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By *rishguy29 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

anywhere

Hi all just posting to see if anyone else has had a similar experience with some women here (before anyone gives out I know men are usually a lot worse). But has anyone here tried to start a conversation with a woman on fab only to get an abusive nasty message back? I would understand if I said something wrong but I was only trying to start a friendly conversation only to get back nasty messages. Any other guys have this issue?

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

funky town

Abuse isnt ok no matter who it comes from report and block OP

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By *rishguy29 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

anywhere

Already done I just don’t understand why people bother with it we’re all here for the same reason a simple “sorry I’m not interested” or no reply would of been enough

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By *ovinglife!40Man
2 weeks ago

Hinckley


"Hi all just posting to see if anyone else has had a similar experience with some women here (before anyone gives out I know men are usually a lot worse). But has anyone here tried to start a conversation with a woman on fab only to get an abusive nasty message back? I would understand if I said something wrong but I was only trying to start a friendly conversation only to get back nasty messages. Any other guys have this issue?"

Do you read and respect their profiles?

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

In a galaxy far far away

It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice - Scooter

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By *eekaboo BellyMan
2 weeks ago

Bradford

I once told someone no thanks and got spoken to like I was an absolute cunt and couldn't do better than her and I should be grateful that she messaged me and all that shit. People are cunts. Fuck em

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds


"Hi all just posting to see if anyone else has had a similar experience with some women here (before anyone gives out I know men are usually a lot worse). But has anyone here tried to start a conversation with a woman on fab only to get an abusive nasty message back? I would understand if I said something wrong but I was only trying to start a friendly conversation only to get back nasty messages. Any other guys have this issue?

Do you read and respect their profiles?"

Even if he didn’t, there is no justification for abuse.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

funky town


"Hi all just posting to see if anyone else has had a similar experience with some women here (before anyone gives out I know men are usually a lot worse). But has anyone here tried to start a conversation with a woman on fab only to get an abusive nasty message back? I would understand if I said something wrong but I was only trying to start a friendly conversation only to get back nasty messages. Any other guys have this issue?

Do you read and respect their profiles?"

Even if he doesnt a simple block or delete of message would do. There is no excuse for abuse full stop!

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By *rishguy29 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

anywhere


"Hi all just posting to see if anyone else has had a similar experience with some women here (before anyone gives out I know men are usually a lot worse). But has anyone here tried to start a conversation with a woman on fab only to get an abusive nasty message back? I would understand if I said something wrong but I was only trying to start a friendly conversation only to get back nasty messages. Any other guys have this issue?

Do you read and respect their profiles?"

Person in question had no bio up at all so not much I could read

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By *actile TensionMan
2 weeks ago

Sussex


"Already done I just don’t understand why people bother with it we’re all here for the same reason a simple “sorry I’m not interested” or no reply would of been enough"

Not defending nastiness but when things cycle over n over again it's easy to tar people with the same brush. I can see why it happens, though it shouldn't, because it's bad

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds


"Already done I just don’t understand why people bother with it we’re all here for the same reason a simple “sorry I’m not interested” or no reply would of been enough

Not defending nastiness but when things cycle over n over again it's easy to tar people with the same brush. I can see why it happens, though it shouldn't, because it's bad "

Don’t rationalise it Tactile. The sane standards men are held to apply to women too. No exceptions.

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By *rishguy29 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

anywhere


"Already done I just don’t understand why people bother with it we’re all here for the same reason a simple “sorry I’m not interested” or no reply would of been enough

Not defending nastiness but when things cycle over n over again it's easy to tar people with the same brush. I can see why it happens, though it shouldn't, because it's bad

Don’t rationalise it Tactile. The sane standards men are held to apply to women too. No exceptions."

Completely agree with you on this at the end of the day everyone has feelings and nobody has an excuse to get abusive with anyone

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By *actile TensionMan
2 weeks ago

Sussex


"Already done I just don’t understand why people bother with it we’re all here for the same reason a simple “sorry I’m not interested” or no reply would of been enough

Not defending nastiness but when things cycle over n over again it's easy to tar people with the same brush. I can see why it happens, though it shouldn't, because it's bad

Don’t rationalise it Tactile. The sane standards men are held to apply to women too. No exceptions."

You're right, innocent until proven guilty

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Report and block, the same advice that is given to women. It shouldnt matter what sex you arw

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By *Effy-Woman
2 weeks ago

Scotland

Some people are just cunts no matter the gender.

