on fab cannot behave in the manner I just described above...I have the screenshot, if you want to see the profile in question...and you can make a decision about it being a woman or man based on looking at it. | |||
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"Im not trying to play the cunt op just sounds to sus to be a real legit person if she boinked you another story but sounds like they tried a scam for some reason For me the reason would be to brag or try to make someone else jealous...I don't understand why everytime a woman does something wrong on this site, it gets deflected to "it's probably a guy" It's because though there are a lot of genuine women on here, there are also a lot of women's profiles with a man behind it. Genuine women generally behave, message and comment in a different manner to the ones that are actually a man. That doesn't mean that a woman on fab cannot behave in the manner I just described above...I have the screenshot, if you want to see the profile in question...and you can make a decision about it being a woman or man based on looking at it. " There's no need. Have you reported the profile? | |||
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"...she offered me an oily hand job for 50 quid... " what, did she work offshore in the Brent Field? | |||
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"Im not trying to play the cunt op just sounds to sus to be a real legit person if she boinked you another story but sounds like they tried a scam for some reason For me the reason would be to brag or try to make someone else jealous...I don't understand why everytime a woman does something wrong on this site, it gets deflected to "it's probably a guy" It's because though there are a lot of genuine women on here, there are also a lot of women's profiles with a man behind it. Genuine women generally behave, message and comment in a different manner to the ones that are actually a man. That doesn't mean that a woman on fab cannot behave in the manner I just described above...I have the screenshot, if you want to see the profile in question...and you can make a decision about it being a woman or man based on looking at it. There's no need. Have you reported the profile?" There seems to be a need if there are so many people on fab believing a woman cannot behave in an immoral manner...it's honestly disheartening | |||
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"Im not trying to play the cunt op just sounds to sus to be a real legit person if she boinked you another story but sounds like they tried a scam for some reason For me the reason would be to brag or try to make someone else jealous...I don't understand why everytime a woman does something wrong on this site, it gets deflected to "it's probably a guy" It's because though there are a lot of genuine women on here, there are also a lot of women's profiles with a man behind it. Genuine women generally behave, message and comment in a different manner to the ones that are actually a man. That doesn't mean that a woman on fab cannot behave in the manner I just described above...I have the screenshot, if you want to see the profile in question...and you can make a decision about it being a woman or man based on looking at it. There's no need. Have you reported the profile? There seems to be a need if there are so many people on fab believing a woman cannot behave in an immoral manner...it's honestly disheartening " woah woah woah d9nt get me wrong women can be right cunts when in the mood but anyone be it man woman or inbetween doing it removes the point of them all together | |||
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"Im not trying to play the cunt op just sounds to sus to be a real legit person if she boinked you another story but sounds like they tried a scam for some reason For me the reason would be to brag or try to make someone else jealous...I don't understand why everytime a woman does something wrong on this site, it gets deflected to "it's probably a guy" It's because though there are a lot of genuine women on here, there are also a lot of women's profiles with a man behind it. Genuine women generally behave, message and comment in a different manner to the ones that are actually a man." I am noticing more and more men using photos that aren't of them. G**gle lens can be helpful in finding out who is catfishing, but I imagine the amount of men pretending to be women is much higher. I think I'm just the type of woman men like to catfish. | |||
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"All manner of bull shit is allowed because "it's a sex site" Mrs " Sacre bleu what is the World cumming to ππ | |||
