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How to women on fab genuinely like to be approached

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By *moothEnergy OP   Man
12 weeks ago

camden

I know this is a site where everyone wants to get their rocks off men and women but genuinely how do you women or men like to be approached on here ?

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By *wcoMan
12 weeks ago

West Midlands

Just the offer of a breakfast. Any breakfast...probably even Greggs.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

From behind.

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By *kphooey43Man
12 weeks ago

Barnet


"How to women on fab genuinely like to be approached?

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Best to sneak up on them from behind OP. If they see the whites of your eyes then it's too late.

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By *kphooey43Man
12 weeks ago

Barnet


"From behind."

(Bugger - beat me to it)

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By *aughty CornishmanMan
12 weeks ago

Exeter

Fantastic question, yes ultimately I would love to get my rocks off ,but I'm equally happy to go for a social, a drink or a meal,hate going to a restaurant on my own.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

By someone who's pictures show enough for me to feel at least reasonably confident that I find them physically attractive, with a profile that actually tells me something about them as a person that indicates compatibility, with a message that I clearly written to me specifically rather than something universal that can be flung into the inbox of every viable orifice they see, and without a dick pic attached or some fap fodder fantasy bullshit 💜

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"From behind.

(Bugger - beat me to it)"

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By *a LunaWoman
12 weeks ago

Wales

Your May 1st apron pic would do it. I like a man who cooks!

But seriously, just be normal, talk about normal stuff. Approach as you would someone in a bar. Don’t make it all about the sex. Not at the start.

Don’t be desperate. Don’t be pushy. Just be you.

Keep in mind that no meets is NOT a reflection on YOU, just how the site is. Don’t get disheartened by perceived lack of interest, as it is not personal to you, but sometimes to people in general. If that makes sense?

Just enjoy yourself and if it stops being fun then have a breather and step away for a bit.

But I will reiterate- your success (or lack of it) on Fab has NO BEARING on you as a person.

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By *WB85Man
12 weeks ago

Staffordshire

With a nice simple message and a photo of yourself.

The clues are often in their profile.

When it says they dont want a dick pic....they mean it, regardless of how proud you are of it.

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By *kphooey43Man
12 weeks ago

Barnet

Sorry OP, had not checked that you were new to the Forum and this was your first post - so welcome, and apologies for the flippant comments, but do enjoy the Forum and good luck in your search (your profile and pics are respectful, and you look fit, so carry on and you'll have fun).

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Chichester


"Just the offer of a breakfast. Any breakfast...probably even Greggs. "

I actually met a lady on here for a Greggs social meet

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By *ora the explorerWoman
12 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Just the offer of a breakfast. Any breakfast...probably even Greggs.

I actually met a lady on here for a Greggs social meet "

Me and PMF met for a maccies 🤣

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By *exy RexyMan
12 weeks ago

Up North

Grab em by the pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Respectfully, playfully and with a sense of humour. If I'm not intrigued by the first message, I won't be by your penis.

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By *eliWoman
12 weeks ago

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"Your May 1st apron pic would do it. I like a man who cooks!

But seriously, just be normal, talk about normal stuff. Approach as you would someone in a bar. Don’t make it all about the sex. Not at the start.

Don’t be desperate. Don’t be pushy. Just be you.

Keep in mind that no meets is NOT a reflection on YOU, just how the site is. Don’t get disheartened by perceived lack of interest, as it is not personal to you, but sometimes to people in general. If that makes sense?

Just enjoy yourself and if it stops being fun then have a breather and step away for a bit.

But I will reiterate- your success (or lack of it) on Fab has NO BEARING on you as a person."

Very much this (boomer thumb)

Also remember there's no universal approach Op. No cheat codes. Women are as individual as men in their wants, their predilections. Part of the fun is finding out more.

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By *lizaDay91Woman
12 weeks ago

It'sASecret


"By someone who's pictures show enough for me to feel at least reasonably confident that I find them physically attractive, with a profile that actually tells me something about them as a person that indicates compatibility, with a message that I clearly written to me specifically rather than something universal that can be flung into the inbox of every viable orifice they see, and without a dick pic attached or some fap fodder fantasy bullshit 💜"

This. I also appreciate a clear and recent face photo being attached, as I think enough of my face is on my profile for people to at least have an idea of whether they think they'd like my face or not.

