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What puts you off in a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
2 weeks ago

What puts you off when meeting people as in when you meet them is it something they say or how they look or don’t look ?

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

In a galaxy far far away

When my cock is bigger than theirs

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 weeks ago

Bedford

For starters, if they lied about their age/height etc. The rest is harder to put into words as it's the "chemistry", or "spark". Plus, if chatting with them feels like having your teeth pulled.

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By *ustAnotherMan
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

No chat mostly. Or red flags for safety

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By *actile TensionMan
2 weeks ago

Sussex


"When my cock is bigger than theirs "

😂

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

Banging on about an ex, another FWB, etc etc.

Rudeness.

Going on their phones etc and being unable to leave it alone.

Poor hygiene.

Incompatibility regarding humour.

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By *evlishduncMan
2 weeks ago

north suffolk south norfolk

When one is clearly more interested in the meet than the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

If all they do is talk about other fab members , bore off 😴

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By *actile TensionMan
2 weeks ago

Sussex

When they talk at you not to you.

They're not listening, they're waiting to talk

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

Very little.

After weeks/months of chatting on here and Telegram/WhatsApp, phone calls, voice notes, picture swapping, video clips...it would have to be something quite drastic like turning up inebriated, a sudden change of personality (e.g. racist remarks or not appreciating Åutumn etc), or perhaps turning up wearing cheap cologne from Aldi when she was talking about Penhaligon's™ for nigh on forever.

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By *asoMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield


"When they talk at you not to you.

They're not listening, they're waiting to talk"

When the meeting drags too long

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

funky town

When they say who are you and what are you doing in my house. Bores

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By *urpleburgularalarmMan
2 weeks ago

nowhere, next to neverbeenthere

Bad breath, thats a turn around and walk away for me, but if its got to the meet stage then you will probably already know how they look and what they like to do, but i have been invited back to someones once and the house had a strong smell of cats pee🤦

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By *ustAnotherMan
2 weeks ago

Tamworth


"When they say who are you and what are you doing in my house. Bores"

I thought you'd learned after the shrubbery incident, be told!

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

funky town


"When they say who are you and what are you doing in my house. Bores

I thought you'd learned after the shrubbery incident, be told!"

You said you liked that!

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By *ustAnotherMan
2 weeks ago

Tamworth


"When they say who are you and what are you doing in my house. Bores

I thought you'd learned after the shrubbery incident, be told!

You said you liked that! "

Good lord, without lotion? And with no gloves? I don't know what you were thinking

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

funky town


"When they say who are you and what are you doing in my house. Bores

I thought you'd learned after the shrubbery incident, be told!

You said you liked that!

Good lord, without lotion? And with no gloves? I don't know what you were thinking

"

I lubed up with your tears

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By *ustAnotherMan
2 weeks ago

Tamworth


"When they say who are you and what are you doing in my house. Bores

I thought you'd learned after the shrubbery incident, be told!

You said you liked that!

Good lord, without lotion? And with no gloves? I don't know what you were thinking

I lubed up with your tears "

*Sniff*

No garden gnome should have to end that way

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Politics. If someone has been really polite, kind, and considerate, and then they start positively talking about things that are dehumanising or people who make a living from demeaning groups of people. Like, if the hottest guy who ticks all my boxes says anything positive about Andrew Tate, I'm gone.

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By *Effy-Woman
2 weeks ago

Scotland


"If all they do is talk about other fab members , bore off 😴"

Oh yeah, this! Or past experiences. A little chat over it because it's relatable is fine, let's change the subject eventually though.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If all they do is talk about other fab members , bore off 😴

Oh yeah, this! Or past experiences. A little chat over it because it's relatable is fine, let's change the subject eventually though. "

Ooft. I've had some encounters with self appointed Fab elite/royalty and it's so fucking boring. Your dick isn't made of gold, get over yourself.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Spend half an hour slagging off their ex wife and how she she was in bed

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair


"If all they do is talk about other fab members , bore off 😴

Oh yeah, this! Or past experiences. A little chat over it because it's relatable is fine, let's change the subject eventually though.

Ooft. I've had some encounters with self appointed Fab elite/royalty and it's so fucking boring. Your dick isn't made of gold, get over yourself."

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For goodness sake, point taken! All I said was that Éffy wears bigger underpants than you.

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By *Effy-Woman
2 weeks ago

Scotland


"If all they do is talk about other fab members , bore off 😴

Oh yeah, this! Or past experiences. A little chat over it because it's relatable is fine, let's change the subject eventually though.

Ooft. I've had some encounters with self appointed Fab elite/royalty and it's so fucking boring. Your dick isn't made of gold, get over yourself."

Thankfully, I've never met another forum user so I haven't been tortured in this way. But I can just imagine!

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By *Effy-Woman
2 weeks ago

Scotland


"If all they do is talk about other fab members , bore off 😴

Oh yeah, this! Or past experiences. A little chat over it because it's relatable is fine, let's change the subject eventually though.

Ooft. I've had some encounters with self appointed Fab elite/royalty and it's so fucking boring. Your dick isn't made of gold, get over yourself.

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For goodness sake, point taken! All I said was that Éffy wears bigger underpants than you. "

You've already been warned about nicking stuff from my washing line 😤

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By *ustAnotherMan
2 weeks ago

Tamworth


"If all they do is talk about other fab members , bore off 😴

Oh yeah, this! Or past experiences. A little chat over it because it's relatable is fine, let's change the subject eventually though.

Ooft. I've had some encounters with self appointed Fab elite/royalty and it's so fucking boring. Your dick isn't made of gold, get over yourself.

Thankfully, I've never met another forum user so I haven't been tortured in this way. But I can just imagine! "

Had this from some very cliquey groups elsewhere though, forums, chat rooms Kik groups always the same personalities surface

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By *ose_and_OakCouple
2 weeks ago

Tamworth


"If all they do is talk about other fab members , bore off 😴

Oh yeah, this! Or past experiences. A little chat over it because it's relatable is fine, let's change the subject eventually though.

Ooft. I've had some encounters with self appointed Fab elite/royalty and it's so fucking boring. Your dick isn't made of gold, get over yourself.

Thankfully, I've never met another forum user so I haven't been tortured in this way. But I can just imagine! "

When the bulk of their personality is being known as a forum regular 😂😂

People who believe their opinions are facts.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bedfuck

Not much, probably cleanliness, pet hairs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
2 weeks ago


"When one is clearly more interested in the meet than the other. "

I’ve had that many yrs ago it isn’t good is it

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Not a lot, I'm one of those that likes to message for quite a good while before meeting so generally get to know them quite well, swapped normal day to day pictures etc.

I guess if they turned up and were nothing like they sent then it may be a no though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
2 weeks ago


"Politics. If someone has been really polite, kind, and considerate, and then they start positively talking about things that are dehumanising or people who make a living from demeaning groups of people. Like, if the hottest guy who ticks all my boxes says anything positive about Andrew Tate, I'm gone."

Why have you blocked me for ??

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

No energy, just flat and hard work. Also arrogance and lateness 💁‍♀️

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By *ustAnotherMan
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

I forgot lateness, and chaotic lifestyles staying the f away thanks

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By *ryanything7oMan
2 weeks ago

redcar

Thin legs and also guys leaving socks on.

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