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"I've enjoyed several mmf and I'm usually the extra 'm'....interestingly enough, recently I was in the happy position of arranging for an extra guy, we put a 'meet now' up and the amount of dross, one liners, crap photos, and total wank from men made me realise how frustrating it is for couples who get inundated with messages from guys. They were offered sex and totally didn't understand the concept of 'selling' themselves. Guys: to be the extra 'm' in mmf, you need to up your game and show a bit of quality. " You mean the "can I shag your missus" does not work.  | |||
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"I've enjoyed several mmf and I'm usually the extra 'm'....interestingly enough, recently I was in the happy position of arranging for an extra guy, we put a 'meet now' up and the amount of dross, one liners, crap photos, and total wank from men made me realise how frustrating it is for couples who get inundated with messages from guys. They were offered sex and totally didn't understand the concept of 'selling' themselves. Guys: to be the extra 'm' in mmf, you need to up your game and show a bit of quality. " Steve,,, I hear ya brother,,,,,In fact I bet some of those mailing you weren’t even real guys,,they were probably just more of them single females pretending to be guys.……. It happens all the time…!!    | |||
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"Yeah guys! Up your fucking game! Fuckers." omg I saw the weird avatar and thought it was mistress 
In my defence I hav'nt had any coffee yet
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"I've enjoyed several mmf and I'm usually the extra 'm'....interestingly enough, recently I was in the happy position of arranging for an extra guy, we put a 'meet now' up and the amount of dross, one liners, crap photos, and total wank from men made me realise how frustrating it is for couples who get inundated with messages from guys. They were offered sex and totally didn't understand the concept of 'selling' themselves. Guys: to be the extra 'm' in mmf, you need to up your game and show a bit of quality. Steve,,, I hear ya brother,,,,,In fact I bet some of those mailing you weren’t even real guys,,they were probably just more of them single females pretending to be guys.……. It happens all the time…!! "Oooops that would be me!! | |||
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"Yeah guys! Up your fucking game! Fuckers. omg I saw the weird avatar and thought it was mistress
In my defence I hav'nt had any coffee yet
"  I know I'm looking rough, but hot damn!!! *Sobs uncontrollably* | |||
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"Yeah guys! Up your fucking game! Fuckers. omg I saw the weird avatar and thought it was mistress
In my defence I hav'nt had any coffee yet
"Ah you wont be aware of the back story. In your absence I was punished by the internet Gods for gratuitous passive trolling and sentenced to wear a picture of my soul every rant Thursday for ever more.
It will be gone by tomorrow morning, shame shit every week.
True story. | |||
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"Yeah guys! Up your fucking game! Fuckers. omg I saw the weird avatar and thought it was mistress
In my defence I hav'nt had any coffee yet
Ah you wont be aware of the back story. In your absence I was punished by the internet Gods for gratuitous passive trolling and sentenced to wear a picture of my soul every rant Thursday for ever more.
It will be gone by tomorrow morning, shame shit every week.
True story. "ffs!  | |||
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"Not just couples that get said messages.. Us singletons do too "So true | |||
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"I've enjoyed several mmf and I'm usually the extra 'm'....interestingly enough, recently I was in the happy position of arranging for an extra guy, we put a 'meet now' up and the amount of dross, one liners, crap photos, and total wank from men made me realise how frustrating it is for couples who get inundated with messages from guys. They were offered sex and totally didn't understand the concept of 'selling' themselves. Guys: to be the extra 'm' in mmf, you need to up your game and show a bit of quality. " Do you want an extra F in you MMF? | |||
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"Yeah guys! Up your fucking game! Fuckers." I need to change my knickers now
Im gonna have one of these soon well a mfm and im not gonna deal with all the hassle of trying to find the extra bloke im just gonna go to a club and see if anyone takes my fancy...unless someone i already talk to is free when its time.
