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Vanilla outfit experiment

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By *eautyandthebeast86 OP   Couple
1 day ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

So in my 30’s when I used to go clubbing I had a friend with fake boobs who used to wear the skimpiest outfits with short skirts and everything pretty much on show, she would get attention but the wrong sort of attention, I opted for more classy cute dresses , they showed a hint of cleavage or a hint of thigh but never both at the same time.

She used to tell me I dressed too ‘ cute ‘ and men wanted sexy. I did an experiment, I went out dressed up similar to her and then again how I normally do and I got more attention in the less is more outfits!

So fabbers outside of the swinging world , when you are among the vanilla people in normal clubs or bars what is your preference to wear and men what actually gets you going , seeing everything on show or leaving something to the imagination ?

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By *actile TensionMan
1 day ago

Sussex

A lady I desire could dress in rags and I'd be aroused

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By *Effy-Woman
1 day ago

Scotland

I don't dress to attract male attention. I wear what I feel comfortable in and what I think makes me look my best.

Sometimes that could be something a little more revealing, other times I'm fully covered up.

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By *eroLondonMan
1 day ago

Mayfair


"...and men what actually gets you going, seeing everything on show or leaving something to the imagination?"

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As long as she's wearing a smile, holding a highball of Gin and balancing her blushes then that's more than enough to get me going.

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By *eautyandthebeast86 OP   Couple
1 day ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)


"I don't dress to attract male attention. I wear what I feel comfortable in and what I think makes me look my best.

Sometimes that could be something a little more revealing, other times I'm fully covered up. "

This was exactly my thoughts when my friend told me I wasn’t dressing ‘ sexy ‘ enough, I wore dresses that I liked and felt pretty in. Just curious what other people think as everyone’s different

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By *acavityMan
1 day ago

Redditch

I think that a glimpse of legs or cleavage is more alluring than just putting everything out there.

A woman in a bikini is just a woman in a bikini, but if the same woman is wearing a wrap around skirt and a blouse that reveals her cleavage when she leans forward, is more of a mystery, which engages my brain

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By *Effy-Woman
1 day ago

Scotland


"I don't dress to attract male attention. I wear what I feel comfortable in and what I think makes me look my best.

Sometimes that could be something a little more revealing, other times I'm fully covered up.

This was exactly my thoughts when my friend told me I wasn’t dressing ‘ sexy ‘ enough, I wore dresses that I liked and felt pretty in. Just curious what other people think as everyone’s different "

Having everything hanging out doesn't always equal 'sexy'. Sometimes leaving a little to the imagination attracts better attention if that's what you're going for.

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By *irefly75Man
1 day ago

nearby

I would definitely say less is more, I need to want to know x

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
1 day ago

Birmingham

Sexy to me is someone showing up authentically and with presence wearing whatever they are comfortable in. Dress for you, not other people.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
1 day ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I am not materialistic, clothes don't make the person

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By *rafter69Man
1 day ago

upminster

Aslong as the Lady in question feels sexy in her own skin then she could wear a bin bag for all I care

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By *iver78Man
1 day ago

barton upon humber

Personally I'm not mad keen on the less is more look in any walk of life , I don't know about the the ' I feel good dressed like this " reasoning as I'm not a women , but putting on a short skirt and small top doesent make a women more attractive to me , but it does make me feel there seeking attention !? Weather they mean it to or not

To add I strongly believe people should be able to dress anyway they like without having to put up with assuming there " easy " or up for it

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By *lim_funMan
1 day ago

Hebden bridge

I like both. Innocent girl next door look along with the gothy bondage temptress. Don't want a Dom BDSM woman though.

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