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By *elshman1974 OP Man
1 week ago

Swansea

Holding off…

I’ll explain. I would imagine most of us here are very good at getting off be that masturbation or fucking

But how good are you at holding off

How long can you go without sex?

How long can you go without masturbating?

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
1 week ago

Telford

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
1 week ago

Telford

It's been 7 months for me so far.

The longest was 2 years.

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By *ealitybitesMan
1 week ago

Belfast

I've gone for 10 years without sex or even any intimacy.

I've gone without masturbating for maybe half that time.

Am I good at it? No idea but I rarely think about sex when I'm not having it so it's not really much of a challenge.

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
1 week ago

Swansea

"It's been 7 months for me so far.

The longest was 2 years.

That both sex and masturbation or just sex?

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
1 week ago

Swansea

"I've gone for 10 years without sex or even any intimacy.

I've gone without masturbating for maybe half that time.

Am I good at it? No idea but I rarely think about sex when I'm not having it so it's not really much of a challenge. "

I think going without any form of non sexual intimacy is the hardest

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
1 week ago

Birmingham

I find those times of celibacy are fantastic, your head is clear and distractions are less so. If I need a break, I find it quite easy to switch it off.

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By *orphia2003Woman
1 week ago

Tonypandy.

Years of I choose to.

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By *eordiePTFellaMan
1 week ago

Newcastle - Scotland

Constantly horny but not having sex regularly...I enjoy and obsessed about edging...good at holding and controlling the orgasm.

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
1 week ago

Swansea

"I find those times of celibacy are fantastic, your head is clear and distractions are less so. If I need a break, I find it quite easy to switch it off."

Do you find it’s something you build into your life regularly for the fantastic feelings you get from it ?

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By *leasinglipznhipsWoman
1 week ago

I don’t self pleasure at all. I let the frustration build then it dissipates with my sexual partner. I’ve found it’s enhanced the play I have

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
1 week ago

Swansea

"Constantly horny but not having sex regularly...I enjoy and obsessed about edging...good at holding and controlling the orgasm.

Yeah my feeling is that women are generally better at going without sex and masturbation compared to men

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
1 week ago

Swansea

"I don’t self pleasure at all. I let the frustration build then it dissipates with my sexual partner. I’ve found it’s enhanced the play I have "

Oh I like your style on this one. My fwb and I often do this too. No masturbation between seeing each other (at times). Can up the ante by allowing edging. That makes you feral by the time you see each other!

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By *offee3SweetnersTV/TS
1 week ago

Kettering

Thanks to HRT 14 months so far

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By *hickthighs26Woman
1 week ago

funky town

When i'm not having sex it doesnt really bother me and i have gone a year before but when i am having it want it all of the time.

I do masturbate regularly though as if i didnt i would be a right bitch

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
1 week ago

Swansea

"When i'm not having sex it doesnt really bother me and i have gone a year before but when i am having it want it all of the time.

I do masturbate regularly though as if i didnt i would be a right bitch

So you are good at holding off from sex but piss poor at holding off from masturbating 😉 dare you to go a week without!

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By *uvs2snogMan
1 week ago

Now living in Spain

If I go without sex or a wank for over a week I find I’m constantly getting hard all the time

If we have sex in a risky place like our roof terrace then I have to think boring / non sexual thinks or I cum too soon lol

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
1 week ago

Birmingham

"I find those times of celibacy are fantastic, your head is clear and distractions are less so. If I need a break, I find it quite easy to switch it off.

Do you find it’s something you build into your life regularly for the fantastic feelings you get from it ?

Absolutely, your body needs a reset now again and I know when its time!

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
1 week ago

Swansea

"I find those times of celibacy are fantastic, your head is clear and distractions are less so. If I need a break, I find it quite easy to switch it off.

Do you find it’s something you build into your life regularly for the fantastic feelings you get from it ?

Absolutely, your body needs a reset now again and I know when its time!"

And I guess equally when you return to sexual pleasure it feels all the better for the abstinence. Like I bet that first orgasm back is wild 😉

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
1 week ago

Swansea

I have previously gone a year without sex, I probably could go a good few weeks without masterbastion.

Since meeting my husband 10 years ago we had to abstain from sex for about 3 weeks as I was recovering from surgery, but we were still affectionate and had moments of intimacy. I can go for about 3 maybe 4 days without sex that's if our ho_elife schedule is super busy. However, the sex after is like an intense reconnection.

Mrs S&N

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By *leasinglipznhipsWoman
1 week ago

"I don’t self pleasure at all. I let the frustration build then it dissipates with my sexual partner. I’ve found it’s enhanced the play I have

Don’t get me wrong. It’s painful at times lol. But I love it. Love it when a guy is saving his cum for me as well

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By *ad NannaWoman
1 week ago

East London

I can go months or years without sex and I don't masturbate, unless it's for someone to watch in person. Or, even rarely, during a phone call.

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet

"I can go months or years without sex and I don't masturbate, unless it's for someone to watch in person. Or, even rarely, during a phone call."

Your call is important to us....

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 week ago

Reading

As long as necessary

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By *aughtyByNature82Man
1 week ago

Cumbernauld

In the great words of Rose……..

It’s been 84 Years 😂

Hardest part was after vasectomy being told not allowed to masturbate for 10 days.. 🙈

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
1 week ago

South Wales

I get quite moody after a few days of nothing so not great at holding off at all xx 😘

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By *iomedgal91Woman
1 week ago

Cornwall

I could easily go without sex. I go through phases where I could be unbothered for months...and then times where I am really horny and want it every other day haha

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By *ound1Man
1 week ago

Blackpool

An afternoon lmao

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By *sWyldWoman
1 week ago

Edinburgh

Pretty good in life. So busy that I lack time .

