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"Done it in the past but i dony go until iv hit my target number either way" What number is was it? 🤭 | |||
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"Done it in the past but i dony go until iv hit my target number either way What number is was it? 🤭" depends on what was agreed | |||
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"I'm not cut out for this. I'm too emotional " Awwww i like this though. | |||
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"I find the transactional/robotic element intensifies the sex.i don’t want intimacy with strangers so fuck n go or a no messing hook up and crack on with whatever suits me." That makes sense. I wish i could be more like that sometimes | |||
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"It totally depends on the person and the moment itself. I used to have a fuck buddy when I was younger, 2 mins from my house. Go there, both start undressing etc, oral, sex, not much talking, boom, get dressed, on my way home. It scratched an itch for both of us, she didn’t want to talk or for me to hang around. But that’s the only person I think I could be so unemotional with. I am a very passionate and intimate guy when it comes to sex, and that type of sex has zero intimacy and just an animalistic type of passion. I couldn’t do that again. I want the woman to feel special, to feel heard and seen and not just a piece of meat. There are a lot of women (especially on here) who do just wanted to be fucked senseless and that’s it… and often those are the ones maybe not getting it from their partner. Some people can do it, some people can’t that’s why we are interesting, we’re all different " Oh absolutely. Im not yuking anyones yum, sometimes i wish i could be more like that but i think about things to much and i think i would beat myself up about it after. | |||
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"I find the transactional/robotic element intensifies the sex.i don’t want intimacy with strangers so fuck n go or a no messing hook up and crack on with whatever suits me. That makes sense. I wish i could be more like that sometimes" I don’t think it’s a more or less desirable way of doing things. My sexual perspective is (of course) grounded in gay sexual culture which is much more focused around cruising and fuck n go. If I was in a relationship I’d value the intimacy but that wouldn’t need to be sexual intimacy. Gotta do you and what feels right for you TT. | |||
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"I'm not cut out for this. I'm too emotional Awwww i like this though." Thats why he said it | |||
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"All very timing dependent and individual dependent. For me there's a time and place... you shouldn't feel bad if that's what you want either" I would agree with this it’s really time dependent xx 😘 | |||
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"I haven't done it before, not sure I could. When I'm really horny sometimes I think yeah, sure, a hot man turning up at the hotel, straight to fucking me senseless, no words? Could be exactly what I need. But I know me, I talk, like talking and asking questions. And part of the attraction, for me, is the chemistry from mental stimulation. Without it I think I'd be a rather dry affair. (Had to get rid of the OP, sorry OP. :D)" Its ok i am a waffler 🤣 | |||
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"Sounds like a very shallow experience and not for me" That comment has the nail on the head , the build up can be exiting, the act also exiting the outcome ( for me ) is an empty feeling | |||
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"Not for me. I always feel a bit used when men want to leave as soon as they've emptied their balls 😒 " I agree with DestructionDolly on this. Definitely not for me | |||
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"I've only ever come close to doing it once and broke my own rules by doing it. It was someone I had only spoken to the day before and she was staying in a city centre hotel that night. She contacted me the next morning and said she was very horny and asked if I could visit her. I was already passing that way for non fab reasons so I broke my rule and agreed to go. I agreed to go only because she had 100+ verifications and had been on the site for many years so I knew there was little risk. The visit lasted less than 30 minutes during which I remained fully clothed the entire time and she never touched me once. It was all about getting her off and then she took a call from friends in the next room and said she had to meet them for breakfast. It was an experience but not one I would be in a hurry to repeat as the only thing I got from it was the experience. She messaged that night to thank me and said that despite having so many verifications it was her first time doing anything like that and because she felt so embarrassed she was going to block me. She did do that and I've never seen her on the site since. " Wait so she blocked you for essentially using you for our own sexual gratification ? | |||
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"I've only ever come close to doing it once and broke my own rules by doing it. It was someone I had only spoken to the day before and she was staying in a city centre hotel that night. She contacted me the next morning and said she was very horny and asked if I could visit her. I was already passing that way for non fab reasons so I broke my rule and agreed to go. I agreed to go only because she had 100+ verifications and had been on the site for many years so I knew there was little risk. The visit lasted less than 30 minutes during which I remained fully clothed the entire time and she never touched me once. It was all about getting her off and then she took a call from friends in the next room and said she had to meet them for breakfast. It was an experience but not one I would be in a hurry to repeat as the only thing I got from it was the experience. She messaged that night to thank me and said that despite having so many verifications it was her first time doing anything like that and because she felt so embarrassed she was going to block me. She did do that and I've never seen her on the site since. Wait so she blocked you for essentially using you for our own sexual gratification ? " Yes it seems that way. It honestly didn't annoy me at the time because I was able to say I had done something different and stepped out of my comfort zone but looking back on it, it was a pretty selfish thing to do. | |||
