FabSwingers.com forum: Negativity...

By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Would you say you are a negative person..Always looking at things half empty instead of half full??

I used to be a half empty kinda girl but soon learnt that in order to get through the shit (I have had my fair share). I had to think half full and it has saved me from going completely nuts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am generally positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at it as half d*unk I enjoy the bit coming and remember the fun of the bit I have already drank

Happiness is a state of mind.

Even clinical depression can be helped with a positive outlook

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'musually a positive person.

But today I'm indulging my negative side - being a grown up suks botty big time!

I may have made a sensible decision but I don't have to like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most of us are a bit of both depending on the situation

I am quite a positive person, I firmly believe you can achieve anything if you really want it but then there are some point in my life i'm not so positive about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite a positive person most of the time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more! The more you put into life, the more you get out.

Just a shame that glass has a mind of its own at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positive .. life is too short and Ive lost way too many people at a young age

Glass is half full but don't take a sip out of my glass

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I generally look on stuff positively.... I don't have the time or patience for people who are constantly looking at the negative and attending their own little pity parties....

I'd rather just have a swinging party

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Don't get me wrong I sometimes am very negative but usually for a short time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im feeling like that at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both positive but I think most swingers are or they probably wouldn't play.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I go with the flow

This morning was a half empty glass

because my meet was cancelled

This afternoon was a glass half full

because I got a tax refund from the Inland Revenue

Who knows what tomorrow will bring...its not here yet so why worry!

Inch halla!!!

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I am generally a positive person although I would refer to myself as a realist mostly. Sometimes it is really impossible to put a positive spin on things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooo. Quite the opposite, I'm always asking myself 'what's the worse that can happen?'

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I can usually point out negatives but tend to be quite positive usually, generally speaking.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

I am like a fucking yoyo! Tendency to be negative then coaching myself to be positive... Feel like I'm on the up at the moment.. Let's hope the trend continues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an half full kind of person

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I'm alright it's the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think of myself as a half full glass most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at it as half d*unk I enjoy the bit coming and remember the fun of the bit I have already drank

Happiness is a state of mind.

Even clinical depression can be helped with a positive outlook"

This

we all have our dips but you can't stop the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pessimist thinks glass half empty

optimist thinks glass half full

i would say im a realist, knows it is just half a fucking glass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a half full kinda gal

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

half full is better than empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"half full is better than empty "

yes, i would think so.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I have always been quite positive - I always think there are plenty of people worse off than me. Also, I find negative people a bit draining so I would not want to be draining on others.

Last but not least it just feels so much nicer to see the world in a positive light.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Negative?..... about my own life?... nahhhh.

Other people's?...... well if they have a cracked plastic beaker leaking their last dregs of rola cola... yeah.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Negative?..... about my own life?... nahhhh.

Other people's?...... well if they have a cracked plastic beaker leaking their last dregs of rola cola... yeah."

I love your way of thinking.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm generally positive, and I like to think I pass it on to others.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I am usually always very positive but last few days probably the most negative I have ever been

And I don't like it

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

ive seen negativity change people so much its unreal

not always easy but i smile and be happy, why should some miserable git ruin my day

and lifes so short as it is

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I would describe myself as a very positive person, constant negativity in others makes me annoyed.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can always find a positive in lifes path .......... and help others to see one as well

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

It sound a little callous but I've always seen it as there's always someone worse off than yourself. Recently i have been looking at taoism beliefs certainly giving me a newperspective on life.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I can always find a positive in lifes path .......... and help others to see one as well

wish you had been there to show me the path the night when i broke my ribs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My glass is always half full, I love life - mainly x

Although I have worked with people who weren't given a glass in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its an academic question as in general people will say they are positive even if they are not as putting out potential issues when you are in general looking to meet people won't help especially in the lip service lounge as it was once described many moons ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave the glass by the wine bottle(s) and top up as necessary!;-) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect the worst, hope for the best...

I would say I try to see things from a realist point of view. I will make a decision on possible outcomes of situations based upon the evidence I have.

I have to be positive for my mental well being and I do not associate myself with those who have a negative outlook. I find negativity without reason infuriating. Negativity very quickly eats away inside me because of my depression so ensure those I keep around me help to bring something positive to my life.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time since I have read the forums that I have been jealous of the poster

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"First time since I have read the forums that I have been jealous of the poster

Never be jealous of anyone....

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By *ornieandhotCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I used to be quite a negative person especially about myself

But getting cancer a couple of years back gave me a reality check

Now I'm happy in my own skin and a lot more positive with everything

D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First time since I have read the forums that I have been jealous of the poster

Never be jealous of anyone....

If we chat/chatted or you knew me properly. You'll understand why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its an academic question as in general people will say they are positive even if they are not as putting out potential issues when you are in general looking to meet people won't help especially in the lip service lounge as it was once described many moons ago. "

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I'm pretty upbeat but give a colleague a lift every morning who is so negative it can really drag me down. She's not so much a glass is half empty person as a glass is drained, broken and lying in pieces in the gutter.

She's about 4 months pregnant and even that hasn't cheered her up. Whining about having to pre all the time, can she afford childcare, this or that person at work hasn't congratulated her, her pants don't fit any more, she's tired.

I just put happy tunes on in the car, turn it up and ignore her now.

I fear she may transmit this negativity to her child.

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