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"So I’m not this guy but why is it when women say no men under 6foot that’s fine but if a man was to say no large women they get shit for it. Again it’s not me saying it just a general question. " 🐝🐝🐝 | |||
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"I think as long as you don't say it in a way that's degrading then it's fine. But if you say 'no fat chicks' then you probably deserve to get some shit. Equally applies to a woman saying 'no short arses'. " Yeah 100% agree, some folks really haven’t got any filters and are rude as fuck and would say that but again that’s to me just plain rude. | |||
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"I don't want to get involved with black men and I daren't put it on my profile because I'd be scared to come across as racist...which i'm not! Black people can be really beautiful but something about their dicks scare me "Again 100% agree in what you’re saying but if your preference is a white man you should be able to put that on your profile as that’s what your looking for or find attractive in a man. | |||
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"I don't want to get involved with black men and I daren't put it on my profile because I'd be scared to come across as racist...which i'm not! Black people can be really beautiful but something about their dicks scare me
Yes I know I should but there will be the odd person on here who will have something to say about it!
Again 100% agree in what you’re saying but if your preference is a white man you should be able to put that on your profile as that’s what your looking for or find attractive in a man. " | |||
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"I don't want to get involved with black men and I daren't put it on my profile because I'd be scared to come across as racist...which i'm not! Black people can be really beautiful but something about their dicks scare me
Again 100% agree in what you’re saying but if your preference is a white man you should be able to put that on your profile as that’s what your looking for or find attractive in a man. "Exactly. Nothing wrong with saying you find white men attractive. Same as writing you prefer men over 6ft - sure you'll agree with that one, OP? | |||
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"something about their dicks scare me "What the hell?! 🤨 you do realise black men’s penises aren’t all the same 🤦🏾♂️ this sounds like it’s rooted in what’s ridiculous stereotype. But hey, each to to their own I guess. | |||
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"Its never fine to label a certain group of people a certain way but it is okay to have preferences. Anyone can state what they like, just don't be a dick about it." Pretty much this. It's easy to state a preference without being negative/nasty about people outside your preferences. | |||
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"something about their dicks scare me
What the hell?! 🤨 you do realise black men’s penises aren’t all the same 🤦🏾♂️ this sounds like it’s rooted in what’s ridiculous stereotype. But hey, each to to their own I guess. "Of course I know they are not all the same but the ones on here are all very similar. Its no different to seeing lots of womens profiles asking for "BBC ONLY" is that because they think white guys have small ones? No, but they just know black men can be known for having big dicks. I've seen plenty of BBW dicks! | |||
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"something about their dicks scare me
What the hell?! 🤨 you do realise black men’s penises aren’t all the same 🤦🏾♂️ this sounds like it’s rooted in what’s ridiculous stereotype. But hey, each to to their own I guess.
Of course I know they are not all the same but the ones on here are all very similar. Its no different to seeing lots of womens profiles asking for "BBC ONLY" is that because they think white guys have small ones? No, but they just know black men can be known for having big dicks. I've seen plenty of BBW dicks!"As a black man myself, I tend to avoid the “BBC” centric profiles because they’re simply just reducing me down to object & usually only see use for me fill a role for a fantasy they’re looking for as opposed to seeing me as a person. I think what you said above sounded a lot better in your head than it did out loud that’s all. | |||
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"something about their dicks scare me
What the hell?! 🤨 you do realise black men’s penises aren’t all the same 🤦🏾♂️ this sounds like it’s rooted in what’s ridiculous stereotype. But hey, each to to their own I guess.
Of course I know they are not all the same but the ones on here are all very similar. Its no different to seeing lots of womens profiles asking for "BBC ONLY" is that because they think white guys have small ones? No, but they just know black men can be known for having big dicks. I've seen plenty of BBW dicks!
As a black man myself, I tend to avoid the “BBC” centric profiles because they’re simply just reducing me down to object & usually only see use for me fill a role for a fantasy they’re looking for as opposed to seeing me as a person.
