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By *Effy- OP   Woman
18 hours ago

Scotland

The lurkers👀

Do you forget that it isn't only the forumites who read your posts?

I wonder what they think of us.

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By *inkShyWoman
18 hours ago

near Windsor


"The lurkers👀

Do you forget that it isn't only the forumites who read your posts?

I wonder what they think of us. "

I couldn't care less 😘🤣 I do find it odd when someone replies to a forum post privately that hasn't contributed though.

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By *Effy- OP   Woman
18 hours ago

Scotland


"The lurkers👀

Do you forget that it isn't only the forumites who read your posts?

I wonder what they think of us.

I couldn't care less 😘🤣 I do find it odd when someone replies to a forum post privately that hasn't contributed though."

The sneaky one's on Facepic Friday 😤

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By *WB85Man
18 hours ago

Staffordshire

I've never really thought about this before.

I wonder what they do think of us.

Bizarrely, non of the people I've ever met on here are active on the forum.

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By *Effy- OP   Woman
18 hours ago

Scotland


"I've never really thought about this before.

I wonder what they do think of us.

Bizarrely, non of the people I've ever met on here are active on the forum. "

I just hope no one i intend on meeting reads the shite that I type on here

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By *inkShyWoman
18 hours ago

near Windsor


"The lurkers👀

Do you forget that it isn't only the forumites who read your posts?

I wonder what they think of us.

I couldn't care less 😘🤣 I do find it odd when someone replies to a forum post privately that hasn't contributed though.

The sneaky one's on Facepic Friday 😤"

Oh god yes!! And they send a request every Friday even if you aren't taking part.. [yes, you lot!!]

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
18 hours ago

In a galaxy far far away

Oh i get loads of pm's from lurkers

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By *aven RedWoman
18 hours ago

Liverpool x

I do forget. Then get messages off the back of a forum post from people who haven't posted in that thread. Ive stopped posting in the 'send a pic' ones now x

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By *actile TensionMan
18 hours ago

Sussex

I've had a lot of dudes message me lately.

Do my pics appear a little homosexual?

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By *tannersMan
18 hours ago

stanley

Ahhh they will be the people that sent me the nice jacket that fastens up the back and has extra long sleeves.😂😂

Honestly though I don’t think I’m that big a forum presence or personality for anyone to notice me I’m just background noise between Tits out Tuesdays 😁

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By *inkShyWoman
18 hours ago

near Windsor


"I've had a lot of dudes message me lately.

Do my pics appear a little homosexual?"

It's the sassy hand on the hip

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By *igBeardyDanMan
18 hours ago

Bilston

Ive never really thought about it to be honest

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
18 hours ago

Niche

The majority of PMs I get off the back of a forum thread are from lurkers.

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By *harmedAndInChargeMan
18 hours ago

SW

They are quietly gathering intel for the delivery of the most epic, irresistible message to send you.

Unfortunately you reached your mailbox limit and never got it though

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By *evilinDavinaTV/TS
17 hours ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Occasionally one explodes out of the shadows into my inbox to say how much they liked a post. Sometimes they'll use the reply in private button on the post. It makes me feel slightly at a disadvantage, as they seem familiar with me but I have no clue who they are.

Lol

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By *issmorganWoman
17 hours ago

Calderdale innit


"The lurkers👀

Do you forget that it isn't only the forumites who read your posts?

I wonder what they think of us.

I couldn't care less 😘🤣 I do find it odd when someone replies to a forum post privately that hasn't contributed though."

Same. It grosses me out when they try to turh any topic sexual though, in my inbox.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
17 hours ago

Reading

The truth is probably not a lot.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 hours ago

SW1A1AA

I get lots of messages from lurker some from threads I posted on ages ago and dont know what their talking about as cant remember the thread

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By *ANiCURETV/TS
17 hours ago

Winchester


"I've had a lot of dudes message me lately.

Do my pics appear a little homosexual?

It's the sassy hand on the hip "

😆

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
17 hours ago

South Wales


"I get lots of messages from lurker some from threads I posted on ages ago and dont know what their talking about as cant remember the thread"

This happens all the time! Xx 😄

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
17 hours ago

North Somerset


"The lurkers👀

Do you forget that it isn't only the forumites who read your posts?

I wonder what they think of us. "

As always.....

Zero fucks given. I've never posted for anyone else's benefit but either my own or people in a specific thread.

Anyone can read comments of course. Hence I don't post anything I wouldn't gladly send in a message or say to someone's face.

Messages off the back of forum posts just get deleted unless they're from friends. If you want to respond to something I've posted then do it in the thread. 🤷‍♂️

Obi

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By *lassyGent95Man
17 hours ago

horsham

They’re not even good at it, they always dm.

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
17 hours ago

Lancaster


"The lurkers👀

Do you forget that it isn't only the forumites who read your posts?

I wonder what they think of us. "

They usually slide into dms with something they wouldn't post even if they did post

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By *peedyGMan
17 hours ago

Telford

I'm that noticeable, even the lurkers don't message me

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By *ellsOMan
17 hours ago

hull

I do message in forums but also like to lurk, sometimes I'm not really sure how to respond to some forums

It's all a mystery

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By *hat.coupleCouple
17 hours ago

Kent

Sometimes I just look and read answers on here and other times I contribute, depends what mood I'm in I suppose x

I notice that most of the people we meet tend not to use the forums.

