FabSwingers.com forum: Taking a poll men + women

By *eath By Snu Snu OP Couple
7 days ago

northampton

Ok so just indicate if you read profiles

Female half here and have a solo profile too. I filled all ny text out, and helpful hints on how to meet me

When I see a profile that hasn't been filled out. I assume they have zero effort to put into a meet if they cant put any time into a profile.

So.. do you read a profile when your contacted by someone. And does it help you decide if you should reply.

(8 men this week have told me im a nasty peice of work, cos I asked if they had read my profile b4 messaging)

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By *872Man
7 days ago

Westcliff-on-Sea

No it annoys me if people don't read. Also annoys me when people refuse to share a pic but are desperate to meet and have hidden pics on their profile

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By *igBeardyDanMan
7 days ago

Bilston

I always read the profile first and if we have some common interests then I'll message them but hardly ever receive a rely which is fine

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By *hickthighs26Woman
7 days ago

funky town

Ah i understand now. Yes i always look at profile its usually pics then profile lol. It can say a lot about someone what they write or don't write about themselves.

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By *aven RedWoman
7 days ago

Liverpool x

I look at a profile before opening a message. Get told mine is far to long x

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By *issmorganWoman
7 days ago

Calderdale innit

I always read profiles, how would I know if we'd potentially be a match, if not.

I bypass those that tell me nothing about them.

If someone hasnt read my profile and it's obvious, it's an instant delete. I would only reply if it's amega creepy or abusive message , then I'll challenge them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
7 days ago

Manchester (she/her)

I read profiles, unless the message is enough of a red flag that the answer is still going to be no.

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
7 days ago

Hampshire

I always read the profile, and similarly make the (maybe undeserved - who knows?) assumption that low effort with the profile = low effort with intention to get to know a potential meet.

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By *lim_funMan
7 days ago

Hebden bridge

"Ok so just indicate if you read profiles

Female half here and have a solo profile too. I filled all ny text out, and helpful hints on how to meet me

When I see a profile that hasn't been filled out. I assume they have zero effort to put into a meet if they cant put any time into a profile.

So.. do you read a profile when your contacted by someone. And does it help you decide if you should reply.

(8 men this week have told me im a nasty peice of work, cos I asked if they had read my profile b4 messaging)"

Yeah I do, it often makes my mind up if I can get along with a person. I realise my blank profile does me no favours but I don't really have any real intentions of meeting right now. I've filled it out like a book but I'd much rather have a chat and discussion rather than reading a novel. What else is there to ask if it reads like a CV. There's a couple of types who just seem to do different variations of the same profile and it reminds me of people who put quotes on socials with a pic of say Harley Quinn, "if you can't handle me at my worst.." most long profiles have templates vibes and I think they are pretty vanilla and acting edgy.

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
7 days ago

Telford

I always read the profiles before I message, or when I get a message.

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By *eath By Snu Snu OP Couple
7 days ago

northampton

When looking though I do find more genuin women fill out profile text, but a large amount of men leave it as either the basic starter profile or just 2 or 3 lines.

I know its not a dating app but its still nice to know if your going to be able to talk to someone between sessions, a decent profile and a good smile and im wont over pretty easily lol.

Im glad its not just me reading them x

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
7 days ago

London

I always read profiles.

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By *heJam84Man
7 days ago

Manchester

i trying to read and concoct a message about what i like about it and then its rather annoying when they read but dont reply to even say thanks but no thanks, if they delete then i know i'm done but read and leave it is abit hmmm

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By *entishFunCouple
7 days ago

Maidstone

We always read profiles

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
7 days ago

Chester

I always read their profile, look at pics distance etc before messaging or replying

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By *ackdaw52Man
7 days ago

Chesterfield

I always read profiles of people who message me.

But I get so few messages it doesn't take up a whole lot of my time!

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By *ig cavemanMan
7 days ago

dundee

Always read profiles before messaging because it gives a insight into what they are looking for and the things they don't like. Everyone should have the respect to read your profile to see if yous even like the same things

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By *tlanshiaWoman
7 days ago

Chatham

If it is obviously they haven’t read my profile, like they don’t fit my age requirements I delete without opening it.

I always read a profile unless they’re rude, then I just block them.

My argument is if you can’t put in the effort to read a profile, yet you’ll expect the me in my pics to turn up not sweats and oversized

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By *vaRoseWoman
7 days ago

Ankh-Morpork

I read them every time

I don’t reply to most messages because it’s clearly a copy paste

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By *andadbodMan
7 days ago

Liverpool

I’ll always read a profile first, im in no rush 👍🏻😉

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By *rWolf619Man
7 days ago

Derbyshire

I always read their profile, distance, everything before I message. I hope people do the same with my profile before a first message but then as a guy that's not really come up yet 😅

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By *onin25Man
7 days ago

Durham

I read profiles if I'm going to send or reply to a message to check if I might actually be interested in them and potentially of interest to them

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By *partharmonyCouple
7 days ago

Tonbridge

I would never reply positively without reading a profile fully. However, if the message and photos tell me enough to know I'm not interested then I may not read everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 days ago

Always read the profile. Women and couples tend to have an inbox brimming with messages. So I’d rather read the profile and then decide if it’s worth me sending a message. Don’t wanna waste my time writing if I’m clearly not going to be something that would be of interest

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By *he MinionMan
7 days ago

Surrey

I genuinely think that people do read profiles. But they are such narcisists they believe it doesnt apply to them.

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