FabSwingers.com forum: Ideal age ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
2 weeks ago

Question for both male and females and couples . What is your sex partner ideal age ? Are extreme gaps a turn on for you?

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

funky town

I like em about 45

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Preferably marginally older, within about ten years probably.

Exceptions apply.

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By *rchie300Man
2 weeks ago

Hamworthy

I don’t know about age but Italian looking women do it for me 😉

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By *eekaboo BellyMan
2 weeks ago

Bradford

When they turn 30 on September 24th

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

About 48, preferably with a little grey.

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By *asoMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

I like to hang out with an older lady ❤️

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By *otthehorneMan
2 weeks ago

doggersville

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By *avexxMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire

about 34

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
2 weeks ago

Maidstone

I don't like extreme gaps. Youngest I'd go is mid 30s probably. Oldest... haven't met many that much older that really do it for me if I'm honest. Around my age is ideal

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By *otthehorneMan
2 weeks ago

doggersville

prefer younger but not that fussy! 21-60 would probably cover it! unless they were a really fit gilf!!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Preferably marginally older, within about ten years probably.

Exceptions apply."

**This is not an invitation to my inbox for people within the preferred range. There are approximately 8.6 million UK residents that this range applies to.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
2 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

No preference- just make me laugh and I’m yours

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

funky town

"about 34

Dave you tease

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By *orphia2003Woman
2 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Don't have one. If we click and it works, then brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
2 weeks ago

Yes but only 1% of the uk population are swingers so your odds are much less ! Lol

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By *hitehorsefunCouple
2 weeks ago

Wantage

Ours are right. S is 16 years younger than me. I've led a very active,fit life. I'm gym fit now and can run as well as I did 20 years ago. Could I satisfy a 30 year old at 61?. Maybe but I'm happy with her and still have lovers 20 years younger. FAB life

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

Usually younger. Between 38-48ish.

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By *asoMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Usually younger. Between 38-48ish. "

Phew; that doesn’t rule me out 😊

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

In a galaxy far far away

I don't really have a preference, just someone I click with.

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By *homas400Man
2 weeks ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo

Definitly prefer over 40.

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By *hitehorsefunCouple
2 weeks ago

Wantage

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By *etwife8230Couple
2 weeks ago

Newport

Around 45 to 55 is the sweet spot

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By *aptivating24Man
2 weeks ago

castleford

I’m not massively hung up on age gaps to be honest… chemistry, attraction and personality matter far more to me 😏

As long as she doesn’t throw her back out getting off the bed or call me ‘young man’, we’re probably alright

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By *hitehorsefunCouple
2 weeks ago

Wantage

"Yes but only 1% of the uk population are swingers so your odds are much less ! Lol"

700,000 swingers in the UK? Does that mean single men account for 697,500 of them?

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
2 weeks ago

someplace

Over 40

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

"Usually younger. Between 38-48ish.

Phew; that doesn’t rule me out 😊"

Depends if ya keep moaning 🤣🤣

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By *Effy-Woman
2 weeks ago

Scotland

I'm not into the age gap thing.

I'm more drawn towards people of a similar age or slightly older.

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By *evilinDavina1Man
2 weeks ago

Bristol

30-ish to 60-ish

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

"30-ish to 60-ish "

Hello young man 👵🏼

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Slough

21 to 80

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By *pthillMan
2 weeks ago

st shithole

35-55

Any younger arnt worth bothering with

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

Youngest I would probably go is about 30 so 10 years younger then me , my man is 15 years older so I would say I would go to 60 which is 20 years older. This isn’t set in stone and if there’s an attraction and a connection then …

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By *enuine_J87Man
2 weeks ago

Eastleigh

Wouldn’t pick exact numbers because I know someone hot would be either 1 year younger or older!

I’m 39… so hopefully fit in a few age ranges on here!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

Mid 40s + really. Don’t wanna be smelling the formaldehyde but not the Lynx either.

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By *igfish_65Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

75+

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It depends on the person. I don't want to spend half my night explaining whom Danger Mouse is, or quotes from films and telly programmes going over their head, nor do I want to have the worry that they're going to expire of old age whilst I'm on the premises.

