FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies, how do you want to be messaged?

By *cott98 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline

What is the best way someone can present themselves in a message?

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I check a profile before I open a message, it begins there

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I check a profile before I open a message, it begins there

This.

After that, I want sanity (you think that might be standard... Alas not), something to show why I might be interested in them, and something to show why they might be interested in me.

(This is not a 1:1 formula for success, just the bare minimum)

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

From someone I find slightly attractive is a start

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

By someone I can see from their photos is physically appealing, whose profile tells me enough that I think we may be compatible, and who messages me something directly engaging as an individual rather than a bland copy paste that can go to anyone 💜

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Oi woman.. spread em.

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By *hrillseekerukMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

"Oi woman.. spread em. "

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
2 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

FAF still works wonders

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
2 weeks ago

North West

Read the profile, if - and only if - it applies to you, a nice, friendly opening message, without an unsolicited photo of your penis, generally works 🤷‍♀️

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

With some wit and penis.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

funky town

A well thought out poem

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By *kphooey43Man
2 weeks ago

Barnet

"What is the best way someone can present themselves in a message?"

Here you go OP:

"Hi there, your profile caught my eye—especially your boundaries regarding [specific detail]. I am a single [male/female], fully respectful of couples' rules, and looking for [specified dynamic]. Let me know if you’d like to chat and see if we click!"

If that doesn't work, fall back on the old trust worthy:

FAF

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By *ulldog_71Man
2 weeks ago

Sedgefield

Most will look at your profile before even thinking of reading your message so thats your first priority after that they are all individuals different things will appeal to different people, try to read their profile properly before you message to see if their intrests match yours other than that as long as you are polite and honest there's not a lot more you can do.

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By *ebauchery DivineWoman
2 weeks ago

Down in Dickleburgh Drive

I actually like a cock pic attached to the first message as long as they have read my profile and fit what I'm looking for.

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

Quite like a haiku.

Genuinely interested and being yourself, with a somewhat decent bio. That's the best way. It doesn't guarantee a response, nothing does but it does mean you're slightly more likely to get one.

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