Mrs x

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
17 hours ago

North West

I message in the forums, but tend to find it too cliquey. So I message when I’ve something to contribute - whether that’s experience or advice - not to be noticed 😂

E

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By *airyPotterNNMan
17 hours ago

Northampton

I'd love to hear from lurkers, I'll spend more time in the forums. Sometimed I forget they exist

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By *inkShyWoman
17 hours ago

near Windsor


"They’re not even good at it, they always dm."

🤣

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By *izandpaulCouple
17 hours ago

merseyside

Don't have the time or inclination to care.

I do wish they would put replies on the thread rather than pm us as it keeps the thread active but sometimes I have no idea what thread they are commenting on.

Think calling people lurkers is a bit disingenuous.

But, as always, each to their own.

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By *Effy- OP   Woman
17 hours ago

Scotland


"Don't have the time or inclination to care.

I do wish they would put replies on the thread rather than pm us as it keeps the thread active but sometimes I have no idea what thread they are commenting on.

Think calling people lurkers is a bit disingenuous.

But, as always, each to their own"

I should do better with my sarcasm.

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By *etwife8230Couple
17 hours ago

Newport

Probably oh here she goes again with baps out 🤦

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By *harmedAndInChargeMan
17 hours ago

SW

I wonder what the lurkers are wondering about a lurking thread. And if I started a new thread about lurkers lurking on a thread about lurkers lurking…

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By *ustFunUKMan
17 hours ago

London (Any)

You'll get a load more fabs. Great if they lurk and fab away.

They should add views as well as fabs so you can get a lurking score 💯

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By *ensuallover1000Man
17 hours ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m creeped out now…. 😵‍💫😵‍💫

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By *sWyldWoman
17 hours ago

Edinburgh

I'm not sure I care!

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By *hat.coupleCouple
17 hours ago

Kent


"I wonder what the lurkers are wondering about a lurking thread. And if I started a new thread about lurkers lurking on a thread about lurkers lurking…"

Do it!, I'd lurk on that thread about a thread on lurkers lurking on it.

Mrs x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
16 hours ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm sure some are the equivalent of snipers, just waiting for something that they can hit reply privately to

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By *enuine_J87Man
16 hours ago

Eastleigh

Had a horrible set of private messages from a no picture profile earlier. Kept twisting every thing I said then started insulting me, when I said I don’t want to engage in insults, they blocked me.

Some people are just weird and look for conflict.

Which was a downer because I’ve spoken to a few great people from the forums in the last few weeks.

Hopefully next person to message has something positive to say.

Also, like others have said I’m not sure anyone I have met or local to me posts in here but they can certainly read what I say! Noooo

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By *hisIsMe58Man
16 hours ago

Winchester

I don't care about them, but saying that I don't get private messages of the back of posts. There should be a filter to block that if there isn't already.

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By *innamon_flameWoman
16 hours ago

london


"The lurkers👀

Do you forget that it isn't only the forumites who read your posts?

I wonder what they think of us.

I couldn't care less 😘🤣 I do find it odd when someone replies to a forum post privately that hasn't contributed though."

I find it weirder when they have but then send a private message like they don't want others to know that they are flirting with others.

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By *aulkMan
15 hours ago

Bathish

I never understood lurkers - like who has that much time to invest in reading junk from the likes of you and me, without even getting praise for their wit or getting told they have nice boobs or thighs? But I’ve spoken to a couple who’ve been absolutely hilarious and I’ve been stunned that they don’t post, because they’d get loads more replies than the regulars.

No offence OP

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By *lim_funMan
15 hours ago

Hebden bridge


"The lurkers👀

Do you forget that it isn't only the forumites who read your posts?

I wonder what they think of us. "

I get the most sincere conversations from the lurkers. They are my favourite.

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By *Effy- OP   Woman
15 hours ago

Scotland


"I never understood lurkers - like who has that much time to invest in reading junk from the likes of you and me, without even getting praise for their wit or getting told they have nice boobs or thighs? But I’ve spoken to a couple who’ve been absolutely hilarious and I’ve been stunned that they don’t post, because they’d get loads more replies than the regulars.

No offence OP "

Yeah, I'm so offended right now.

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By *vaRoseWoman
14 hours ago

Ankh-Morpork

Most of my DM’s seem to be from lurkers lately

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By *hat.coupleCouple
14 hours ago

Kent

Guys, lurkers need love too x

Mrs x

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By *lim_funMan
14 hours ago

Hebden bridge

Social hermits are the best kind of people

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By *tannersMan
14 hours ago

stanley

Having just stumbled across an absolute train wreck of a thread I’m thinking maybe it’s best some folk just stay lurking 🤦‍♂️

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By *lackByLoveCouple
14 hours ago

London

I am one of them lurkers who reads a lot of posts without writing any and suddenly decide to post only one.

