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"Personally I would find it a turn off if a woman’s personality didn’t align with my values. For me that includes making negative comments about others. I think the same goes for a lot of men - but that also goes both ways. If a woman has awful views, there’s a chance there’s men out there who share those views and won’t care. There’s also a lot of men who will agree with anything if they think it’s going to get them laid." Do you think someone you find "gorgeous" you would turn a blind eye to things more than someone who you dont find attractive? Or are your morals the same no matter what? | |||
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"Forums tend to bring out the worst in some people. For me my judgement is more so based on private chats I have with them. Verifications are a difficult one for me though. If someone sounds more hardcore in the scene, I fear my slower more relaxed approach wouldn't be suitable. " I dont mean just forums i mean even in day to day life? | |||
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"I think that’s going to depend on whether they see them as a person or as a pretty hole to fill" Yeah i thought this. | |||
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"Shitty attitude is different from saying forward unwanted truths. I like people who are capable of saying things that others wouldn't dare to." And the answer to the question? 🤣 | |||
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"Forums tend to bring out the worst in some people. For me my judgement is more so based on private chats I have with them. Verifications are a difficult one for me though. If someone sounds more hardcore in the scene, I fear my slower more relaxed approach wouldn't be suitable. I dont mean just forums i mean even in day to day life?" Oh. In that case, if someone's a twat in that way....we would never meet or interact again. | |||
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"I can't be bothered with people generally these days, let alone forming relationships. I'm in a long-term relationship which will only end when one of stops breathing but if I was single now, I reckon I'd stay that way. People? Nah thanks." That's fair lol. | |||
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"Some men only care if there is a willing hole to fill, TT. Who cares if she's an arsehole. " It did make me giggle a little  | |||
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"An idea from another thread (but seperate to that thread) If a lady is what you describe as "gorgeous" but they make some comments that are distasteful to you, or arn't friendly to you or others, do you think oh it doesnt matter she is gorgeous?. And let it slide? I've just seen a few comments from men who dont know a lady from adam saying "noone could not like you your gorgeous" and it got me thinking is this actually true or is it just egging a compliment on. Or do the majority of you actually care if someone is a shitty person but gorgeous? Again this "gorgeous" person is made up its not in relation to anyone. " No, if someone clearly rude I don't want to engage with them. Complete turn off. I can handle, and often enjoy discussion with people with different and firmly held opinions, and obviously sometimes that can lead to people believing the other is rude or ignorant, however I think you can tell when it's a matter of opinions built around lived experience, vs genuine rudeness. Rant over | |||
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"An idea from another thread (but seperate to that thread) If a lady is what you describe as "gorgeous" but they make some comments that are distasteful to you, or arn't friendly to you or others, do you think oh it doesnt matter she is gorgeous?. And let it slide? I've just seen a few comments from men who dont know a lady from adam saying "noone could not like you your gorgeous" and it got me thinking is this actually true or is it just egging a compliment on. Or do the majority of you actually care if someone is a shitty person but gorgeous? Again this "gorgeous" person is made up its not in relation to anyone. " Nope, I wouldn’t let it slide. Personally if someone called me gorgeous then started putting others down or making comments about me or others that are distasteful, I’ll walk away and not even acknowledge the original “compliment” but just politely say thank you and leave it at that. How someone treats others is a big flag to me. | |||
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"An idea from another thread (but seperate to that thread) If a lady is what you describe as "gorgeous" but they make some comments that are distasteful to you, or arn't friendly to you or others, do you think oh it doesnt matter she is gorgeous?. And let it slide? I've just seen a few comments from men who dont know a lady from adam saying "noone could not like you your gorgeous" and it got me thinking is this actually true or is it just egging a compliment on. Or do the majority of you actually care if someone is a shitty person but gorgeous? Again this "gorgeous" person is made up its not in relation to anyone. No, if someone clearly rude I don't want to engage with them. Complete turn off. I can handle, and often enjoy discussion with people with different and firmly held opinions, and obviously sometimes that can lead to people believing the other is rude or ignorant, however I think you can tell when it's a matter of opinions built around lived experience, vs genuine rudeness. Rant over " No i agree. I like when people have different opinions to me even if i dont agree with them. I am more meaning if someone is a shitty person does them being what you perceive as "gorgeous" wipe that out | |||