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

Sorry to hear that happened OP. I think with it being a male heavy site, some women think they're entitled to have a free pass to do what they want when that's not the case at all. Just an awful person that you're better off not knowing.

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By *nbelievablyamazingMan
2 weeks ago

gets about


"Hi all just posting to see if anyone else has had a similar experience with some women here (before anyone gives out I know men are usually a lot worse). But has anyone here tried to start a conversation with a woman on fab only to get an abusive nasty message back? I would understand if I said something wrong but I was only trying to start a friendly conversation only to get back nasty messages. Any other guys have this issue?"

yes, often, cpls also and let's stop pretending it's anything beyond hoeflation making 3/10s act like we 10/10s due to how many thirsty begs there are on here and elsewhere. Have standards IRL and here, else you get this bizarre unreality 99% indulge or pretend doesn't exist. It's all gonna spring back soon enough anyway, but it'll be a fucking rude awakening for the Equal rights=fights fantasists/feminists lol, Debs with a body count of 1000+ gonna be fucked, but in a very different sense.Should have been polite girl's I guess, half devil, half children, fully lacking anything remotely in the ballpark of self awareness. X

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By *ovinglife!40Man
2 weeks ago

Hinckley


"Hi all just posting to see if anyone else has had a similar experience with some women here (before anyone gives out I know men are usually a lot worse). But has anyone here tried to start a conversation with a woman on fab only to get an abusive nasty message back? I would understand if I said something wrong but I was only trying to start a friendly conversation only to get back nasty messages. Any other guys have this issue?

yes, often, cpls also and let's stop pretending it's anything beyond hoeflation making 3/10s act like we 10/10s due to how many thirsty begs there are on here and elsewhere. Have standards IRL and here, else you get this bizarre unreality 99% indulge or pretend doesn't exist. It's all gonna spring back soon enough anyway, but it'll be a fucking rude awakening for the Equal rights=fights fantasists/feminists lol, Debs with a body count of 1000+ gonna be fucked, but in a very different sense.Should have been polite girl's I guess, half devil, half children, fully lacking anything remotely in the ballpark of self awareness. X"

Can't figure out what that says.....

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Hi all just posting to see if anyone else has had a similar experience with some women here (before anyone gives out I know men are usually a lot worse). But has anyone here tried to start a conversation with a woman on fab only to get an abusive nasty message back? I would understand if I said something wrong but I was only trying to start a friendly conversation only to get back nasty messages. Any other guys have this issue?

yes, often, cpls also and let's stop pretending it's anything beyond hoeflation making 3/10s act like we 10/10s due to how many thirsty begs there are on here and elsewhere. Have standards IRL and here, else you get this bizarre unreality 99% indulge or pretend doesn't exist. It's all gonna spring back soon enough anyway, but it'll be a fucking rude awakening for the Equal rights=fights fantasists/feminists lol, Debs with a body count of 1000+ gonna be fucked, but in a very different sense.Should have been polite girl's I guess, half devil, half children, fully lacking anything remotely in the ballpark of self awareness. X"

You seem nice.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Report and block, the same advice that is given to women. It shouldnt matter what sex you arw"

Agreed

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork


"Report and block, the same advice that is given to women. It shouldnt matter what sex you arw

Agreed "

100%

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By *lirtyFilthWoman
2 weeks ago

Troublesville


"Hi all just posting to see if anyone else has had a similar experience with some women here (before anyone gives out I know men are usually a lot worse). But has anyone here tried to start a conversation with a woman on fab only to get an abusive nasty message back? I would understand if I said something wrong but I was only trying to start a friendly conversation only to get back nasty messages. Any other guys have this issue?

yes, often, cpls also and let's stop pretending it's anything beyond hoeflation making 3/10s act like we 10/10s due to how many thirsty begs there are on here and elsewhere. Have standards IRL and here, else you get this bizarre unreality 99% indulge or pretend doesn't exist. It's all gonna spring back soon enough anyway, but it'll be a fucking rude awakening for the Equal rights=fights fantasists/feminists lol, Debs with a body count of 1000+ gonna be fucked, but in a very different sense.Should have been polite girl's I guess, half devil, half children, fully lacking anything remotely in the ballpark of self awareness. X"

Less of the ‘Debs’ please 🤣🤣

I’m a nice Deb

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Report and block, the same advice that is given to women. It shouldnt matter what sex you arw"

Absolutely.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod

2 weeks ago

Central

You've done the right thing OP, to report inappropriate behaviour. I'll close this now, to prevent it going downwards

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