FabSwingers.com forum: top tips for single males

By *hiterose99 OP Man
1 week ago

york

any ladies either single or from couples willing to offer their wisdom for attracting and getting more meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

Be respecful

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By *hiterose99 OP Man
1 week ago

york

always

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
1 week ago

Carlisle usually

Quality is a better aim than quantity 💜

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

The odds are stacked against you. There are many, many more men here than other demographics.

Things you can do to help:

A strong profile. A variety of pictures that show your body (a minority if any dick pics, face pics not necessary). Informative profile text that tells people about you.

Messaging: read the profile of the people you're messaging, and use it in your message. Respect their wishes (if you don't want to, don't message them). Remember that delete without reply means no thank you. Try to be interesting - "hi how are you" can feel like spam from a woman's perspective.

Statuses/forum use: the way you act in public may be used to judge your character.

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

Your profile in particular, OP:

1. Cropping faces is better than scribbles

2. That legal notice is entirely unenforceable and makes you look like a rube.

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By *rightonsteveMan
1 week ago

Hove, mainly…

"Your profile in particular, OP:

1. Cropping faces is better than scribbles

2. That legal notice is entirely unenforceable and makes you look like a pube."

I agree.

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Your profile in particular, OP:

1. Cropping faces is better than scribbles

2. That legal notice is entirely unenforceable and makes you look like a pube.

I agree. "

FFS 🤣

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By *rightonsteveMan
1 week ago

Hove, mainly…

"Your profile in particular, OP:

1. Cropping faces is better than scribbles

2. That legal notice is entirely unenforceable and makes you look like a pube.

I agree.

FFS 🤣"

Haha

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By *hiterose99 OP Man
1 week ago

york

thanks

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 week ago

Round the bend

Stand out from the rest.

How is easier said than done, funny attracts us more than a dick pic or "your are sexy"

Be respectful, timing is key you have more chance of being noticed Tuesday tea time than Friday night rush hour.

Mr 🐺

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By *jonesMan
1 week ago

south west

Go to socials where you can meet folk.The real world is a lot easier than the online messaging world.

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By *avrick180Man
1 week ago

Pontypool

Dont get your hopes up that you will get a meet on here

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 week ago

Herts/Leeds

Rather than chasing meets as your goal, focus on presenting yourself as someone the ladies would like to meet. That’s the bit you can influence.

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By *ANiCURETV/TS
1 week ago

Winchester

Control your lust first, then what everyone else says above

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By *r SensualMan
1 week ago

London

Log out, put ya phone down, go outside and “touch grass” as the kids these days say.

You’re more likely to meet other fabbers in real life at an event than you are via the site alone.

All the advice about having a good profile and messaging approach is useful and true but some of these very same people are mote busy filtering out profiles from their inboxes daily than they are arranging meets through them.

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By *ino200Man
1 week ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna

"any ladies either single or from couples willing to offer their wisdom for attracting and getting more meets?"
Have a puppy they love puppies

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By *igBeardyDanMan
1 week ago

Bilston

Try you're local club scene,its much easier to chat with people face to face then hoping they see your message on here.

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By *ilverfox for youMan
1 week ago

Hull

Be nice ! And beg !!

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By *astManOnEarthMan
1 week ago

nowhere

Don't bother to start with

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By *iking_on_a_bikeMan
1 week ago

marlborough

Go out, meet women, be charismatic not creepy, stand out from the crowd, don’t fear or take rejection personally.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
1 week ago

South Wales

Try a group social xx 😘

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
1 week ago

North Somerset

A good profile is far more important than a good message. Most will look at that before deciding to even read a message. That means words as well as pictures.

If messaging a couple remember theyre a couple. Address both, even if you're straight. He is as important as she is.

And most importantly...just because someone is on a swinging site remember that doesn't mean they'll meet/fuck anyone and everyone. Likewise just because they're logged in it doesn't mean theyre looking for a meet at that moment, or in fact anytime soon. There's nothing less sexy than a 'meet now?' or 'I'm in your area' message.

Patience above all else.

Obi

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By *ellhungvweMan
1 week ago

Cheltenham

My advice would be don’t ask women or couples what they want because they all want something different. And that’s kind of the point.

You need to specialise. Work out what you want (that should mean more than just a shag) and then focus on the people who want the same. Spamming the whole world will just get rejection. Setting your stall out to appeal to the people who want the same as you will get you a much futher.

Less is more.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
1 week ago

North East Lincolnshire

You only get one chance to make a good first impression so don’t waste it.

There are 3 things you need to consider when messaging and these all have to be at a decent level:-

A good message, showing you’re not typing with one hand and understand your audience

A decent profile, which shows you’ve took some on it to try and sell yourself

Variable pics which shows us your personality and the way you want to portray yourself.

All 3 together are the top tier and gives you the best chance to have success on here.

Only have 1 of the 3? Then I’d spend more time on your profile rather than messaging people.

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By *ino200Man
1 week ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna

"You only get one chance to make a good first impression so don’t waste it.

There are 3 things you need to consider when messaging and these all have to be at a decent level:-

A good message, showing you’re not typing with one hand and understand your audience

A decent profile, which shows you’ve took some on it to try and sell yourself

Variable pics which shows us your personality and the way you want to portray yourself.

All 3 together are the top tier and gives you the best chance to have success on here.

Only have 1 of the 3? Then I’d spend more time on your profile rather than messaging people.

K"
Just a question how do pics show personality ?Style maybe ,intent maybe

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet

"Just a question how do pics show personality ?Style maybe ,intent maybe

Quite easy: if you have a dick pick, you are a dick, if you have an arsehole pic you are a...

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By *ino200Man
1 week ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna

"Just a question how do pics show personality ?Style maybe ,intent maybe

Quite easy: if you have a dick pick, you are a dick, if you have an arsehole pic you are a...

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lol oh well many here are Dicks but some dicks have more personality than others

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By *eyond PurityCouple
1 week ago

North East Lincolnshire

"You only get one chance to make a good first impression so don’t waste it.

There are 3 things you need to consider when messaging and these all have to be at a decent level:-

A good message, showing you’re not typing with one hand and understand your audience

A decent profile, which shows you’ve took some on it to try and sell yourself

Variable pics which shows us your personality and the way you want to portray yourself.

All 3 together are the top tier and gives you the best chance to have success on here.

Only have 1 of the 3? Then I’d spend more time on your profile rather than messaging people.

KJust a question how do pics show personality ?Style maybe ,intent maybe

So people get an idea of you, how you dress/undress, your style, the way you want people to see you - they all add up to make up your personality.

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By *enk15Man
1 week ago

Evesham

Easy 2 step method:

Step 1: Try your hardest to be a woman

Step 2: Enjoy the cock

👍

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By *enk15Man
1 week ago

Evesham

"Just a question how do pics show personality ?Style maybe ,intent maybe

Quite easy: if you have a dick pick, you are a dick, if you have an arsehole pic you are a...

I might have to pose with my cactus because I'm a massive prick.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"Easy 2 step method:

Step 1: Try your hardest to be a woman

Step 2: Enjoy the cock

👍"

Works well

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
1 week ago

Reading

I agree with the above about a decently written profile and pictures that are interesting and not just 578 different angles of your penis.

I think 'a good message' can be interpreted in different ways though. And that is something that people can influence. Don't copy/paste. Make it specific. Ask a questions. Don't just say 'hope you like what you see' or 'would love to chat' chat about what? This is your moment to spark her/their interest and neither of those two comments sparks my interest. Don't be a dud.

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