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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That if people had a problem with you ... or if you have upset them/annoyed them they would just say

' Hey I have a problem with you'

No need for the malarky that goes along with the snubbing and the one word blunt answers!!!

Are you good at telling people if they have upset you or do you think they should know instinctively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politeness goes a long way wish people would use it more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you on this, if I have a problem with someone Ide happily tell them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Politeness goes a long way wish people would use it more "

We polite people are a dying breed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm with you on this, if I have a problem with someone Ide happily tell them."

I let them know .. Im not blunt with it mind you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Politeness goes a long way wish people would use it more

We polite people are a dying breed "
be a better place if there were more x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Politeness goes a long way wish people would use it more

We polite people are a dying breed be a better place if there were more x"

But then Id have nothing to moan about either !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Politeness goes a long way wish people would use it more

We polite people are a dying breed be a better place if there were more x

But then Id have nothing to moan about either !!! "
you find somethin your a woman lol sorry couldnt resist that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll get the tin hats out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Politeness goes a long way wish people would use it more

We polite people are a dying breed be a better place if there were more x

But then Id have nothing to moan about either !!! you find somethin your a woman lol sorry couldnt resist that x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll get the tin hats out"

Im not going to bite on that ' woman' comment

He has a point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice one though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather be told straight out.

Especially if I wasn't sure what I was supposed to have done.

Like I said before, silence goes a long way.

If you react to someone deliberately trying to annoy you, they are kind of winning.

But if you go silent on them, I guarantee that will annoy them more and you will win.

Silence is loud and profound.

I'm speaking outside of fab.

Inside of fab..don't worry about it.

Personally speaking, I don't do mind games on here. If someone has a problem for a tedious reason and/or won't say why ...I just move on.

If all else fails jusy scream "you stupid c*nt!" at the top of your voice lady.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would rather be told straight out.

Especially if I wasn't sure what I was supposed to have done.

Like I said before, silence goes a long way.

If you react to someone deliberately trying to annoy you, they are kind of winning.

But if you go silent on them, I guarantee that will annoy them more and you will win.

Silence is loud and profound.

I'm speaking outside of fab.

Inside of fab..don't worry about it.

Personally speaking, I don't do mind games on here. If someone has a problem for a tedious reason and/or won't say why ...I just move on.

If all else fails jusy scream "you stupid c*nt!" at the top of your voice lady. "

Im talking generally .. on here , life work etc etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Im talking generally .. on here , life work etc etc etc

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Generally as a wide brush statement.

I would rather be told:

"Hey. You pissed me off because xyz"

There is nothing worse than someone being hacked with you and not knowing why.

$0.02

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Im talking generally .. on here , life work etc etc etc

Generally as a wide brush statement.

I would rather be told:

"Hey. You pissed me off because xyz"

There is nothing worse than someone being hacked with you and not knowing why.

$0.02"

True indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people know when someone is pissed off or doesnt like them for that matter

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"That if people had a problem with you ... or if you have upset them/annoyed them they would just say

' Hey I have a problem with you'

No need for the malarky that goes along with the snubbing and the one word blunt answers!!!

Are you good at telling people if they have upset you or do you think they should know instinctively "

I am direct in the way I interact with people and I can usually tell when I have upset someone or if someone has a problem with me. My approach will be to try and talk to the person and find out what it is I have done or said. Most of the time the issue is resolved that way. Never assume someone knows what you're thinking!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That if people had a problem with you ... or if you have upset them/annoyed them they would just say

' Hey I have a problem with you'

No need for the malarky that goes along with the snubbing and the one word blunt answers!!!

Are you good at telling people if they have upset you or do you think they should know instinctively

I am direct in the way I interact with people and I can usually tell when I have upset someone or if someone has a problem with me. My approach will be to try and talk to the person and find out what it is I have done or said. Most of the time the issue is resolved that way. Never assume someone knows what you're thinking! "

That is so true and a lovely way of doing it too

If only more people were like this

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"That if people had a problem with you ... or if you have upset them/annoyed them they would just say

' Hey I have a problem with you'

No need for the malarky that goes along with the snubbing and the one word blunt answers!!!

Are you good at telling people if they have upset you or do you think they should know instinctively "

I don't do subtle, and if I'm upset you betcha I'm going to spread the joy and tell you.

I don't internalise I say what's upsetting me there and then, clear the air and move on. I don't waste time banging up my gums and throwing a moody.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That if people had a problem with you ... or if you have upset them/annoyed them they would just say

' Hey I have a problem with you'

No need for the malarky that goes along with the snubbing and the one word blunt answers!!!

Are you good at telling people if they have upset you or do you think they should know instinctively

I don't do subtle, and if I'm upset you betcha I'm going to spread the joy and tell you.

I don't internalise I say what's upsetting me there and then, clear the air and move on. I don't waste time banging up my gums and throwing a moody. "

Ah now that's what Im talking about

Banging gums and throwing a moody - I do love that phrase and Im stealing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That if people had a problem with you ... or if you have upset them/annoyed them they would just say

' Hey I have a problem with you'

No need for the malarky that goes along with the snubbing and the one word blunt answers!!!

Are you good at telling people if they have upset you or do you think they should know instinctively

I don't do subtle, and if I'm upset you betcha I'm going to spread the joy and tell you.

I don't internalise I say what's upsetting me there and then, clear the air and move on. I don't waste time banging up my gums and throwing a moody. "

You got to try picking me up first to be able to throw me and that's ain't no easy task

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't help but say and why.. If not I just wind myself up over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just tell someone if they have pissed me off....no point in keeping it in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people avoid confrontation and prefer the avoidance tactic in the hope the other person will soon lose interest and go away.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

If someone rubs me up the wrong way I will let them know, however there are people you can be blunt with and those that require a more subtle approach.

If I have pissed someone else off, I would sooner them let me know asap so that we can clear the air and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people avoid confrontation and prefer the avoidance tactic in the hope the other person will soon lose interest and go away. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't help but say and why.. If not I just wind myself up over it "

Cant have you wound up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just tell someone if they have pissed me off....no point in keeping it in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people avoid confrontation and prefer the avoidance tactic in the hope the other person will soon lose interest and go away. "

I know a few of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone rubs me up the wrong way I will let them know, however there are people you can be blunt with and those that require a more subtle approach.

If I have pissed someone else off, I would sooner them let me know asap so that we can clear the air and move on "

If they are a good friend you would hope that would be part of the friendship anyway

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've always spoke my mind an much preffer others to do the same but most would rather stab you in the back than simply be strate with you sad really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've always spoke my mind an much preffer others to do the same but most would rather stab you in the back than simply be strate with you sad really "

Tis life my friend tis life

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've always spoke my mind an much preffer others to do the same but most would rather stab you in the back than simply be strate with you sad really

Tis life my friend tis life"

very true my little stalket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told off by the wife and my friends all the time for been too blunt with people, I've lost count of the amount of times someone has said you can't say that to me,

My reply is why? It's what I think

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

In an argument at work 1s a so called boss said to me you can't talk to me like that I answered what you'd rather I just thought your a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't help but say and why.. If not I just wind myself up over it

Cant have you wound up "

Some people like it, but I hide the key lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I usually say what's on my mind...if you pissed me off I would say....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honestly. I don't usually tell people when I'm pissed off with them. That's all I'd ever be doing lol

Usually. Allthough my hearts pissed off and I'm moody my head realises that usually it's stupid and I need to get a grip. I know I'll be ok in a day or two so I just keep schtum until all is hunky dory again

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