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By *wcjw70 OP Man
1 week ago

Great Barr

I am horrendously bad at not seeing signs when women are into me. To the point where it’s almost served on a plate. Anyone else have this habit or am I just too cautious?

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By *hat.coupleCouple
1 week ago

Kent

Om so bad at seeing signals, im always the last one to twig 🤦🏼‍♀️. But other than flirting im extremely good at picking up on social cues and changes in the social atmosphere, call it my nuerospicy superpower. (P.S, its not a superpower really 😪)

Mrs x

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By *hoenixxFeatherWoman
1 week ago

Teesside

Yep, I'm terrible with social cues. I need people to be direct with me!

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By *orphia2003Woman
1 week ago

Tonypandy.

Bloody awful.

I either made a pass at someone who was just being friends, or you'd virtually got to jump me before I got the message.

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By *actile TensionMan
1 week ago

Sussex

I've missed bundles. Probably

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
1 week ago

Lancaster

I'm shit at this also,they have to outright tell me

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By *Effy-Woman
1 week ago

Scotland

I'm not too bad at picking up on the signals. I'm terrible at plucking up the courage to go for it sometimes.

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By *peedyGMan
1 week ago

Telford

This is me, especially in person... i just think they are being friendly 😂

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By *onin25Man
1 week ago

Durham

I'm terrible at it, even if they spell it out I sometimes struggle

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By *ike_76Man
1 week ago

Yes, absolutely, especially when I was much younger...feel sick about it now when I think back

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By *ustinMan
1 week ago

near chester/welsh border

I'm not sure if I'm bad but more scared about getting it wrong so I think I often miss out.

I think I'm getting signals but then doubt myself and fear a slap in the mouth if I make a move.

I wish it was as easy as the woman just saying something like if you didn't have a partner I'd fuck you.

Or just say your definately my type.

I worked at a house several years ago were the wife would offer wear very little or almost see through tops. She had a great body and I felt she was flirting but didn't want to risk getting battered by her husband so I didn't risk it.

A central heating plumber I know fitted a new heating system for them six months later and he told me he fucked her and she was rampant.

I still think knowing my luck I would have ended up getting battered

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By *WB85Man
1 week ago

Staffordshire

I've no idea, I just choose to make it incredibly clear when I'm into someone and see if they reciprocate.

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By *elix SightedMan
1 week ago

Cloud 8

I’m such a dimwit in so many ways, but in this one especially so. I tend to think people who are just being friendly fancy me, and people who fancy me are just being friendly. Consequently my winkie gets less action than he might if his owner was a bit more savvy.

Burds - if you fancy a go on me, say so!

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
7 days ago

Telford

Oh I rarely bother with subtle hints.

I'm more of a sledgehammer sort haha.

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By *ellinever70Woman
7 days ago

Ayrshire

Is that not just wishful thinking?

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By *evilinDavina1Man
7 days ago

Bristol

Yeah same here o.p I've never been good at figuring out what people actually mean. Which is why I'd much prefer people to be direct with me and tell me what they want.

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By *radually_RetiringMan
7 days ago

Bury

I wouldn’t have a clue about signals.

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By *agic.MMan
7 days ago

Kent/London

I find the concept of "signaling attraction " extremely juvenile...I prefer a woman would just verbalise if she likes me or not. I rather not misinterpreted her intentions...so it doesn't matter how many signals she throws at me (all the smiles and the hair flickering and grabbing my arm and biting her lips..) it's still not gonna push me to "make a move"

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By *arathonMan86Man
7 days ago

Essex

"I am horrendously bad at not seeing signs when women are into me. To the point where it’s almost served on a plate. Anyone else have this habit or am I just too cautious?"

Haha, you’re not cautious — you’re basically blindfolded

I’m the same. They’d have to hit me with a neon sign saying “I want you” and I’d still ask if they’re just being friendly

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
7 days ago

Gloucestershire

Delayed trains and flights can be a pain in the arse sometimes

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