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"The person might have been fishing for compliments, whilst the bloke maybe sees low self esteem that can be manipulated, with and be of the view that they may get lucky. I like to get on with people I am seeing. I stopped seeing one FWB cos her attitudes were very self centred and not caring for those around or showing them empathy. " Yeah. This very well could be the case. I'm just having a pondering sunday | |||
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"An idea from another thread (but seperate to that thread) If a lady is what you describe as "gorgeous" but they make some comments that are distasteful to you, or arn't friendly to you or others, do you think oh it doesnt matter she is gorgeous?. And let it slide? I've just seen a few comments from men who dont know a lady from adam saying "noone could not like you your gorgeous" and it got me thinking is this actually true or is it just egging a compliment on. Or do the majority of you actually care if someone is a shitty person but gorgeous? Again this "gorgeous" person is made up its not in relation to anyone. " She would no longer be gorgeous, she would be 'hot' but, distastful/rude/etc | |||
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"Some men only care if there is a willing hole to fill, TT. Who cares if she's an arsehole. It did make me giggle a little "I asked a mate why he was sticking with a FWB who occasionally came to our pub nights, basically saying, "mate, she's an arsehole". He just looked at me dead in the eye with the reply of, "yes, but that arsehole gives me her arsehole". Needless to say that situationship went as well as the Strait of Homurz situation is going. | |||
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"Shitty attitude is different from saying forward unwanted truths. I like people who are capable of saying things that others wouldn't dare to. And the answer to the question? 🤣" I love rejecting pretty arseholes. | |||
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"Shitty attitude is different from saying forward unwanted truths. I like people who are capable of saying things that others wouldn't dare to. And the answer to the question? 🤣 I love rejecting pretty arseholes." Thankyou ❤️ | |||
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"Some men only care if there is a willing hole to fill, TT. Who cares if she's an arsehole. It did make me giggle a little
I asked a mate why he was sticking with a FWB who occasionally came to our pub nights, basically saying, "mate, she's an arsehole".
He just looked at me dead in the eye with the reply of, "yes, but that arsehole gives me her arsehole".
Needless to say that situationship went as well as the Strait of Homurz situation is going."Point proven 
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"Imho it’s not low esteem of the one with the face card, it’s low self esteem of the ones who excuse it, simp over them, give them a pass. I don’t care how stunning someone is, behave like an asshole they can fuck off. " This is exactly my thoughts if you're a cunt then you're still a cunt just a fit one. | |||
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"Imho it’s not low esteem of the one with the face card, it’s low self esteem of the ones who excuse it, simp over them, give them a pass. I don’t care how stunning someone is, behave like an asshole they can fuck off. This is exactly my thoughts if you're a cunt then you're still a cunt just a fit one." Or you can say it straight like this 😂 | |||
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"An idea from another thread (but seperate to that thread) If a lady is what you describe as "gorgeous" but they make some comments that are distasteful to you, or arn't friendly to you or others, do you think oh it doesnt matter she is gorgeous?. And let it slide? I've just seen a few comments from men who dont know a lady from adam saying "noone could not like you your gorgeous" and it got me thinking is this actually true or is it just egging a compliment on. Or do the majority of you actually care if someone is a shitty person but gorgeous? Again this "gorgeous" person is made up its not in relation to anyone. No, if someone clearly rude I don't want to engage with them. Complete turn off. I can handle, and often enjoy discussion with people with different and firmly held opinions, and obviously sometimes that can lead to people believing the other is rude or ignorant, however I think you can tell when it's a matter of opinions built around lived experience, vs genuine rudeness. Rant over No i agree. I like when people have different opinions to me even if i dont agree with them. I am more meaning if someone is a shitty person does them being what you perceive as "gorgeous" wipe that out " That puts someone in the 'hot bitch' category. Nice to glance at, but please stay out of conversation range of me. | |||
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"Nobody’s gonna say I don’t care as long as she’s fuckable 🤣" Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉 | |||
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"Nobody’s gonna say I don’t care as long as she’s fuckable 🤣" I think I would have some years back, not now. | |||
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"Nobody’s gonna say I don’t care as long as she’s fuckable 🤣 Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉" I am 😇 | |||
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"Nobody’s gonna say I don’t care as long as she’s fuckable 🤣 Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉 I am 😇" I know! That's why i like you | |||