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
14 hours ago

Hull

I'd imagine they think it's:

a) incredibly cliquey

b) filled with men who appear to be gay

c) full of post made by people who are wanking

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By *evilinDavina1Man
14 hours ago

Bristol


"I am one of them lurkers who reads a lot of posts without writing any and suddenly decide to post only one."

Welcome to the forum, you've taken your 1st step on a winding road to.....strange conversations 👍

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By *Effy- OP   Woman
14 hours ago

Scotland


"I am one of them lurkers who reads a lot of posts without writing any and suddenly decide to post only one."

It's nice to see some fresh faces around!

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By *Effy- OP   Woman
14 hours ago

Scotland


"full of post made by people who are wanking"

How did you know?

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By *elloIntrigueMan
14 hours ago

North West UK

Hello felliw forumites and lurkers... nice to have you along

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By *tannersMan
14 hours ago

stanley


"I am one of them lurkers who reads a lot of posts without writing any and suddenly decide to post only one."

Welcome 😁

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By *onin25Man
14 hours ago

Durham


"I am one of them lurkers who reads a lot of posts without writing any and suddenly decide to post only one."

Congrats on your first post. Is this like meeting your heroes? 😁

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By *elloIntrigueMan
14 hours ago

North West UK

Forgive my spelling... haha

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
14 hours ago

Near Birmingham.

Hopefully they find it entertaining?

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By *eroLondonMan
12 hours ago

Mayfair


"The lurkers👀

Do you forget that it isn't only the forumites who read your posts?"

I rarely forget. I'm continuously reminded.

Do you remember your thread from the other day about 'when was the last message you sent?'. Well, I met her over the weekend and she told me she only opened my message because she had seen me on the forums.

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By *izandpaulCouple
12 hours ago

merseyside


"I am one of them lurkers who reads a lot of posts without writing any and suddenly decide to post only one.

Congrats on your first post. Is this like meeting your heroes? 😁 "

No.

More like your first day in a locked door institution where you cannot integrate with the outside world. 🤣🤣

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By *Effy- OP   Woman
12 hours ago

Scotland


"The lurkers👀

Do you forget that it isn't only the forumites who read your posts?

I rarely forget. I'm continuously reminded.

Do you remember your thread from the other day about 'when was the last message you sent?'. Well, I met her over the weekend and she told me she only opened my message because she had seen me on the forums. "

There is some good that comes from spending a concerning amount of time posting on the forums! 😍

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
12 hours ago

London

It doesn't bother me. Lurkers are the voyeurs of the threads.

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By *mf123Man
12 hours ago

with one foot out the door

Lurker eh

Been a while since i seen that word

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By *vi8PairCouple
12 hours ago

North/South and Centre!

Lol it’s not like the forum content is highly lurkable by the outside world- especially lately! 😂😂😂😂

Now, if it were mumsnet…. 📝

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By *Effy- OP   Woman
12 hours ago

Scotland


"Lol it’s not like the forum content is highly lurkable by the outside world- especially lately! 😂😂😂😂

Now, if it were mumsnet…. 📝 "

You're not entertained?! 😱

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By *mf123Man
11 hours ago

with one foot out the door

I will admit having been back on for about a week its much much much quieter on here than pre covid

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By *eroLondonMan
11 hours ago

Mayfair


"The lurkers👀

Do you forget that it isn't only the forumites who read your posts?

I rarely forget. I'm continuously reminded.

Do you remember your thread from the other day about 'when was the last message you sent?'. Well, I met her over the weekend and she told me she only opened my message because she had seen me on the forums.

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There is some good that comes from spending a concerning amount of time posting on the forums! 😍"

I mean, this is how we met, init?

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By *Effy- OP   Woman
11 hours ago

Scotland


"The lurkers👀

Do you forget that it isn't only the forumites who read your posts?

I rarely forget. I'm continuously reminded.

Do you remember your thread from the other day about 'when was the last message you sent?'. Well, I met her over the weekend and she told me she only opened my message because she had seen me on the forums.

·

There is some good that comes from spending a concerning amount of time posting on the forums! 😍

I mean, this is how we met, init?"

Aye yer right, it is 🫶

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By *oeBeansMan
11 hours ago

Derby

I know there are lurkers and I'm reminded when one of them gets in touch saying how much they enjoy my posts. I'd like them to get involved a bit more though because of they did, I could raise my own little forum army to tend to my various agendas 😤

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By *ampireWolvesMan
11 hours ago

Essex

I think they may pass my posts to avoid being confused. I’m safe! 😂

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By *Effy- OP   Woman
11 hours ago

Scotland


"I think they may pass my posts to avoid being confused. I’m safe! 😂"

"Fucking hell he's at it again, boys!"

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By *hinstrapMan
11 hours ago

sheffield

We've all been lurkers at some point. They will come out and join at some point I'm sure.

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By *ympho6969Woman
11 hours ago

glasgow


"I've never really thought about this before.

I wonder what they do think of us.

Bizarrely, non of the people I've ever met on here are active on the forum.

I just hope no one i intend on meeting reads the shite that I type on here "

Its very easy to find out too. 1 quick search

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