I think what you said above sounded a lot better in your head than it did out loud that’s all. "Yes you are right and sorry if I caused any offence. As I said, I have nothing against black men in the slightest! | |||
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"I wonder, as a matter of profile writing technique, whether it's better to say "no x", or better to just reject all x. It's probably less hurtful, if someone takes it personally, to be unaware that possessing x means this person will never say yes to you. But it's also a waste of time for both sender and recipient." • I agree. I have no issues with women writing something that resembles "...only looking to play with caucasian men". It's tame enough. However I find it off-putting when they write something like "NOT interested in ASIAN men!!!". It just comes across as a form of vehement hatred and contempt. Just write what you prefer as opposed to what you detest. | |||
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"So I’m not this guy but why is it when women say no men under 6foot that’s fine but if a man was to say no large women they get shit for it. Again it’s not me saying it just a general question. " No one gets shit for saying they don't like fat women Everyone is entitled to their preferences | |||
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"I don't want to get involved with black men and I daren't put it on my profile because I'd be scared to come across as racist...which i'm not! Black people can be really beautiful but something about their dicks scare me "Oh dear | |||
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"something about their dicks scare me
What the hell?! 🤨 you do realise black men’s penises aren’t all the same 🤦🏾♂️ this sounds like it’s rooted in what’s ridiculous stereotype. But hey, each to to their own I guess.
Of course I know they are not all the same but the ones on here are all very similar. Its no different to seeing lots of womens profiles asking for "BBC ONLY" is that because they think white guys have small ones? No, but they just know black men can be known for having big dicks. I've seen plenty of BBW dicks!
As a black man myself, I tend to avoid the “BBC” centric profiles because they’re simply just reducing me down to object & usually only see use for me fill a role for a fantasy they’re looking for as opposed to seeing me as a person.
I think what you said above sounded a lot better in your head than it did out loud that’s all.
Yes you are right and sorry if I caused any offence. As I said, I have nothing against black men in the slightest! "All good. No hard feelings on my part. I don’t believe you have anything against black men at all. Believe me, I’ve seen much worse said on here by others. We’re just not your preference and that’s okay. At least now you’re more mindful of the language you use to express your preference & how that can come across. | |||
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"something about their dicks scare me
What the hell?! 🤨 you do realise black men’s penises aren’t all the same 🤦🏾♂️ this sounds like it’s rooted in what’s ridiculous stereotype. But hey, each to to their own I guess. "When you receive a shed load of messages asking if you want to be fucked hard into next week by a bbc, asking if you can take it all, gag on it, it does rather put you off. | |||
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"So I’m not this guy but why is it when women say no men under 6foot that’s fine but if a man was to say no large women they get shit for it. Again it’s not me saying it just a general question. " It doesn’t seem like a question. I see no question mark, nor any wording that indicates a question is being asked. That’s a statement. | |||
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"something about their dicks scare me
What the hell?! 🤨 you do realise black men’s penises aren’t all the same 🤦🏾♂️ this sounds like it’s rooted in what’s ridiculous stereotype. But hey, each to to their own I guess.
When you receive a shed load of messages asking if you want to be fucked hard into next week by a bbc, asking if you can take it all, gag on it, it does rather put you off."I don't notice a racial element to that flavour of obnoxiousness. Just, obviously white guys aren't describing their pride and joy as a BBC, while being equally obnoxious. | |||
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"I don't want to get involved with black men and I daren't put it on my profile because I'd be scared to come across as racist...which i'm not! Black people can be really beautiful but something about their dicks scare me "Don’t be scared little bunny looool | |||
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"I don't want to get involved with black men and I daren't put it on my profile because I'd be scared to come across as racist...which i'm not! Black people can be really beautiful but something about their dicks scare me
Don’t be scared little bunny looool "🤨 | |||
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"something about their dicks scare me
What the hell?! 🤨 you do realise black men’s penises aren’t all the same 🤦🏾♂️ this sounds like it’s rooted in what’s ridiculous stereotype. But hey, each to to their own I guess.
When you receive a shed load of messages asking if you want to be fucked hard into next week by a bbc, asking if you can take it all, gag on it, it does rather put you off.
I don't notice a racial element to that flavour of obnoxiousness. Just, obviously white guys aren't describing their pride and joy as a BBC, while being equally obnoxious."Was just going to say similar! | |||
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"something about their dicks scare me
What the hell?! 🤨 you do realise black men’s penises aren’t all the same 🤦🏾♂️ this sounds like it’s rooted in what’s ridiculous stereotype. But hey, each to to their own I guess.