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By *atangMan
2 weeks ago

bolton

over 70

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By *itty14Couple
2 weeks ago

kilkenny

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

Trying to word this carefully so it doesn't come across as fetishising them but when I joined Fab, I found myself having a thing for older women and I've luckily had the opportunity to get to know some of them quite well when there's been a mutual attraction. I still enjoy those meets, but I am also hoping to meet more women closer to my own age as well.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

"It depends on the person. I don't want to spend half my night explaining whom Danger Mouse is, or quotes from films and telly programmes going over their head, nor do I want to have the worry that they're going to expire of old age whilst I'm on the premises.

Yeah, we met a 28 year old about 18 months ago..he didn't know who Sooty was! Should have spotted the red flag! 🤣🤣🤣 Never again!

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

Don't mind an age gap but men around my age is ideal i think.

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By *itty14Couple
2 weeks ago

kilkenny

35 to 50ish ..discovered I like men a bit younger than myself

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By *lassiccokeorpepsimaxCouple
2 weeks ago

Cardiff

I do prefer someone either my age or a older, although I'd never say never to younger.. if they're special 😅 I don't mind an age gap. I think wisdom comes with age though, and that itself is a turn on

Mrs x

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By *actile TensionMan
2 weeks ago

Sussex

4yrs older Rooster

4yrs young Snake

😬

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Yeah, we met a 28 year old about 18 months ago..he didn't know who Sooty was! Should have spotted the red flag! 🤣🤣🤣 Never again!"

Yikes!

One of my regrets is that years ago, I did a video of me fisting myself and it was only much later did I think, I should have looked at the camera and said, 'Izzy Wizzy, let's get busy!'

A definite missed opportunity.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

Yeah, we met a 28 year old about 18 months ago..he didn't know who Sooty was! Should have spotted the red flag! 🤣🤣🤣 Never again!

Yikes!

One of my regrets is that years ago, I did a video of me fisting myself and it was only much later did I think, I should have looked at the camera and said, 'Izzy Wizzy, let's get busy!'

A definite missed opportunity.

Ffs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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2 weeks ago

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By *tamanMan
2 weeks ago

around the corner

Hummm I usually don't ask ID when meeting...

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By *heJam84Man
2 weeks ago

Manchester

my search is 30-50 because i'm 40s and i feel like a younger may have some energy but an older lady will know what she's doing and ruin me.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

He should be 200 - 300 years older, with a decent crypt, and a devastating line in full length cloaks...

🧛🏻‍♀️

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By *ustAnotherMan
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

I dated alot older when I was alot younger. These days tends to be within five years either way, though not intentionally so

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By *ustme2026888Man
2 weeks ago

hove

For me personally would be 30 to 50

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By *onin25Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

I like a lady who is around my age (ish - plus or minus 10 years ish) but without the maturity level that age would normally suggest.

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By *atpurrWoman
2 weeks ago

Kent

About 35 ish for me, still young and pretty, but know how to pleasure a woman without too much teaching.

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

"99"

That ice cream thread was sooooo 2 days ago

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By *eximus MaximusMan
2 weeks ago

Up North

If her hole is wet then I don’t mind

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

Ideal age? Any age that doesn't require 'carbon dating'. I don't mind a relic but her apparatus has to be in full working order.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
2 weeks ago

South Wales

Mid 20’s up to about 40ish xx 😘

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By *laytime_13Woman
2 weeks ago

Lincs

Yeah, we met a 28 year old about 18 months ago..he didn't know who Sooty was! Should have spotted the red flag! 🤣🤣🤣 Never again!"

Whaaaat? Sooty, sweep and sue were staple watching in my youth

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By *inkPomPomWoman
2 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Like 35 and up, but only guys who are able to actually listen

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
2 weeks ago

London

Don't have an ideal age. I'm in my 30's so I'm at that stage where I find women on either end of my age attractive. I used to only be attracted to older women and mostly dated older.

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By *avyBlueManMan
2 weeks ago

Old Town

Still breathing.

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By *antana79Woman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

43-50 x

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By *laytime_13Woman
2 weeks ago

Lincs

Generally older, 10-15 years is the sweet spot but it comes down to the individual, as long as they're not the same age as my parents we're all good. Also, it depends on the person/people. I've known 'old' 45 year olds, and 'young' 50 something year olds. The 50 something's are likely to be more attractive.

It's definitely different between ladies and men though, which is why I do show a lower age range on my profile.

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

I thought it was ten/fifteen years older than at me one point (for men). Now, probably five to twenty years older? There's one man who is younger than me who I'll have sex with again but it's only a few months so... he's the exception.

