FabSwingers.com forum: Overcoming my demon

By *autionContagious97 OP Man
1 week ago

Wellingborough

I have realised recently while being active on fab so much, that so many men on here post their body nude, no matter the size, length or appearance, something I struggle with so I’m looking for people out there that has ever been a victim of revenge p*rn.

Have you ever managed to gain your confidence back? If you have do you have any tips on how I can go forwards as I could not think of anything worse than posting explicit photos on here as my anxiety goes through the roof thinking about it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
1 week ago

Central

Counselling is always worth considering, for any anxiety type issues.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
1 week ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I once had someone nick my pics and pretend to be me, chatting to people online and all I could think was that I had my own tribute act

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By *WB85Man
1 week ago

Staffordshire

If those types of pictures make you anxious, don't do it.

I have no graphic pics on my profile and it hasn't hindered my journey.

I always tell people that I'd rather meet someone for a social and build a connection before any pics like that are exchanged.

This is your journey so follow your own rules.

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By *Effy-Woman
1 week ago

Scotland

This happened to me last year by someone I know. My pictures were showed to family members, who i then had to explain what Fab was and why I was on here. It wasn't a great time and I left for a while trying to get over it.

The people I don't want to see me naked already have, so I don't give a shit anymore.

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By *autionContagious97 OP Man
1 week ago

Wellingborough

So photos that don’t reveal much shouldn’t prevent my success on here then?

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By *WB85Man
1 week ago

Staffordshire

"So photos that don’t reveal much shouldn’t prevent my success on here then? "

Ive been here for 4 years. Had some great meets over the years and none of my pics are nude.

Some women want the graphic pics, others dont.

Good luck OP.

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By *autionContagious97 OP Man
1 week ago

Wellingborough

Thank you, just trying to figure out why I’m not getting anywhere on here. Just trying to eliminate the possibilities

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By *tlanshiaWoman
1 week ago

Chatham

Post what makes you feel comfortable.

For me the male profiles who don’t have lots of naked pics intrigue me.

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By *ee04Man
1 week ago

Essex

Hi being a naturist most of my family and friends have seen me naked at one point or another. There are very few people that don’t know I am, I would always say go to a naturist place you’ll see every type of body there is and nobody will judge you.

I have seen pictures of myself on others profiles most on here will blur out any identifying parts of your body. Personally this site is a sex site yes some find the one on here but that is rare I’d say.

As for anyone using your pictures “why were they on here in the first place”?

It’s the same reasoning I first used when I went to a naturist venue many many years ago. What if I see someone I know? Well if they’re there they’re doing the same as me.

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By *ellhungvweMan
1 week ago

Cheltenham

I am with the only do what you are comfortable with crowd. There are lots of ways to play fab and you have to find the way that works for you.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"This happened to me last year by someone I know. My pictures were showed to family members, who i then had to explain what Fab was and why I was on here. It wasn't a great time and I left for a while trying to get over it.

The people I don't want to see me naked already have, so I don't give a shit anymore. "

Omg Effy that is awful! 😪

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By *Effy-Woman
1 week ago

Scotland

The people I don't want to see me naked already have, so I don't give a shit anymore.

Omg Effy that is awful! 😪"

It was. The guy is a dick. I'm over it now though.

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By *inkShyWoman
1 week ago

near Windsor

Before it was a crime, an ex made an email address identical to mine and added a '.' to the end. He then emailed everyone explicit photos of me pretending to be me, plus added some disgusting ones from porn sites. This went to family and friends.

I was humiliated but it honestly said more about him than me.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 week ago

Herts/Leeds

"Before it was a crime, an ex made an email address identical to mine and added a '.' to the end. He then emailed everyone explicit photos of me pretending to be me, plus added some disgusting ones from porn sites. This went to family and friends.

I was humiliated but it honestly said more about him than me."

It was a crime long before revenge porn laws, just an offence under a different statute.

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By *ino200Man
1 week ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna

"Thank you, just trying to figure out why I’m not getting anywhere on here. Just trying to eliminate the possibilities "
Your success on here is certainly not down to your lack of naked pics

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By *autionContagious97 OP Man
1 week ago

Wellingborough

Okay that’s good to know, thank you

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