I don't think i could do with sifting through all the wank mail | |||
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" Do you want an extra F in you MMF? "Lol the mythical single female | |||
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"We don't have a problem with males mails....in fact I would say we answered 59 mails last night and not one was how you describe. We also don't get the "sell yourself" bit...it makes it sound like they have to do all the work?" Well said. | |||
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"I've already organised my first mfm so just need to sort a date and stop being so chicken x "That's me it will be my first so will be a bit chicken but im just glad im gonna do it with someone who will make sure alls cool | |||
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"We don't have a problem with males mails....in fact I would say we answered 59 mails last night and not one was how you describe. We also don't get the "sell yourself" bit...it makes it sound like they have to do all the work?" The 'sell yourself' was two words to encompass the concept of replying to an invitation for sex in a manner that didn't make us cringe. A great many men were unable to do this. I don't consider replying to a message as being 'work'. All they had to do was respond with a bit more than 1 line and be polite about it. | |||
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"I've already organised my first mfm so just need to sort a date and stop being so chicken x
That's me it will be my first so will be a bit chicken but im just glad im gonna do it with someone who will make sure alls cool"I've met both of mine before so it should be good  | |||
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"We don't have a problem with males mails....in fact I would say we answered 59 mails last night and not one was how you describe. We also don't get the "sell yourself" bit...it makes it sound like they have to do all the work? The 'sell yourself' was two words to encompass the concept of replying to an invitation for sex in a manner that didn't make us cringe. A great many men were unable to do this. I don't consider replying to a message as being 'work'. All they had to do was respond with a bit more than 1 line and be polite about it. " Ah right....polite is good yes
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"We don't have a problem with males mails....in fact I would say we answered 59 mails last night and not one was how you describe. We also don't get the "sell yourself" bit...it makes it sound like they have to do all the work?" Not all the work - but at least show a little individuality! If the message is 5 words long and the profile little more - it doesn't give you much to go on and is unlikely to get a particularly positive reception! | |||
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"We don't have a problem with males mails....in fact I would say we answered 59 mails last night and not one was how you describe. We also don't get the "sell yourself" bit...it makes it sound like they have to do all the work? Not all the work - but at least show a little individuality! If the message is 5 words long and the profile little more - it doesn't give you much to go on and is unlikely to get a particularly positive reception!" Exactly. | |||
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"We don't have a problem with males mails....in fact I would say we answered 59 mails last night and not one was how you describe. We also don't get the "sell yourself" bit...it makes it sound like they have to do all the work? Not all the work - but at least show a little individuality! If the message is 5 words long and the profile little more - it doesn't give you much to go on and is unlikely to get a particularly positive reception!" All these perfect men about to tell others how to write eh
The very first man we ever met sent us a 9 word sentance that made us laugh so much it started a dialogue that led to a meet. His profile had four lines of silly comments on it.
Sometimes you don't need war and peace to decide if someone is on the same level as you to start a conversation and prgress from there | |||
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"We don't have a problem with males mails....in fact I would say we answered 59 mails last night and not one was how you describe. We also don't get the "sell yourself" bit...it makes it sound like they have to do all the work? Not all the work - but at least show a little individuality! If the message is 5 words long and the profile little more - it doesn't give you much to go on and is unlikely to get a particularly positive reception! All these perfect men about to tell others how to write eh
The very first man we ever met sent us a 9 word sentance that made us laugh so much it started a dialogue that led to a meet. His profile had four lines of silly comments on it.
Sometimes you don't need war and peace to decide if someone is on the same level as you to start a conversation and prgress from there "
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"I've enjoyed several mmf and I'm usually the extra 'm'....interestingly enough, recently I was in the happy position of arranging for an extra guy, we put a 'meet now' up and the amount of dross, one liners, crap photos, and total wank from men made me realise how frustrating it is for couples who get inundated with messages from guys. They were offered sex and totally didn't understand the concept of 'selling' themselves. Guys: to be the extra 'm' in mmf, you need to up your game and show a bit of quality. " Don't be such a lazy ****.... go and find the guys you both like the look and sound of. What is it with guys as soon as the get a flange to flaunt suddenly want to sit back and let the 'extra' do all the running? I would hope you didn't refer to the additional company you both sought as being the 'extra'..... if you did it may explain a few things. As for "they were offered sex"... interesting way of putting it. | |||
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