FabSwingers.com forum: When was the last time...

By *Effy- OP Woman
7 days ago

Scotland

You sent the first message?

Did you get a reply?

If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 days ago

SW1A1AA

I send first messages of forum threads but thats it as im not looking to meet anyone

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
7 days ago

London

A few days ago. Message read. No reply.

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By *om_38Man
7 days ago

stoke

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By *hunkykitkat1Man
7 days ago

Selby

Always send the first message

Hardly ever get a reply!!

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By *sWyldWoman
7 days ago

Edinburgh

Its been a while , maybe I'll try!

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By *kphooey43Man
7 days ago

Barnet

"When was the last time...You sent the first message? "

A week ago

"Did you get a reply? "

No, but then it was only commenting on someone's status, so it was an open message.

"If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you? "

I am happy commenting in the Forum. No point inundating someone's inbox. If they are interested they will find me.

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By *oeBeansMan
7 days ago

Derby

Good question! I can't actually remember. I usually realise it's been a while, give it a go and then quickly remember why I don't

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
7 days ago

London

"When was the last time...You sent the first message?

A week ago

Did you get a reply?

No, but then it was only commenting on someone's status, so it was an open message.

If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you?

I am happy commenting in the Forum. No point inundating someone's inbox. If they are interested they will find me."

Who do you think they are, Liam Neeson?

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By *oeBeansMan
7 days ago

Derby

"Always send the first message

Hardly ever get a reply!!"

A fool's errand, really

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By *a LunaWoman
7 days ago

Wales

Beginning of the year. They replied but a few days later they disappeared from the site.

Hopefully they are living their best life and having fun.

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By *ampireWolvesMan
7 days ago

Essex

I wish I knew or more importantly … remembered! 😂😂

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By *lim_funMan
7 days ago

Hebden bridge

I stoped sending messages now. Last I got a reply but they only wanted uncircumcised peen.

Everyone is too far away or jumps to conclusions . Would happily have a long chat with some like minded people but most woman just get ram raided by solos I don't feel like I should be competing or making myself look desperate as I get enough love away from the site that I'm not desperate.

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By *ittleRed18Woman
7 days ago

Aberdeen

I honestly don't remember but might do it now 😜

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By *Effy- OP Woman
7 days ago

Scotland

"I wish I knew or more importantly … remembered! 😂😂"

I wonder what causes that👀

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By *WB85Man
7 days ago

Staffordshire

5 weeks ago.

I haven't really been looking lately, more browsing the forums than anything.

I should send a message this weekend.

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By *enuine_J87Man
7 days ago

Eastleigh

Doesn’t matter. Never get a reply.

Just roam the forums now and occasionally chat that way

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By *ampireWolvesMan
7 days ago

Essex

"I wish I knew or more importantly … remembered! 😂😂

I wonder what causes that👀"

I must have messaged you first. As would everyone! Effy… so hot, she makes Scotland scorching! 🔥🔥😘

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By *Effy- OP Woman
7 days ago

Scotland

"I wish I knew or more importantly … remembered! 😂😂

I wonder what causes that👀

I must have messaged you first. As would everyone! Effy… so hot, she makes Scotland scorching! 🔥🔥😘"

Stop trying to butter me up, Vamps! 😆

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By *ampireWolvesMan
7 days ago

Essex

"I wish I knew or more importantly … remembered! 😂😂

I wonder what causes that👀

I must have messaged you first. As would everyone! Effy… so hot, she makes Scotland scorching! 🔥🔥😘

Stop trying to butter me up, Vamps! 😆"

Change your name for only 7 days 😂😂🤣🤣

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By *heElvingtonTwoCouple
7 days ago

The Ramtops

"You sent the first message?

Did you get a reply?

If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you? "

Pretty much always very rarely do we get a reply

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By *couseBaldyMan
7 days ago

Liverpool

"You sent the first message?

Did you get a reply?

If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you? "

Hadn't reached out with first message for several weeks, sent 2 this week 1 reply and one unread.

I read the reply from one, thought i will answer it next day when i can put in more effort, logged in to another reply saying i got blocked for not responding ha!