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"So this is another brown π© stain to my fab experience... here's the full story... Last week I get a message from a woman, with a very polite approach..." can I add you so I can see your updates, your profile is gorgeous " , she says...and I gratefully accept. Two days later out of nowhere she sends me another message..."A bit of harmless fun...could you leave me a filthy verification...you will get plenty of fans after"...π€¨π€π§...ππ©π. So me confused I ask "What would I be verifying you regarding, since we haven't met face to face?". She than goes on to say ..." Yeah I know but who cares, you're one of the hottest guys on fab...just how we spent a filthy hot night togheter " .... πΆππ€―. At that point I respectfuly decline as lying goes against my morals. For almost 3 days she doesn't say anything and than drops this message ..." lol OK...it's just a sex site not county court" . Now that did infuriate me...gaslighting + passive aggressiveness just makes my blood boil. So ultimately I tell her I find dishonesty disgusting and block her...and that should have been all, but here I am days later and this still creeps in the back of my head. I guess I just needed to get it off my chest...but the dishonest approach some people have on this site, with the pathetic excuse of just being "a sex site", does amaze me. If you're willing to lie about verifications, what else are you willing to lie about OMG - dishonest people on a sex site where everyine is essentially anonymous! Crazy talk! Let it go, accept the reality.... | |||
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"Astonishing that she asked you and not me, OP! She seen you were a shit shag π€£ | |||
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"I think some people think that if you verify them they are more likely to get a meet. I would prefer somebody fresh. Unused." I get that but with a lot of people these days that are pretending to be someone they aren't and catfishing. Its a risk that everyone goes through most of the time.. hence why I insist of a social first unless I've met them at a club beforehand | |||
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"It was definitely a man I think. " It was definitely a woman I think | |||
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"So this is another brown π© stain to my fab experience... here's the full story... Last week I get a message from a woman, with a very polite approach..." can I add you so I can see your updates, your profile is gorgeous " , she says...and I gratefully accept. Two days later out of nowhere she sends me another message..."A bit of harmless fun...could you leave me a filthy verification...you will get plenty of fans after"...π€¨π€π§...ππ©π. So me confused I ask "What would I be verifying you regarding, since we haven't met face to face?". She than goes on to say ..." Yeah I know but who cares, you're one of the hottest guys on fab...just how we spent a filthy hot night togheter " .... πΆππ€―. At that point I respectfuly decline as lying goes against my morals. For almost 3 days she doesn't say anything and than drops this message ..." lol OK...it's just a sex site not county court" . Now that did infuriate me...gaslighting + passive aggressiveness just makes my blood boil. So ultimately I tell her I find dishonesty disgusting and block her...and that should have been all, but here I am days later and this still creeps in the back of my head. I guess I just needed to get it off my chest...but the dishonest approach some people have on this site, with the pathetic excuse of just being "a sex site", does amaze me. If you're willing to lie about verifications, what else are you willing to lie about I need a phone with a bigger screen. | |||
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"So this is another brown π© stain to my fab experience... here's the full story... Last week I get a message from a woman, with a very polite approach..." can I add you so I can see your updates, your profile is gorgeous " , she says...and I gratefully accept. Two days later out of nowhere she sends me another message..."A bit of harmless fun...could you leave me a filthy verification...you will get plenty of fans after"...π€¨π€π§...ππ©π. So me confused I ask "What would I be verifying you regarding, since we haven't met face to face?". She than goes on to say ..." Yeah I know but who cares, you're one of the hottest guys on fab...just how we spent a filthy hot night togheter " .... πΆππ€―. At that point I respectfuly decline as lying goes against my morals. For almost 3 days she doesn't say anything and than drops this message ..." lol OK...it's just a sex site not county court" . Now that did infuriate me...gaslighting + passive aggressiveness just makes my blood boil. So ultimately I tell her I find dishonesty disgusting and block her...and that should have been all, but here I am days later and this still creeps in the back of my head. I guess I just needed to get it off my chest...but the dishonest approach some people have on this site, with the pathetic excuse of just being "a sex site", does amaze me. If you're willing to lie about verifications, what else are you willing to lie about ... Welcome to the house of fun π€£π€£ | |||
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"It was definitely a man I think. It was definitely a woman I think " Definitely I think π | |||
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"Anyone who leaves a fake veri is the scum of the earth! What kind of danger could they potentially be putting someone in?!!! It really does boil my piss. " Exactly this! | |||
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"Why would a female go to this effort to get a verification.....its not a difficult process like it is for a guy." β’ I can only guess because some women aren't so lucky on here and are only able to meet below-average men, and therefore when they come across a supposedly 'aesthetically-looking man' they will do whatever it takes to feel vindicated of their inferior offerings. | |||
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