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"I've only ever come close to doing it once and broke my own rules by doing it. It was someone I had only spoken to the day before and she was staying in a city centre hotel that night. She contacted me the next morning and said she was very horny and asked if I could visit her. I was already passing that way for non fab reasons so I broke my rule and agreed to go. I agreed to go only because she had 100+ verifications and had been on the site for many years so I knew there was little risk. The visit lasted less than 30 minutes during which I remained fully clothed the entire time and she never touched me once. It was all about getting her off and then she took a call from friends in the next room and said she had to meet them for breakfast. It was an experience but not one I would be in a hurry to repeat as the only thing I got from it was the experience. She messaged that night to thank me and said that despite having so many verifications it was her first time doing anything like that and because she felt so embarrassed she was going to block me. She did do that and I've never seen her on the site since. " Wow… talk about making someone feel special #Sarcasm | |||
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"I've done it with people that I saw regularly. You know only a little but of time so a quickie. I wouldn't arrange a fuck and go meet with someone new though. " I’m the same……we’re very time poor so I have had quickie meets with regular guys who know there’s a time limit xx 😄 | |||
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"Those who do this, do you find it fulfilling, like you have cum and that was the aim, jobs a goodun. Or do you ever feel like something was missing as in it was almost a robotic/transactional experience. I see lots of people who want just "come in fuck me and go", i dont think i could do it, kudos to those who do but i need at least a bit of chat/banter and a bit of laid there laughing afterwards when your all naked sweaty and spent. I think the thought of it sounds thrilling but i would feel a bit like a human sex toy afterwards. " I don't like it It feels wrong | |||
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"I quite like it. I don't want all the fake, fluffy chat some men say just to get a fuck. I don't want the expectations that I'll definitely want to meet them again next time I put a meet up. I like the excitement and intensity of it. Quite often we have chatted for a little bit after which is ok (sometimes 😆). It really suits what I'm looking for (or my attachment style /dopamine seeking)." I also get turned off very easily. A certain word, reference, being too keen... too much chat usually always results in me not meeting them xx | |||
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"Those who do this, do you find it fulfilling, like you have cum and that was the aim, jobs a goodun. Or do you ever feel like something was missing as in it was almost a robotic/transactional experience. I see lots of people who want just "come in fuck me and go", i dont think i could do it, kudos to those who do but i need at least a bit of chat/banter and a bit of laid there laughing afterwards when your all naked sweaty and spent. I think the thought of it sounds thrilling but i would feel a bit like a human sex toy afterwards. " Yeah sometimes it good just physical release no brain power effort as such. Hit like a sex club in big multi playrooms tbh. | |||
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"Those who do this, do you find it fulfilling, like you have cum and that was the aim, jobs a goodun. Or do you ever feel like something was missing as in it was almost a robotic/transactional experience. I see lots of people who want just "come in fuck me and go", i dont think i could do it, kudos to those who do but i need at least a bit of chat/banter and a bit of laid there laughing afterwards when your all naked sweaty and spent. I think the thought of it sounds thrilling but i would feel a bit like a human sex toy afterwards. " We only play in clubs, so it makes this type of play easier. For single guys it’s our preferred type of first meet, we have no interest in chatting getting to know single guys in a club setting, in fact the nature of this type of play makes it really hot. When we play with a single guy and we like them and they are good in bed then we will potentially build a connection then and play more. We really don’t like to much chat as we have had people talk themselves out of playing with us, but never in to it, if that makes sense. If we like someone they will be offered to join in and play and then it’s their choice if they want to. | |||
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"Have I done it? Yes, many times over the years. Could I do it again? Of course. As one aspect of an active, varied sex life it's fine. Especially in club situations this kind of sex is common. I could easily do it as one off meets too. But that's because I have a partner who I have a fantastic sex life with already. If 'fuck and go' was my only option then yeah, that would be pretty depressing as connections and ongoing explorations are important. You don't need to have those with everyone you sleep with and equally whilst a quickie with a partner or regular friend can be fun, if all your sex was purely mechanical it would soon get boring. There's nothing wrong with variety. 🤷♂️" Fully agree with this, it only works because our sexlife as a couple is so good. I wouldn’t like it if it was our only option | |||
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"Those who do this, do you find it fulfilling, like you have cum and that was the aim, jobs a goodun. Or do you ever feel like something was missing as in it was almost a robotic/transactional experience. I see lots of people who want just "come in fuck me and go", i dont think i could do it, kudos to those who do but i need at least a bit of chat/banter and a bit of laid there laughing afterwards when your all naked sweaty and spent. I think the thought of it sounds thrilling but i would feel a bit like a human sex toy afterwards. " I'm training to fuck as many women. Been training for 20 years | |||
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"I would say most of my meets are Fuck and go. It's perfect for me I get to have a fabulous time in bed and they go. It works for me as most of my FB I have been seeing for 10+ years. " Looking to increase ur roster? | |||
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