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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

oxfordshire

Morning lovers

So I find myself slightly confused by this one…

Profiles that say they’re looking for men but then they have blocked men from messaging.

Would I be right in thinking they do want to meet men but want to reach out on their terms a reduce the barrage of messaging ??

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes.

I'm confused as to why it's confusing.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

funky town

Yeah most likely. Or maybe they are interested in men but just not right now and hsving a break. Or maybe they have found a man and dont want anymore 🤷‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I'm interested in men.

I just don't want to talk to any.

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By *H7in5Man
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield


"I'm interested in men.

I just don't want to talk to any. "

Just perving then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"I'm interested in men.

I just don't want to talk to any.

Just perving then lol"

Pinterest turns me on more than this place

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm interested in men.

I just don't want to talk to any.

Just perving then lol"

I'm not that easily pleased.

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By *agic.MMan
2 weeks ago

Kent/London


"Morning lovers

So I find myself slightly confused by this one…

Profiles that say they’re looking for men but then they have blocked men from messaging.

Would I be right in thinking they do want to meet men but want to reach out on their terms a reduce the barrage of messaging ??

"

Yes OP, you pretty much answered your question...and shout out to all the women who approach fab like that 🙌...it solves so many problems

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

It could mean a variety of things —

They're taking a break or focusing on new/existing conversations whilst their inboxes are (temporarily) 'restricted', or perhaps they open their filters periodically at their discretion or they instigate conversations on their terms.

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By *chumacMan
2 weeks ago

craigavon

My profile is set so men cant message me but still get messages for some reason!

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester


"Morning lovers

So I find myself slightly confused by this one…

Profiles that say they’re looking for men but then they have blocked men from messaging.

Would I be right in thinking they do want to meet men but want to reach out on their terms a reduce the barrage of messaging ??

"

Messagw me instead then

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

Whatever the individual reason, just move on to a profile that is more receptive at this time. I don’t know if you can send a wink (much as I think they’re silly).

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
2 weeks ago

North West


"Whatever the individual reason, just move on to a profile that is more receptive at this time. I don’t know if you can send a wink (much as I think they’re silly). "

You can’t send a wink.

But if she sends you a wink it means you can now get through those filters. So if someone with that set up winks you it means they want you to get in touch!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds


"Whatever the individual reason, just move on to a profile that is more receptive at this time. I don’t know if you can send a wink (much as I think they’re silly).

You can’t send a wink.

But if she sends you a wink it means you can now get through those filters. So if someone with that set up winks you it means they want you to get in touch!"

Ty Julie - everyday is a school day (is it obvious I never use winks )

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By *ino200Man
2 weeks ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna

Those women probably message the men they are interested in ,keeps the mailbox manageable

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

They don't want an inbox of incompatible profiles.

They take control by messaging themselves.

Or they aren't actively searching right now.

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By *eardofVampiresWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

Yeah it cuts down the wank mail but we can message who we like the look of

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"Yes.

I'm confused as to why it's confusing."

Because you never know how people think…

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"Yeah most likely. Or maybe they are interested in men but just not right now and hsving a break. Or maybe they have found a man and dont want anymore 🤷‍♀️"

So many options

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"I'm interested in men.

I just don't want to talk to any. "

Seems fair

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By *icentiousXMan
2 weeks ago

London

There is a well known profile on here that does this, and they often put up a status asking men to stop messaging them so much.

Now THAT is confusing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yes.

I'm confused as to why it's confusing.

Because you never know how people think… "

Does it matter, if you can't contact them?

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"Morning lovers

So I find myself slightly confused by this one…

Profiles that say they’re looking for men but then they have blocked men from messaging.

Would I be right in thinking they do want to meet men but want to reach out on their terms a reduce the barrage of messaging ??

Messagw me instead then "

I believe I have

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"Yeah it cuts down the wank mail but we can message who we like the look of "

Win win

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"Yes.

I'm confused as to why it's confusing.

Because you never know how people think…

Does it matter, if you can't contact them?"

It all matters in a world where not everything matters

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By *oelMan
2 weeks ago

Midlands, London, Brussels


"Morning lovers

So I find myself slightly confused by this one…

Profiles that say they’re looking for men but then they have blocked men from messaging.

Would I be right in thinking they do want to meet men but want to reach out on their terms a reduce the barrage of messaging ??

"

Pretty simple, they are interested in men but they will choose based on profiles and pictures

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By *arand25Couple
2 weeks ago

Crowborough

We want to meet single guys, decent ones who can read profiles as well as look at photos. When we open up messaging from single guys it's like a mud slide of bilge & we close it again quickly, there really are a whole lot of cretins on here.

Yes we want to meet single guys, but we'll look for them from now on.

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"We want to meet single guys, decent ones who can read profiles as well as look at photos. When we open up messaging from single guys it's like a mud slide of bilge & we close it again quickly, there really are a whole lot of cretins on here.

Yes we want to meet single guys, but we'll look for them from now on."

Makes sense …. …. I was kinda right in my thinking

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester


"Morning lovers

So I find myself slightly confused by this one…

Profiles that say they’re looking for men but then they have blocked men from messaging.

Would I be right in thinking they do want to meet men but want to reach out on their terms a reduce the barrage of messaging ??

"

It could be a temporary thing while they plough through a gazillion messages or that theyre not in a FAB mood at the moment - they're the reasons I have blocks on my account

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By *ornucopiaMan
2 weeks ago

Bexley


"Morning lovers

So I find myself slightly confused by this one…

Profiles that say they’re looking for men but then they have blocked men from messaging.

Would I be right in thinking they do want to meet men but want to reach out on their terms a reduce the barrage of messaging ??

"

How did people ever manage before 'reaching out' became the de facto method of communication in the last year or so?

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By *dventurousTraveller69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

oxfordshire


"Morning lovers

So I find myself slightly confused by this one…

Profiles that say they’re looking for men but then they have blocked men from messaging.

Would I be right in thinking they do want to meet men but want to reach out on their terms a reduce the barrage of messaging ??

It could be a temporary thing while they plough through a gazillion messages or that theyre not in a FAB mood at the moment - they're the reasons I have blocks on my account "

The block button is a beauty

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By *ornucopiaMan
2 weeks ago

Bexley


"Whatever the individual reason, just move on to a profile that is more receptive at this time. I don’t know if you can send a wink (much as I think they’re silly).

You can’t send a wink.

But if she sends you a wink it means you can now get through those filters. So if someone with that set up winks you it means they want you to get in touch!"

Maybe it's time for Fab to have a facility called 'Send a wank'?

Or perhaps a 'Tug my cock' button?

Those who don't want pestering could select 'Wanks disabled'.

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