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"An idea from another thread (but seperate to that thread) If a lady is what you describe as "gorgeous" but they make some comments that are distasteful to you, or arn't friendly to you or others, do you think oh it doesnt matter she is gorgeous?. And let it slide? I've just seen a few comments from men who dont know a lady from adam saying "noone could not like you your gorgeous" and it got me thinking is this actually true or is it just egging a compliment on. Or do the majority of you actually care if someone is a shitty person but gorgeous? Again this "gorgeous" person is made up its not in relation to anyone. " Oh no As soon as someone makes a comment that i perceive as bigotry I'm gone | |||
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"Nobody’s gonna say I don’t care as long as she’s fuckable 🤣" Nora. Glad to read from you again. 😘 | |||
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"Nobody’s gonna say I don’t care as long as she’s fuckable 🤣 Nora. Glad to read from you again. 😘" Aw Thankyou lovely lady. Hope you’re well xx | |||
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"Beauty starts from the inside "Is this after you’ve grabbed them by the pussy?🤣 | |||
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"Nobody’s gonna say I don’t care as long as she’s fuckable 🤣 Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉 I am 😇 I know! That's why i like you "Women: We just want men to treat us normally and not like sex objects Men: A woman can be hot, but if she's an awful human, I don't want to fuck her Women: Well men are obviously lying! WTF?! 🤨 | |||
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Is this after you’ve grabbed them by the pussy?🤣"Yes, that’s why I grab them there first  | |||
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"Nobody’s gonna say I don’t care as long as she’s fuckable 🤣 Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉 I am 😇 I know! That's why i like you
Women: We just want men to treat us normally and not like sex objects
Men: A woman can be hot, but if she's an awful human, I don't want to fuck her
Women: Well men are obviously lying!
WTF?! 🤨"Tbf I didn’t say that Joe. I said nobody will admit to it! | |||
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"Most people probably think I'm a bit of a knob...they would be correct." Nah, Its what you do with the knobs that makes you so "gorgeous" 🤣🤭 | |||
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"Nobody’s gonna say I don’t care as long as she’s fuckable 🤣 Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉 I am 😇 I know! That's why i like you
Women: We just want men to treat us normally and not like sex objects
Men: A woman can be hot, but if she's an awful human, I don't want to fuck her
Women: Well men are obviously lying!
WTF?! 🤨"Who said anyone was lying? I took it as the people who would, wouldnt neccassarily comment on this thread and say it openly 🤷♀️ | |||
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"Nobody’s gonna say I don’t care as long as she’s fuckable 🤣 Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉 I am 😇 I know! That's why i like you
Women: We just want men to treat us normally and not like sex objects
Men: A woman can be hot, but if she's an awful human, I don't want to fuck her
Women: Well men are obviously lying!
WTF?! 🤨
Who said anyone was lying? I took it as the people who would, wouldnt neccassarily comment on this thread and say it openly 🤷♀️""Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉" There was nothing implied here at all? 😂 | |||
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"Nobody’s gonna say I don’t care as long as she’s fuckable 🤣 Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉 I am 😇 I know! That's why i like you
Women: We just want men to treat us normally and not like sex objects
Men: A woman can be hot, but if she's an awful human, I don't want to fuck her
Women: Well men are obviously lying!
WTF?! 🤨
Who said anyone was lying? I took it as the people who would, wouldnt neccassarily comment on this thread and say it openly 🤷♀️
"Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉"
There was nothing implied here at all? 😂"That people wouldnt honestly say it on the thread? Yeah 100%. But you can always interpret it as you wish | |||
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"Nobody’s gonna say I don’t care as long as she’s fuckable 🤣 Nora. Glad to read from you again. 😘 Aw Thankyou lovely lady. Hope you’re well xx" Nora, thank you for replying. I was starting to feel invisible. I haven't had a reply on thread discussions in days, not for any single elaborated post. This new Lounge’s Cast is difficult to please | |||
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""Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉" There was nothing implied here at all? 😂 That people wouldnt honestly say it on the thread? Yeah 100%. But you can always interpret it as you wish "Did "on here" not refer to the thread? That was how I interpreted it anyway 🤔 | |||
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"Nobody’s gonna say I don’t care as long as she’s fuckable 🤣 Nora. Glad to read from you again. 😘 Aw Thankyou lovely lady. Hope you’re well xx Nora, thank you for replying. I was starting to feel invisible. I haven't had a reply on thread discussions in days, not for any single elaborated post. This new Lounge’s Cast is difficult to please "Haha. I’ve not been on here for months. It’s interesting  | |||
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""Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉" There was nothing implied here at all? 😂 That people wouldnt honestly say it on the thread? Yeah 100%. But you can always interpret it as you wish