However in the room with someone, different story. I get a little impatient

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
1 week ago

Swansea

"I don’t self pleasure at all. I let the frustration build then it dissipates with my sexual partner. I’ve found it’s enhanced the play I have

Don’t get me wrong. It’s painful at times lol. But I love it. Love it when a guy is saving his cum for me as well"

Yes there is something about knowing your partner is really pent up that adds to the arousal.

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
1 week ago

Swansea

"I could easily go without sex. I go through phases where I could be unbothered for months...and then times where I am really horny and want it every other day haha"

Ah but could you easily go without masturbating?! That’s the really test

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By *iomedgal91Woman
1 week ago

Cornwall

"I could easily go without sex. I go through phases where I could be unbothered for months...and then times where I am really horny and want it every other day haha

Ah but could you easily go without masturbating?! That’s the really test "

Yes!!! I rarely masturbate 2bh, i'm a weirdo

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By *elshman1974 OP Man
1 week ago

Swansea

"I could easily go without sex. I go through phases where I could be unbothered for months...and then times where I am really horny and want it every other day haha

Ah but could you easily go without masturbating?! That’s the really test

Yes!!! I rarely masturbate 2bh, i'm a weirdo

Oh thats fascinating….and I guess that makes sex when it happens all the more intense? Would you say it’s just the way you are wired?

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By *enk15Man
1 week ago

Evesham

It sex is available then I wouldn't hold off at all. I go a long time without but not by choice.

Masturbation will probably occur anytime I get some alone time 😅

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By *hickthighs26Woman
1 week ago

funky town

"It sex is available then I wouldn't hold off at all. I go a long time without but not by choice.

Masturbation will probably occur anytime I get some alone time 😅"

It's available ....

see you in 6 hours

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By *enuine_J87Man
1 week ago

Eastleigh

I find I can go longer without wanking if I’m not talking to any women. As sometimes I think fuck it lets have a wank before I go to bed then I can’t think of a woman instantly, no sexy scenarios to imagine.

Sometimes you just talk to the tight person, you find them attractive, you want them and maybe they want you too… then end up wanking every day over them!

Think the longest without sex (after losing virginity) was maybe 6 months to a year? Never really counted

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By *007ManMan
1 week ago

Worthing

Years without sex (had oral though). Masturbation a week or so.

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By *r SensualMan
1 week ago

London

Relatively good at “holding off” as I regularly practice semen retention. Longest I’ve gone without masturbation is 2 and a half weeks.

Resisting and not giving into sexual urges when alone has enhanced actual intercourse for me massively when it does happen.

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By *actile TensionMan
1 week ago

Sussex

Pretty good

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By *iver78Man
1 week ago

barton upon humber

I can go over 6-7 days without a wank lol

And during sex I can hold off for quite a while , but I have met women who make it a "bit to nice " lol , and unfortunately they can make it a very short experience

On a tangent ,has anyone used the old " nobody has ever been able to make cum with just oral ? It used to my go to lol

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By *evilinDavina1Man
1 week ago

Bristol

I'd did about an year stint with no sex. Even now I don't masturbator that often.

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By *BelfastGuyMan
1 week ago

Belfast

"Holding off…

I’ll explain. I would imagine most of us here are very good at getting off be that masturbation or fucking

But how good are you at holding off

How long can you go without sex?

How long can you go without masturbating?"

Go without sex not a choice at the minute. It's been a dry year.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

Pretty good at holding back. I remember my ex-mrs saying to me "you're taking ages tonight love..."

I replied,"I know. I can't think of anyone."

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By *heJam84Man
1 week ago

Manchester

its healthy and good to ejaculate and its most important for a man too. if its not ejaculated then the body uses it as energy... google it.

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By *r_MrsLCouple
1 week ago

Leeds

Surprisingly long on both counts - when im stressed I don’t really get in the mood, even though I know one way to de-stress is…..sex and masturbation! So I try not to go too long.

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By *r_MrsLCouple
1 week ago

Leeds

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By *estructionDollyWoman
1 week ago

Manchester

I've gone years without sex in my 20s, but I used to masturbate a lot.

Sometimes I go through phases where I have to masturbate every day or multiple times a day. Other times I can go weeks without having the urge, mostly down to my hormones.

So it varies.

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By *rHotNottsMan
1 week ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m not good t it, I like sex too much. If I’m not getting any and busy I can go without a wank for a week or so, but generally sex is a big part of my life.

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By *odStuart69Man
1 week ago

Central

I can go weeks without sex. Not my choice. Need to cum at least twice a week to ballance the hormones.

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By *abs9Man
1 week ago

driffield

I wank most days & when I’m in 1 of those Horny moods it can 3/4 times daily.

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By *eliWoman
1 week ago

Masturbating? Weeks. Rather irritatingly I'm a multi-orgasmer and find that self servicing isn't as sating (read, not at all) so I end up very sticky, frustrated and even more in need of release. There's very little point to it.

And I kind of like my release being at the hands/mouth/penis of another.

Sex... maybe a month? If I wasn't having sex I'd maybe get used to it. Maybe. Generally I've found the more I have sex the more I want it, hoping that works the other way around.:D

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By *pTheDale40Man
1 week ago

Coventry

7 years of no sex for me once.

Masturbation I could probably go on a bit to be fair

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet

"How long can you go without sex?"

Years - would prefer not to, but the most recent spell has now been 19 months

"How long can you go without masturbating?"

Months - at the moment not talking with anyone privately that gets me all hot and bothered, but if I was, then that period would be radically reduced.

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