FabSwingers.com forum: What (or who) is your biggest fab regret?

By *outhLondonSmile OP Man
19 hours ago

London

Anything you wish you did, someone you wish you met? What would you do if you could turn the clock back!

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By *eroLondonMan
19 hours ago

Mayfair

Well, there was this young lady from Edinburgh...it was like a brief encounter. An unrequited love. She slipped through my fingers like liquid silk.

She's still here, somewhere, ...

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By *sWyldWoman
19 hours ago

Edinburgh

I am my biggest regret. For years my own insecurities held me back. I didn't meet people I wanted to or didn't experience the things I longed for, because I didn't feel ' good enough about myself.

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By *eroLondonMan
19 hours ago

Mayfair

That's the young lady from Edinburgh......⬆️

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By *sWyldWoman
19 hours ago

Edinburgh

"That's the young lady from Edinburgh......⬆️

Ahh we shall always have that fleeting moment in Manchester

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
18 hours ago

(User no longer on site)

My last fwb dropped me like a hot potato after I let her down one day. We were inseparable for half a year, so I'd just like to speak to her again, but I don't think she's on the site anymore.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
16 hours ago

Telford

I had a really good connection with someone a few years ago.

It's not really a regret I suppose it just wasn't meant to be. I think about it sometimes.

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By *andadbodMan
15 hours ago

Liverpool

A women i met who was in the forces, during a brief rest period were we share some pillow talk, the conversation got a little weird and i mistakenly pushed a little too far with it, I was politely asked to leave, Im guessing i triggered an old memory for her, she was an amazing women who i’d met a few time already prior to this Saturday afternoon were she got upset. She’s still on here but broke contact with me.

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By *ermite12ukMan
15 hours ago

Solihull and Romford

Sarah from Essex.

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By *ealitybitesMan
14 hours ago

Belfast

I've made a few mistakes through fab over the years but I can honestly say I have no regrets because they were all part of the learning process.

The only thing I would rewind the clock on would be other people's drama. I would probably step away sooner than I did.

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By *ate2theparty808Man
14 hours ago

Erdington

I regret not finding this site sooner and not being in the frame of mind to enjoy a site like this in my 30s

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By *outhLondonSmile OP Man
6 hours ago

London

I know their are some girls on here, where message threads came to an end / blocks were imposed.. I’m 100% confident that put us in a bar and we would get on like a hose on fire… but given the abundance of men on here any misinterpretation, wrongly timed message or slightest ick kills it. Such a shame as I think it leads to us both missing out.

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By *kphooey43Man
6 hours ago

Barnet

Non, je ne regrette rien

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
6 hours ago

South Wales

I don’t think I have any real regrets, more a few missed opportunities that I would like to have happened xx 😘

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By *viatrixWoman
6 hours ago

Back in Surrey, Dahlings!

"That's the young lady from Edinburgh......⬆️

Thise Dunediners are most intoxicating.

I should know.

🩷🎀

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
6 hours ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I wish more socials were convenient to get to

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By *irefly75Man
6 hours ago

nearby

A very very disappointing ons

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By *Effy-Woman
6 hours ago

Scotland

A couple i met a long time ago. I wish I never bothered to leave the house.

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By *el111Man
6 hours ago

Essex/London

"A couple i met a long time ago. I wish I never bothered to leave the house."

that bad hey..

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By *ntercouplemaCouple
6 hours ago

Here, for a bit

having a social with someone i used to work with who i found on fab - and that it never went further than a kiss

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By *irefly75Man
6 hours ago

nearby

"A couple i met a long time ago. I wish I never bothered to leave the house."

I hear ya, I had the joy of their pics and age being "not entirely accurate"

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By *actile TensionMan
6 hours ago

Sussex

Not joining the forum sooner

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By *Effy-Woman
6 hours ago

Scotland

"A couple i met a long time ago. I wish I never bothered to leave the house.

that bad hey.."

Yes.

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By *oeBeansMan
6 hours ago

Derby

"A couple i met a long time ago. I wish I never bothered to leave the house."

Erm... details? ☕👀

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By *irefly75Man
5 hours ago

nearby

"A couple i met a long time ago. I wish I never bothered to leave the house.