Did "on here" not refer to the thread? That was how I interpreted it anyway 🤔"Sorry 🤦♀️ I didn’t mean to cause an argument. I meant the men who don’t care about personality etc wouldn’t admit it on here. And there are definitely men like that on here (here as on fab) | |||
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""Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉" There was nothing implied here at all? 😂 That people wouldnt honestly say it on the thread? Yeah 100%. But you can always interpret it as you wish
Did "on here" not refer to the thread? That was how I interpreted it anyway 🤔"No it referred to "fab". I have just told you what that wasnt the correct interpretation. And as i wrote it i think i know more than you what my intentions were. | |||
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""Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉" There was nothing implied here at all? 😂 That people wouldnt honestly say it on the thread? Yeah 100%. But you can always interpret it as you wish
Did "on here" not refer to the thread? That was how I interpreted it anyway 🤔
Sorry 🤦♀️ I didn’t mean to cause an argument. I meant the men who don’t care about personality etc wouldn’t admit it on here. And there are definitely men like that on here (here as on fab) "Exactly what i was implying and dont worry you havnt caused an argument, i wont be replying anymore | |||
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""Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉" There was nothing implied here at all? 😂 That people wouldnt honestly say it on the thread? Yeah 100%. But you can always interpret it as you wish
Did "on here" not refer to the thread? That was how I interpreted it anyway 🤔
Sorry 🤦♀️ I didn’t mean to cause an argument. I meant the men who don’t care about personality etc wouldn’t admit it on here. And there are definitely men like that on here (here as on fab) "That's totally fair enough, and I agree with you that guys might not admit to is in case it looks like they're being shallow but yeah, I guess I was thinking more in the context of this thread. | |||
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""Really Nora! Im shooketh 😱 i thought we were all honest on here 😉" There was nothing implied here at all? 😂 That people wouldnt honestly say it on the thread? Yeah 100%. But you can always interpret it as you wish
Did "on here" not refer to the thread? That was how I interpreted it anyway 🤔
No it referred to "fab". I have just told you what that wasnt the correct interpretation. And as i wrote it i think i know more than you what my intentions were. "I think I covered it in my last explanation but I think it was a fair interpretation to make if we're talking in the context of the thread but it's all cleared up now, hopefully | |||
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"An idea from another thread (but seperate to that thread) If a lady is what you describe as "gorgeous" but they make some comments that are distasteful to you, or arn't friendly to you or others, do you think oh it doesnt matter she is gorgeous?. And let it slide? I've just seen a few comments from men who dont know a lady from adam saying "noone could not like you your gorgeous" and it got me thinking is this actually true or is it just egging a compliment on. Or do the majority of you actually care if someone is a shitty person but gorgeous? Again this "gorgeous" person is made up its not in relation to anyone. " Absolutely I wouldn’t give her a free pass Being gorgeous isn’t just looks it’s the whole package for me, soh, banter and just a good person all round. | |||
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"I know I'm not a man but I'll give my view anyway because nobody asked for it. " A very man thing to do lol | |||
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"An example of pretty privilege. However, I call people out for their bad behaviour if I know them. Or if it's considered bullying. I hate bullies. If a lady is considered physically attractive and she has a crap personality, she's ugly to me." Yes... But how many of those are actually in long term relationships? There's a reason why there's 100s of millions of women that are single in their 30s and 40s now and cannot get a single guy to take them seriously. Literally tiktok and Instagram is filled with women that are in tears because they can't find a guy to take them seriously in that age range. Either because they've had a kid or kids, or because the guys generally don't want to date a woman of that age. | |||
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"An idea from another thread (but seperate to that thread) If a lady is what you describe as "gorgeous" but they make some comments that are distasteful to you, or arn't friendly to you or others, do you think oh it doesnt matter she is gorgeous?. And let it slide? I've just seen a few comments from men who dont know a lady from adam saying "noone could not like you your gorgeous" and it got me thinking is this actually true or is it just egging a compliment on. Or do the majority of you actually care if someone is a shitty person but gorgeous? Again this "gorgeous" person is made up its not in relation to anyone. " Nah I wouldn't let anything slide because someone is nice to look at... If they're being a knob then they can get in the bin 🤷♂️ she could be the single most attractive lady on the planet for all I care That probably sounds really standoffish but I don't have time for bullshit 🤣 | |||
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"Personality is much more important than looks for me. If someone is 'gorgeous' but a horrible person then I can still see they are visually appealing but they are not overall appealing to me. So yes, it matters to me. " Pretty much this. Looks are important to me - I wouldn't meet anyone on the strength of personality alone - but equally I wouldn't meet someone who was a douche, no matter how hot they were. | |||
