FabSwingers.com forum: How long should good sex lasts for?

By *hagTonight OP Man
1 week ago

From the land of haribos.

I read an interesting article about it. I didnt know that there was specific times that was considered good sex, did you?

Because I think that the length of time that is considered good for sex varies depending on a number of factors, including preferences and desires.

Here are the times, which one would you choose?

1. 16 to 20min

2. 30 to 45min

3. 45 to 60min

4. More than 1hour

I would choose number 2, it is not too long or short

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By *ora the explorerWoman
1 week ago

Paradise, Herts

Sometimes a 10 minute quickie is what’s needed. Sometimes a long session is amazing.

There isn’t a time for me.

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet

"...There isn’t a time for me. "

Not even 14.00 today?

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By *luebell888Woman
1 week ago

Glasgowish

Until you are both satisfied.

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
1 week ago

Lancaster

16 to 20 mins with no switch up of positions or breaks anything longer and I'm getting bored.

With the switch up and breaks and chats and such inbetween it can be hours

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By *aughty by nature 76Man
1 week ago

Walsall

You shouldn’t really put a time on it x it’s all about having a great time and enjoying each other

Exploring each other

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By *ssexPaul50Man
1 week ago

colchester

Does this all include the initial chat at the beginning, taking cloths off, little forplay and then getting down to business? I’d say in total for everything- a good 3 mins

LOL

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
1 week ago

Gloucestershire

Until the kettle or oven timer goes off

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By *ourpornfixMan
1 week ago

East Cheshire

4 minutes and 33 seconds.

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By *ockwellinMan
1 week ago

Over there...

Lasts as long as you're both enjoying it, the point it just becomes a mechanical process its gone on too long.

Quickies are great, as are longer sessions.

Met a woman from another site few years ago where it went on all night, we had several breaks then started again, she reckons 6 times throughout the night, niether of us orgasmed. Then about 8.00am we had what could only be called a quickie, a 5min knee trembler ending in orgasms for both of us.

Was a great night, ached and was sore for few days after though

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet

"16 to 20 mins with no switch up of positions or breaks anything longer and I'm getting bored.

With the switch up and breaks and chats and such inbetween it can be hours

16-20 minutes is quite specific. Do you keep a stop watch? What happens if (s)he finishes at 15 minutes and 20 seconds? And at 20 minutes and 10 seconds, do you should "Time"! Is it like the mixed martial arts contests where ten seconds before the round is due to stop a click, click, click sounds til tge Bell rings? 😂

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By *tlanshiaWoman
1 week ago

Chatham

If it is amazing sex im not watching the clock.

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By *ellhungvweMan
1 week ago

Cheltenham

It can be all of those. Plus a 0 (a real quickie) or a 5 (something that just goes on and on and on). It all depends.

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By *avrick180Man
1 week ago

Pontypool

Until both have cum and really enjoyed it

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By *mf123Man
1 week ago

with one foot out the door

It doesnt end

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By *imply_SensualMan
1 week ago

Cheshire

Until my wrist starts to ache

Seriously though, there isnt a time, it all depends on the situation at the time. As others have said, I have had amazing and intense quickies which were extremely satisfying for both us involved, and I have had long nights - each has their place.

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By *a LunaWoman
1 week ago

Wales

Anything under 30 minutes

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By *eordiePTFellaMan
1 week ago

Newcastle - Scotland

I just cannot stop once started on a good thing ....so scrap those timings lol

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By *helroyCouple
1 week ago

Skegness

mfm 3 sums about 3 hours

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By *adJennyWoman
1 week ago

Cougar Village

"Sometimes a 10 minute quickie is what’s needed. Sometimes a long session is amazing.

There isn’t a time for me. "

This

One time in band camp 27 hours

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By *mf123Man
1 week ago

with one foot out the door

Best sex i ever had lasted about 23 hours like orgasm tennis that was a long time ago when i was a very different person

Fucking good times tho

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple
1 week ago

North West

How long is a piece of string?