Erm... details? ☕👀"

What he said 👍

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By *oeBeansMan
5 hours ago

Derby

Yeah, I have a few where I wished things had worked out differently. Whether that was my own actions or a case of shops passing in the night where things didn't align. It used to affect me more thinking I'd struggle to find that interest again but (and this is not to sound arrogant), but there will always be people interested in you around the corner if you look for it.

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By *he MinionMan
5 hours ago

Surrey

No regrets.

I've cocked things up with people in the past. Probably said and done things I shouldnt have.

But no regrets. I laugh about 90% of the dumb things i've done.

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By *mf123Man
5 hours ago

with one foot out the door

No point regretting i spent too much time living in the past for a lifetime yes there were ones i missed out rewarding but in the end life will do as it will control the controlables

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By *viatrixWoman
5 hours ago

Back in Surrey, Dahlings!

I don’t think I have any regrets.

I have been extremely lucky and have met great people overall - socially and otherwise

from whom I’ve learned a lot. As I’ve said before, I am really very savvy in my judge of character or just really damn lucky! 🤷‍♀️

There was a couple I could have had potentially lots of fun with at the beginning of my Fab joiurney. But at that point we were in very different stages in life and I didn’t have anywhere as much freedom as I do now. So couldn’t get away with them on holidays etc. But it’s not a regret, just misaligned timings.

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
5 hours ago

North Somerset

I had one big regret, but looking back had it not happened I wouldnt be where I am now, with who I am now and as happy as I am now.

So what was a regret is now just a distant memory. 🤷‍♂️

Obi

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
5 hours ago

IPSWICH

No regrets here. In the real world there's plenty.

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By *lueDressWoman
5 hours ago

Bath Somerset

No regrets.I tend to have a good judge of character. Even if they are behaving or coming across as someone else.

I have safely and happily avoided rather than regretted.

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By *and12Couple
5 hours ago

flint

Only wish we had attended more socials

Bug there time looking for the next one to attend

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By *ed FlameWoman
5 hours ago

South Gloucestershire

There are a few unfortunately 😔

I always seem to pick similar men even though they look different.

You would think I would learn 😆🤦‍♀️

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By *itty FelouWoman
4 hours ago

Carlisle

I wish I had joined here year's ago when I first learned of Fab!

That is all...

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By *inkShyWoman
4 hours ago

near Windsor

Being in hiding and not talking on forums, or replying to many messages, for about a year or two.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
4 hours ago

funky town

A few meets i wish i could take back, but i wouldnt be as savvy now when meeting if i hadnt had those experiences so i guess things are meant to happen for a reason.

Also some great guys i didnt meet due to nerves at the beginning but such is life

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By *astManOnEarthMan
4 hours ago

nowhere

A few I have missed due toe putting my foot in my mouth and screwing it up

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By *Effy-Woman
4 hours ago

Scotland

"A couple i met a long time ago. I wish I never bothered to leave the house.

Erm... details? ☕👀"

It's really not that juicy but okay 😅

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By *007ManMan
4 hours ago

Worthing

Pablo in sw chat is moving. Would liked to have met.

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By *ustYouWoman
4 hours ago

Glasgow, west end

I regret distance.

I have 1 or 2 far flung interests who all happen to live in the absolute wilds of Southern England. I know perfectly well I should stay within my parameters, but some people are worth traveling for, and projecting my need to have them on my lap, in good old Glasgow has become my daily mantra to the universe.

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By *igJohnwants269withuMan
4 hours ago

Devon

Not taking up the offer of a orally bi mmf in my early 30s, was just to shy to share my bi cherry in those younger days

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By *WB85Man
4 hours ago

Staffordshire

I changed my plans once for a social.

I should have gone for that kebab instead.

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By *a LunaWoman
4 hours ago

Wales

Engaging with some people.

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By *ashful_at_firstMan
4 hours ago

Canterbury

Flowing, later Pussy_Cat69, damn I really shouldn`t have been so bashful - still talk with her though!

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
4 hours ago

Lancaster

There's quite a few meets I don't think I would have if I could go back,but it's all an experience I suppose.

