FabSwingers.com forum: Do you prefer conversationalists or someone who cuts straight to the chase?

By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
2 weeks ago

North West

For me I do prefer conversationalist, I know looks are one part of the attraction. However, even so if I can't have a conversation with someone. Then it just won't work for me. As I'm very chatty.

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By *eordiePTFellaMan
2 weeks ago

Newcastle - Scotland

Definitely all about the conversation...banter leads to a more meaningful and intense connection in the bedroom......

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

funky town

Gotta have the banter and connection for me to even imagine getting my clothes off with you

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By *itter78Couple
2 weeks ago

Spennymoor

Oooo we're different

I (Mrs) love to jump straight to it, no small talk, fully hedonistic

He (Mr) loves the build up and flirting before play or he gets bored half way through 🫣🫣

It works well for our relationship but means I play a lot more than him in the swinging world

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By *morousCouple8Couple
2 weeks ago

Cumbria

I love the chat. If they don’t keep chatting, we’re not meeting.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

I want a conversation, lots of flirting, a meet and lots of snogging

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

"Gotta have the banter and connection for me to even imagine getting my clothes off with you

Exactly this! 👆🏼

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By *asquatch43Man
2 weeks ago

manchester

"I want a conversation, lots of flirting, a meet and lots of snogging "

exactly what Poly said

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By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
2 weeks ago

North West

"Definitely all about the conversation...banter leads to a more meaningful and intense connection in the bedroom......"

Exactly this... I'm very happy to keep chatting for as long as possible

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By *estructionDollyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Absolutely the conversationalist. My mind is my biggest erogenous zone, I need to enjoy someone's company and a good conversation can really turn me on.

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By *abulincsCouple
2 weeks ago

near a bridge

I’m not piece meat for others to do as they wish without even chatting at all has to be an attraction at least

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

If I've not met you, I like conversation but not too much conversation. If you're gonna start asking me how my day was you can go away.

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By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
2 weeks ago

North West

"If I've not met you, I like conversation but not too much conversation. If you're gonna start asking me how my day was you can go away. "

If I don't ask how your day was but how was your month was. Will that help?

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Conversation is important, but then I'm not just looking for a quick fuck.

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

I like talking to people, getting to know them, also don't want to talk daily. I'd much rather someone messaged because they actually wanted to talk rather than an odd sense of obligation.

Not a big fan of when people only talk about themselves, that can switch me off sadly. Big fan of when someone is mentally stimulating and has that spark about them that makes me want to find out more.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"If I've not met you, I like conversation but not too much conversation. If you're gonna start asking me how my day was you can go away.

If I don't ask how your day was but how was your month was. Will that help?"

I may think you're a bit weird

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By *onin25Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

I like to at least know enough about someone to decide if I like them

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

"For me I do prefer conversationalist, I know looks are one part of the attraction. However, even so if I can't have a conversation with someone. Then it just won't work for me. As I'm very chatty."

Same here OP

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By *kphooey43Man
2 weeks ago

Barnet

Way to chatty here, far too easily sidetracked, too many thoughts in my head, and the voices insist on me answering them

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By *aughty234Man
2 weeks ago

Manchester

I'd like straight to the chase cause we aren't here to chat or date are we ...

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I definitely need stimulating conversation, before anything more risqué so to speak.

Most of my deleted messages are from men who just cut straight to it and not in a good way.

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By *rHotNottsMan
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I can be a conversationalist, it takes two, it can be a great way to build sexual chemistry without being explicit. I can also skip it until after the sex, sometimes you can see enough about a person on a profile & few messages to know that you want them. But there’s never any excuse for the how are you/how’s your day rubbish, it’s nosy and it’s boring.

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By *he MinionMan
2 weeks ago

Surrey

I like the conversations but its small talk much of the time. Its a give and take dynamic. One has to nake conversation and have an almost question to ask within the conversation for the recipiant to respond too. And also for them to carry on the almost question theme.

Its how conversations work but at tes it can be tough not to simply ask, how was your day, your weekend weather stuff.

The art of small talk is a challenge sometimes especially if you are trying to avoid the constant under lying message of i just want to pin you against a wall, kiss your neck and pull your hair whilst investigating the inside of your knickers with my hand. 🤷‍♂️

One word replies kill it.

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By *he MinionMan
2 weeks ago

Surrey

"I can be a conversationalist, it takes two, it can be a great way to build sexual chemistry without being explicit. I can also skip it until after the sex, sometimes you can see enough about a person on a profile & few messages to know that you want them. But there’s never any excuse for the how are you/how’s your day rubbish, it’s nosy and it’s boring."

It is lazy. And i admit that i have done it

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Online, I find most conversationalists will never meet for whatever reason, whereas those who ask if you're free on a certain day and time and propose a location, then read my terms and conditions copy and paste and are happy with it, will be reliable.

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