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"Mixed. I had a huge crush on my English teacher. When she told me off for skipping homework and gave me detention I found it a huge turn on. Same with a girl student. She was widely regarded as the most beautiful girl in my class, but was also a bully and randomly picked on me, kicking, tripping, spitting and she found joy in groping guys' dicks to see who had a hard-on for her. Nicola you bad girl you made me a bad boy! "🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"Mixed. I had a huge crush on my English teacher. When she told me off for skipping homework and gave me detention I found it a huge turn on. Same with a girl student. She was widely regarded as the most beautiful girl in my class, but was also a bully and randomly picked on me, kicking, tripping, spitting and she found joy in groping guys' dicks to see who had a hard-on for her. Nicola you bad girl you made me a bad boy! "So where is your English teacher now? Asking for a friend. | |||
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"Mixed. I had a huge crush on my English teacher. When she told me off for skipping homework and gave me detention I found it a huge turn on. Same with a girl student. She was widely regarded as the most beautiful girl in my class, but was also a bully and randomly picked on me, kicking, tripping, spitting and she found joy in groping guys' dicks to see who had a hard-on for her. Nicola you bad girl you made me a bad boy! "🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"An example of pretty privilege. However, I call people out for their bad behaviour if I know them. Or if it's considered bullying. I hate bullies. If a lady is considered physically attractive and she has a crap personality, she's ugly to me. Yes... But how many of those are actually in long term relationships? There's a reason why there's 100s of millions of women that are single in their 30s and 40s now and cannot get a single guy to take them seriously. Literally tiktok and Instagram is filled with women that are in tears because they can't find a guy to take them seriously in that age range. Either because they've had a kid or kids, or because the guys generally don't want to date a woman of that age. " TikTok is also full of men in their 30s, 40s and 50s who find themselves single later in life, doing the “woe is me” TikTok’s or moaning about women in general. The difference is they don’t tend to get told they’re undesirable because of their age, whether they have children, or that nobody will take them seriously. It’s odd how being single is treated as a personal failing in women, but simply a life circumstance in men 🤷🏻♀️ And also, once your algorithm sees one video like that, that’s pretty much what you will see going forward. It’s not a reliable source on how a particular age group is doing in real life. | |||
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"An idea from another thread (but seperate to that thread) If a lady is what you describe as "gorgeous" but they make some comments that are distasteful to you, or arn't friendly to you or others, do you think oh it doesnt matter she is gorgeous?. And let it slide? I've just seen a few comments from men who dont know a lady from adam saying "noone could not like you your gorgeous" and it got me thinking is this actually true or is it just egging a compliment on. Or do the majority of you actually care if someone is a shitty person but gorgeous? Again this "gorgeous" person is made up its not in relation to anyone. " It absolutely matters. It wouldn't matter to me if you were the best looking woman I've ever seen, if you're not nice in general I wouldn't entertain it | |||
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"I'm reading these posts and recalling some names from previous match making threads. Hilarious the amount of people that are trying to pull the wool here my lips are sealed 🤐"I think you're right, for many any holes a goal and if she' stunning all the more reason to try and get into her pants. Another notch on the bedpost and a conquest to brag about with the lads.   | |||
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"An idea from another thread (but seperate to that thread) If a lady is what you describe as "gorgeous" but they make some comments that are distasteful to you, or arn't friendly to you or others, do you think oh it doesnt matter she is gorgeous?. And let it slide? I've just seen a few comments from men who dont know a lady from adam saying "noone could not like you your gorgeous" and it got me thinking is this actually true or is it just egging a compliment on. Or do the majority of you actually care if someone is a shitty person but gorgeous? Again this "gorgeous" person is made up its not in relation to anyone. " I personally would take offence even if i thought she was gorgeous because on fab the gorgeous women tend to be spoilt for choice and especially if the comment was aimed at me in an impolite manner ,absolutely no need to get personal ,especially to a stranger .  | |||
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"Dating or trying to have (fun) here in the uk is very hard , most girls want 6ft plus , athletic guy , very hung 😆😂🫣 and then you look at them and they are a size 20 and smoke , look smelly. I’ve virtually give up here . I live 6 months a year in Thailand, KL and Singapore. Dating in South East Asia , wow you get 10 stunners a day looking for a western husband, yes I get called a passport bro by my mates ! But it’s like opening a box of chocolates everyday . Then I come back here and all every woman is just after a 10/10 😂 . The ratio of guys to girls on these platforms is 50 guys to 1 girl . Go to Asia and is the other way around . " Not sure this is the way to win the fair women of fab. | |||
