FabSwingers.com forum: A social or straight to it

By *gent Coulson OP Man
2 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Are you a social first type or a just get to it type

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By *each needs some creamWoman
2 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Straight to it

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Social but how long that lasts depends on how pretty they are.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Always a social, but sometimes it can turn into more

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

A social everytime.

Even just a coffee and a chat in a no pressure environment, is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"Are you a social first type or a just get to it type"

I'll take anything at the moment 😆 🤣

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By *rs Sarah VespertineCouple
2 weeks ago

Maidstone

Straight to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"Are you a social first type or a just get to it type

I'll take anything at the moment 😆 🤣 "

Haha, yes, a social sounds like an unobtainable dream at the moment 😆

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

A bit of both. Depends on the situation.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
2 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Social but, option for more if there’s a spark

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By *orknmindy21Couple
2 weeks ago

Newtownards

We sometimes have a social then straight back for a fuck

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By *rispy KremeMan
2 weeks ago

wolves

Social first definitely, if it goes else where if we are vibing then sure but for me, someone I cns relax with is important

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By *uicy_peach79Woman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Mix of both

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By *achelTheAnalSlutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Haywards Heath

"A social everytime.

Even just a coffee and a chat in a no pressure environment, is good. "

This ☝🏻

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By *Effy-Woman
2 weeks ago

Scotland

Always a social first. With a hotel booked "just incase"

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By *pTheDale40Man
2 weeks ago

Coventry

Got to be a social first, then if the socials going well it could easily lead to more!

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 weeks ago

Bedford

Definitely a social first, to see if there is chemistry. Potentially more, but no promises.

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By *orphia2003Woman
2 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Social usually

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By *asoMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

Straight to it then social. My social skills improve massively after coitus 😂

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

funky town

Bit of both

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"A social everytime.

Even just a coffee and a chat in a no pressure environment, is good. "

I'm so surprised this isn't the norm but I guess I'm fairly new to this site 😂 I'd opt for this everytime I think.

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By *kphooey43Man
2 weeks ago

Barnet

As with others I meet socially first, but that has led straight back to my place on a few occasions - sometimes that comes as a bit of a shock to me (the shock being that someone is daft enough to fancy me)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Social

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

In a galaxy far far away

"Straight to it then social. My social skills improve massively after coitus 😂"

Coitus?

Who are you, Sheldon Cooper?

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By *asoMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Straight to it then social. My social skills improve massively after coitus 😂

Coitus?

Who are you, Sheldon Cooper?

Hahah are you jealous I’m nerdy as well 🤣

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
2 weeks ago

Hampshire

Social. Maybe even two! 🫣

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By *asoMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Social. Maybe even two! 🫣"

Victorian style 💪🏼

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By *he MinionMan
2 weeks ago

Surrey

"Always a social first. With a hotel booked "just incase" "

This has tended to be the case more often than not for me.

But most meets are at clubs nowadays

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

In a galaxy far far away

"Straight to it then social. My social skills improve massively after coitus 😂

Coitus?

Who are you, Sheldon Cooper?

Hahah are you jealous I’m nerdy as well 🤣"

Sheldon is my hero

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
2 weeks ago

Hampshire

"Social. Maybe even two! 🫣

Victorian style 💪🏼"

Yeah, yeah... Ok, I get it, I'm old! 😂

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By *asoMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Straight to it then social. My social skills improve massively after coitus 😂

Coitus?

Who are you, Sheldon Cooper?

Hahah are you jealous I’m nerdy as well 🤣

Sheldon is my hero

I didn’t miss an episode of the big bang theory. I watch it every December

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By *ew2buryMan
2 weeks ago

Forums.

"Social. Maybe even two! 🫣"
I don't put out until the third social. 😇

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
2 weeks ago

Usually Dundee and around

Would you not worry about someone who is happy to meet random people off the internet without a social first?

I mean sometimes I haven't finished my coffee/drink and we've decided to "go somewhere we can get more comfortable".

You need to know you click or there is a spark there... Gives both parties the chance to re-evaluate.

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By *red and daphneCouple
2 weeks ago

in the middle

Always a social first, if the connections and the feelings are there then things can happen. 😉

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Every guy I've met we've had a hotel booked, drinks then naked stuff.

If I'm meeting someone I'm 97% sure I want more.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
2 weeks ago

London

Social to see if the chemistry is there in real life. No pressure. Have a chat, maybe some banter and flirting.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
2 weeks ago

cardiff

Always a 'date' first.