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By *Effy- OP Woman
7 days ago

Scotland

"I wish I knew or more importantly … remembered! 😂😂

I wonder what causes that👀

I must have messaged you first. As would everyone! Effy… so hot, she makes Scotland scorching! 🔥🔥😘

Stop trying to butter me up, Vamps! 😆

Change your name for only 7 days 😂😂🤣🤣"

Piss off 🤣

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By *ampireWolvesMan
7 days ago

Essex

"I wish I knew or more importantly … remembered! 😂😂

I wonder what causes that👀

I must have messaged you first. As would everyone! Effy… so hot, she makes Scotland scorching! 🔥🔥😘

Stop trying to butter me up, Vamps! 😆

Change your name for only 7 days 😂😂🤣🤣

Piss off 🤣"

That’s still not a hard no 🤣🤣

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By *.4.eightMan
6 days ago

Leeds

It's hit an miss. The site used to be more social but, i'd say 70 / 30. Either they disappear or in all honesty i go offline so.. the momentum can be lost. Been a while since i met someone one on one only because i need them to be local.

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By *hoenix_1Man
6 days ago

richmond

About 10 minutes ago and she replied, sorry not for her

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By *issBellaWoman
6 days ago

Flintshire

At some point over the last few days. It was off the back of a thread they replied and were very polite, but i'm pretty sure it was a no, ta!

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By *ilf EnthusiastMan
6 days ago

Highgate

Like 4-5 minutes ago and yes they replied

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By *ing49Man
6 days ago

cambs

Umm...the other day and there was no reply

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By *Effy- OP Woman
6 days ago

Scotland

"Like 4-5 minutes ago and yes they replied "

That's a win💪

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By *ampireWolvesMan
6 days ago

Essex

"At some point over the last few days. It was off the back of a thread they replied and were very polite, but i'm pretty sure it was a no, ta!"

I messaged Bella once. She told me to do one so I created a thread and changed my name so she didn’t know it was me and I could message her again 🤣🤣

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By *couseBaldyMan
6 days ago

Liverpool

From your experience, do you get much hate/abuse when you don't reply?

I see quite a few statuses saying they gwt abuse off men when they either say no or don't reply x

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By *Effy- OP Woman
6 days ago

Scotland

"At some point over the last few days. It was off the back of a thread they replied and were very polite, but i'm pretty sure it was a no, ta!

I messaged Bella once. She told me to do one so I created a thread and changed my name so she didn’t know it was me and I could message her again 🤣🤣"

You need to be stopped 😭

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By *Effy- OP Woman
6 days ago

Scotland

"From your experience, do you get much hate/abuse when you don't reply?

I see quite a few statuses saying they gwt abuse off men when they either say no or don't reply x"

It happens. Most of the time I don't let it bother me and either delete the message thread or block the person. Sometimes i get it. Not to excuse their behaviour at all, but if I was constantly getting knocked back it would start wearing thin.

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By *ampireWolvesMan
6 days ago

Essex

"At some point over the last few days. It was off the back of a thread they replied and were very polite, but i'm pretty sure it was a no, ta!

I messaged Bella once. She told me to do one so I created a thread and changed my name so she didn’t know it was me and I could message her again 🤣🤣

You need to be stopped 😭"

😂😂😂 ok I’ll officially 🤐🤐🤐

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By *eroLondonMan
6 days ago

Mayfair

"You sent the first message?"

11th May, and before that 5th March.

"Did you get a reply?"

Yes.

"If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you?"

Women have been sending the first message, therefore I feel less compelled.

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By *Effy- OP Woman
6 days ago

Scotland

"You sent the first message?

11th May, and before that 5th March.

Did you get a reply?

Yes.

If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you?

Women have been sending the first message, therefore I feel less compelled."

Oooh check you out Mr hot stuff😉

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By *iggusJimusMan
6 days ago

Accrington

About 10 minutes ago and... Nope!

Very seldom get replies tbh, except for forum post replies

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By *actile TensionMan
6 days ago

Sussex

6wks ago and got a reply. I didn't press all that hard to engage tbh.

