FabSwingers.com forum: Turn off

By *unkissedYorkie OP Man
2 days ago

BRADFORD/LEEDS

What's something someone who you saw meeting in the future has done to instantly turn you off?

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By *dstefiMan
2 days ago

Solihull

I'm very clear in my profile that I'm a masculine crossdresser, so being addressed as hunny or babe is offputting (I'll explain this politely, once, if I'm interested in someone but no second chances) and misogynist pejoratives are an instant block.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
2 days ago

Ilfracombe

Refer to me as a lady

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By *estructionDollyWoman
2 days ago

Manchester

Blow hot and cold. I don't have time for that nonsense.

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By *eekaboo BellyMan
2 days ago

Bradford

Was chatting to this young couple for a while, the woman of the couple, all friendly and that, chatting off here all with intentions of meeting. Then she wanted me to chat with him to make sure I'm safe and that which is fine. Talked 5 mins then he just randomly offered money for each time we were to meet.

I don't want paying for that. Shame really she was nice.

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
2 days ago

Lancaster

"Blow hot and cold. I don't have time for that nonsense. "

This

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By *inkShyWoman
2 days ago

near Windsor

Messaged hourly asking what I was doing

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 days ago

funky town

Breadcrumbing. Dont need anymore bread in my life. Its not hansel and gretel

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By *irthandgirthMan
2 days ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Being flaky.

We get one shot to make a first impression.

No time for bullshit games.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
2 days ago

pink panther territory

Making all the moves,showing all the interest especially when you thought other person was as keen as you

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By *each needs some creamWoman
18 hours ago

Ilfracombe

He talked about giving me a full body massage. It kept giving me the ick

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By *nsatiableFunCoupleCouple
18 hours ago

Worcestershire

Oh so many things, but my biggest turn off atm is immaturity

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
18 hours ago

Slough

Disrespecting boundaries and being unkind...

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
16 hours ago

Telford

I have many turn offs but definitely entitlement.

Some people have tried to put claim on my free time.

Sure I'm interested etc but I will spend my time how I want.

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By *ornyguy666Man
14 hours ago

Nottingham

Mustache

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By *rdnezzMan
14 hours ago

Suffolk

"Mustache "

Especially on a woman!! 🤣

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By *ovechix69Man
14 hours ago

north Northumberland

Being called daddy

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By *t2012Woman
13 hours ago

Belfast

Called me babe, pet names really bug the ass of me

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
13 hours ago

"Being called daddy "

Asking me to call them that ... major ick 🤢

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By *ino200Man
12 hours ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna

A man wearing cheap womens clothing badly

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By *akedOrangeMan
11 hours ago

Oxford

I know everyone loves them and I know its not about me before anyone says anything but stockings. For some reason its just an ick for me

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By *hefirewithinMan
11 hours ago

Could be next door

Put pressure on meeting quickly.

Also requesting something I wasn’t into.

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
11 hours ago

Slough

Tiny lil peckers

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By *ensualDivaWoman
11 hours ago

Galway, Mayo

Calling me a slut or hoare

Just doesn't sit right with me.

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
11 hours ago

Slough

Bad B.O.

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By *allipygousMan
11 hours ago

Leicester

"Breadcrumbing. Dont need anymore bread in my life. Its not hansel and gretel"

I'd never heard of this term but "Google is your friend".

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By *irefly75Man
11 hours ago

nearby

Not taking the hint, I'll always be polite but if im not into them it will be obvious. But hey what's another 5 messages a day.

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By *actile TensionMan
10 hours ago

Sussex

Contradict themselves

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By *irefly75Man
10 hours ago

nearby

"Contradict themselves "

This definitely

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By *itty FelouWoman
10 hours ago

Carlisle

They put a status on their profile which indicated they had a quick flip temper. It was there long enough for me to see it and it was a huge red flag.

I tapped out of the conversation instantly but did let them know that I was done.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
9 hours ago

Herts/Leeds

"They put a status on their profile which indicated they had a quick flip temper. It was there long enough for me to see it and it was a huge red flag.

I tapped out of the conversation instantly but did let them know that I was done.

This for me too. Any signals of a hair trigger temper I’m out.

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By *evilinDavinaTV/TS
9 hours ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I'm a fully functioning adult in my late fifties. I'm not calling you "Daddy" 🤮. I'm also not answering to "Mummy", "baby girl", or anything like that!

Also, guys that start ordering me around; telling me I'm a slut and that I will take them, or they'll force it in, etc... Really? Lol! I did my basics in the Military Police - I'll tense up my arse cheeks and rip your dick off! Bugger off - blocked.