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By *Effy-Woman
2 weeks ago

Scotland

"Every guy I've met we've had a hotel booked, drinks then naked stuff.

If I'm meeting someone I'm 97% sure I want more. "

This for me too. I don't have enough free time to be faffing around with meeting for socials all the time.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
2 weeks ago

oxford

Always a social with no expectations….. It has moved on to play on a few occasions mind

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"Every guy I've met we've had a hotel booked, drinks then naked stuff.

If I'm meeting someone I'm 97% sure I want more.

This for me too. I don't have enough free time to be faffing around with meeting for socials all the time. "

When we having that drink then Effy?

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By *morousCouple8Couple
2 weeks ago

Cumbria

Does a drink count as a social? 🤣

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
2 weeks ago

London

"Does a drink count as a social? 🤣"

Yes.

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By *riel13Woman
2 weeks ago

Northampton

Social first

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By *awtybikerMan
2 weeks ago

Barnoldswick

Mostly a social first, but it can depend on who and where

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

Both really. Depends how electric the chemistry is when we meet. Sometimes you just want to get them naked ASAP and Costa Coffee frowns on that.

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By *enchCoachDriverMan
2 weeks ago

west mosley

I’m happy with both.

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By *morousCouple8Couple
2 weeks ago

Cumbria

"Does a drink count as a social? 🤣

Yes."

Super, drink downstairs and head upstairs if anyone still fancies the pants off another.

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By *he MinionMan
2 weeks ago

Surrey

"Does a drink count as a social? 🤣

Yes.

Super, drink downstairs and head upstairs if anyone still fancies the pants off another. "

Does lunch count as a social 🤭😇

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

Mostly it's a social first. There has been occasions where they have led to more though.

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By *morousCouple8Couple
2 weeks ago

Cumbria

"Does a drink count as a social? 🤣

Yes.

Super, drink downstairs and head upstairs if anyone still fancies the pants off another.

Does lunch count as a social 🤭😇"

100% 😘

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"Every guy I've met we've had a hotel booked, drinks then naked stuff.

If I'm meeting someone I'm 97% sure I want more.

This for me too. I don't have enough free time to be faffing around with meeting for socials all the time. "

Same. Plus I'd go off them and onto someone new before we got chance to arrange to meet again! Short attention span.

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By *irthandgirthMan
2 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Always a social, but sometimes it can turn into more "

This. I actually have to like someone before I put my penis in them. Depending on how long I have been chatting to someone, its occasionally just a chemistry/click check. However, I do like to see if I can be in someone's company in a normal situation. Showing restraint when there is chemistry and tension can be amazing.

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By *igBeardyDanMan
2 weeks ago

Bilston

I only meet at my local club so social first

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

Always a social first and I make sure they know it's just a social, unless I meet someone in a club, thats a whole different set of rules

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By *he MinionMan
2 weeks ago

Surrey

Does lunch count as a social 🤭😇

100% 😘"

Wooo hooo !

The pesky social bit is out the way then 🤣

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
2 weeks ago

Debauchery

Always a social first. I’ve had a couple of socials where I wasn’t sexually attracted to them, can’t imagine having to say no it’s not happening on the meet or feeling obliged too do something out of feeling bad

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By *laytime_13Woman
2 weeks ago

Lincs

Social first. Occasionally that's progressed to more but tbh those ones have never been the best ones 🫣

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

"Always a social, but sometimes it can turn into more

Absolutely this!

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
2 weeks ago

North West

Social first. No expectations or pressure but also no limitations if there’s chemistry.

In a club is different. That can be anything from a chat in the bar first to eyes meeting and sparks flying in a playroom.

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By *asualConnectionsMan
2 weeks ago

bristol

Depends mostly i would say social but have had a hot night, where we just met at a hotel room after matching on a dating app was either pof or one of the others and just fucked and played all night and both left the next morning and havent seen her again since .. was wild gotta love your 20s lol

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By *actile TensionMan
2 weeks ago

Sussex

Social first. Nutters out there

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

Always a social and in many cases a social even when we both knew beforehand it would never go any further but we agreed we were good people and it was nice to meet face to face.

