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"What's your boundaries on a meet? I would eventually want to do a meet." Boundaries as in how far you would go? Things you wouldn’t do? I wouldn’t want to make a list of dos and don’t. Although I’m not that big a fan of the term ‘meet’. Always sounds very clinical. A date? Is that old fashioned? 🤷♂️ | |||
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"Rule number one is we do not talk about meet club." whereas meat club on the Forum gets a lot of mention  | |||
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"1 pint" Ooh yes. Sober is important, at least for new people. | |||
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"What's your boundaries on a meet? I would eventually want to do a meet." OP, I will try and give a proper answer, but given you are a woman, take advice from other women to feel more secure/safe. I tend to have been chatting to someone for a while before I meet them (that could be in the Forum or it may be DMs). I exchange face pics ahead of any meet (some people go for video chat). I meet in a public place for my first meet (coffee house, pub, park, where ever) - that way there are others around and you can be sure the person is who they say they are (and you can leave if you are uncomfortable). Most times I have met someone for the first time it has remained social, but some you will have hit it off with and you may then want to progress that same day. For me as a bloke it has not been a problem in terms of going with them to a hotel (that tends not to be spur of the moment) or back to my place (that is spur of the moment) - you will want to think about safety and whether you want someone to know where you live. Then in terms of what you get up to and boundaries, again it's a safety issue and some of the women can better advise you. One of my former friends would meet blokes and be content of the first meet to allow them to restrain her - that to me was very unsafe - even with her letting her best friend know where she had gone. I think that the women of Fab can give you better advice. | |||
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"What's your boundaries on a meet? I would eventually want to do a meet." To meet within an hours drive. First meet public place. Make sure car is clean 😜 | |||
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"What's your boundaries on a meet? I would eventually want to do a meet. OP, I will try and give a proper answer, but given you are a woman, take advice from other women to feel more secure/safe. I tend to have been chatting to someone for a while before I meet them (that could be in the Forum or it may be DMs). I exchange face pics ahead of any meet (some people go for video chat). I meet in a public place for my first meet (coffee house, pub, park, where ever) - that way there are others around and you can be sure the person is who they say they are (and you can leave if you are uncomfortable). Most times I have met someone for the first time it has remained social, but some you will have hit it off with and you may then want to progress that same day. For me as a bloke it has not been a problem in terms of going with them to a hotel (that tends not to be spur of the moment) or back to my place (that is spur of the moment) - you will want to think about safety and whether you want someone to know where you live. Then in terms of what you get up to and boundaries, again it's a safety issue and some of the women can better advise you. One of my former friends would meet blokes and be content of the first meet to allow them to restrain her - that to me was very unsafe - even with her letting her best friend know where she had gone. I think that the women of Fab can give you better advice." This is good advice. | |||
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"Leave the bellybutton alone. No anal. No fisting. No poop, pee, piss or vomit. No tickling. At least one liquid refreshment break. Background music. Boring I know 🤷🏻♀️" Would say thats boring its pretty much the same as we insist on | |||
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"I'm not meeting at anyone's house No one is tying me up Don't cuddle me afterwards No anal Just off the top of my head. " I had anal and tying up in mind for stuff that isn't dependable - someone I don't trust could really hurt me, even if I might like it under the right circumstances. | |||
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"I'm not meeting at anyone's house No one is tying me up Don't cuddle me afterwards No anal Just off the top of my head. I had anal and tying up in mind for stuff that isn't dependable - someone I don't trust could really hurt me, even if I might like it under the right circumstances." Yeah, I'm not doing those things with just anyone so it's off limits. | |||
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"I'm not meeting at anyone's house No one is tying me up Don't cuddle me afterwards No anal Just off the top of my head. " Don't cuddle you after? That's an interesting one! | |||
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" No anal Just off the top of my head. " Not sure that would be very comfy | |||
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"What's your boundaries on a meet? I would eventually want to do a meet." Their cellmate is never allowed to watch. Last time I got too much critique. | |||
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"What's your boundaries on a meet? I would eventually want to do a meet. Their cellmate is never allowed to watch. Last time I got too much critique." Cellmates do have a lot of bars 🎤 | |||
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"we had a no kissing rule, didnt last long though." Us too, soon passed it, but I think it was a three way snog that shot us right past that boundary. So kissing is on the cards, meeting together satisfies the safety rule a bit. Anal, meh! Another boundary passed. Same room, oops! Different countries did for that. Aren't we such bad people, setting boundaries and then giggling later that we passed them? Not doing poo though, and not deliberate peeing, surprise peeing, aka squirting is OK and in fact welcome. A bit of pain is lush, pin wheels rock her world. See the pics on our profile. No blood,absolutely no blood. Although I like the idea of a bit of vampirism. 
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"I'm not meeting at anyone's house No one is tying me up Don't cuddle me afterwards No anal Just off the top of my head. Don't cuddle you after? That's an interesting one!" It's a loose boundary. I'm happy to do it if someone else needs that closeness afterwards, but I'd enjoy chatting from a safe distance more. | |||
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"I'm not meeting at anyone's house No one is tying me up Don't cuddle me afterwards No anal Just off the top of my head. Don't cuddle you after? That's an interesting one! It's a loose boundary. I'm happy to do it if someone else needs that closeness afterwards, but I'd enjoy chatting from a safe distance more. " I get that. So orgasm, a great wall made of pillows and a duvet and talking to each other from either side 😂 | |||
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"I'm not meeting at anyone's house No one is tying me up Don't cuddle me afterwards No anal Just off the top of my head. Don't cuddle you after? That's an interesting one! It's a loose boundary. I'm happy to do it if someone else needs that closeness afterwards, but I'd enjoy chatting from a safe distance more. I get that. So orgasm, a great wall made of pillows and a duvet and talking to each other from either side 😂" Exactly! Stick your tongue down my throat but cuddle me and I'm breaking your fingers 🤣 | |||
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"What's your boundaries on a meet? " That will be discussed in detail with whoever we're meeting, once we've got past the social stage and decided we actually want to get naked with them. It may vary from person to person. 🤷♂️ | |||
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"What are these boundaries you speak of 🤪" Boundaries just seem to establish targets xx | |||
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"What's your boundaries on a meet?" • Discussing previous lovers and excessive consumption of alcohol. | |||
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"What's your boundaries on a meet? I would eventually want to do a meet. Boundaries as in how far you would go? Things you wouldn’t do? I wouldn’t want to make a list of dos and don’t. Although I’m not that big a fan of the term ‘meet’. Always sounds very clinical. A date? Is that old fashioned? 🤷♂️" I have issues wit the term meet too! Guys ask to meet me , and yes, Shen I am out I am happy to meet guys … but what they mean is they want to spend an evening having sex with me ! These things need to be cleared up ! I am afraid often guys are disappointed… or dodged a bullet  some might say ! | |||
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"First meet always in a public place after messaging for a while and I always make it clear that sex is not on the agenda." Ever?😥 | |||
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