🙄

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By *ympho6969Woman
9 hours ago

glasgow

One or 2 word replies. Like, mate, you messaged me. Holding a conversation ain't hard

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By *actile TensionMan
9 hours ago

Sussex

"One or 2 word replies. Like, mate, you messaged me. Holding a conversation ain't hard "

Shit

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By *ympho6969Woman
9 hours ago

glasgow

"One or 2 word replies. Like, mate, you messaged me. Holding a conversation ain't hard

Shit"

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By *ealitybitesMan
9 hours ago

Belfast

Anyone who automatically assumes they are going to meet me in the future.

Anyone more interested in what others are doing on fab.

Anyone not fully invested in our conversations and see me as a plan B.

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By *hinstrapMan
9 hours ago

sheffield

I'm taking notes.....there are so many flags. It's a minefield field.

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By *oodmessMan
9 hours ago

yumsville

Sends me a dick pic

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
7 hours ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

There are loads.

People whose partners aren't aware of them playing.

Drug statuses.

Folk who can only meet in the shed at the bottom of their garden, or a layby at 4AM.

People who want to 'try a Tgirl'.

Those who want me to have a breast reduction

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By *mf123Man
7 hours ago

with one foot out the door

If im on its based on them as a whole not nitpicky stuff people are different if i like em i like em the odd quirk of behaviour included

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By *WB85Man
7 hours ago

Staffordshire

Someone tried several times to encourage me to get in the back of her car.

That chapter of my life ended years ago....i need a big bed.

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By *evilinDavinaTV/TS
7 hours ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Those who want me to have a breast reduction

Some things really are just beyond the pale... 🤯

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
7 hours ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Those who want me to have a breast reduction

Some things really are just beyond the pale... 🤯"

Totally!!

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By *mmaleiaWoman
7 hours ago

Trowbridge

After many intelligent, funny messages back & forth, he called me ‘baby girl’

Inbox killer

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By *hefoxesofpenCouple
7 hours ago

chester

Put the word “yous” in a message. Game over.

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
7 hours ago

Kingswood

Some of the profiles on here are really negative.

I’m all up for dos and donts but I’ve seen profiles that just sound like an excuse to complain like a full page of negativity and a last line saying put apples in your message if you read this 😂😂

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
7 hours ago

Birmingham

Talking about being 'rough' which is wild when you haven't met or even established if you like that.

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By *issmorganWoman
6 hours ago

Calderdale innit

Tried to push for things I've already said I'm not into.

Being too needy /pushy

Just constant sex chat in every message.

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By *a LunaWoman
4 hours ago

Wales

People on here who are attached putting “can’t wait until the Mrs/family go away so I can have some fun”

Have some respect

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By *evilinDavinaTV/TS
4 hours ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"After many intelligent, funny messages back & forth, he called me ‘baby girl’

Inbox killer"

Oh, god, totally! 🤮

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
4 hours ago

Chichester

The filthy druggies yes. Instant delete

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By *hickthighs26Woman
4 hours ago

funky town

People who write in there bios " put apples in your message so we know you have read our bio". Stop it now! How bloody ridiculous even if someones read it doesnt mean there gunna take it on or accept it as gospel just bloody talk to them and see if there for you or dont reply.

I purposely would never message anyone with this ridiculous line ... grow up

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By *Effy-Woman
4 hours ago

Scotland

Started calling me pet names.

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By *usty Hotwife 1977Couple
4 hours ago

Hudds

Offer money….. “I’m very generous” etc.

Yuk! No thanks.

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By *iddle aged and chubbyMan
3 hours ago

Shefford

Biggest turn off, and an instant block is anyone calling me daddy!

Absolutely turns my stomach

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By *tannersMan
2 hours ago

stanley

"Breadcrumbing. Dont need anymore bread in my life. Its not hansel and gretel"

New concept to me, what is breadcrumbing please?

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 hours ago

funky town

"Breadcrumbing. Dont need anymore bread in my life. Its not hansel and gretel

New concept to me, what is breadcrumbing please?"

Its where every now and then someone will send you a message to keep you hanging there as a back up but doesnt really put any effort in or be consistent in their approach.

Almost your there as a reserve when nothing better comes along

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By *tannersMan
2 hours ago

stanley

"Breadcrumbing. Dont need anymore bread in my life. Its not hansel and gretel

New concept to me, what is breadcrumbing please?

Its where every now and then someone will send you a message to keep you hanging there as a back up but doesnt really put any effort in or be consistent in their approach.

Almost your there as a reserve when nothing better comes along "

Oh, I see. Ty 😁

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By *uriousCouple14Couple
2 hours ago

West Lothian

People who lack any class or consideration in their opening messages..

Then wonder why they don't get meets..

And sulkers.. who get called out for it, their poor language and the fact that they got caught out as disrespectful.. so call you names in return.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
2 hours ago

Niche

The hot/cold thing.

Or posting a 'meet now'.

Any mention of clubs, parties or dogging, bare, breeding, pregnancy, nursing kink.

There's more but that'd do it.

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