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By *ino200Man
6 days ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna

I rarely send 1st messages these days

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By *aphunterMan
6 days ago

horsham

"You sent the first message?

Did you get a reply?

If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you? "

I often message for the first time and yes I do get replies, not always though, but that because there are a billion other men messaging. I think I get replies as I ask questions or reply privately on forum chats if we click or are coming from a similar viewpoint

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By *eroLondonMan
6 days ago

Mayfair

"You sent the first message?

11th May, and before that 5th March.

Did you get a reply?

Yes.

If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you?

Women have been sending the first message, therefore I feel less compelled.

Oooh check you out Mr hot stuff😉"

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Even you messaged. It doesn't get any more unsolicited than that. If you're looking for a bonk think again.

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...unless you're coming down to London. 😇

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By *aphunterMan
6 days ago

horsham

"You sent the first message?

11th May, and before that 5th March.

Did you get a reply?

Yes.

If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you?

Women have been sending the first message, therefore I feel less compelled.

Oooh check you out Mr hot stuff😉

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Even you messaged. It doesn't get any more unsolicited than that. If you're looking for a bonk think again.

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...unless you're coming down to London. 😇"

🤣🤣🤣

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By *Effy- OP Woman
6 days ago

Scotland

"You sent the first message?

11th May, and before that 5th March.

Did you get a reply?

Yes.

If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you?

Women have been sending the first message, therefore I feel less compelled.

Oooh check you out Mr hot stuff😉

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Even you messaged. It doesn't get any more unsolicited than that. If you're looking for a bonk think again.

...unless you're coming down to London. 😇"

I'll think about it.

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
6 days ago

Lancaster

"I wish I knew or more importantly … remembered! 😂😂"

You did today ha ha

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
6 days ago

Lancaster

For me someone new last week I got a reply and several since

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By *ampireWolvesMan
6 days ago

Essex

"I wish I knew or more importantly … remembered! 😂😂

You did today ha ha "

And the result was a name change of brilliance! 😍😍

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By *lim_funMan
6 days ago

Hebden bridge

Changed my not messaging stance to messaging. Was drawn in by some suds. No plan to meet I just like photography. No reply yet but I'm expecting a lengthy no

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By *ivingherallshesgotMan
6 days ago

Seaham

20 mins ago.

No response yet

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By *otyouraverage1Man
6 days ago

enfield

About ten times in the last hour don't know what im doing wrong

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By *homas400Man
6 days ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo

Sent one yesterday. Message was read and deleted.

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By *lim_funMan
6 days ago

Hebden bridge

"About ten times in the last hour don't know what im doing wrong"

It's not a regular hookup site woman receive a ton of messages. Get bored and can't reply to all of them or simply CBA. Some times it's timing, sometimes your not casting what they want. But the ratio is off. Unless you are a couple or appeal to someone's kinks you won't see much action. If you want a standard hookup try a different site. It's better for chatting and having a gander but solo dudes are far too many here, don't feel defeated it's just how it is.

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By *nlyonce123Man
6 days ago

Liverpool

Sent lot's waiting for reply

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By *andadbodMan
6 days ago

Liverpool

"You sent the first message?

Did you get a reply?

If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you? "

over a year ago I think, was well thought out and personal to the profile (my messages always have been) was never replied to, so I tend to just float around and if people look at my profile and like what they see, i’d hope they message first, as a male profile the odds are stacked heavily against you when trying to be noticed, so I tend to look for the organised socials and try and get on the guest list.

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
6 days ago

In a galaxy far far away

I've not sent a first message yet

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By *omRachCouple
6 days ago

Wirral

As a couple sending the 1st message (especially to a single male) generates a response around 80% of the time, the quality of a lot of those replies does leave a lot to be desired though.

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
6 days ago

Telford

Ages ago if I'm honest.

I reached out wr chatted etc, arranged a meet then he stopped replying.

I find that if I reach out first that tends to happen.

A coincidence maybe? Or I'm just a twat bag haha.

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By *ick MastersMan
6 days ago

Birmingham

Apart from forum threads, about a week ago and no reply.

