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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
2 weeks ago

oxfordshire

Evening beauties

As I sit here … I wonder if any of you come across profiles you once interacted with/ met… and wish things had happened differently? Or that you still wished you had th chance to meet again?

Just curious

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By *lizaDay91Woman
2 weeks ago

It'sASecret

Sadly most of the people I've met I wouldn't meet again bar a very small number! I either wasn't happy with the meet or things didn't work out in some way. I've had some bad luck in the past.

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By *actile TensionMan
2 weeks ago

Sussex

Yea?

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By *Effy-Woman
2 weeks ago

Scotland

Not really.

The ones I've met and like i still keep in touch with them.

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Yeah, no, kinda. If it was meant to happen again it would have or there was a reason why it didn’t.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
1 week ago

SW1A1AA

A lot of my friends have left and I wonder what there doing noe

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
1 week ago

Maidstone

No. If it didn't happen I don't have space in my life to dwell over that. It's done.

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By *actile TensionMan
1 week ago

Sussex

"Yeah, no, kinda. If it was meant to happen again it would have or there was a reason why it didn’t."

I lean into the concept of fate somewhat too

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By *oeBeansMan
1 week ago

Derby

Yeah, I have in the past. It's so tough finding people to meet that you get on with that when you do and you don't end up meeting or things don't work out they way I wanted them to, I have held onto it and lamented where it knocked my confidence.

But I think I'm better at letting things go now and focusing my energy in what I can control.

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By *histle79Man
1 week ago

Guildford

A couple. One I’d love to chat to again but have never seen her on here since way back when.

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Mayfair

"I wonder if any of you come across profiles you once interacted with/met…"

Most of the time, yes, because they're still extant on here, except a handful that have left Fab altogether and are just 'people that I used to know'.

"...and wish things had happened differently?"

If it didn't happen the first time then it was probably for the right reason/s why it didn't happen. I would let sleeping dogs lie.

"...Or that you still wished you had the chance to meet again?"

If it did happen before then - for two or three of them - I would be open to the notion of meeting them again. The reason why it probably stalled previously is because of the vast distances between us or they started a monogamous relationship with someone, amongst other possible reasons.

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By *earditallWoman
1 week ago

Lancaster

Im still in touch with some of the ones I first met years ago and one of those we still catch up now and again.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
1 week ago

Central

I'm generally very happy with how things have been. My only regrets are that some friends here had their lives taken away too early and they are no longer with us

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

oxfordshire

"Sadly most of the people I've met I wouldn't meet again bar a very small number! I either wasn't happy with the meet or things didn't work out in some way. I've had some bad luck in the past. "

That’s a shame

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

oxfordshire

"Not really.

The ones I've met and like i still keep in touch with them. "

they’re not around for a reason right

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

oxfordshire

"Yeah, no, kinda. If it was meant to happen again it would have or there was a reason why it didn’t."

True

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

oxfordshire

"Yeah, I have in the past. It's so tough finding people to meet that you get on with that when you do and you don't end up meeting or things don't work out they way I wanted them to, I have held onto it and lamented where it knocked my confidence.

But I think I'm better at letting things go now and focusing my energy in what I can control."

That’s a good place to be in .. and better probably

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By *he MinionMan
1 week ago

Surrey

I have stayed in touch with some of my first friends from here. Those that i had met but are no longer on here i leave alone as their situations may have changed and if they wished to chat to me, they know how to get hold of me.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
1 week ago

Next Door

Yes, there has been a couple of people I've met on here that I would love to spend more time with.

Some have left the site, as we met over 8 yrs ago and some are still on here but circumstance dont allow our paths to cross now.

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet

It's the ones who left Fab that I enjoyed interacting with but we're not on my watsapp list that I miss and wonder about. There are at least two that I have met who have hidden profiles and have not been on the site for over a year. Both are in monogamous relationships, so have gone awol (though one messages at birthdays and Christmas). I like both and enjoyed our interactions.

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

oxfordshire

"Yes, there has been a couple of people I've met on here that I would love to spend more time with.

Some have left the site, as we met over 8 yrs ago and some are still on here but circumstance dont allow our paths to cross now.