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By *igJohnwants269withuMan
4 hours ago

Devon

"There's quite a few meets I don't think I would have if I could go back,but it's all an experience I suppose."

Oh god yes 100% agreed with you on this

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By *usty Hotwife 1977Couple
3 hours ago

Hudds

Me wet a guy & did gave some great meets but he seemed to feel he was a bit too comfortable & started letting us down. We gave him benefit of the doubt, because he gave us something we hadn’t looked for but had found, but he became even more unreliable.

We realised he was just a serial liar but we realised that too late. Shame really because up to that point all was better than good.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
3 hours ago

Niche

If it's for it won't pass you.

But sometimes I wish I'd ducked faster.

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
3 hours ago

Hampshire

Not regrets as such but definitely lots of lessons learnt!

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
3 hours ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

A couple my ex wife and I knew via a social club, needed some help moving some bulky items in my 4x4.I was invited in for a cup of tea & told his wife was upstairs feeling unwell. I was given a hot cuppa then he said he had to take his son to an after school club,but I should finish my hot tea.This felt like a setup especially when she shouted down could I bring her a drink of water up.I found a cup & filled with water,walked up stairs & left the cup outside the bedroom door then let myself out of the front door, not feeling happy to be the fly in this spiders web

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 hours ago

SW1A1AA

No regrets, fab has been good to me

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By *ew2buryMan
3 hours ago

Forums.

Not regrets... But different decisions made with new information.

There are plenty of fabbers who I've lost touch with either because they left fab or I did, and we didn't pull the trigger on meeting up, or moving off fab.

Similar losing touch with those I did chat to off fab, but went a bit shit on when I started dating, and struggled with balancing NM and friendships.

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By *ensualMan
3 hours ago

Sutton

I wish I had discovered the club/ event scene sooner.

In particular Tease 2 and the first Kestrels (now rebranded Ignite and at a new site).

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By *arnayguyMan
2 hours ago

N London

I wish I could have met the couple from the Pendley Manor Hotel in Tring for part 2.

When I arrived in the suite I found cameras set up everywhere, which was a bit disconcerting. But nevertheless, me and the wife had fun while Mr just messed about with cameras.

I was supposed to be going round o their house to see the finish but after a couple of phone calls it went quiet. I wish I could have seen the film but they were a fantastic couple too. I couldn't believe my luck. Many moons ago alas.

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By *eroLondonMan
2 hours ago

Mayfair

"If it's for it won't pass you.

But sometimes I wish I'd fucked faster."

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Ah, yes. Speed - the conquest of time.

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By *r SensualMan
2 hours ago

London

No regrets at all… fab has been, and still is so great to me for many many reasons

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 hours ago

Reading

No regrets here.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
2 hours ago

Kent

Messed up a few times and lost some really good friends. Wish we could make things right x

Its a shame when that happens but its part of the lifestyle sadly.

Mrs x

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By *aramel.desiresMan
2 hours ago

Surrey

After my first ever meet the couple wanted me to go away with them for a long weekend. But I could not fine the time. I was told I missed out on a weekend of having her whenever I wanted.

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By *rincipessaWoman
1 hour ago

your wildest dreams,

Only one. I met him on a whim, got d*unk and it was ok but not how I like to do things

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By *cotslass2Woman
1 hour ago

Edinburgh

I regret not putting myself first often enough

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By *orny IrishMan
47 minutes ago

North Wiltshire

I kicking myself for not reading the signals better. One of the early MLS I was chatting to a lady who was going and said she was nervous about going on her own. I suggested we meet before and grab a coffee and walk in together. This evolved to me picking her up from the station and then collecting 2 other forumites. Then driving us all to central Manchester to the venue, I needed to drop my car and check in. And I foolishly said for her to wait for me inbtge lobby when I went up to drop my bag off even though she said she would come with me. 🤦‍♂️ who knows where that would have gone. I would 💯 allowed her to accompany me to my room to drop my bag off if I got a second chance.

And yes I am bad at reading signals at times. So sometimes ladies you need to be more direct with me.😳

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
43 minutes ago

Lancaster

Ah no drama no stress

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By *aked beachMan
30 minutes ago

Just A Stranger In A Strange Land.

Not being at least 10 years younger

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