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"I'm reading these posts and recalling some names from previous match making threads. Hilarious the amount of people that are trying to pull the wool here my lips are sealed 🤐"I think what’s going on is this. Top logical brain saying I don’t like horrible people, then when lower man ball brain is in charge, who’s animal instinct is on another occasion, making them say something different. Like sometimes I like to do tributes, or show me wanking, just because sometimes, our primate instincts kick in. The human condition is fascinating. But ask me if I want to have sex with someone who is horrible and attractive I will say no. | |||
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"lol , obviously buddy . But I’m only being honest. " 2nd August picture - mate, on so many levels, not for me. | |||
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" I've just seen a few comments from men who dont know a lady from adam saying "noone could not like you your gorgeous" and it got me thinking is this actually true or is it just egging a compliment on. " That's clearly false, being "gorgeous" (which is subjective) doesn't immediately make someone likable. You can't really state something like that unless you know someone on more than a surface level. It's still a weird compliment, given it invokes the feelings of others which you can never claim to fully know. I'd say her attractiveness does go down if her personality isn't appealing no matter the looks. | |||
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"An idea from another thread (but seperate to that thread) If a lady is what you describe as "gorgeous" but they make some comments that are distasteful to you, or arn't friendly to you or others, do you think oh it doesnt matter she is gorgeous?. And let it slide? I've just seen a few comments from men who dont know a lady from adam saying "noone could not like you your gorgeous" and it got me thinking is this actually true or is it just egging a compliment on. Or do the majority of you actually care if someone is a shitty person but gorgeous? Again this "gorgeous" person is made up its not in relation to anyone. " my morals and principles come 1st no matter if that person is gorgeous or not .. its the inside of someone matters to me.. character good and even flaws | |||
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"100% buddy , I’m no Tom cruise 😂 a little chubby , dress well , smell good ! Love music and comedy and great sense of humour. I do pull here on nights out , but on these apps , the girls all want something special 😂 . I’ll stick to Asia " Do they all want Tom Cruise? I must say I was chunky when I was young, lost weight and had good times. But did I meet people who liked me? No. I then chubbed up a bit and found people that liked me, but it wasn’t my size, it was my confidence and attitude that changed. It’s different for everyone, but when I liked myself, people fancied me. Going to Asia with the dream of finding love I think is totally ok. But I can’t agree with the thought that there is no problem there, from British lads. Many parts of Asia poverty is the norm, hunger is real and life is not a full moon party. Some people fall into a narrative that it’s better. But just imagine you were born somewhere, where you struggled to have a roof and survive and dancing with lads and offering your body was your best option to get yourself out of that situation. We have freedoms in the uk that are not shared in other places. Sorry lads, I don’t agree with go to Asia. | |||
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"I do care, and it has cost me some ‘opportunities’ to play previously. In one case, it was with a couple and it was her husband who’d made an extremely ‘distasteful’ comment, not her. For better or for worse, I stand on my ‘moral code’. However shitty it feels to ‘lose out’ on an opportunity, I know it’d feel much worse if I just excused something I felt was abhorrent." Sorry to hear that. I’m presuming your talking about Op TT’ chat? Presuming your are? You don’t have to share more here, not for me. All I’ll say is that you should never feel awkward, ashamed, duty bounded, unless you like that and are freely asking to experience it. | |||
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"I also love Vegas/usa where a meal can cost $50 and $20 beers at the pool . Or $70 at the boxing in the t-mobile for a double vodka red bull . Now the World Cup is there, £1500 tickets to the games . Yessss off topic . But the west is foooooked " You are now talking about how cheap it is compared to the uk. Have you thought about what happens if you were brought up in the northern hill tribes, before Thailand was made a western holiday destination? You may have had an area where you manually collected food from the land. To sell for less than your paid prices for a days food. That would take them a week to collect and farm. Have you ever looked at average annual salaries for a Thai farming family since 1980 till now? There was a history of drug crops and land being taken from them. So they had nothing. I went when I was 10, to see family friends. That was in 1990. I saw first hand what it was like because I went to the hill tribes where my close family friends were from. When we got here we were allowed into villages that were guarded by men with AK 47. I think your view on Thai lifestyle that you experience is based on years of struggle for some of the Thai people. | |||