I guess it’s as may have said.. things happen for a reason

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
1 week ago

Birmingham

As a serial returner, most of the people are the same every time I come back so there's always opportunity

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By *ealitybitesMan
1 week ago

Belfast

No not at all.

This is my 4th profile in 10 years and each time I left and rejoined I deliberately didn't make contact with anyone I had met before because the whole point of leaving and coming back was so I'd have a blank slate.

I've never once asked someone I met to reverify me.

If I've met someone and it didn't go as planned I've just moved on and don't have any fab regrets.

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

oxfordshire

"As a serial returner, most of the people are the same every time I come back so there's always opportunity

I think a lot of us are guilty of being serial returners

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

oxfordshire

"No not at all.

I've never once asked someone I met to reverify me.

If I've met someone and it didn't go as planned I've just moved on and don't have any fab regrets."

That’s a good headspace / outlook

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By *sWyldWoman
1 week ago

Edinburgh

Only one person. Seen him a few times over the years. Hes left now.. I assume hes living happy ever after which is lovely.

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

oxfordshire

"Only one person. Seen him a few times over the years. Hes left now.. I assume hes living happy ever after which is lovely. "

And it’s lovely that you have the fondness of the memories and enjoyed it while you could

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By *ecky and justCouple
1 week ago

Godalming

There’s a few, but for one reason or another their fab journey took them in a different direction.

Never any malice held, people are free to choose.

There’s a few that have left or passed that we miss.

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
1 week ago

(User no longer on site)

Definitely. It's a long story which I can't be arsed to write.

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By *ittle miss sunshineWoman
1 week ago

south sheilds

Well... I had a fab Freind... We lost touch for various reasons and then we both came back here around about the same time and then reconnected with each other

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By *issmorganWoman
1 week ago

Calderdale innit

There's one man I met a few times, I'd meet again,but think he's left the scene now.

A few old meets contacted me in the last couple of years, but as it had been so long, I wasn't really bothered about meeting them again tbh.

In fact one blocked me when I said I wasn't looking at meeting anyone else just now. It all felt a bit entitled,like because I'd met him before, I'd still meet him.so I'm glad he did Tbf.

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By *earditallWoman
1 week ago

Lancaster

Had a message off an old fab friend this morning who left and is back,always nice when you hear off someone you know

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By *oxy-RedWoman
1 week ago

pink panther territory

I wish,but he moved away,he was what fab was all about for me

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By *acavityMan
1 week ago

Redditch

I was looking at my friends list and there is a couple I never met, but had lots of emails with.

They took a break from fab for personal reasons and never came back

And some of my verification from meets, I wonder why we didn’t meet again

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By *ortheastFarmerMan
1 week ago

Northumberland

Theres 2 ladies on here I used to talk to loads and met, but due to me having a break and new account, I cant get a message to them due to age filters. I dont want to meet them again for anything sexual, it would just been nice to see how they have been and if their doing well.

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By *lack King DomMan
1 week ago

London

"Evening beauties

As I sit here … I wonder if any of you come across profiles you once interacted with/ met… and wish things had happened differently? Or that you still wished you had th chance to meet again?

Happened just once.

Just curious

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By *007ManMan
1 week ago

Worthing

I was just too far to meet Pablo from sw chat. We got on very well for a long time (I like to think so!). She is not on here much now.

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP Man
1 week ago

oxfordshire

"Well... I had a fab Freind... We lost touch for various reasons and then we both came back here around about the same time and then reconnected with each other

Great to hear

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 week ago

Round the bend

The people we have stopped meeting stopped for a reason, never go back, it's like footballer managers, never as good as the memories of the first time

Mr 🐺

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By *hat.coupleCouple
1 week ago

Kent

All the time. I also wonder things like 'what if we'd met in person instead of me messaging them and being rejected?. Would they still have rejected us or would they have chosen us instead?'. I'm aware that there is only so much you can portray in a message, couple that with the fact that some messages get deleted by fab before the receiver even gets to see them, and it makes fab a tough place to meet people as it is. On the flip side there have been occasions where we have liked someone from a far then having met them we changed or minds and didnt like them as much. So I'm sure it must cross others minds too

Mrs x

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By *outhLondonSmileMan
1 week ago

London

All the time. I sometimes wonder if girls block too hesitantly. However there are clearly plenty more fish in the sea. We are extendable.

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