I did send about 4 messages 2 weeks ago and get a 1 reply.

I don’t send that many, due to most profiles really not having much to message about and good old rejection sensitive dysphoria.

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By *ngry IngridWoman
6 days ago

Cardigan

2 weeks ago. I got a reply

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By *rl444Man
6 days ago

sliema

Pity

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By *ellhungvweMan
6 days ago

Cheltenham

I regularly send first messages to profiles that I like and I think would be a match. I am more likely than not to get a response. Last one was sent yesterday but it isn’t read yet as they haven’t been back on the site since I sent it.

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By *.naughtynclMan
6 days ago

Newcastle

I feel this isn’t a male problem. I send plenty of messages. Im fairly relaxed about chatting but I rarely get a response. I know what some of the thirsty creeps on here are like though so it’s no wonder those who aren’t are tarred with the same brush.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
6 days ago

North East Lincolnshire

We sent one to a lady a couple of days ago and got a reply.

The last couples one was as we got a wink from them but only the lady has pics on the profile, so we complimented and asked for pics of the guy.

I don’t recall asking for a dick pic 😱

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 days ago

Belfast

January 2020.

Yes as far as I can remember I did get a reply.

I haven't been meeting since then so I let my forum comments introduce me to others and they can decide what they want to do then.

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By *radually_RetiringMan
6 days ago

Bury

A few weeks ago, but there’s really no point. Don’t try anymore.

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By *hunkykitkat1Man
6 days ago

Selby

"Always send the first message

Hardly ever get a reply!!

A fool's errand, really"

Yeah, quickly realising that

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By *hunkykitkat1Man
6 days ago

Selby

"You sent the first message?

Did you get a reply?

If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you?

Pretty much always very rarely do we get a reply"

I would reply to you. Im near selby but unfortunately you're not looking for single guys 😁

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By *evilinDavina1Man
6 days ago

Bristol

I've sent one this morning. No reply, but that's cool. How about you o.p?

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By *uaveNightsMan
6 days ago

Canvey Island

Last week, read then deleted.

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
6 days ago

Telford

Sent one this morning.

No reply yet, but it's still early in the morning so I'll give them a pass

Tbf, vast majority of my messages don't get read, or I don't get a reply 🤷‍♂️

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By *issBellaWoman
6 days ago

Flintshire

"At some point over the last few days. It was off the back of a thread they replied and were very polite, but i'm pretty sure it was a no, ta!

I messaged Bella once. She told me to do one so I created a thread and changed my name so she didn’t know it was me and I could message her again 🤣🤣"

I knew your pics looked familiar!!

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By *oveat1stfeelMan
6 days ago

turnrightstraightahead

"You sent the first message?

Did you get a reply?

If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you? "

Answers..

1..a while ago

2...some did reply,met them ...& more than some didn't reply but its ok ,l get that , type, interest tweaked etc etc, not everyone is for everyone here in this jungle .

3.l do sometimes send a 1st message so l suppose nothing is stopping me but if l see it's been read & no reply l simply dont bother them again,..never chase, it's called having repect for them & you.

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By *enuine_J87Man
6 days ago

Eastleigh

So the moral of the story is when women send a message, 95% of the time they get a reply.

For men it’s about 5%

From what I can see in this thread that is.

Although some very attractive women saying the guy stops messaging after a bit!

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By *heekySeanMan
6 days ago

Just around the corner

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
6 days ago

Herts/Leeds

Never sent a first message.

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By *etwife8230Couple
6 days ago

Newport

On Wednesday, No reply 😅

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By *arathonMan86Man
6 days ago

Essex

"You sent the first message?

Did you get a reply?

If you haven't for a while, what's stopping you? "

Opened with my best line.

She read it in minutes, hit ‘mark as unread’, and has been giving it the silent treatment for 14 days straight.

That’s not a soft rejection, that’s Olympic-level ghosting.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
6 days ago

Manchester

Yesterday, I got a very positive reply and we are chatting away.