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"I also love Vegas/usa where a meal can cost $50 and $20 beers at the pool . Or $70 at the boxing in the t-mobile for a double vodka red bull . Now the World Cup is there, £1500 tickets to the games . Yessss off topic . But the west is foooooked You are now talking about how cheap it is compared to the uk. Have you thought about what happens if you were brought up in the northern hill tribes, before Thailand was made a western holiday destination? You may have had an area where you manually collected food from the land. To sell for less than your paid prices for a days food. That would take them a week to collect and farm. Have you ever looked at average annual salaries for a Thai farming family since 1980 till now? There was a history of drug crops and land being taken from them. So they had nothing. I went when I was 10, to see family friends. That was in 1990. I saw first hand what it was like because I went to the hill tribes where my close family friends were from. When we got here we were allowed into villages that were guarded by men with AK 47. I think your view on Thai lifestyle that you experience is based on years of struggle for some of the Thai people. " Mate I don’t need a history lesson. I have literally travelled the world and respect every culture. But you are going back in time . Out in the mountains of Thailand . They have faster internet than our cities in the uk . Trust me I lived on a farm in Mukdahan for 1 month ina rural area | |||
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"I also love Vegas/usa where a meal can cost $50 and $20 beers at the pool . Or $70 at the boxing in the t-mobile for a double vodka red bull . Now the World Cup is there, £1500 tickets to the games . Yessss off topic . But the west is foooooked You are now talking about how cheap it is compared to the uk. Have you thought about what happens if you were brought up in the northern hill tribes, before Thailand was made a western holiday destination? You may have had an area where you manually collected food from the land. To sell for less than your paid prices for a days food. That would take them a week to collect and farm. Have you ever looked at average annual salaries for a Thai farming family since 1980 till now? There was a history of drug crops and land being taken from them. So they had nothing. I went when I was 10, to see family friends. That was in 1990. I saw first hand what it was like because I went to the hill tribes where my close family friends were from. When we got here we were allowed into villages that were guarded by men with AK 47. I think your view on Thai lifestyle that you experience is based on years of struggle for some of the Thai people. Mate I don’t need a history lesson. I have literally travelled the world and respect every culture. But you are going back in time . Out in the mountains of Thailand . They have faster internet than our cities in the uk . Trust me I lived on a farm in Mukdahan for 1 month ina rural area " You have a picture on 2nd of August with your hand on a women’s bottom, like she is your trophy. You may have been on holiday and come away well rested and enjoyed cheap meals, fast internet and enjoyed 10 stunners a day looking for a western husband, I don’t doubt that, and also how good that makes you feel. You said this earlier: “Dating in South East Asia , wow you get 10 stunners a day looking for a western husband, yes I get called a passport bro by my mates ! But it’s like opening a box of chocolates everyday . Then I come back here and all every woman is just after a 10/10 😂 . The ratio of guys to girls on these platforms is 50 guys to 1 girl . Go to Asia and is the other way around” I think the difference in our opinions isn’t history of Thailand or the cost of food, or the speed of the internet. Happy Fabbing. | |||
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"I also love Vegas/usa where a meal can cost $50 and $20 beers at the pool . Or $70 at the boxing in the t-mobile for a double vodka red bull . Now the World Cup is there, £1500 tickets to the games . Yessss off topic . But the west is foooooked You are now talking about how cheap it is compared to the uk. Have you thought about what happens if you were brought up in the northern hill tribes, before Thailand was made a western holiday destination? You may have had an area where you manually collected food from the land. To sell for less than your paid prices for a days food. That would take them a week to collect and farm. Have you ever looked at average annual salaries for a Thai farming family since 1980 till now? There was a history of drug crops and land being taken from them. So they had nothing. I went when I was 10, to see family friends. That was in 1990. I saw first hand what it was like because I went to the hill tribes where my close family friends were from. When we got here we were allowed into villages that were guarded by men with AK 47. I think your view on Thai lifestyle that you experience is based on years of struggle for some of the Thai people. Mate I don’t need a history lesson. I have literally travelled the world and respect every culture. But you are going back in time . Out in the mountains of Thailand . They have faster internet than our cities in the uk . Trust me I lived on a farm in Mukdahan for 1 month ina rural area You have a picture on 2nd of August with your hand on a women’s bottom, like she is your trophy. You may have been on holiday and come away well rested and enjoyed cheap meals, fast internet and enjoyed 10 stunners a day looking for a western husband, I don’t doubt that, and also how good that makes you feel. You said this earlier: “Dating in South East Asia , wow you get 10 stunners a day looking for a western husband, yes I get called a passport bro by my mates ! But it’s like opening a box of chocolates everyday . Then I come back here and all every woman is just after a 10/10 😂 . The ratio of guys to girls on these platforms is 50 guys to 1 girl . Go to Asia and is the other way around” I think the difference in our opinions isn’t history of Thailand or the cost of food, or the speed of the internet. Happy Fabbing." You brought up the starving people of Asia lol , get a life . Me slapping Nickeys arse is in Vegas , 20 plus trips ! Nothing to do with Thailand.lets end it here brothers 👍💪😘 | |||