Women, like Play, there's never really been a certain age. Not too much younger? That's as far as it goes.

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By *ddie1966Man
2 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

-10 to +5 of my own.

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By *samyhotwifeWoman
2 weeks ago

Dublin

Probably around 55

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By *quirrel!Man
2 weeks ago

Wirral

"99"

Granny fucker! 🤣

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By *partharmonyCouple
2 weeks ago

Tonbridge

We're generally attracted to people around our own age. We'd maybe go for up to five years older. We would go for a lot younger if they are mature with good chat but most commonly we like a similar age to us.

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By *kphooey43Man
2 weeks ago

Barnet

+ or - 15. There was a period from my early 20s until about ten years ago when all my lovers were five years older than me.

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
2 weeks ago

North West

10-15ish years older, max. Never younger - I want someone who knows what they’re doing 😅😅

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By (user no longer on site) OP
2 weeks ago

Never younger? Don’t you think you are missing out ?

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Never younger? Don’t you think you are missing out ?"

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How does one miss out on something they are not interested in or have no appetite for?

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By *eximus MaximusMan
2 weeks ago

Up North

18-99

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By *ifelover999Man
2 weeks ago

Eastbourne

"I like em about 45

Hello

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By *ornyguy666Man
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

29 to 69

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By *arand25Couple
2 weeks ago

Crowborough

S likes guys between 42 & 60

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By *arlos 0511Man
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Beggars can't be choosers. I'll take what I can get over 28 😉

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By *eordiePTFellaMan
2 weeks ago

Newcastle - Scotland

Age not a consideration.....all about the banter, eye contact and personality

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By *estructionDollyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Ideal is 40-50.

But anywhere between 30-55 I'm open to.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
2 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

"Ideal is 40-50.

But anywhere between 30-55 I'm open to. "

Yesssssss - There is a God

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

Older. 5, 10, 15 years older.

I very rarely go for younger men.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"Question for both male and females and couples . What is your sex partner ideal age ? Are extreme gaps a turn on for you?"

43 plus or minus a a year

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By *orders-cplCouple
2 weeks ago

middx cpl

10 years older so in to there 60s

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

"Never younger? Don’t you think you are missing out ?"

Extreme age gaps as you describe them are my biggest turn off on fab by far.

My age filters are tight for a reason but I've never thought that I was missing out on anyone outside those preferences because they aren't what I'm looking for.

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By *uriousCorvidMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Is it bad that I'm not fussy? So long as my partner has looked after herself, Nd I find them attractive, age doesn't matter

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By *om in CyprusMan
2 weeks ago

Ayia Napa

I've had a hell of a lot younger and a hell of a lot older with me its the connection if we get on and a spark and enjoy the conversations and company age is but a number 👍

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By *lizaDay91Woman
2 weeks ago

It'sASecret

I don't know about an ideal age. With men I can be a bit shallow and like a face that doesn't look too old ( this could change ) so my upper age limit doesn't go above 45 at the moment. I'm quite interested in finding younger men provided they aren't immature. A lot in their early twenties are all text speak, and I seem to attract older people more than I do younger.

That said I've made a good friend on gere who I've really clicked with and he's nearly a decade younger than me. He's more mature than a lot of older guys I've spoken to, so age really is just a number.

I'd say 24-40 would be ideal, but it depends on the person.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

"Ideal is 40-50.

But anywhere between 30-55 I'm open to.

Yesssssss - There is a God

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By *tannersMan
2 weeks ago

stanley

Not specifically but I’m realistic enough to recognise that my age is a factor, both in terms of who might consider me attractive and who I could form a meaningful connection with.

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By *ilyandronCouple
2 weeks ago

Bristol

66, going on 67 !

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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2 weeks ago

Central

Early 30s

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

10 years plus or minus my age of 57.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Any either way of me at 53 would be very much appreciated at the moment!!

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By *asquatch43Man
2 weeks ago

manchester

anywhere from mid 30s to late 60s for me

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By *inkShyWoman
2 weeks ago

near Windsor

Above legal, below zimmerframe

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By *ora the explorerWoman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Forties

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By *mf123Man
2 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Meh depends how deep her fanny is if i can scratch the back of my arm with her clit she will do for me

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By *luebell888Woman
2 weeks ago

Glasgowish

40ish. I do love younger men.

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

"40ish. I do love younger men."

Wait for me?

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By *ustycarolineWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

I'm 52 and I like from about 50 to 65 xx

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