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By *histle79Man
6 days ago

Guildford

Couple of days ago. Very rarely get replies though (cue sad music)

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By *peedyGMan
6 days ago

Telford

Honestly on this profile i don't think i have sent a first message 🤣

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By *eelight2525Woman
6 days ago

London/Essex/Hertfordshire

Never sent a first msg. I respond if something resonates or catches my eye from those that reach out to me.

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By *eterp1996Man
6 days ago

London

Always message first, 1/100 reply and only 1 of the thousands have successfully lead to a meet. It’s a tough world out there

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By *avrick180Man
6 days ago

Pontypool

Always send the first one dont get many back but never had anyone message me first tho

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By *aughtywelsh89Man
6 days ago

Pontyclun

This morning had a reply

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By *adyBugsWoman
6 days ago

not local even if it says I am

Can’t remember but that’s because I’m on here so infrequently and none of it really bothers me anymore if I don’t get replies so I forget and move on.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
6 days ago

funky town

This morning. No reply as of yet

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
6 days ago

Niche

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By *one_wolf.Man
6 days ago

Nottingham

7 days ago haha, not really plucked up the courage/ had time to be picky on here but no didnt get a reply.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
6 days ago

Niche

If I spy a profile that interests me I will happily send the first message.

The last time I did was several months ago now, and we've been in touch ever since.

I won't send more for now as I don't seek out new chats whilst chatting with someone.

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By *ddieWouldGoMan
6 days ago

Belfast

This morning and got a reply, a rare enough event. Rare that I message new people and even more rare that I get a reply😂💃🥂

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By *iver78Man
6 days ago

barton upon humber

Last night !! And got a reply

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By *hunkykitkat1Man
6 days ago

Selby

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By *adbodben40Man
6 days ago

hull

Always send the first message most dont message back

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By *hat.coupleCouple
6 days ago

Kent

We are always the first to message, being that we are only here for single bi women its rare that we even get a response let alone it gets read. The message filters and settings on this website are messed up, messages get deleted without the receiver even knowing if they get too many. There should be blocks in place or something, maybe set a block on being able to send them a message if thier inbox is full instead of letting it go through only for it to be deleted. I can't imagine how many messages must have been overlooked without the receiver knowing. I wouldn't mind but I take time composing a thoughtful message only for it to be overlooked or deleted. It would be easy to set up, a simple message could pop up when you go to write a message saying the receivers in box is full, problem solved. Also there should be 2 inboxes a general inbox and a friends inbox without limitations.

Mrs x

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
6 days ago

Telford

"We are always the first to message, being that we are only here for single bi women its rare that we even get a response let alone it gets read. The message filters and settings on this website are messed up, messages get deleted without the receiver even knowing if they get too many. There should be blocks in place or something, maybe set a block on being able to send them a message if thier inbox is full instead of letting it go through only for it to be deleted. I can't imagine how many messages must have been overlooked without the receiver knowing. I wouldn't mind but I take time composing a thoughtful message only for it to be overlooked or deleted. It would be easy to set up, a simple message could pop up when you go to write a message saying the receivers in box is full, problem solved. Also there should be 2 inboxes a general inbox and a friends inbox without limitations.

Mrs x"

Haha, welcome to the typical single guy experience 😂

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By *91kMan
6 days ago

Maidstone

Fab has kinda morphed into a browsing facility these days, I don't really send messages much any more. Maybe on the odd chance if someone catches my eye. Other than that it's mostly about the forums and perving 😇

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By *hat.coupleCouple
6 days ago

Kent

Mrs x

Haha, welcome to the typical single guy experience 😂"

Its always been this way for us, it would be a lot easier for everyone if there were better settings for inboxes x I'm not having a winge just trying to make some suggestions to improve really. We get plenty of meets so not complaining x

Mrs x

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By *avexxMan
6 days ago

cheshire

tbh i dont send many messages,, i did send one couple of weeks ago asking a lady if she was ok.because i hadnt seen her on here for a while... and yes i got a reply

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By *rWolf619Man
6 days ago

Derbyshire

Three weeks ago, no reply. It's the same reason I don't have the confidence to just go up and say hi to people at a club, at this point I've been ignored or insulted enough times I don't believe I'll ever get a positive response 😅

I still try it just takes a while.

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