When you receive a shed load of messages asking if you want to be fucked hard into next week by a bbc, asking if you can take it all, gag on it, it does rather put you off."Which I totally understand. If I’m honest I find equally as frustrating how some black guys lead with this because it leads to generalisations of us all just like this. | |||
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"So I’m not this guy but why is it when women say no men under 6foot that’s fine but if a man was to say no large women they get shit for it. Again it’s not me saying it just a general question. " Anything a woman says is fine on fab have you not realised this yet ? If a guy is rude hes rude, if he lies hes a liar if hes under 6 foot he's tiny  | |||
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"Everyone has the right to not meet a person (or multiple people, or a group of people) that looks in a specific way (that they simply don't find attractive) . Women are more straightforward with this on fab, as they have more options...men (a large number) on fab are more hesitant in that regard, as they don't want to miss out on a potential meet, even if that woman might not be his first choice - these men would absolutely have sex with a woman they don't find attractive (which is just pathetic in my eyes). Many men will drop their standards and bend their preferences on fab...however there are absolutely women on fab that say they wouldn't meet a man under 6' but still slide into my DM's with the pretext of " I might make an exception for you" - pisses me right off 😡" Just this , this is why I block them if I see the comment on there profile ,  | |||
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"something about their dicks scare me
What the hell?! 🤨 you do realise black men’s penises aren’t all the same 🤦🏾♂️ this sounds like it’s rooted in what’s ridiculous stereotype. But hey, each to to their own I guess.
When you receive a shed load of messages asking if you want to be fucked hard into next week by a bbc, asking if you can take it all, gag on it, it does rather put you off.
I don't notice a racial element to that flavour of obnoxiousness. Just, obviously white guys aren't describing their pride and joy as a BBC, while being equally obnoxious."Surely the white guy should be describing their pride and joy as a BWC (or maybe it's a medium sized of little one, in which case MWC and LWC)? | |||
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"something about their dicks scare me
What the hell?! 🤨 you do realise black men’s penises aren’t all the same 🤦🏾♂️ this sounds like it’s rooted in what’s ridiculous stereotype. But hey, each to to their own I guess.
When you receive a shed load of messages asking if you want to be fucked hard into next week by a bbc, asking if you can take it all, gag on it, it does rather put you off.
I don't notice a racial element to that flavour of obnoxiousness. Just, obviously white guys aren't describing their pride and joy as a BBC, while being equally obnoxious.
Surely the white guy should be describing their pride and joy as a BWC (or maybe it's a medium sized of little one, in which case MWC and LWC)?"Sometimes they do. My point is, "messages asking if you want to be fucked hard into next week by a (penis of whatever description), asking if you can take it all, gag on it" is off-putting whether it's BBC, BWC, ITV, or whatever the fuck. | |||
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"So I’m not this guy but why is it when women say no men under 6foot that’s fine but if a man was to say no large women they get shit for it. Again it’s not me saying it just a general question. " In your example should it be apples for apples. A tall chap may say no ladies under 5ft. That is more comparable. As long as you place your specifics politely no one should mind | |||
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"I don't want to get involved with black men and I daren't put it on my profile because I'd be scared to come across as racist...which i'm not! Black people can be really beautiful but something about their dicks scare me
Don’t be scared little bunny looool
🤨"I’m sorry was just a joke, I thought what was said was funny so I responded in kind | |||
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"something about their dicks scare me
What the hell?! 🤨 you do realise black men’s penises aren’t all the same 🤦🏾♂️ this sounds like it’s rooted in what’s ridiculous stereotype. But hey, each to to their own I guess.
When you receive a shed load of messages asking if you want to be fucked hard into next week by a bbc, asking if you can take it all, gag on it, it does rather put you off."White men also send this messages btw, it's not limited to black men | |||
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" My point is, "messages asking if you want to be fucked hard into next week by a (penis of whatever description), asking if you can take it all, gag on it" is off-putting whether it's BBC, BWC, ITV, or whatever the fuck." Agree totally | |||
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"I'm 5ft 7, 5ft 10 in heels, I don't want to be with someone who's shorter than me. " I'm 5 8 and have been since I was 10. I've always been made to feel manly because of my height. Thats my reason why I only like taller men, I like to feel Diddy and cute next to them | |||
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"I'm 5ft 7, 5ft 10 in heels, I don't want to be with someone who's shorter than me. I'm 5 8 and have been since I was 10. I've always been made to feel manly because of my height. Thats my reason why I only like taller men, I like to feel Diddy and cute next to them " Yes, this. I don't want to be bigger than the man I'm with. | |||
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"I'm 5ft 7, 5ft 10 in heels, I don't want to be with someone who's shorter than me. I'm 5 8 and have been since I was 10. I've always been made to feel manly because of my height. Thats my reason why I only like taller men, I like to feel Diddy and cute next to them I feel same why I like taller guys in heels I’m just taller than hubby Yes, this. I don't want to be bigger than the man I'm with. " | |||
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