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"I also love Vegas/usa where a meal can cost $50 and $20 beers at the pool . Or $70 at the boxing in the t-mobile for a double vodka red bull . Now the World Cup is there, £1500 tickets to the games . Yessss off topic . But the west is foooooked You are now talking about how cheap it is compared to the uk. Have you thought about what happens if you were brought up in the northern hill tribes, before Thailand was made a western holiday destination? You may have had an area where you manually collected food from the land. To sell for less than your paid prices for a days food. That would take them a week to collect and farm. Have you ever looked at average annual salaries for a Thai farming family since 1980 till now? There was a history of drug crops and land being taken from them. So they had nothing. I went when I was 10, to see family friends. That was in 1990. I saw first hand what it was like because I went to the hill tribes where my close family friends were from. When we got here we were allowed into villages that were guarded by men with AK 47. I think your view on Thai lifestyle that you experience is based on years of struggle for some of the Thai people. Mate I don’t need a history lesson. I have literally travelled the world and respect every culture. But you are going back in time . Out in the mountains of Thailand . They have faster internet than our cities in the uk . Trust me I lived on a farm in Mukdahan for 1 month ina rural area You have a picture on 2nd of August with your hand on a women’s bottom, like she is your trophy. You may have been on holiday and come away well rested and enjoyed cheap meals, fast internet and enjoyed 10 stunners a day looking for a western husband, I don’t doubt that, and also how good that makes you feel. You said this earlier: “Dating in South East Asia , wow you get 10 stunners a day looking for a western husband, yes I get called a passport bro by my mates ! But it’s like opening a box of chocolates everyday . Then I come back here and all every woman is just after a 10/10 😂 . The ratio of guys to girls on these platforms is 50 guys to 1 girl . Go to Asia and is the other way around” I think the difference in our opinions isn’t history of Thailand or the cost of food, or the speed of the internet. Happy Fabbing. You brought up the starving people of Asia lol , get a life . Me slapping Nickeys arse is in Vegas , 20 plus trips ! Nothing to do with Thailand.lets end it here brothers 👍💪😘" How’s it different in vegas? Please tell me. I’m interested. Where is Nickey from again? I thought the west was fucked? Quote: “ I also love Vegas/usa where a meal can cost $50 and $20 beers at the pool . Or $70 at the boxing in the t-mobile for a double vodka red bull . Now the World Cup is there, £1500 tickets to the games . Yessss off topic . But the west is foooooked” | |||
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"The west is fooked , I bought my properties 22-18 years ago . Try and buy a houses now . Thats why most 30 year olds are still living with mum and dad . I’m pointing out basics . You are twisting things " Uk house pricing? Yeah it’s difficult now, I agree. I worry about that too. I have kids and they can’t get a job. But that’s global economics and government policy and that’s for a different area of fabs, there are specific forums if you want to join in there. I appreciate that sometimes you can’t me arsed and neither can I, always. Look, I want this to end in a positive way and im sorry for any confrontation we may have had discussing this so publicly. I should have probably messaged you directly. We all have different views and our views can clash when they trigger events or emotions that we have that are based on our own interests and interpretations. But somehow, we have to learn and respect each other. Baphunter final thought: Till next time, take care of yourselves and each other. X | |||
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"I love a good chat/debate/argument , I’m pretty experienced in most cultures and also housing markets . I respect your opinion and everyone’s opinion. That’s how we get an equal society. " We don't get an equal society based solely on valuing opinions because opinions are subjective, often unearned, and frequently disconnected from empirical facts or systemic realities. To build a genuinely equitable society, progress typically relies on establishing universal rights, equal opportunities, and fair systemic structures rather than just elevating all opinions to the same level of validity. Anyway enough of that nonsense, its good not to argue and we all try and get along with each other. | |||
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"I’ve seen some good looking ladies on here but when I read what they say in the forum it is a right real turn-off. Definitely personality and character over looks for me. I like someone happy not some miserable bleeder. " Women are in the box seat on this site and some of them exploit that position, no doubt. | |||
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