If we’ve ever got porn on though in the background, it’s hard to avoid comparing yourself to the duration of what’s going on on the screen. I always feel a little bit disappointed if he’s outlasted me

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By *estructionDollyWoman
1 week ago

Manchester

If I'm thinking about the time then it's not good sex. If its good then you should be caught up in the moment and not thinking about how long it's lasting.

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By *ackformore100Man
1 week ago

Tin town

"I read an interesting article about it. I didnt know that there was specific times that was considered good sex, did you?

Because I think that the length of time that is considered good for sex varies depending on a number of factors, including preferences and desires.

Here are the times, which one would you choose?

1. 16 to 20min

2. 30 to 45min

3. 45 to 60min

4. More than 1hour

I would choose number 2, it is not too long or short

Not sure if a time limit or duration defines if sex is good bad or anything else. Just another of those life is a formula we must all follow articles I suspect. Closely followed by the links to get rich quick. Get thin quick. Get fit quick adverts.

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By *vonCalling2022Couple
1 week ago

Whyteleafe

Daft question.

I mean am I in a hotel room all afternoon? Or up against my car fully clothed?

Really depends on one’s needs doesn’t it.

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By *ino200Man
1 week ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna

"I read an interesting article about it. I didnt know that there was specific times that was considered good sex, did you?

Because I think that the length of time that is considered good for sex varies depending on a number of factors, including preferences and desires.

Here are the times, which one would you choose?

1. 16 to 20min

2. 30 to 45min

3. 45 to 60min

4. More than 1hour

I would choose number 2, it is not too long or short

"
All night surely

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By *hagTonight OP Man
1 week ago

From the land of haribos.

"Sometimes a 10 minute quickie is what’s needed. Sometimes a long session is amazing.

There isn’t a time for me. "
Hi nora, that is good how there isnt a time for you, a 10 minute quickie is good. I also sometimes like a long session as well

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
1 week ago

South Wales

They’re all good options depending on where you are and who you’re with xx 😘

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By *ornucopiaMan
1 week ago

Bexley

"If it is amazing sex im not watching the clock."

Damned spell checker?

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By *avexxMan
1 week ago

cheshire

its timeless

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By *iking_on_a_bikeMan
1 week ago

marlborough

Good sex is probably a multi factorial thing.

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By *vaRoseWoman
1 week ago

Ankh-Morpork

Define sex?

Because a good session to me includes much more than penetration.

Personally I prefer option 5 which is multiple rounds all day with breaks and snacks throughout

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By *ino200Man
1 week ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna

"Define sex?

Because a good session to me includes much more than penetration.

Personally I prefer option 5 which is multiple rounds all day with breaks and snacks throughout "
Exactly i always took food for a break

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By *orknmindy21Couple
1 week ago

Newtownards

"Does this all include the initial chat at the beginning, taking cloths off, little forplay and then getting down to business? I’d say in total for everything- a good 3 mins

LOL "
jeez that long

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By *emptme1993Man
1 week ago

manchester

All depends what you’re including in your timings. But tbh, who the fuck is staring at the time to decide if you’ve enjoyed yourself or not

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By *lasmaxMan
1 week ago

Watford

"Sometimes a 10 minute quickie is what’s needed. Sometimes a long session is amazing.

There isn’t a time for me. "

This is the right answer,

10 minutes or all night are both fun so long as you’re bath smiling and enjoying

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By *moothdickMan
1 week ago

stoke

As long as it’s good

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By *hagTonight OP Man
1 week ago

From the land of haribos.

"Until you are both satisfied. "
Yes, you are right there, until both are satisfied too

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By *heJam84Man
1 week ago

Manchester

most of it is me spending time down south and if she enjoys it then she will give me what i want. a nice 15/30 minutes or if the presex foreplay extends it then super.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
1 week ago

From the land of haribos.

"It can be all of those. Plus a 0 (a real quickie) or a 5 (something that just goes on and on and on). It all depends."
Yes, it all depends too

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By *ust want fun 888Man
1 week ago

nearby

Years ago, I don’t know what I was drinking that night, but I was with a girl and we had non-stop sex for about six hours and I didn’t come once, the way she was talking, I even think she was getting bored by the end of it

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By *lackadderMan
1 week ago

Eastbourne

It doesn’t work like that..