It's rare to find people that read profiles on here, and mine is long so it usually gets ignored or insulted. I'm a weirdo and read profiles of people who I'd never meet just for fun.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
12 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Read in a David Attenborough tone.......

When approaching a Crumpet do it with the utmost caution. Make a noise like a Werthers early in your advances and suck another so that it's aroma renders her docile and willing. Wear your orange T shirt with Hand of the Triple Lock you bastards emblazoned across the front so she knows you come in peace

Warning: If she smiles you're okay . If she looks you up n down she smelled something rotten ... so move on to the next one ......

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By *actile TensionMan
12 weeks ago

Sussex

By someone they find attractive

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By *layfullsamMan
12 weeks ago

Solihull

Sideways like a crab 🦀 while dancing and clicking your maracas at them

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By *layfullsamMan
12 weeks ago

Solihull

Or b with 🎂 🧁

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
12 weeks ago

Reading

Treat me like someone you want to get to know not just to get a quick fuck. Over the top compliments do not work. I am neither beautiful nor the sexiest woman on fab so telling me this will just earn you a massive eye roll. A sincere compliment works though. Oh and read my frickin profile.

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By *rHotNottsMan
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"From behind."

Whilst loading the tumble dryer?

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By *a LunaWoman
12 weeks ago

Wales


"Sideways like a crab 🦀 while dancing and clicking your maracas at them

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This would work on me 😁

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By *edFlame83Woman
12 weeks ago

South Gloucestershire


"By someone who's pictures show enough for me to feel at least reasonably confident that I find them physically attractive, with a profile that actually tells me something about them as a person that indicates compatibility, with a message that I clearly written to me specifically rather than something universal that can be flung into the inbox of every viable orifice they see, and without a dick pic attached or some fap fodder fantasy bullshit 💜"

This, I want to know the person has read my profile.

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By *moothEnergy OP   Man
12 weeks ago

camden


"From behind."
if only that was the magic charm 😂

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By *layfullsamMan
12 weeks ago

Solihull


"Sideways like a crab 🦀 while dancing and clicking your maracas at them

This would work on me 😁"

Woohoo get your coat you’ve pulled

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By *moothEnergy OP   Man
12 weeks ago

camden


"By someone who's pictures show enough for me to feel at least reasonably confident that I find them physically attractive, with a profile that actually tells me something about them as a person that indicates compatibility, with a message that I clearly written to me specifically rather than something universal that can be flung into the inbox of every viable orifice they see, and without a dick pic attached or some fap fodder fantasy bullshit 💜"
that is definitely a response I was looking for 👌🏾👌🏾

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By *moothEnergy OP   Man
12 weeks ago

camden


"With a nice simple message and a photo of yourself.

The clues are often in their profile.

When it says they dont want a dick pic....they mean it, regardless of how proud you are of it.

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🤣🤣you’d think common sense would be common to some people

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By *moothEnergy OP   Man
12 weeks ago

camden


"Sorry OP, had not checked that you were new to the Forum and this was your first post - so welcome, and apologies for the flippant comments, but do enjoy the Forum and good luck in your search (your profile and pics are respectful, and you look fit, so carry on and you'll have fun)."
appreciate that thank you

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By *moothEnergy OP   Man
12 weeks ago

camden


"Respectfully, playfully and with a sense of humour. If I'm not intrigued by the first message, I won't be by your penis."
Haha noted 📝

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By *ision21Man
12 weeks ago

Newcastle Under Lyme

I know this is a site where everyone wants to get their rocks off men and women but genuinely how do you women or men like to be approached on here ?

Stick to who you are pal. Be honest always.

There is someone for everyone on here even though it may not seem like it.

I personally like to be approached with more than just a hello and I like a woman's profile to leave something to the imagination.

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By *moothEnergy OP   Man
12 weeks ago

camden


"I know this is a site where everyone wants to get their rocks off men and women but genuinely how do you women or men like to be approached on here ?

Stick to who you are pal. Be honest always.

There is someone for everyone on here even though it may not seem like it.

I personally like to be approached with more than just a hello and I like a woman's profile to leave something to the imagination."
100%

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair


"...but genuinely how do you women or men like to be approached on here?"

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I prefer to be approached by way of a handcrafted message, with humour and conviviality, with some indication that they've read my profile and picked up on something that I've written on there.

Women, mostly, have no issues with sending a clean and friendly message. I'm not quite sure why most/some men can't manage this when they message the opposite sex.

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