FabSwingers.com forum: First steps

By *lue4u_2 OP Man
1 week ago

Benfleet

Had a very vanilla sex life so far, the Mrs isn't interested at all and I'm now curious about everything. Bi's, couples, and all sorts involving them and beyond.

I keep thinking about easy ways in, no pressure for me.

I'd love to watch a couple fuck then join in if I felt like it, does that happen? Seems a bit "all about me"?

I'd also like to photograph someone or some people, I could help update some profile pics. That would be hot.

What are my chances of finding an easy way in?

I don't want to cheat on the Mrs but just can't stop thinking about you sexy people on here.

Someone help me x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 week ago

Crumpet Castle

You sound like an excited puppy.

The easy way in it to fuck all the ugly ones first

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Mayfair

"What are my chances of finding an easy way in?

I don't want to cheat on the Mrs but just can't stop thinking about you sexy people on here.

Someone help me x"

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I'm not quite clear, OP. If your idea of an "easy way in" is the 'Pot Noodle' method - just add water and, hey presto, instant sex, then you're going to be sorely disappointed.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
7 days ago

SW1A1AA

My only suggestion to you is write a full profile of what you want

There will be people out there but its very niche

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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7 days ago

Central

Could you discuss this with your partner, so that you don't cheat on them?

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By *tsazzMan
7 days ago

Manchester

My advice for a first-step would be communicate with your Mrs and don’t cheat.

If she’s not fulfilling your needs, cheating isn’t the way to go about it. Communication is.

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By *lue4u_2 OP Man
7 days ago

Benfleet

The the replies I expected or probably hoped to see but I think I got the right replies and the ones I needed.

Thanks guys, some good advise.

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By *rightonsteveMan
7 days ago

Hove, mainly…

Add more to your profile about what you’re looking for. Go to a social or a bi friendly sauna.

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By *ellinever70Woman
7 days ago

Ayrshire

Focus on the sex life you have instead of chasing an impossible dream

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By *andC1000Couple
7 days ago

ashford

"My advice for a first-step would be communicate with your Mrs and don’t cheat.

If she’s not fulfilling your needs, cheating isn’t the way to go about it. Communication is."

100% this!

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By *issmorganWoman
7 days ago

Calderdale innit

As others have said, talk to your wife. See if there's a compromise ie can you meet others discreetly.

Try to find out why she's not interested and if there's a chance you could try and both improve this.

If you cheat and get found out, the consequences may mean you'd lose her op.

If you do decide to to remain on here, please be honest about being married though.

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By *lue4u_2 OP Man
7 days ago

Benfleet

"As others have said, talk to your wife. See if there's a compromise ie can you meet others discreetly.

Try to find out why she's not interested and if there's a chance you could try and both improve this.

If you cheat and get found out, the consequences may mean you'd lose her op.

If you do decide to to remain on here, please be honest about being married though. "

Thanks for taking the time, good reply

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By *ino200Man
7 days ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna

"You sound like an excited puppy.

The easy way in it to fuck all the ugly ones first"
lol

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
7 days ago

Carlisle usually

I don't want to cheat on the Mrs but..."

Don't cheat on the Mrs then. Talk to her about what opportunities there are where you don't hurt the people you supposedly care about 💜

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By *007ManMan
7 days ago

Worthing

Op sort what goes on outside the bedroom first and she might, just might, make things more interesting in it. Women are complex (but we love 'em!)

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