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By *ornucopiaMan
1 week ago

Bexley

"Years ago, I don’t know what I was drinking that night, but I was with a girl and we had non-stop sex for about six hours and I didn’t come once, the way she was talking, I even think she was getting bored by the end of it"

Did she start asking when you were going, rather than coming?

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By *aughtywelsh89Man
1 week ago

Pontyclun

An hour

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By *ouplususCouple
1 week ago

Cheshire

If the sex is good - as long as you like… 🫦

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
1 week ago

Motherwell

6 hours during the week or all night long Friday to Saturday morning partying with breaks for more oral, cups of tea and a wee puff ,glass of wine and good mood music playing in the background mmm heaven. Mx 👿

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By *ools and the brainCouple
1 week ago

couple, us we him her.

Until I'm done,she can do one

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By *rumguyy82Man
1 week ago

West Bromwich

Option 2, with the possiblity of a repeat

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By *hagTonight OP Man
1 week ago

From the land of haribos.

"16 to 20 mins with no switch up of positions or breaks anything longer and I'm getting bored.

With the switch up and breaks and chats and such inbetween it can be hours

"
Hi hearditall, that is good, 16 to 20mins with no switch up of positions or breaks, yes, it can be hours with that too

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
1 week ago

Carlisle usually

Until all parties are satisfied. Sometimes that's a two minute quickie, sometimes that's four hours of basking in each other. Moods and contexts 💜

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By *hagTonight OP Man
1 week ago

From the land of haribos.

"You shouldn’t really put a time on it x it’s all about having a great time and enjoying each other

Exploring each other "
Yes, it is about having a great time too

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By *arialoueWoman
1 week ago

Doncaster

My last good sex session with my fwb lasted over ,2hrs with few rest bits as well

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By *Effy-Woman
1 week ago

Scotland

Anything longer than 10 minutes and my mind starts to wander.

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By *arialoueWoman
1 week ago

Doncaster

We tried lots of new stuff as well can't wait for next time

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By *hibariDom2025Man
1 week ago

Hayle

Totally depends, a 5 minute quickie can be amazing but a 5 hr session can be pretty fun too.

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By *arathonMan86Man
1 week ago

Essex

1 hour plus, as an hour is just the intro and foreplay round for me

I’m firmly Team 4 Pro Max — proper sex should leave you wondering what day it is.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
1 week ago

From the land of haribos.

"Define sex?

Because a good session to me includes much more than penetration.

Personally I prefer option 5 which is multiple rounds all day with breaks and snacks throughout "
Hi eva. I would define it as both foreplay and penetration, that is good how a good session for you includes more than penetration too, option 5 is good with multiple rounds as well

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
1 week ago

London

I don't think it's time dependent. It's about what you both want and need in the moment. Sometimes lots of foreplay and and sensuality. Sometimes a quickie. Sometimes multiple rounds. It depends also on how much free time you have and how loudly she can scream.

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By *eekaboo BellyMan
7 days ago

Bradford

12.8 seconds. Take it or leave it

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By *b1980Man
7 days ago

Burnley

If its over quickly on both parts it's been enjoyed

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By *amCutMan
7 days ago

east Midlands

Id say 4

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By *hagTonight OP Man
7 days ago

From the land of haribos.

"Anything under 30 minutes

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That is good it is anything under 30min too

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
7 days ago

Telford

Oh it really does on mood and vibe etc.

Sometimes a quickie really hits the spot and sometimes a longer liaison is needed.

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By *lpine12Couple
7 days ago

BARMOUTH

TIL blokes cum !

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By *hagTonight OP Man
6 days ago

From the land of haribos.

"Until the kettle or oven timer goes off "
That is good

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By *layfullsamMan
6 days ago

Solihull

For me or for a partner I’m with ?

Probably different 😂

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
6 days ago

Sheffield

Always 4 ++++

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By *hat.coupleCouple
6 days ago

Kent

Depends on many things really, quickies are hot and can be exciting but then so can long drawn out sessions. If everyone is left satisfied thats all that matters x

Mrs x

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