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By *etwife8230Couple
2 weeks ago

Newport

Social first but that sometimes only lasts a few mins as usually been chatting for a while beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"Social first. Nutters out there "

They are usually the best at sex though

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By *etwife8230Couple
2 weeks ago

Newport

"Social first. Nutters out there

They are usually the best at sex though "

Apex lol

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By *morousCouple8Couple
2 weeks ago

Cumbria

"Always a social and in many cases a social even when we both knew beforehand it would never go any further but we agreed we were good people and it was nice to meet face to face."

This is why group socials are so lovely. Get to meet people I’m not going to bang like those straight women 🤣

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By *007ManMan
2 weeks ago

Worthing

Social to see if there is chemistry.

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By *enuine_J87Man
2 weeks ago

Eastleigh

Mostly straight to it. Can usually tell from messages if a social is required, sometimes you both just want eachother and clothes are off instantly!

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By *unnyandthebookkeeperCouple
2 weeks ago

bristol

We generally like a social as we are usually looking for a connection not a fling.

Like to gauge people and then open the invite if it feels right.

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By *aughtywelsh89Man
2 weeks ago

Pontyclun

Social

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I do like a social

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By *rJandMrsJCouple
2 weeks ago

Manchester

We haven't had a social before hand. We do like to chat online for a bit first and build the tension and suspense up though.

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By * D 777Man
2 weeks ago

bathgate

Dont mind both

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By *oo877Man
2 weeks ago

Darlington

Can't seem to get either 😂

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By *BRM00!Man
2 weeks ago

London

Usually a social first if meeting couples or single woman but mrs loves to get straight to it with a single male stranger..

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By *ynamite500Man
2 weeks ago

Angus

Go with flow... No expectations what so ever!☺️

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
2 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

Always a few social meets first. I ain't no tart.

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By *agneto.Man
2 weeks ago

Bham

Bit of both. That's why I like clubs, you can have a chat, then go do stuff.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
2 weeks ago

pink panther territory

I got straight to it years ago,now social first

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By *ustAnotherMan
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

Both, if the vibes right why not? Id never push it though, only if that's what she wanted.

I'm usually comfortable with a social and it's nice to get to know people especially a couple

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By *eordiePTFellaMan
2 weeks ago

Newcastle - Scotland

I like to ramp up the tease first ....then when we do get down to action, there is some heat going down

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By *hefirewithinMan
2 weeks ago

Could be next door

Depends really. Ideally a social but if you’ve really communicated well and spoken enough, also both feel comfortable then straight to it can be pretty fucking hot !!

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

Social first, occasionally kissing and dryhumping after. Even rarer but has happened, sex straight after. My years (months really) of going straight to sex have long since passed.

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By *HertsfunMan
2 weeks ago

Visiting

I like a social with some banter and laughs for a first meet, often leads to fun although not always.

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By *kinmistressWoman
2 weeks ago

somewhere about

Straight to it i dont have time to do otherwise

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By *ick MastersMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

I always have a social, though have gone from the social straight back to mine once we’ve finished our coffee/drink

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By *abulincsCouple
2 weeks ago

near a bridge

Always social to start

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By *hinstrapMan
2 weeks ago

sheffield

I think having a social is the best way. Chatting and seeing what they are like etc. Break,down the awkwardness

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Always a social with no exceptions.

Someone can seem so perfectly suited on messages, but face to face chemistry isnt always guaranteed.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Definitely social first. Every time it was meet first it was disappointing

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
2 weeks ago

hexham

"Are you a social first type or a just get to it type"

Social first

Getting down to naughtiness is not strictly off the cards and to be fair I usually get down to naughtiness on the first meet

But I do not promise it, just in case when I do meet, the guy turns out to be just unbearable

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
2 weeks ago

Always on the move

I like a social. But then Im a social able kinda guy.

Saying that, I wouldn't decline a "get too it", but I think a social is a good call for safety, chemistry, and making sure every is still attracted. Im VERY photogenic you see 😂

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

Social but depends on how much I fancy someone as to how long it lasts.

I'm not a big fan of physical touch straight away,takes a bit for me to get to that usually.

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
2 weeks ago

Usually Dundee and around

hearditall I agree...

Forming some kind of connection and desire will lead to far better fun!

It doesn't have to be a long drink if things are going well...

I've met ladies at a hotel before, met in the bar, had a drink, then gone to the hotel pool/spa and chilled in the jacuzzi chatting... That certainly heated things up and often led to popping up to the room...

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